Comments on: Toxic Relationships – 2 Things to Consider Before Getting an Ex Back http://blog.howtogetyourexbackfast.com/toxic-relationships-2-things-to-consider-before-getting-an-ex-back/ How to Get Your Ex Back Fast and Survive a Break up Thu, 09 Feb 2012 03:14:21 +0000 hourly 1 http://wordpress.org/?v=3.3.1 By: S. Williams http://blog.howtogetyourexbackfast.com/toxic-relationships-2-things-to-consider-before-getting-an-ex-back/#comment-352 S. Williams Tue, 21 Apr 2009 19:24:03 +0000 http://blog.howtogetyourexbackfast.com/?p=466#comment-352 <b>@ Terri</b>: You're Welcome! Just don't pick up the phone, he will get the message. Take Care, S. Williams @ Terri:

You’re Welcome!

Just don’t pick up the phone, he will get the message.

Take Care,

S. Williams

]]> By: Terri http://blog.howtogetyourexbackfast.com/toxic-relationships-2-things-to-consider-before-getting-an-ex-back/#comment-351 Terri Tue, 21 Apr 2009 19:03:45 +0000 http://blog.howtogetyourexbackfast.com/?p=466#comment-351 <b>S. Williams</b> wrote: <blockquote>Terri wrote: I just need to know how long is he going to do this before he realizes that I am truly finished and I have moved on? Hi Terri, I guess he finished “playing” and wants another chance, but you know better…right? Have you told him in plain words that you do not want a relationship with him period, and you would appreciate it if he just stop contacting you, and moved on. Because to tell you the truth it’s anyone’s guess when it will “sink in”, and he will move on. But… Do not do ANYTHING that will make him think he has a chance, that will only encourage him to keep contacting you…understand? You don’t need to change your # just use caller ID, and screen all calls you don’t recognize. Toxic relationships can be about anything, they are just situations that are unhealthy, and if he abused your trust, that’s not healthy either. I hope this helped. Take Care, S. Williams</blockquote> <b>@ S. Williams</b>: Thanks Scott, His game is......as long as you answer the phone and tell him that you are over him and for him to stop calling.....he thinks that I still want him. This is why it soooo much easier for me not to answer the phone. I know how he operates and it is crazy. Sometimes it makes me want to answer the phone and talk real nice to him just so he can run away. Thanks Scott for your input on relationships. S. Williams wrote:

Terri wrote:
I just need to know how long is he going to do this before he realizes that I am truly finished and I have moved on?
Hi Terri,
I guess he finished “playing” and wants another chance, but you know better…right?
Have you told him in plain words that you do not want a relationship with him period, and you would appreciate it if he just stop contacting you, and moved on.
Because to tell you the truth it’s anyone’s guess when it will “sink in”, and he will move on.
But…
Do not do ANYTHING that will make him think he has a chance, that will only encourage him to keep contacting you…understand?
You don’t need to change your # just use caller ID, and screen all calls you don’t recognize.
Toxic relationships can be about anything, they are just situations that are unhealthy, and if he abused your trust, that’s not healthy either.
I hope this helped.
Take Care,
S. Williams

@ S. Williams:
Thanks Scott,
His game is……as long as you answer the phone and tell him that you are over him and for him to stop calling…..he thinks that I still want him. This is why it soooo much easier for me not to answer the phone. I know how he operates and it is crazy. Sometimes it makes me want to answer the phone and talk real nice to him just so he can run away.
Thanks Scott for your input on relationships.

]]> By: S. Williams http://blog.howtogetyourexbackfast.com/toxic-relationships-2-things-to-consider-before-getting-an-ex-back/#comment-349 S. Williams Tue, 21 Apr 2009 18:38:31 +0000 http://blog.howtogetyourexbackfast.com/?p=466#comment-349 <b>Terri</b> wrote: <blockquote>I just need to know how long is he going to do this before he realizes that I am truly finished and I have moved on?</blockquote> Hi Terri, I guess he finished "playing" and wants another chance, but you know better...right? Have you told him in plain words that you do not want a relationship with him period, and you would appreciate it if he just stop contacting you, and moved on. Because to tell you the truth it's anyone's guess when it will "sink in", and he will move on. But... Do not do ANYTHING that will make him think he has a chance, that will only encourage him to keep contacting you...understand? You don't need to change your # just use caller ID, and screen all calls you don't recognize. Toxic relationships can be about anything, they are just situations that are unhealthy, and if he abused your trust, that's not healthy either. I hope this helped. Take Care, S. Williams Terri wrote:

I just need to know how long is he going to do this before he realizes that I am truly finished and I have moved on?

Hi Terri,

I guess he finished “playing” and wants another chance, but you know better…right?

Have you told him in plain words that you do not want a relationship with him period, and you would appreciate it if he just stop contacting you, and moved on.

Because to tell you the truth it’s anyone’s guess when it will “sink in”, and he will move on.

But…

Do not do ANYTHING that will make him think he has a chance, that will only encourage him to keep contacting you…understand?

You don’t need to change your # just use caller ID, and screen all calls you don’t recognize.

Toxic relationships can be about anything, they are just situations that are unhealthy, and if he abused your trust, that’s not healthy either.

I hope this helped.

Take Care,

S. Williams

]]> By: Terri http://blog.howtogetyourexbackfast.com/toxic-relationships-2-things-to-consider-before-getting-an-ex-back/#comment-348 Terri Tue, 21 Apr 2009 18:27:52 +0000 http://blog.howtogetyourexbackfast.com/?p=466#comment-348 Scott, I placed it in the Toxic category because I don't want him back not because he was verbally abusive because he wasn't. He was a Playa and this is why I placed him under the TOXIC because of his cheating ways. Can you still help me with this one. I don't want to get my # changed because he knows other ways to get in contact with me. I just need to know how long is he going to do this before he realizes that I am truly finished and I have moved on? Scott,

I placed it in the Toxic category because I don’t want him back not because he was verbally abusive because he wasn’t. He was a Playa and this is why I placed him under the TOXIC because of his cheating ways. Can you still help me with this one. I don’t want to get my # changed because he knows other ways to get in contact with me. I just need to know how long is he going to do this before he realizes that I am truly finished and I have moved on?

]]> By: Terri http://blog.howtogetyourexbackfast.com/toxic-relationships-2-things-to-consider-before-getting-an-ex-back/#comment-347 Terri Tue, 21 Apr 2009 18:22:19 +0000 http://blog.howtogetyourexbackfast.com/?p=466#comment-347 Hi Scott, I have a question that I know you can answer. There is this guy whom I used to love and after all of the games and B.S. he put me through (2 1/2 years) I finally got over him and it has been 1 year now since I broke up with him. My question is: he is starting to contact me and I am not responding to his calls or texts. How long is he going to do this and when will it stop because as much as I used to love him, I refuse to go back down that road again. I finally got my control back and I will not give it away again. What should I do?? Your help is greatly appreciated. Terri Hi Scott,

I have a question that I know you can answer. There is this guy whom I used to love and after all of the games and B.S. he put me through (2 1/2 years) I finally got over him and it has been 1 year now since I broke up with him. My question is: he is starting to contact me and I am not responding to his calls or texts. How long is he going to do this and when will it stop because as much as I used to love him, I refuse to go back down that road again. I finally got my control back and I will not give it away again. What should I do?? Your help is greatly appreciated.

Terri

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