The no contact rule can help you “get my ex back” but you have to be careful of a few pitfalls along the way…what pitfalls? Well, just keep on reading. What happens is you start out doubting the power of using no contact to win back your ex, then it starts to work, and you get excited, right? This is where it gets scary, and you have to keep your head, or you could blow the whole thing.
Why Breaking No Contact Will Break Your Heart
You have worked hard, and sent the NC message, and started to work on your own personal evolution, and then it happens…your ex tries to contact you…now what? Well since you’re in no contact the right thing to do would be to ignore the contact, unless you have to answer it (shared children, shared financial responsibilities, own a business together…things like that).
Most of the time your ex is just fishing to see if you’re really serious about this no contact stuff. You have to show them you are, and stick to the plan, why? Because using the no contact rule to get your ex back takes time to work, and if you rush through it, you will have to start over again. It is better to do it right the first time, then to have to start all over again, right? Then why do so many people break NC too soon?
Because they are afraid that if they don’t respond to their ex’s first contact attempt, the ex will give up for good. Not true at all, they are worried about losing you…that’s why they are testing the waters. If it has been at least 30 days, and you feel strong enough (emotionally) to proceed to the reconnection stage, then go for it.
So to recap…when no contact starts to work, and you realize “I can get my ex back” stay calm, and stick with NC until you’re ready. Don’t kid yourself, you must be honest with yourself and think with your head, and not with your heart if you want to get your ex back for good.
Who Am I and Why Should You Listen to Me?
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