You can get your ex back, without even trying…want to learn how? Then keep on reading and I will tell you. This technique sort of came to me while I was working out on my treadmill, and it gave me a great idea, a sort of epiphany. You can really trick your mind into getting your ex boyfriend/girlfriend back, and here is how you do it.
A Little Back Ground
In order for you to understand how I came up with this idea, you would have to know a little about my history (I hope this doesn’t bore you too much). I used to have a bad drug addiction (much like your need to get your ex back) when I was in my twenties.
I had to have cocaine more than food, and everyone I went to for help wanted to blame my friends, my family, society…etc. I thought it was the drug, and it was sort of, but it wasn’t the drug that compelled me to get money anyway I could, to buy the drug…it was my mind. Now, you’re probably wondering what this has to do with helping you get your ex back, but be patient, and keep reading…OK?
Why was my mind driving me to do harm to myself? Because after telling myself over and over I need this stuff, (because the withdrawals sucked, just like wanting to get your ex back). I convinced my mind that I had to have it to “survive.” Ah, now this is where your instincts kick in, when they believe you need it to survive (you must need your ex to survive, or you wouldn’t be reading this…right?).
The human body has built in survival instincts, and once you convince them that something is needed to survive, they drive you to get it, at any cost. What if you use this tactic to your own advantage? What if you used your survival instinct, to get your ex boyfriend/girlfriend back?
Harness Your Survival Instinct
Now, I know what you’re thinking; “Hey, I think about my ex all the time, and it doesn’t do diddle.” Yes, but how do you think about them? Are you worried about them dating, or forgetting about you? If so, then you are not using your survival instinct correctly, and it isn’t going to help get you what is yours, your ex back.
You need to stop the self pity, and break away from your ex altogether. Exchange your worry, for focus…on getting your ex back. Convince yourself that you must do it to survive, and then after a while, your mind will believe you.
After that my friend, you will doing it without even thinking. It will be second nature to do what you need to do, to speed up the process of getting your ex back. Because your mind believes you need your ex to survive.
How can you exchange the mindset you have now…hopelessness, for a aching hunger, and a must have mindset that will drive you to succeed? You need to get some self help books or tapes, which you can find at your local library, and then you need to use them. Use them to erase your doubts and fears, and exchange them for a clear vision of what you want (to get your ex back), and how you are going to get it (a very good plan).
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Who Am I and Why Should You Listen to Me?
My name is S. Williams, and I have been helping people since 2008 to overcome break up pain, and get their lives back. I even have an “About” section that I recommend you read. I know the name of my site is: How to Get Your Ex Back Fast, but I teach people how to get their lives back, not their ex’s.
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