Stop Being Friends With Ex Boyfriend – How to Win My Ex Back

If you want to learn“how to win my ex back”, then you need to stop being friends with your ex boyfriend. If you’re interested in finding out more keep on reading. I know that sounds kind of funny…but it’s true. If you are really serious about wanting to know “how to win my ex back”, then you need to stop being friends with your ex boyfriend.

Stop Being Friends With Ex Boyfriend

If you want to learn how to win your ex back then you must stop being friends with your ex boyfriend, and start getting your ex boyfriend back. As long as he sees you as just a friend that is all you will be to him. A lot of times during a break up women tend to think that settling for just being friends will be their foot in the door to getting their ex back. This is true…if you do it wisely you will learn “how to win my ex back.” If you do not…you could be stuck in the friends zone forever.

The first step to stop being friends with your ex boyfriend, and moving towards getting your ex back is to not hang on their every word. What I mean to say is…do not make yourself so available to them, and start to draw away from them gradually. Be polite and if they ask; “Is anything wrong?” Tell them no I just need some time alone to think about things. It will be pretty obvious to them that you are losing interest in being just friends with your ex boyfriend, and you will have made the first step towards “winning back my ex.”

I Can Win back MY Ex Boyfriend By Looking Hot Again

Become Their Hot Looking Ex Girlfriend

If you really want to get your ex boyfriend back, and win back your ex you must make them think of you as more than a friend. This can be accomplished by dressing more attractively and awakening the male sexual side of your ex boyfriend. Switching from a “nice friend” to a “hot chick” will get your ex boyfriend thinking about you in a whole different way. You can get your ex boy friend back a lot faster if you change the way he sees you…friend or potential date.

I know you’re thinking; “I want to get my ex back, but not just for sex.” I know you are also probably thinking “How can I win my ex back that way?” You will get your ex boyfriend back heart and soul if you can shift their way of thinking about you. If you want to know how to win your ex back the quickest way, It is to stop being friends with your ex boyfriend, and start making “him” think about “how to win my ex girlfriend back.”

Stop Being Friends And Get My Ex Back

Why would anyone do this? I mean, do you really think by randomly getting advice from friends, family, and co-workers, that you are going to succeed? You need a plan, a plan that works, and you need it now. What? You want to learn “How to win my ex back”, but you do not have a plan? If you have any comments or questions for me, please write them in the comment box below, and I will answer them ASAP! What can I do to help you with a plan to win your ex back. What are you willing to do to get your ex boyfriend back?

Who Am I and Why Should You Listen to Me?

My name is S. Williams, and I have been helping people since 2008 to overcome break up pain, and get their lives back. I even have an “About” section that I recommend you read. I know the name of my site is: How to Get Your Ex Back Fast, but I teach people how to get their lives back, not their ex’s.

If you’re interested in working with me (and our forum members) to get your life back, join my free newsletter for access to the free plan to get your ex back fast, and start getting your life back today. The answers you need to start your personal evolution are waiting for you, don’t hesitate another minute…come and get them.

Once you get your life back, everything else will just start to fall into place…I promise. If you have any comments or questions please write them in the comment box below.

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  1. sir,

    my boyfriend want to stop the relation becoz of his parents.he says he dont want to cheat or hurt his parents anymor.his parents r soo overprotectiv,n his parents came to know about our relation.he now must want to stop the relation.but i cant get over it.we had also had sex soo many tyms.and i jus lied for him always.and him too.but he just want to avoid me somhow .he will do anything for dat.but i neva agreed to him,and hung on him saying u cant easily stop dis n ol.but atlast he sed.dis is for d last tym he is asking me,if i leav him alone now,he will b my friend always.othwyc he will avoid me completely.n he will do lyk dat.and will neva eva contact mein his entire lyf.. ;( i dont want to miss him ever…so i told yes we can be frnds. now its getting worser.he is always telling we r jus friends.dont forget dat.and same thing.i want him sooooooooooooooooooooo badly ;(.wot shud i do now?? i cant ever live wdout him… plzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzz help me sir

    1. Hi,

      You’re wrong, you can live without your ex, if you have to.

      And if his parents are telling him who he can date, and how to live his life you don’t have a say in things, do you?

      If you use the no contact rule correctly, you can reveal your ex’s true feelings.

      I help people survive a break up and get their lives back, not get their ex boyfriend back, and I explain why in the “About” section on my Blog.

      Go read the free plan to get your ex back and follow ALL the steps to heal your broken heart, evolve past the breakup, and get your life back again.

      Thank you for writing.

      Take Care,

      S.W.

      IMPORTANT – If you found this information helpful or useful, please give me a “+1” rating by using the colored “+1 button” at the top or bottom of the above article. I’d really appreciate it.

  2. My ex and I have been broken up for two weeks..It was our second major break up.The first one lasted 35 days and i moved away for a month and came back. When I arrived my ex was all over me and said we would try our relationship again on a dating status..Well 57 days later im broken up with again and my ex says i ruined relationships for my ex and they werent in love with me anymore. Just wanted to be friends and tried the FWB but i broke it off. we live together help..

    1. Mandy says:

      My ex and I have been broken up for two weeks..It was our second major break up.The first one lasted 35 days and i moved away for a month and came back. When I arrived my ex was all over me and said we would try our relationship again on a dating status..Well 57 days later im broken up with again

      Hi,

      Do you know why you broke up again?

      You picked up right where you left off in your old “failed” relationship, no one evolved.

      If you want to use no contact right you need to go read the free plan, and follow ALL the steps.

      Take Care,

      S.W.

  3. Mel says:

    even tho its been two years I can’t stop thinking about him,I’m even dreaming about him,so this morning I decided to text him telling him I miss him and I still love him,he replied and said he’s well and his just got in a new relationship,but will stay in contact this is killing me I no its too late its been two years. Please help!

    Hi,

    It is NEVER too late to get your life back and evolve past your old failed relationship, and become your happy self again, but it will take commitment and work.

    Go read the free plan on my Blog, and follow ALL the steps.

    Take Care,

    S.W.

  4. Hi, I really need some help,I got with my ex boyfriend when I was 18 years. We has together for nearly 3 years,then one day he told me that he was leaving me,this was two years ago now,in the past year I have bumped in to him twice and he always looks at me and stuff but don’t say anything,one of the nights when I see him I ended up going to his as I couldn’t get a lift home,the same night I found out he slept with another girl that’s y he ended it with me,to find out some time after broke my heart,even tho its been two years I can’t stop thinking about him,I’m even dreaming about him,so this morning I decided to text him telling him I miss him and I still love him,he replied and said he’s well and his just got in a new relationship,but will stay in contact this is killing me I no its too late its been two years. Please help!

  5. Aurelia wrote:

    do I still send the no contact message in this situation or just stop contacting him?

    Hi Aurelia,

    You need to follow all the steps in the free plan, and that means sending the recommended NC message.

    You can not start your (or your ex’s) personal evolution without sending the right message first.

    Then you need to follow all the rest of the steps in the free plan.

    Take Care,

    S.W.

  6. After he broke up with me I agreed to be friends with my ex, we still talk and hang out, but of course I still want him back, your article mentions starting to draw away from him gradually, do I still send the no contact message in this situation or just stop contacting him?

  7. sarah f. wrote:

    What do i do from hear i have read you how to get your ex back; unsure how to go about it. I can give me some advise?

    Hi Sarah,

    It seems like you have 2 choices…

    Give up and move on

    Or, you can follow the free plan and go through the whole process step by step, and get your life back, and hopefully your ex too (50/50 chance).

  8. i want to add we were a part of each other lives for 6 1/2 years. and thought that we had more then this; and how could he just end it like that….?

  9. Ok, my ex and i broke up 5 mos ago and i still love him and want him back. we didnt realy even have a offical brake up i caught him with another girl and asked him why didnt he tell me. then 2 weeks passed and he never called i called him and asked him when was he planing to call me? just to make a long story short a few weeks ago he texted me and asked how i was doing; we talked via text that day. Then the next we texted again and he told me he missed me i told him the same.

    Then i texted him again 2 weeks later we texted back and fourth for a little while but now he doesnt respond to my texts. To add to this he has things that belong to me and i have some of his things but he keep putting off returning them to me.

    What do i do from hear i have read you how to get your ex back; unsure how to go about it. I can give me some advise? I have been out with a few guys but have not made any connection like what i had with him. i really miss him alot he was my best friend.

  10. stormy wrote:

    My question is what should i do now.

    Go to the FAQ section here on my Blog and follow the directions for joining our forum. Post your break up story as per the directions in the FAQs and the other forum members and I will help you…OK?

  11. Hi, I had a quick question. My ex and I had been getting along well, and hes been trying to spend alil more time with me and even told me I should call once in a while. then yesterday I did a big NONO. I asked him about our relationship, if he felt differently. He said No, he still didn’t want a relationship anytime soon, but he was attracted to me and cared about me, but his feeling had not changed. I know that In a moment of weakness i pushed him istead of pulling. My question is what should i do now. Is it possible to progress and just go on. Or do i need to add more space again and do alil damage controll. Also in your opinion should i take his response as positive or negative?

  12. jamie wrote:

    ok i really want my ex back. but i dont know where to start.

    Start by buying the plan that I work with, my advice will make way more sense when we are both on the same page following the same plan…understand?

    Use The Magic Of Making Up System To Win Back Your Ex

    If you buy it from me you get my private email support, and you won’t have to ask your questions on my Blog anymore.

    A sort of “Thank You” for supporting me and my Blog.

  13. ive read everything.. on ur blogs .. ok i really want my ex back. but i dont know where to start.. im confused .. im sorry about the long novel.. i dont know exactly how to ask it.. but i just wanna know if i should meet him and contact him or stick to the plan of waiting on him to contact me and let him decide to be with me ?

  14. jamie wrote:

    well just be make it clear after u read it… my plan

    First of all I almost went blind trying to read that massive block of text.

    If you’re going to write me a book, please break it up into small paragraphs…OK?

    What plan?

    Did you purchase a book about relationships like the magic of making up system?

    If not get one right away, and read it, then come back and read all the articles, sections and the comments on my Blog.

    There is almost 600 comments right now…I’m sure your questions are going to be answered in one of comments.

    Once you start following a real plan and you have some intelligent questions, ask me here on the Blog…OK?

    Now stop writing me novels and start doing things right. 🙂

  15. well just be make it clear after u read it… my plan .. the one i followed was.. i had already done no contact in march .. and then in april i didnt initiate contact.. but i did respond.. and id decided at that point .. no more beggin him back.. and to act as tho i didnt need him.. but im dying inside and i still want him back… but i know he misses me .. but my plan didnt work so well bc wen i hung up on him .. i pretty much hinted that i wouldnt go meet him and talk to him as long as he still has a gf. even tho he stated he didnt want to mess around he only wanted to talk… i cant risk letting my emotions show and letting him know i want him just so he can buy more time and know he still “has” me. So i hung up on him bc he wouldnt say wat he needed to say through text. or over the phone… i honestly think he wants to see me just because he knows that i might break and tell him i want to be with him again.

  16. i just want to add that throughout this 4 months whenever i come out and say i want him back its like he knows he “has ” me and he doesnt have to choose. And i think he just figures he can have me anytime he wants me(have his cake and eat it too) .. thats why i cant meet him… because my true emotions show and he will know i still want him… but through texting i can fake it and act as though i dont need him…. I dont want to have to tell him i want him back… he should no that by now … i want him to come to his own senses and realization that he wants me back.. i want him to say it. He does get very bothered when he feels like we cant remain freinds , and says ” u been a huge part of my life for like 5 years, dont ever shut me out.” But i cant just sit back and be his freind when i am still in love with him… please help.. wat do i do now… what should i say? should i meet with him… i dont want to initiate contact.. and let him know he still has me… wat do i do? ! ? !

  17. Ok i guess i should start from the beginning. Me and my ex were together for 4 1/2 to 5 yrs. He broke up with me the day after xmas 12/26/08, told me he wasnt in love with me anymore.. but that he still loved me,,,and its been four months now since then.. when he first left me i was devestated, i panicked, acted out, begged pleaded.. still was having sex with him when he wanted it, just to hear him tell me i had to leave afterwards and that it was a mistake. We probly slept together over a handful of times since we been broke up… but heres the worse part. When he broke up with me he immediately started seeing another girl that he had met 6 months b4 he dumped me. and i was sleeping with him knowing that he was seeing her. I felt really dirty and after march i decided not to sleep with him anymore unless we got back together and he left the other girl. Well at the begining of april we run into eachother on the road and he asks me if i hate him… and he says he wants to be freinds (which he has been saying the whole time weve been broke up) and can we go somewhere and talk. so i stopped and talked with him and he was saying i looked so good and he wanted me .. and he still loves me but he just cant do the “us” thing anymore. So then he picks me up and kisses me and touches all over me. And then says he has to go … i was confused by this .. so the next day i he texts me and asks me wat im doing and i tell him that im getting ready to go out on a date. and he gets all jealous and stuff .. but tries to act as though it doesnt bother him. well the next day he is blowing my phone up and leaving messages saying he thinks he made a mistake and that he wants to talk to me. and so he begs me to come over and see him..so i go over and he asks a ton of questions about my “date” and we end up kissing and all over eachother again .. i tried to stop it but i still love him so i kinda didnt want to .. but then he said i really think i want u back and we ended up having sex. Well after we were done .. he says he is tired and wants to sleep and he sends me home, doesnt let me stay the night.. (this happend the beginning of april) and the next morning i call him and now he acts like he still doesnt know wat he wants, and says im pressuring him. So i get of the phone and text him that the ball is in his court but dont take to long.. well lets just say we didnt talk 6to7 days after that… i felt like i was giving him space but wen he contacted me again he didnt speak of being back with me so i didnt even respond to his texts. and well he started texting me again about a week ago and saying he misses me and misses just laying next to me.. (i havent seen him since the 6th of april) and well i am completely upset and frustrated at this point .. bc he says he misses me yet still has his new girlfriend… so when he texted me .. he wanted to meet and talk in person .. and i told him “no, say wat u need to through text”. and he didnt want to do that. And he kept saying u need to stop being mean and talk to me ” i miss u” just give me 20mins. and i said ur not my man anymore, i dont have to meet u,,, and he said no ones trying to be ur man, and i said ” well if u dont wanna be my man then theres no reason we should be meeting and talking in person ” (i was trying to break from letting him think he could have me as a freind, and have a new gf , best of both worlds ,, ya know)…then he says ” how do u know i dont wanna be ur man” and i say ” bc u just said it and ur the one with the gf” and then he gets real bothered and says ” well i broke up with her a week ago to get u back ,, but u were ignoring me so i went back to her, id even bought u roses and a bear” and i say that is bs! We stop texting there and i called him that night and said look wat is it that u wanna talk about… and he woudnt say .. he kept asking me irrelevant questions and i got fed up and said .. “let me ask u somthing” ” do u still have that gf, the one u left me for” and he said ” well i had broke up with her for a while” and i said ” so ur still with her, so stop wasting my time and grow up” and then i hung up on him .. that happened a few days ago… well he hasnt called me or textd me since. … These past four months have been really hard and still are… and i didnt want to just let him think i was still gonna be his freind, while he has another gf but yet and still wants me in a way and wants to see me. My question is what do i do now? Did i mess up by hanging up on him and not meeting him to talk? If i meet him ill let my emotions take over me bc i want him back so bad.. but im trying to leave him thinking i dont need him so that he will want me back. i havent been initiating any contact.. i will respond to some of his texts ..but i dont initiate the contact .. he texts first… but i did try the complete no contact rule for three weeeks straight in march. and it worked in getting him worried about me but thats about it . it didnt get him wanting me back… but yea,, did i mess up by hanging up on him and not going to see him? the thing is i cant see him. bc i still love him and want to be with him. I think im upset bc i thought wen i hung up on him he would have called me back over and over but he didnt .. he did the opposite. See i just wanted him to say “Look, ill break up with her, i know i made a mistake, and i want u back”…. why wont he just say those words already.? He says he stays up at night and thinks of me all the time… but he wont come out and say he wants me back..the only thing he will say is .. ” i thought u said we could be freinds, why wont u talk to me” and anyways.. wat do i do … sorry this was so long.. if u need more info i can give it to u .. just ask.

  18. jamie wrote:

    hi i am having ex probs.. i do have a plan that i am following .. but i get so upset wen it doesnt work out like ive planned

    Hi Jamie,

    So does everyone else using this Blog.

    jamie wrote:

    S. williams is there anyways you can email with me at (deleted) thats my email addy,,, the thing is my situation is real in depth .. i need to explain more .. please contact me

    Yes there is a way to get my private email support go to the “Start Here First” section and read #8.

  19. hi i am having ex probs.. i do have a plan that i am following .. but i get so upset wen it doesnt work out like ive planned … S. williams is there anyways you can email with me at (deleted) thats my email addy,,, the thing is my situation is real in depth .. i need to explain more .. please contact me .. ud b a life saver … ud give me the best gift ne1 cud give by just lending out ur ear and helping a stranger… thank u .

  20. Ruby wrote:

    My ex and i still see each other twice a week at work where he would act all friendly with other co worker except me.

    If someone was treating me badly, I would forget about them, and find different friends.

    Ruby wrote:

    should i ask if we could still be friends

    Why would you want to be friends with someone who treats you badly? It would make more sense to find new friends and give up on him.

    If he comes around later then decide whether you want him back or not.

    Do you have a plan, are you ever going to use a plan?

    Or are you just going to waste time asking me questions that only you can answer by following a plan?

    There are three simple steps to get your ex back.

    1. Get a plan
    2. Follow the plan
    3. Evaluate your results

    This Blog was built to help people that “have a plan” to fill in the missing pieces and give them guidance, and support.

    But all it seems people want to do here is ask me questions like: “is he/she coming back?”

    I have a question for all those people: why do you think I can answer that question?

    Or try to convince me how “impossible” it is going to be to get their ex back.

    With that attitude you are definitely “not” going to get them back.

    Follow those 3 steps and on step 3 if they are not coming back…it’s time to move on.

    The book will help you with that step as well if necessary.

    The faster you start step one the better your chances are, these are the things I can tell you for certain, the rest would be guessing.

    My answer to all your questions Ruby is to follow those 3 steps, and in the course of doing that you will answer all your own questions.

    Take Care,

    S. Williams

  21. My ex and i still see each other twice a week at work where he would act all friendly with other co worker except me.

    He would only say few things to me regarding work and nothing more. should i ask if we could still be friends because i just want to break the ice between us. But since he was the one who broke up with me, will it make me lose all dignity?

    but then what if he does want to be talking to me again but wants to keep his pride? Should i try make peace with him?

  22. stormy wrote:

    Should i wait alil longer before doing this? like closer to the time I will be talking to him again? or is now just as good as any to change my looks?

    If you’re ready for a change, then change.

    But don’t just do it for him, do it for yourself as well.

    When you feel good about yourself your self confidence rises, and that’s a good thing, right? 🙂

    Take Care,

    S. Williams

  23. Hi, Im in day 4 of no contact. I still see him regularly, but keeping it very brief. Although he seems to be detacting further from me. I’m going to get a make over today, which will be a huge change. Should i wait alil longer before doing this? like closer to the time I will be talking to him again? or is now just as good as any to change my looks?

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