What if you could alter the thoughts of your ex in less than 5 minutes, would you do it? After all once you win their mind the heart and soul will follow, right? I can show you how to do this with such a simple technique you will kick yourself for not thinking of it sooner. Let me show you how to win back your ex in one mind bending move.
Are They Gone For Good?
This is the one burning thought that runs through everyone’s mind that has been through a break up. You want to move on but your heart says no, this is “the one” for me. They may even be dating another…that won’t matter one bit. This carefully worded weapon will soon have you back on their minds, for a long time. Do not let yourself believe that it is over because you can win back your ex, and all you have to do is write a short message and send it to them.
How To “Shift” Their Thoughts
If you have been in a long relationship (1 year or more) with your ex there is “no way” they can erase the memories of your relationship, this will even work with shorter relationships as well. What your ex has been trying to do is fool you and themselves into believing they have no feelings left for you at all.
This is what people do when they get confused and feel pressured to make some kind of a fast decision. Now if you have been chasing them stop and send them this message and watch what happens. The important thing is when they reply that you DO NOT answer them back…OK? This the key to using this mind bending trick to win back your ex.
Hi,
I agree with you about the decision to break up, I really believe it was the best thing for both of us. I have some big decisions to make and I need some time to think them over. I would really appreciate it if you didn’t contact me during this time. I will be in touch when I am ready.
(your first name here)
The only change you would have to make is if you broke up with your ex then alter the first part to read “I do not regret my decision to break up with you, “…that’s it. Now either hand write it and mail it or just email/text it to them…but don’t call, OK? The sooner you send this the faster you will win back your ex.
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Hi,
I have signed up and registered for your forum. I didn’t want to write out my break up story yet because I don’t know if I should do this yet.
I initated the break up because we both graduated college and I moved to a different state for a job. I can’t stand the long distance so I have been badgering him all summer that he has not stepped up to the plate to communicate well. Actually I have been pretty rude and mean, which I recognize now. I said many times I would think it be best if we took a break or some steps back. I know that I just hate long distance since we dated for a 1year 1/2 together..it’s so frustrating! I was pushing him away all summer and I hate that I did that! I guess I nagged him the last time because we haven’t talked for 2 weeks and had it with me. I feel so bad and did the whole psycho calling and texting for 2 days straight after we had not talked for 5 days. He wrote me one text back saying “there is nothing to talk about, I’m over this, get over me” I was telling him i wanted to break and fine with it but just wanted to talk since it had been 5 days. I said i missed him lacka lacka..then i got desperate. I haven’t seen him all summer because I have been so busy bc it’s my first real job.
I have to move my stuff out of my college house and see my friends this weekend. I know he will be there to move his stuff out too.We planned all summer to see each other that weekend as well.
So my question is is should I go ahead and write the NC letter or wait until after this weekend. I can’t avoid this weekend and I would like to look great and see him bc it’s been almost 3 months.I want him to remember what I look like! I hate long distance I have been a phone for 3 months to him! I have already set my mind for the worst and not react to anything he does or his friends. I know he expects me to get drunk and try and talk so I am going to do the opposite.
Please let me know what you think! I will do whatever, I have been in control of the relationship bc I never show I care. But I totally was a crazy and his friends that are girls posted a comment about me on fb making fun of me. He now has pictures with this one girl who is 3 years younger than us! I know now how he was so good at ignoring all of my pathetic calls/texts. She is kinda pretty too. UGH Help me please!
Jenna wrote:
Hi Jenna,
So what do you want me to do…make up your mind for you?
The bottom line is you want him back and the longer you wait (or do things incorrectly) the harder that will be.
Whether you should “do this” or not is totally up to you, but we just had another success story today from a woman who took action…maybe you can be our next one?
Life is a series of choices…time to make a choice.
hey….i broke up with my gf but i didn’t do this move immidiately….i was sending her alot of e- mails to get her back…..she once came and she said she doesn’t want me to stay suffering and missing her because she wants to leave me seriously……i said it’s ok and no problem and i am waiting since 10 days…..what should i do now???
ali wrote:
You should go to our forum and follow the step by step plan.
If you want my help to get your ex back follow this link:
http://forum.howtogetyourexbackfast.com/topic/read-this-first
Make sure you read the rules and guidelines before you join, I strictly enforce them.
Don’t forget to sign up for my free News Letter for free videos, tips and advice on How to Get Your Ex Back.
Just click on the link under the little red heart in the upper right hand corner of my Blog.
Hi,
I was reading this and just discovered your website. My relationship went on for over a year and we lived together for a month and a half near the end of it. I thought it would be best if I moved back home (two states away) to give him time to think our relationship through. A month into the long distance thing he still didn’t know what he wanted to do with it. I told him I loved him and he said he loved me. We even hung up saying that we loved each other. He told me he still wanted to call and e-mail me because ‘that’s what people who care about each other do’.
I was so heartbroken at the time of that call (that was one week ago) that I told him I did not want him to ever contact me again. I told him not to call or e-mail me, ever. He seemed hurt by this. I also said I would never contact him again.
After a week I think I acted more on emotion at the moment then anything. I still love him and have this hole in me. Should I keep the no contact as I have been doing or send him the letter a week later, thus breaking my statement over the phone that I would never contact him again? He has not tried to contact me since that phone call.
Thanks for the advice, I’m just wondering if what I have already told him in our final conversation over the phone already works in place of the no-contact letter, which would break my vow of no contact if I did send it now.
man omg! i did a mistake….i sent her that message but i didn’t notice it when you told me “when she replay don’t answer” i dunno how i missed this sentence…..she replayed and she said what do you mean? i explained it by saying i just wanted to say hi and to tell you that it was the best decision…..i dunno what to do now…help me please
ali wrote:
Send it again, and don’t respond this time if she replies.
@ Amz:
I already answered your post in the forum.
which one should i send it again? my replay or the original e- mail? and when i should send it? now??!!
don’t you think that if i sent her the first e-mail again she will feel i am crazy and trying to follow her??
ali wrote:
Right now she has mixed signals from you, make it clear and send the NC message again right away.
sorry man i know i talk alot but what do you mean by NC message??
ali wrote:
NC message = No Contact message
Hi I’ve been viewing all your videos and forums,etc. They really seem to work i know a lot of people out there post things that aren’t true like books that don’t work and whatnot just wanted to say that i will be ordering your book.
Your material is different from others that’s why i believe if anyone can make my relationship,me and my ex boyfriend get together again, & become greater than it ever was you can because you’re really down to earth and actually go about it with intelligence.
Just three quick questions though, how soon do I start the no contact rule(we just broke up yesterday)? And not to seem really desperate but um how long would all this take? I was wondering this because sometime the end of this month my ex is moving to another state, something about he’s leaving without telling anyone where he’s going. Last final one is there a way that I can not stray and not make the mistakes I’ve made before, I always seem to promise and not deliver.
So thank you for publishing your book and doing all of this. I hope to hear from you soon.
crystal wrote:
I would send the recommended no contact message ASAP, you can learn how to do that in our forum.
crystal wrote:
It usually takes around 30 days or more, but it all depends on the people involved and the situation. The biggest mistake most people make is rushing through the NC phase.
crystal wrote:
There are exercises in the book to help you with your emotional self-control.
If you want my help to get your ex back follow this link:
http://forum.howtogetyourexbackfast.com/topic/read-this-first
Make sure you read the rules and guidelines before you join, I strictly enforce them.
Don’t forget to sign up for my free News Letter for free videos, tips and advice on How to Get Your Ex Back.
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hi there, how long would it take to receive a response after sending the nc message?
enke wrote:
Well, you’re not really looking for a response since you just asked them to “not contact” you, right?
The whole point is you took control of the situation, and they know it.
It depends on the person, but not getting a response does not mean the NC message was not effective.
Some people react quickly and feel they have to get the last word in and respond…others don’t.
I hope this helped.
Im, worried how often does this backfire on people?
Mimi wrote:
It backfires all the time if you don’t stick with a plan and find personal support like we have in our forum.
what’s the link to the forum?
like all others i have a sticky situaation. i did the nc thing my own way, sort of…
short of it: a friend of over 17 years I’d always been close with (went to each other’s weddings, fathers funeral, double dated while both married to others, etc.) into asked me out during his separation. We had an awesome time together and went out for almost a year. he said many things about a possible future togehter. then i told him i loved him in Nov. and in Dec. he told me he loved me. 3 weeks later he ditched me on NY Eve to go to a wedding supposedly alone and never discussed w/me. I broke things off. He knows I love him deeply and said he is what I’m looking for – more than anyone I’ve ever dated in my entire life. we haven’t seen each other since last yr. he’s now divorced. we’ve stayed in distant email/phone touch but never talk about us only about ’stuff.’ He only calls late at night. He occassionaly fondly mentions things we did together. He says he’s willing ‘to make peace’ but only wants to do so on phone. I felt after our long friendship and very close romance that I deserved a conversation in person – i want to see his face and have him see mine. Told him he hurt me deeply and i expected more consideration of my heart from a long time friend. He finally agreed to talk in person and said he’ll call to set up time/place, but hasn’t. I am 99% certain he has a new gf. He only calls weeknights and meet on a weeknight. I told him until he does i don’t want to hear from him at all. Now what should i do?
goldie wrote:
You need to follow the plan in our forum:
http://forum.howtogetyourexbackfast.com/topic/read-this-first
@ S. Williams:
Hi Williams, I did send the nc sms hoping to see some kind of response. Actually, my relationship with this person is kinda outta the way. We have been friends for few years and in a relationship for about 20 months now. Few months ago, he said he had fallen outta love but said he still does like me. The reason being our constant fighting, blah blah. But things are pretty bad now. We hardly talk and he is a very eccntric person … and he blames me for his eccentric behavior. He tells me that my talking or fighting or questions affects him and that is why he shouts. I have had enough of blame taking. But I do like him, and he is a good person. Three days ago, I broke up with him as I felt that he has changed and is acting indifferently. He did call me that night. But acted indifferently the next day when I called him. And that’s when I felt it was too much for me to handle and hung up on him. I sent him the nc message as well. That was a couple of days ago. He stopped calling me after my sending him the sms. I still haven’t heard back from him.
Please advise.
PS: I live in India and both of our parents know about our relationship. His parents have agreed for the wedding and my parents haven’t. His mom talks to me on a regular basis. He has given his consent to his parents for the marriage.
enke wrote:
Hi Enke,
Did you send the recommended NC message word for word without any changes?
enke wrote:
I am not familiar with your customs but I would say you need to straighten things out before you get married, right?
If you sent the exact NC message as outlined in our plan in our forum, I recommend you follow the rest of the plan, as well.
Do not discuss this plan with your family or his because they will probably shoot you down and mess things up…understand?
Use the other members of our forum for your personal support.
Use NC and follow our plan for at least 30 days and see what happens.
I hope this helped.
Take Care,
S. Williams
hi,
you are really cool! I didn’t expect you to write back so soon! thank you very much.
I used the same words as stated in your forum. I also added this at the beginning of the sms.
“I do agree that you have changed. I do not regret my decision …”
Sometimes … well most of the time … i feel that he gets eccentric only when he’s around with me and when he is on the phone. he makes it very obvious that he gets eccentric only because of me and this is one thing that i REALLY cant handle! :-(
Williams, I would like to write to you in detail about the happenings of our relationship so that you can have a hang of the whole thing, if it is possible.
thanks!
enke
enke wrote:
You should’ve used to word for word.
enke wrote:
You can post your break up story in our forum.
@ S. Williams:
Hi There,
Thank you for your repsonse!
Please explain: “You should’ve used to word for word.”
I used the same words as you have stated except that I included the first line:
“I do agree that you have changed. I do not regret my decision to break up with you. I really believe it was the best thing for both of us. I have some big decisions to make and I need some time to think them over. I would really appreciate it if you didn’t contact me during this time. I will be in touch when I am ready.”
Thanks again!
Enke
enke wrote:
When you write something “word for word” you DO NOT ADD anything…make sense?
Hi
i read what’s a lot in this site …. but i think my problem is defferent .. i broke with mu gf because she said that she doesn’t love me … she like me but not ( love ).. idon’t know what to do .. i really need her back
tarek wrote:
Hi,
Go follow my free step by step plan, and win her back, there is a version of the NC message for people who broke up with their ex’s.
Maybe with sometime apart she will realize that she loves, or you will realize that you are over her, and want someone who loves you back…what have you got to lose, right?
What if you have been trying to maintain a friendship? Wont it be wierd just to randomly stop talking to them a month? Especially when you have a carpool and class to obligate to?
Jane wrote:
If all you want is a “friendship” keep doing what you’re doing…if you want something more, that’s another story.
i for sure want something more. so what do i do?
Is the letter appropriate for someone who was broken up with 4/5 weeks ago? I kinda did something lke this before I knew anything of a letter however, I ended up telling them i missed them.. but havnet really harassed them or anything…
A.a.a wrote:
Yes, just follow each step of the free plan.
hi. i broke up with my ex-boyfriend for 2months and now he’s dating another girl. he told me he was dating another girl and he says that he loves her. i bought 2 ebook the magic of making up and how to get him back forever. im so crushed and hurt ryte now. i’ve been following the plan.i have done the no contact rule and been enjoying my life.. but i still love him deeply.. i want him back.. is there still a chance for me to get him back. im really scared of losing him.
the girl also just broken up with her ex-bf bout 3months ago. and the both of them are not sure about starting the relationship together. they went out on the first date as friend but with love just yesterday. they only been dating for 2days. he just told me..
i don’t know what to do.. i know i cannot call him or message him.. please help me.. he told me all of this using sms..
please help me.. i want my boyfriend back. please..do i still have a chance with him!!
Leen wrote:
Hi Leen,
Just follow the free plan on my Blog, that along with the book MOMU will give you all the answers you need to get your life, and then your ex back again.
Take Care,
S.W.