The no contact rule can help you get your ex back, but, you have to be careful of a few pitfalls, along, the way…what pitfalls?
Well, just keep on reading.
What happens, is you start out doubting, the power of using no contact, to win back your ex, then, it starts to work, and, then, you get excited, right?
This is where, it gets scary, and, you have to keep your head, or, you could blow, the whole thing.
Why Breaking No Contact Will Break Your Heart
You have worked hard, and sent the NC message, and started to work on your own personal evolution, and, then it happens…your ex, tries to contact you…now what?
Well, since you’re in no contact, the right thing to do, would be, to ignore the contact, unless, you have to answer it (shared children, shared financial responsibilities, or own a business together…things like that).
Most of the time, your ex, is just fishing, to see if you’re really serious, about this, no contact, stuff.
You have to show them, you are, and, stick to the plan, why?
Because, using the no contact rule, to get your ex back, takes some time, to work, and, if you rush through it, you will have to start over, again.
It is better to do it right, the first time, then, to have to start all over, again, right?
Then, why do so many people, break NC, too soon?
Because, they are afraid, that if they don’t respond, to their ex’s first contact, attempt, the ex, will give up, for good.
Not true, at all.
They are worried about losing you…that’s why, they are testing, the waters.
If it has been at least 30 days, and, you feel strong enough (emotionally), to proceed, to the reconnection stage, then, go for it.
So to recap…when, no contact starts to work, and, you realize that you might get your ex back, stay calm, and, stick with NC, until YOU KNOW, you’re ready.
Don’t kid yourself, you must be honest with yourself, and, think with your head, not with your heart, if you want to get your ex back, for good.
Who Am I and Why Should You Listen to Me?
My name is S. Williams, and I have been helping people since 2008, to overcome breakup pain, and, get their lives back.
I even have an “About” section, that I recommend you read.
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