Comments on: Should I Give Up On Getting My Ex Back? http://blog.howtogetyourexbackfast.com/should-i-give-up-on-getting-my-ex-back/ Free Plan & Break Up Advice to Get Your Ex Back Fast Fri, 10 Sep 2010 00:52:02 +0000 hourly 1 http://wordpress.org/?v=3.0.1 By: S. Williams http://blog.howtogetyourexbackfast.com/should-i-give-up-on-getting-my-ex-back/#comment-4928 S. Williams Sun, 09 May 2010 22:15:21 +0000 http://blog.howtogetyourexbackfast.com/?p=483#comment-4928 <b><a href="#comment-4927" title="Go to comment of this author" rel="nofollow">Lovely</a></b> wrote: <blockquote>I feel bad bc when i had him i was so mean and called him names and he lost both of his grandparents while we were together so now I feel guilty please help Scott</blockquote> Hi, You can't change the past, but you can shape the future. Go read <a href="http://blog.howtogetyourexbackfast.com/" "target=_blank" rel="nofollow">the free plan</a>, and follow ALL the steps...focus on shaping the future. Take Care, S.W. Lovely wrote:

I feel bad bc when i had him i was so mean and called him names and he lost both of his grandparents while we were together so now I feel guilty please help Scott

Hi,

You can’t change the past, but you can shape the future.

Go read the free plan, and follow ALL the steps…focus on shaping the future.

Take Care,

S.W.

]]> By: Lovely http://blog.howtogetyourexbackfast.com/should-i-give-up-on-getting-my-ex-back/#comment-4927 Lovely Sun, 09 May 2010 17:35:30 +0000 http://blog.howtogetyourexbackfast.com/?p=483#comment-4927 Basically, after 3 years of living with B (who is not quite my ex but we are in (limbo) I moved him in my apartment in NYC after about 2 weeks of knowing each other. I had completed my bachelors degree and began to think about the fact that he hadnt had a job the entire time we were living in together. However, he was faithful, loyal and committed to me n my flea market accessories sales biz and he always took care of my son Elijah. But of course my head got BIG and I thought I was to good for him and began to make plans to move down here to FL which originally he was part of the plan but I ended up moving without him and realized 2 weeks later that it was the biggest mistake of my life. Buck always showed he loved me he did want to move but I told him he couldnt because he didnt have a job. It seems so senseless now and im crying. I moved here September 30 he visited once in February and I went through his phone and I saw numerous texts messages with various females. Now the one that only had eyes for me is emotionally gone. He was supposed to come for my Bday in March and canceled (I paid for the trip) I rescheduled for April he canceled again. He says he loves me but doesnt know when he will be able to move here. He was also in an accident recently but the insurance company says that he can move and still be covered but his excuse is he needs to save money b4 he moves down. The thng is I dont think he wants to move down here anymore. So as of Thursday night I havent called him. I just sent him the no contact message but im scared bc we have not ever gone more that 1 day without speaking and he hasnt tried to contact me. I feel bad bc when i had him i was so mean and called him names and he lost both of his grandparents while we were together so now I feel guilty please help Scott...Im 30 he will be 24 Basically, after 3 years of living with B (who is not quite my ex but we are in (limbo) I moved him in my apartment in NYC after about 2 weeks of knowing each other. I had completed my bachelors degree and began to think about the fact that he hadnt had a job the entire time we were living in together. However, he was faithful, loyal and committed to me n my flea market accessories sales biz and he always took care of my son Elijah. But of course my head got BIG and I thought I was to good for him and began to make plans to move down here to FL which originally he was part of the plan but I ended up moving without him and realized 2 weeks later that it was the biggest mistake of my life. Buck always showed he loved me he did want to move but I told him he couldnt because he didnt have a job. It seems so senseless now and im crying. I moved here September 30 he visited once in February and I went through his phone and I saw numerous texts messages with various females. Now the one that only had eyes for me is emotionally gone. He was supposed to come for my Bday in March and canceled (I paid for the trip) I rescheduled for April he canceled again. He says he loves me but doesnt know when he will be able to move here. He was also in an accident recently but the insurance company says that he can move and still be covered but his excuse is he needs to save money b4 he moves down. The thng is I dont think he wants to move down here anymore. So as of Thursday night I havent called him. I just sent him the no contact message but im scared bc we have not ever gone more that 1 day without speaking and he hasnt tried to contact me. I feel bad bc when i had him i was so mean and called him names and he lost both of his grandparents while we were together so now I feel guilty please help Scott…Im 30 he will be 24

]]> By: S. Williams http://blog.howtogetyourexbackfast.com/should-i-give-up-on-getting-my-ex-back/#comment-795 S. Williams Wed, 13 May 2009 17:32:17 +0000 http://blog.howtogetyourexbackfast.com/?p=483#comment-795 <b>Ben</b> wrote: <blockquote>Hi Scott! Didn’t know whether to post here or on forum, after I read you’d be posting more in your blog, and then here forum..</blockquote> Ben, I think you have it backwards. I am not answering questions on my Blog anymore I want people to join and post their break up story first in heart break hotel (so the other members will know a little background about your breakup) and then go and post your questions in the appropriate forums. You can either start a new topic or use the existing one that is already started in the heart break hotel. The forum is much better because other members will help you, and the forum is much easier to search for information. I was only using the blog until I had a place like the forum. Anyone who does not join and participate is CRAZY this is the best free tool out there. There are other members just waiting to help you, and I am in there as well. Come on in...we are waiting to help you get your ex back. :) Ben wrote:

Hi Scott!
Didn’t know whether to post here or on forum, after I read you’d be posting more in your blog, and then here forum..

Ben, I think you have it backwards.

I am not answering questions on my Blog anymore I want people to join and post their break up story first in heart break hotel (so the other members will know a little background about your breakup) and then go and post your questions in the appropriate forums.

You can either start a new topic or use the existing one that is already started in the heart break hotel.

The forum is much better because other members will help you, and the forum is much easier to search for information.

I was only using the blog until I had a place like the forum.

Anyone who does not join and participate is CRAZY this is the best free tool out there.

There are other members just waiting to help you, and I am in there as well.

Come on in…we are waiting to help you get your ex back. :)

]]> By: Ben http://blog.howtogetyourexbackfast.com/should-i-give-up-on-getting-my-ex-back/#comment-792 Ben Wed, 13 May 2009 15:00:59 +0000 http://blog.howtogetyourexbackfast.com/?p=483#comment-792 Hi Scott! Didn't know whether to post here or on forum, after I read you'd be posting more in your blog, and then here forum.. Anyway I was just wondering if it is truly time to give up. I got MoMU, did 30 days NC, improved myself, reconnected, talked about our problems, I tried to fix them, dated for 2 months, things went great, popped the question of getting back together,then 3 weeks later she tells me she just doesn't feel it for me anymore.. and wants to be just friends. I'm not over her so I've again initiated NC, this time I intend for longer until I can handle just being friends. I'm not sure if I should move on like her or try it all over again. It sure is depressing though, knowing likely she is gone for good this time :(. I thought she was the love of my life. I've got your newsletter recently. What is your advice? Thanks Hi Scott!
Didn’t know whether to post here or on forum, after I read you’d be posting more in your blog, and then here forum..
Anyway I was just wondering if it is truly time to give up. I got MoMU, did 30 days NC, improved myself, reconnected, talked about our problems, I tried to fix them, dated for 2 months, things went great, popped the question of getting back together,then 3 weeks later she tells me she just doesn’t feel it for me anymore.. and wants to be just friends. I’m not over her so I’ve again initiated NC, this time I intend for longer until I can handle just being friends. I’m not sure if I should move on like her or try it all over again. It sure is depressing though, knowing likely she is gone for good this time :( . I thought she was the love of my life. I’ve got your newsletter recently. What is your advice? Thanks

]]> By: S. Williams http://blog.howtogetyourexbackfast.com/should-i-give-up-on-getting-my-ex-back/#comment-762 S. Williams Mon, 11 May 2009 12:31:27 +0000 http://blog.howtogetyourexbackfast.com/?p=483#comment-762 <b>mary</b> wrote: <blockquote>hi scott,just thought that i needed some advice from you.</blockquote> I also answer questions in the forum, in fact I am going to answer them more in the forum then on the Blog now that the forum is open for business. The comment box will now be used to ask for clarification about what was said in the the article above it. Why don't you go post your break up story in the forum titled heart break hotel, then ask your question in the appropriate forum after that...OK? I think it will be way easier for people to find the answers they are looking for in the forum, opposed to searching through the 100's of comments on the Blog. Use the blog to read articles, comments, pages, and to watch the videos. If you want to use your own picture, or image just check the "Sign me up for a free Gravatar!" box below and follow the instructions. See you in the forum! :) mary wrote:

hi scott,just thought that i needed some advice from you.

I also answer questions in the forum, in fact I am going to answer them more in the forum then on the Blog now that the forum is open for business.

The comment box will now be used to ask for clarification about what was said in the the article above it.

Why don’t you go post your break up story in the forum titled heart break hotel, then ask your question in the appropriate forum after that…OK?

I think it will be way easier for people to find the answers they are looking for in the forum, opposed to searching through the 100′s of comments on the Blog.

Use the blog to read articles, comments, pages, and to watch the videos.

If you want to use your own picture, or image just check the “Sign me up for a free Gravatar!” box below and follow the instructions.

See you in the forum! :)

]]> By: mary http://blog.howtogetyourexbackfast.com/should-i-give-up-on-getting-my-ex-back/#comment-760 mary Mon, 11 May 2009 01:15:52 +0000 http://blog.howtogetyourexbackfast.com/?p=483#comment-760 hi scott,just thought that i needed some advice from you. I have been using the NC rule and it has really helped alot, i have really got my head around alot of issues with my ex.what a want to do is have contact with him but he lives in another country so i can only email him or text.I did have contact in March 09 and he was very kind but there has been no contact since.I have said some really hurtful things to him and don't blame him for not wanting to contact me.He was no saint either...do you think i should send him the clean slate method or just hang in there with NC. thanks hi scott,just thought that i needed some advice from you. I have been using the NC rule and it has really helped alot, i have really got my head around alot of issues with my ex.what a want to do is have contact with him but he lives in another country so i can only email him or text.I did have contact in March 09 and he was very kind but there has been no contact since.I have said some really hurtful things to him and don’t blame him for not wanting to contact me.He was no saint either…do you think i should send him the clean slate method or just hang in there with NC. thanks

]]> By: S. Williams http://blog.howtogetyourexbackfast.com/should-i-give-up-on-getting-my-ex-back/#comment-759 S. Williams Sun, 10 May 2009 20:57:17 +0000 http://blog.howtogetyourexbackfast.com/?p=483#comment-759 <b>Becky</b> wrote: <blockquote>Plan? Yes, I’ve been using the Magic of Making Up.</blockquote> Hard to keep track with all the people who email me, and ask me questions on the Blog and in the forum. <b>Becky</b> wrote: <blockquote>My ex lives 3,000 miles away, and I thought trying to reconnect by email would be less abrasive then calling him, since there is a three hour time difference between us.</blockquote> Your best chance to reconnect is when you can meet face to face. I would stop sending emails and work on a plan to get to where he is. Have you joined the forum? I want to people to join and participate. If you don't want to help and support other people, then I can't help you either. I am only one person that means you people have to start helping each other...period. That is why I worked all week to set up the new forum...go use it. Becky wrote:

Plan? Yes, I’ve been using the Magic of Making Up.

Hard to keep track with all the people who email me, and ask me questions on the Blog and in the forum.

Becky wrote:

My ex lives 3,000 miles away, and I thought trying to reconnect by email would be less abrasive then calling him, since there is a three hour time difference between us.

Your best chance to reconnect is when you can meet face to face.

I would stop sending emails and work on a plan to get to where he is.

Have you joined the forum?

I want to people to join and participate.

If you don’t want to help and support other people, then I can’t help you either.

I am only one person that means you people have to start helping each other…period.

That is why I worked all week to set up the new forum…go use it.

]]> By: Becky http://blog.howtogetyourexbackfast.com/should-i-give-up-on-getting-my-ex-back/#comment-758 Becky Sun, 10 May 2009 20:39:29 +0000 http://blog.howtogetyourexbackfast.com/?p=483#comment-758 Plan? Yes, I've been using the Magic of Making Up. My ex lives 3,000 miles away, and I thought trying to reconnect by email would be less abrasive then calling him, since there is a three hour time difference between us. Plan? Yes, I’ve been using the Magic of Making Up. My ex lives 3,000 miles away, and I thought trying to reconnect by email would be less abrasive then calling him, since there is a three hour time difference between us.

]]> By: S. Williams http://blog.howtogetyourexbackfast.com/should-i-give-up-on-getting-my-ex-back/#comment-757 S. Williams Sun, 10 May 2009 20:37:20 +0000 http://blog.howtogetyourexbackfast.com/?p=483#comment-757 <b>Becky</b> wrote: <blockquote>Also, I had a really cool dream this morning. Somehow, I was in the presence of my ex, and we were talking about random stuff - nothing intense. Then all of a sudden, he leaned in to kiss me. It was awesome, but what was really cool, was that I could feel the kiss in my dream, and even after I woke up.</blockquote> Take that as a sign of hope, and get serious about using a plan to get him back. Becky wrote:

Also, I had a really cool dream this morning. Somehow, I was in the presence of my ex, and we were talking about random stuff – nothing intense. Then all of a sudden, he leaned in to kiss me. It was awesome, but what was really cool, was that I could feel the kiss in my dream, and even after I woke up.

Take that as a sign of hope, and get serious about using a plan to get him back.

]]> By: Becky http://blog.howtogetyourexbackfast.com/should-i-give-up-on-getting-my-ex-back/#comment-755 Becky Sun, 10 May 2009 20:34:35 +0000 http://blog.howtogetyourexbackfast.com/?p=483#comment-755 Oh, I forgot to add something. I'm wondering if he could possibly be annoyed with me for not staying in contact with him for 36 straight days. You mentioned to Amber that she should use the plan for reconnecting once NC gets their attention. Was I premature in contacting him the first time, because there was no indication that NC was making a difference as far as he was concerned. Also, I had a really cool dream this morning. Somehow, I was in the presence of my ex, and we were talking about random stuff - nothing intense. Then all of a sudden, he leaned in to kiss me. It was awesome, but what was really cool, was that I could feel the kiss in my dream, and even after I woke up. Oh, I forgot to add something. I’m wondering if he could possibly be annoyed with me for not staying in contact with him for 36 straight days. You mentioned to Amber that she should use the plan for reconnecting once NC gets their attention. Was I premature in contacting him the first time, because there was no indication that NC was making a difference as far as he was concerned.

Also, I had a really cool dream this morning. Somehow, I was in the presence of my ex, and we were talking about random stuff – nothing intense. Then all of a sudden, he leaned in to kiss me. It was awesome, but what was really cool, was that I could feel the kiss in my dream, and even after I woke up.

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