Everyone thinks that their ex will leave them if they use the no contact rule.
But, guess what?
Let me explain why your ex will not leave you.
They are already gone, that’s why they are your ex boyfriend/girlfriend…Right?
The big mystery here is why, do they want to keep in touch with you, but not be in a relationship with you, right?
Well, let’s solve that mystery and shred these myths. The no contact rule works and here’s why.
You Can Get Your Ex Boyfriend Back
The No Contact Rule Myth 1 Shredded
This is the mother of all the no contact rule myths.
If I use the no contact rule on my ex, they will get mad at me.
OK, let’s take a look at that statement for a second.
They already left you, did that make you mad?
I bet it did, but, yet, here you are, wanting them back, anyways…
Why is that?
Because you still love them.
If the same holds true with your ex, then, even if they get mad at you, they will not fall out of love with you, right?
Unless they have already fallen out of love with you.
In that case, you will be better off leaving them alone, anyways.
If you use the NC rule correctly, you will be polite, and that should not make anyone mad, maybe a little jealous though…catch my drift?
Your ex will not leave you if you use the no contact rule.
So, let’s kick this NC myth’s ass out of here, and move on…shall we?
You Can Win Your Ex Girlfriend Back
The No Contact Rule Myth 2 Shredded
This one’s just as bad.
If I use the 30 day no contact rule my ex will find someone else.
Not true, your ex, left you, remember?
Do you think by staying in contact with them, that you are magically going to get your ex back?
This is a bigger Myth than the last one, and, here’s why.
Why would they want to be committed to you, when they already have you following them around, like a little puppy dog?
You’re always there when they need you, now.
Why get back into a relationship again?
They can have their cake, and eat it too.
You’re screwing yourself over with this plan, you think it’s going to work
You’re just…screwing yourself.
Let’s kick this one’s ass off into the gutter and move on.
Your ex is not going to find someone else, just because, you start using the 30 day no contact rule.
What will happen if you do not use NC, is they will probably find someone else, and “still” want to be your friend…sound familiar?
This will only place you in relationship limbo.
A mini-hell for people going through breakups.
The funny thing is, they put themselves in that hell, by choice.
Don’t do it.
If you really want to win your ex back, then, you must find a good plan and follow it.
The No Contact Rule Works to Get Your Ex Back
Whatever you’re doing now, isn’t working, or you wouldn’t be reading this article, right?
So, why keep doing things that are not working?
I think you are really hurting yourself if you dismiss the no contact rule.
This plan works, but it requires a lot of focus and emotional control.
Most people can not do this all by themselves.
That is why it is wise to find someone who will help you take on this battle.
If you are emotionally unbalanced, you need someone or something to keep you in balance…Right?
I mean, do you really think by randomly getting advice from friends, family, and co-workers, that you’re going to succeed?
You need a plan, a plan that works.
If you want to survive this breakup, you’ll need help.
Just subscribe to the free breakup survival plan newsletter, and start learning how to “correctly” use the no contact rule.
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What can I do to help you get your ex back?
If you have questions about the no contact rule, please feel free to write your question in the comment box below, and I will answer it ASAP…I promise!
Who Am I and Why Should You Listen to Me?
My name is S. Williams, and I have been helping people since 2008 to overcome break up pain, and get their lives back.
I even have an “About” section that I recommend you read.
I know the address of my site is: How to Get Your Ex Back Fast, but I “really” teach people how to get their lives back, not just their ex’s.
The answers you need to start your personal evolution are waiting for you, don’t hesitate another minute…come and get them.
Once you get your life back, everything else will just start to fall into place…I promise.
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