Should I Give Up On Getting My Ex Back?

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You feel like you’ve done everything you can, and now you’re wondering if it’s truly over. Your friends, and family say it’s time to quit, but what about you? Is it time to move on and forget your ex? Should I give up on getting my ex back?

Things to Consider First

Before you throw in the towel and give up completely, you should ask yourself a couple questions. Number one are you doing this out of anger, or depression, or both? You never want to make any decisions when your mind is clouded, and your emotions are out of balance. I am sure you will live to regret those decisions.

Get your feelings straightened out before you send that fatal email that you are done with him/her, and never want to get back together again…understand? It is not going to make things easier for you when you come to your senses, and wish to take all that back. Do not give up on getting my ex back until you have had enough time to release your feelings of anger, or hopelessness.

Do Not Give Up On Getting My Ex Back Without A Fight

What Would Abe Say?

If you asked Abe Lincoln when he should’ve given up on being president, he would have told you never, and it paid off for him, right? Giving up is a personal choice, but before you do something like that make sure that you are truthful with yourself about why you’re giving up. Winning back your ex requires some hard work, and emotional control. Did you give it everything you could before giving up on getting my ex back? I agree with Abe, you should never give up on something you really want.

If you want to learn more about getting your ex back, then do not give up and join my free newsletter. I will keep you motivated and strong until you succeed. When should you give up on getting my ex back? At least not until you let me help you do it right. After visiting Start Here First, if you have any comments or questions for me, please write them in the comment box below, and I will answer them ASAP!

Who Am I and Why Should You Listen to Me?

My name is S. Williams, and I have been helping people since 2008 to overcome break up pain, and get their lives back. I even have an “About” section that I recommend you read. I know the name of my site is: How to Get Your Ex Back Fast, but I teach people how to get their lives back, not their ex’s.

If you’re interested in working with me (and our forum members) to get your life back, join my free newsletter for access to the free plan to get your ex back fast, and start getting your life back today. The answers you need to start your personal evolution are waiting for you, don’t hesitate another minute…come and get them.

Once you get your life back, everything else will just start to fall into place…I promise. If you have any comments or questions please write them in the comment box below.

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S. Williams

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39 Responses to “Should I Give Up On Getting My Ex Back?”

  1. Evon says:

    Hi Scott,

    as quoted from the entry: “Giving up is a personal choice, but before you do something like that make sure that you are truthful with yourself about why you’re giving up… I agree with Abe, you should never give up on something you really want.”

    But what if the situation is against you? You cant force love from someone who had already moved on, am i right? I mean since the ball is in their court, there’s really nothing else we can do, its up to them to deem us another chance? Otherwise how will we be able to know when to put these to a stop eventually? Or rather what are the indications to show that he wants it out because he is happier and has moved on with his new life?

    Thanks for your time Scott! I need some understanding from men’s point of views on this issue.

    regards
    Evon

  2. S. Williams says:

    Evon wrote:

    You cant force love from someone who had already moved on, am i right?

    You can’t “force love” from anyone.

    It’s not about making someone love you, it’s about choosing what you want to do, and then do it.

    If you sit around thinking about all the reasons it won’t work, what good does that do you?

    Abe was self taught he saw something he wanted and he went after it.

    The idea is to go for it, and maybe along the way another door will open, if the one your after is closed.

    Life is a journey not a destination, but if you are too afraid of the destination, you”ll talk yourself out of the journey…and where does that leave you?

    Evon wrote:

    I need some understanding from men’s point of views on this issue.

    Evon, not all men think alike.

    My point of view could be exactly the opposite of your ex boyfriends.

    I hope this helped.

    Take Care,

    S. Williams

  3. Lauren says:

    My exboyfriend is still making me believe that he has interest in me but tells me to give him some space. I don’t even talk to him mind my own business but he has insisted on signaling me to talk a few times. It seems he wants to talk to me but does not know how or what to talk to me about so at the end of the conversation he says Please give me some space. My reply, I only came for my class paper since he is my Teaching Assistant. His body language changed after he saw me Friday night at a club with a guy. It is him wanting to talk to me and putting himself out there. What should I think, does he want to try or am I just kidding myself?

  4. S. Williams says:

    Lauren wrote:

    His body language changed after he saw me Friday night at a club with a guy. It is him wanting to talk to me and putting himself out there. What should I think, does he want to try or am I just kidding myself?

    I don’t know if I can tell you “what to think”?

    But, if the signs indicate that he is willing to come back, it would be a great time to get yourself a plan.

    Using no contact, and following a good plan like the one in The Magic Of Making Up, will give you the “tools” to investigate his intentions further.

    I don’t think your kidding yourself, you just need to make a decision.

    Do you want him back or not?

    If so, get yourself the tools to do it…OK?

    Take Care,

    S. Williams

  5. Mary says:

    More questions…lol I’m about 10 days into the no contact and my mind is running wild with questions. I’m wondering if this guy would be willing to come back if his friends and family really think he shouldn’t be with me. He’s the type of person who looks to others to make his decision when he doesn’t know what to do. Once we broke up and I did the begging and pleading he did tell me that his friends and family don’t like me and my bad attitude and that he has to constantly fight them to be with me and he doesn’t want to do that anymore. I don’t recall the book speaking on the subject of friends and family.

  6. S. Williams says:

    Mary wrote:

    He’s the type of person who looks to others to make his decision when he doesn’t know what to do. Once we broke up and I did the begging and pleading he did tell me that his friends and family don’t like me and my bad attitude and that he has to constantly fight them to be with me and he doesn’t want to do that anymore.

    Hi,

    I have a question for you Mary…

    Do you want a man that values his friends and family more than his girlfriend?

    Think about it.

    Take Care,

    S. Williams

  7. Mary says:

    To be honest Scott, I probably shouldn’t but the truth is I do want him.

  8. S. Williams says:

    Mary wrote:

    To be honest Scott, I probably shouldn’t but the truth is I do want him.

    Then I guess you will have to deal with “his problem” about looking to his friends, and family before looking into his own heart on how to handle his love life.

    Take Care,

    S. Williams

  9. Mary says:

    I feel like his problems can be worked out. Maybe that’s because I want him back so bad right now. It’s not so much that he actually takes the advice that they give but the fact that there’s conflict when he decides yes, he does want to be with me. They fight him on it. He doesn’t want to have to fight them in order to be with me. Scott, I’m just being honest with myself right now. I’m confused. I do feel like I truly love him and I do want this relationship to work. I’m willing to continue on the plan. I have nothing to lose at this point. Maybe this is a lost cause. I don’t know.

  10. S. Williams says:

    Mary wrote:

    I have nothing to lose at this point. Maybe this is a lost cause. I don’t know.

    That’s right you don’t!

    But, if mentally you focus on the negative aspects of what you’re doing instead of a positive outcome, which one do you think you will get?

    Erase all those negative thoughts, and focus on sticking with the plan, because you believe with all your heart that you can, and will make things work between you two…OK?

    There have been stories of people healing themselves with strong belief that they could, I believe it…do you?

    The problem with mankind is that we “think” we know it all, but that is exactly where we prove our ignorance, with that one statement right there…no one “knows it all”. ;)

    I say give it your best shot, and don’t worry about what obstacles stand in your way…

    go for it! :)

    Take Care,

    S. Williams

  11. chris says:

    i feel like giving up hope. since her friend has been sending my messages. its getting annoying and private phone calls that started this week are quite bothersome.

  12. chris says:

    although i love her. more then anything else in the world. im starting to feel that she is never going to miss me no matter what.

  13. S. Williams says:

    chris wrote:

    although i love her. more then anything else in the world. im starting to feel that she is never going to miss me no matter what.

    This where a smart person would start to fight back.

    Instead of giving up get some help, visit my section entitled “Win Ex Back With Emotional Control”.

    If you want to give up then give up, but don’t keep saying you “love her more than anything else in the world”, prove it by fighting for her.

    Take Care,

    S. Williams

  14. lo says:

    My ex and I were having alot of problems and he finally decided to call it quits. He says he needs his space for now but when things calm down for him we will probably work things out and get back together. Normally i would be somewhat fine with this but he has started being mean to me all the time for no reason, and hanging out with his old friends (who are trashy, drug addicts, etc.) He called my phone and pretended like he did it by accident and they were in the background talking badly about me and then he said he was too good for me anyway and hung up. I dont understand i have done everything for him and i truly do love him. I understand that he is extremely busy right now but he doesnt get that he cant ignore or treat me like dirt and expect me to still be there. I broke up with him a month ago over an incident where he completely humiliated me in front of all our friends and many others. Now he is acting like he completely doesnt need me and doesnt want anything to do with me. I dont have many friends because it seems that every friend i have either steals from me or has sex with my boyfriends ( never this one) I have been trying to do the no contact rule but i feel so lonely and empty. We were together so long he was my best friend. I hope i can get him back but i dont know what else i can do. I have seen the amazing advice you have given others on here and i would really like your input and hope you can help me

    thank you so much

  15. S. Williams says:

    lo wrote:

    Normally i would be somewhat fine with this but he has started being mean to me all the time for no reason, and hanging out with his old friends (who are trashy, drug addicts, etc.) He called my phone and pretended like he did it by accident and they were in the background talking badly about me and then he said he was too good for me anyway and hung up.

    He should’ve never went back to his old friends drug addicts only care about one thing…getting high.

    As long as he is with them expect things to get worst.

    lo wrote:

    I understand that he is extremely busy right now but he doesnt get that he cant ignore or treat me like dirt and expect me to still be there.

    He isn’t that busy if he has time to make prank calls to humiliate you…right?

    lo wrote:

    I broke up with him a month ago over an incident where he completely humiliated me in front of all our friends and many others.

    Did you tell him why you broke up by initiating no contact?

    lo wrote:

    I have been trying to do the no contact rule but i feel so lonely and empty. We were together so long he was my best friend. I hope i can get him back but i dont know what else i can do.

    You can’t make him come back, but you can attract him back using NC correctly.

    lo wrote:

    I have seen the amazing advice you have given others on here and i would really like your input and hope you can help me

    My advice to you would be to get a book to explain how relationships work, and give you an outline for a plan to use NC correctly.

    I recommend The Magic of Making up

    All my advice revolves around the philosophy in this book.

  16. Amber says:

    My boyfriend of 3 months suddenly fell of the surface of the planet when he came back from vacation and I am not sure what to do. He went for Vacation in Mid January for two weeks. A week after returning I hadn’t heared from him so I was wondering what could be. While he was away i realised i hadn’t really expressed my feelings for him. The reason being is that I didn’t want to say anything that might scare him away so thats why I kept feelings to myself.

    We were having a great time together, he had a strong connection and he joked a few times about our future kids thats how i knew he was serious about me. Of all the guys I have been with. He’s the first one that I feel so strongly about and thats why I decided to take action and not letting him go. I don’t know what to do. however, I don’t want to do the wrong thing.

    I have kind of messed up a little already because since I wasn’t hearing from when he came back from vacation, I decided to go look for him at work because i was itching to tell him how i truly felt about him. He’s a cop and works the night shift so I wanted to go look for him to talk. I went to see he (he wasn’t happy about it, he told me showing up wasn;t cool). We didn’t get to talk since they got a call that an incident had happened so they had to rush. He promised to call, but he didn’t get a chance to so he text to let me know, they were still at the scene. I text him two days later to let him know that i was itiching to talk to him that why i came and i know i was a bit in the wrong to do that. I eventually text him what i wanted to tell him that night. I didn’t get any response from him, so I called him two weeks later to speak to him and we got a chance to chat for maybe 5min because he got a call and promised to call, but he didn’t call. This all happened in February.

    In March I tried reaching him because i was moving into another apartment so while packing I remembered that he had taken my clothes from my house by accident so I wanted him to bring them to me. He ignored me so after I moved I sent him another text to let me know that I miss and I am not enjoying the time apart. Also I am confused because He just dropped of the surface of the planet. He called the next day, but I missed his call. So i returned his phone call the next day and till today no response. (Between February and March I have tried reaching him 8 times which includes text and phone calls). I have not been successful. I decided that as much as I adore him i needed to keep my dignity so as of 1st april i decided to use the NO contact rule. I text him one last time in March and told him I miss him and he means alot hence the persistence to know whats happening. Whether its something troubling him or if I did something wrong he should give me the chance to apologise. I still haven’t gotten my clothes, which I figured I won’t be getting anytime soon, since he’s ignoring me, and he hasn’t returned any of my phone calls or text messsages.

    A little gaff happened on new year’s day on my part but i don’t know if it has something to do with his dissapperance. My ex-boyfriend whom I was with for 5yrs called and I panicked while my current boyfriend was there so i took the phone call in my room, when he asked who it was on the phone I lied, but i told him the truth later on that day. I made sure to explain that my ex and I are done with even though we were together 5yrs……please help. This is a guy that I adore and ever felt a strong connection with thats why I don’t want to give up hope. Off course I keep myself busy so I don’t have to mope around but I really miss, usually when my exes break up with I simply move, including my ex that I broke up with. With this guy i feel different about him and I don’t know what to do get him back!!!

  17. S. Williams says:

    Amber wrote:

    With this guy i feel different about him and I don’t know what to do get him back!!!

    The first thing you should do is get a plan, do you have one?

    Go to my FAQ’s section and read about how to properly initiate no contact.

    Just getting pissed off and ignoring them is NOT using NC.

    Read ALL of my Blog it is free and it has many comments and sections that will help you until you get a book…OK?

    Amber wrote:

    This is a guy that I adore and ever felt a strong connection with thats why I don’t want to give up hope.

    I am little confused here Amber you felt this “great” connection , and then you friggen lied to him?

    Oh the running into the other room was a great idea too, why didn’t you just tie a noose around your neck?

    Listen stop contacting your ex until you initiate NC correctly, then get a book with a plan for using NC and start reading it.

    Amber wrote:

    I text him one last time in March and told him I miss him and he means alot hence the persistence to know whats happening. Whether its something troubling him or if I did something wrong he should give me the chance to apologise.

    Just for the record this is NOT how to initiate no contact, that falls more into the begging category which never works.

  18. Amber says:

    @ S. Williams:
    I thought stopping contact was initiating No Contact Rule to begin with. Also yes I did lie because I panicked, but I told him the truth that same day. I wanted to know if that might have an effect on why he suddenly fell of the surface of the planet. I stopped contacting him a month ago so I can initiate NO Contact rule, and begin to focus on myself and do other things to distract me as well. I didn’t get pissed and ignored, I just decided to crowd his space. I figured by giving him his space he would probably come around when he feels he’s had enough time to himself to think.

  19. Amber says:

    @ Amber:
    I just decided to stop crowding his space (Correction from previous quote)

  20. Becky says:

    Hi Scott,

    Just out of curiosity, when we reach out to our exes in an effort to “reconnect” with them, will they typically let us know if they’re seriously involved with someone?

    I was thinking about those who have tried to reconnect with their exes after at least 30 days of NC, and haven’t received a response back. I know that if I was involved with someone else, and especially if I was in love with them and my ex re-established contact, I’d want to let them know “gently” that I was in a happy relationship with someone, and wish them the best. It would be goodbye for me and I’d let them know, so hopefully they would avoid contacting me again.

    Can you shed any light on this?

    Thanks!

  21. S. Williams says:

    Amber wrote:

    I stopped contacting him a month ago so I can initiate NO Contact rule, and begin to focus on myself and do other things to distract me as well.

    Has he tried to contact you at all?

    If he does then that would a great time to initiate NC.

    It is kind of weird to send him a letter after this long, but you didn’t know how to do it…so go for it.

    Write him a letter telling him that you’re going to take some time to think about where your life is going and make some personal decisions, and if he contacts you and you don’t reply it’s because you’re not ready to talk yet.

    Don’t use all my words but the general idea…OK?

    I mean what the heck can you do if you didn’t know what to do?

    We have to tweak the the plan a little that’s all.

    If he contacts you in anyway after that don’t respond.

  22. S. Williams says:

    Becky wrote:

    Just out of curiosity, when we reach out to our exes in an effort to “reconnect” with them, will they typically let us know if they’re seriously involved with someone?

    Curiosity killed the cat ;)

    I would think that they would tell you unless they were some kind of idiot.

  23. Amber says:

    @ S. Williams: It is kind of weired to write a letter now. its been a month and half since I initiated No Contact so I don’t want to mess it up. Also he hasn’t tried to contact me yet so I am just staying cool, calm, positive and not panicking. I asked you the probable reason why he may have fallen of the surface of the planet but you didn’t answer. Could you please answer me that. Also is there anything else I can do to get him to start coming around besides using No Contact?, or just continue being patient is my best bet? Please answer my questions in the same order. Thanks

  24. S. Williams says:

    Amber wrote:

    I asked you the probable reason why he may have fallen of the surface of the planet but you didn’t answer. Could you please answer me that

    What makes you think I would know the answer to that?

    Plus what does that have to do with following a plan to get your ex back?

    Are you looking for a reason to give up?

    I am here to offer support as you use a plan, not to be a friggen fortune teller.

    Try asking a Psychic

    Amber wrote:

    Also is there anything else I can do to get him to start coming around besides using No Contact?

    You can’t make anyone do anything they don’t want to, unless you have a gun, or you black mail them.

    No contact helps put you back on their mind, but it doesn’t “make” them come back.

    You would follow the rest of the plan in the magic of making up to reconnect once NC gets their attention.

    Have you joined the forum yet?

    Why not do that right away and go get some support from people who are in the same boat as you.

  25. Becky says:

    @ S. Williams:
    I sent my ex another short e-mail, about 4 days after his reply to my first one. I wrote, “I was having lunch at the ________ yesterday, and I thought of you when I saw a ___________ blowing its __________ coming down the middle of the street; I’d never seen anything like that in my life.” Then I asked him a couple more questions about work. Sadly though, he has yet to respond. Not sure what to do at this point….

  26. S. Williams says:

    Becky wrote:

    I sent my ex another short e-mail, about 4 days after his reply to my first one. I wrote, “I was having lunch at the ________ yesterday, and I thought of you when I saw a ___________ blowing its __________ coming down the middle of the street; I’d never seen anything like that in my life.”

    Are you following any kind of plan?

    I don’t know anywhere on my Blog or in the book where it tells you to send emails asking questions as part of reconnecting after successfully using NC.

    Go join the forum and get some support from your fellow peers.

  27. Becky says:

    Oh, I forgot to add something. I’m wondering if he could possibly be annoyed with me for not staying in contact with him for 36 straight days. You mentioned to Amber that she should use the plan for reconnecting once NC gets their attention. Was I premature in contacting him the first time, because there was no indication that NC was making a difference as far as he was concerned.

    Also, I had a really cool dream this morning. Somehow, I was in the presence of my ex, and we were talking about random stuff – nothing intense. Then all of a sudden, he leaned in to kiss me. It was awesome, but what was really cool, was that I could feel the kiss in my dream, and even after I woke up.

  28. S. Williams says:

    Becky wrote:

    Also, I had a really cool dream this morning. Somehow, I was in the presence of my ex, and we were talking about random stuff – nothing intense. Then all of a sudden, he leaned in to kiss me. It was awesome, but what was really cool, was that I could feel the kiss in my dream, and even after I woke up.

    Take that as a sign of hope, and get serious about using a plan to get him back.

  29. Becky says:

    Plan? Yes, I’ve been using the Magic of Making Up. My ex lives 3,000 miles away, and I thought trying to reconnect by email would be less abrasive then calling him, since there is a three hour time difference between us.

  30. S. Williams says:

    Becky wrote:

    Plan? Yes, I’ve been using the Magic of Making Up.

    Hard to keep track with all the people who email me, and ask me questions on the Blog and in the forum.

    Becky wrote:

    My ex lives 3,000 miles away, and I thought trying to reconnect by email would be less abrasive then calling him, since there is a three hour time difference between us.

    Your best chance to reconnect is when you can meet face to face.

    I would stop sending emails and work on a plan to get to where he is.

    Have you joined the forum?

    I want to people to join and participate.

    If you don’t want to help and support other people, then I can’t help you either.

    I am only one person that means you people have to start helping each other…period.

    That is why I worked all week to set up the new forum…go use it.

  31. mary says:

    hi scott,just thought that i needed some advice from you. I have been using the NC rule and it has really helped alot, i have really got my head around alot of issues with my ex.what a want to do is have contact with him but he lives in another country so i can only email him or text.I did have contact in March 09 and he was very kind but there has been no contact since.I have said some really hurtful things to him and don’t blame him for not wanting to contact me.He was no saint either…do you think i should send him the clean slate method or just hang in there with NC. thanks

  32. S. Williams says:

    mary wrote:

    hi scott,just thought that i needed some advice from you.

    I also answer questions in the forum, in fact I am going to answer them more in the forum then on the Blog now that the forum is open for business.

    The comment box will now be used to ask for clarification about what was said in the the article above it.

    Why don’t you go post your break up story in the forum titled heart break hotel, then ask your question in the appropriate forum after that…OK?

    I think it will be way easier for people to find the answers they are looking for in the forum, opposed to searching through the 100′s of comments on the Blog.

    Use the blog to read articles, comments, pages, and to watch the videos.

    If you want to use your own picture, or image just check the “Sign me up for a free Gravatar!” box below and follow the instructions.

    See you in the forum! :)

  33. Ben says:

    Hi Scott!
    Didn’t know whether to post here or on forum, after I read you’d be posting more in your blog, and then here forum..
    Anyway I was just wondering if it is truly time to give up. I got MoMU, did 30 days NC, improved myself, reconnected, talked about our problems, I tried to fix them, dated for 2 months, things went great, popped the question of getting back together,then 3 weeks later she tells me she just doesn’t feel it for me anymore.. and wants to be just friends. I’m not over her so I’ve again initiated NC, this time I intend for longer until I can handle just being friends. I’m not sure if I should move on like her or try it all over again. It sure is depressing though, knowing likely she is gone for good this time :(. I thought she was the love of my life. I’ve got your newsletter recently. What is your advice? Thanks

  34. S. Williams says:

    Ben wrote:

    Hi Scott!
    Didn’t know whether to post here or on forum, after I read you’d be posting more in your blog, and then here forum..

    Ben, I think you have it backwards.

    I am not answering questions on my Blog anymore I want people to join and post their break up story first in heart break hotel (so the other members will know a little background about your breakup) and then go and post your questions in the appropriate forums.

    You can either start a new topic or use the existing one that is already started in the heart break hotel.

    The forum is much better because other members will help you, and the forum is much easier to search for information.

    I was only using the blog until I had a place like the forum.

    Anyone who does not join and participate is CRAZY this is the best free tool out there.

    There are other members just waiting to help you, and I am in there as well.

    Come on in…we are waiting to help you get your ex back. :)

  35. Lovely says:

    Basically, after 3 years of living with B (who is not quite my ex but we are in (limbo) I moved him in my apartment in NYC after about 2 weeks of knowing each other. I had completed my bachelors degree and began to think about the fact that he hadnt had a job the entire time we were living in together. However, he was faithful, loyal and committed to me n my flea market accessories sales biz and he always took care of my son Elijah. But of course my head got BIG and I thought I was to good for him and began to make plans to move down here to FL which originally he was part of the plan but I ended up moving without him and realized 2 weeks later that it was the biggest mistake of my life. Buck always showed he loved me he did want to move but I told him he couldnt because he didnt have a job. It seems so senseless now and im crying. I moved here September 30 he visited once in February and I went through his phone and I saw numerous texts messages with various females. Now the one that only had eyes for me is emotionally gone. He was supposed to come for my Bday in March and canceled (I paid for the trip) I rescheduled for April he canceled again. He says he loves me but doesnt know when he will be able to move here. He was also in an accident recently but the insurance company says that he can move and still be covered but his excuse is he needs to save money b4 he moves down. The thng is I dont think he wants to move down here anymore. So as of Thursday night I havent called him. I just sent him the no contact message but im scared bc we have not ever gone more that 1 day without speaking and he hasnt tried to contact me. I feel bad bc when i had him i was so mean and called him names and he lost both of his grandparents while we were together so now I feel guilty please help Scott…Im 30 he will be 24

  36. S. Williams says:

    Lovely wrote:

    I feel bad bc when i had him i was so mean and called him names and he lost both of his grandparents while we were together so now I feel guilty please help Scott

    Hi,

    You can’t change the past, but you can shape the future.

    Go read the free plan, and follow ALL the steps…focus on shaping the future.

    Take Care,

    S.W.

  37. cody simons says:

    my girlfriend of 2+ years broke up w/me 2 yweeks ago. we were each others first love, first everything! we live in the same hometown about 4 minutes apart. im in college but its only 45 minutes away, and shes still a junior in high school.
    there were several instances during our relationship where i did stupid things that hurt her. i texted a girl i used to like, only talked, nothing more, i also called a girl sexy through text to my friend and she read it. the last thing i did was not tell her happy birthday more than 2x. i only said it via text once. i know it was dumb..
    a week later she textx me an says im done.. i ope we can be friends. i begged her that i could do better. that we were both getting used to me going to college. that next semester i will have plenty more time for her. i promised her i would never hurt her again. she wasnt buying it.
    she 1st went from: being mad and upset tht she has to do this, to asking me if i was talking to girls, to finally saying this is what she wants and i need o move on, and focus on school work and friends.

  38. cody simons says:

    i kept begging her via text for almost a week after the break up.. i called her once and meet uo w/her once. the results were the same, she wanted to stay apart and she wanted me to leave her alone/give her space. we stopped talking for almost 3 whole days. i couldent take it and i talked to her. i just told her i missed her and stuff, she said she was really sorry for hurting me. and that sometimes she still thinks of me. but she tells me to think of other things, not her, dont worry about her.
    im finding it verrrrry hard to let go of all we had, while it seems very easy to her.. i cant imagine doing/being with someone else. i ask how she doesnt feel that way. she says she doesnt think about stuff like that.
    im just curious that if i truely leave her alone shell miss what we had and eventually want me back. i havent really had no contact with her yet, or ever at that. it dont make snese how she could move on so fast.
    id love advice, thank you

    • S. Williams says:

      Hi,

      You need to get your life back as a single person, and stop looking for someone to complete you.

      Go read the free plan on my Blog, and follow ALL the steps.

      You must let go of the past if you ever want to make it to the future.

      Take Care,

      S.W.

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