Comments on: No Contact Rule – 30 Days or a Lifetime? http://blog.howtogetyourexbackfast.com/no-contact-rule-30-days-or-a-lifetime/ Free Plan & Break Up Advice to Get Your Ex Back Fast Wed, 08 Sep 2010 03:44:44 +0000 hourly 1 http://wordpress.org/?v=3.0.1 By: Katty http://blog.howtogetyourexbackfast.com/no-contact-rule-30-days-or-a-lifetime/#comment-5434 Katty Thu, 15 Jul 2010 19:02:18 +0000 http://blog.howtogetyourexbackfast.com/?p=87#comment-5434 Thank you! Take care, Katty Thank you!
Take care,
Katty

]]> By: S. Williams http://blog.howtogetyourexbackfast.com/no-contact-rule-30-days-or-a-lifetime/#comment-5433 S. Williams Thu, 15 Jul 2010 18:59:17 +0000 http://blog.howtogetyourexbackfast.com/?p=87#comment-5433 Yes, the recommended NC message is the only way to properly initiate no contact. Yes, the recommended NC message is the only way to properly initiate no contact.

]]> By: Katty http://blog.howtogetyourexbackfast.com/no-contact-rule-30-days-or-a-lifetime/#comment-5432 Katty Thu, 15 Jul 2010 18:54:54 +0000 http://blog.howtogetyourexbackfast.com/?p=87#comment-5432 Thank you for reply, Scott. Are you really sure, that sending NC message is a good idea after three months of silence? Thank you for reply, Scott.
Are you really sure, that sending NC message is a good idea after three months of silence?

]]> By: S. Williams http://blog.howtogetyourexbackfast.com/no-contact-rule-30-days-or-a-lifetime/#comment-5431 S. Williams Thu, 15 Jul 2010 18:30:35 +0000 http://blog.howtogetyourexbackfast.com/?p=87#comment-5431 Hi, I think you should go read the free plan on my Blog, and follow ALL the steps. If you're really serious about your personal evolution you will start it right by sending the recommended NC message (word for word)...it is a requirement to become a forum member, everyone has to do it. Take Care, S.W. Hi,

I think you should go read the free plan on my Blog, and follow ALL the steps.

If you’re really serious about your personal evolution you will start it right by sending the recommended NC message (word for word)…it is a requirement to become a forum member, everyone has to do it.

Take Care,

S.W.

]]> By: Katty http://blog.howtogetyourexbackfast.com/no-contact-rule-30-days-or-a-lifetime/#comment-5430 Katty Thu, 15 Jul 2010 17:53:14 +0000 http://blog.howtogetyourexbackfast.com/?p=87#comment-5430 Hi Scott, First I must say, that this is a really great place for people who are looking for help. Thanks for creating it! I have this problem: My BF (of six months) broke up with me three months ago. I didn't sent him NC message, because I didn't know I should do it. But I haven't contacted him since the breakup (my pride has helped me with that). But I have met him few times because of our common friends and I tried to behave "neutrally friendly". I will be living abroad for half a year and only then do I plan to reconnect with him. (Do you think I have a chance to succeed or will it be too late to reconnect? I hope, that I will have more time to change and evolve, but who knows...) The biggest problem right now for me is my personal evolution - I am working on changes (my attitude and appearance), but I am still thinking too far ahead (planning the reconnection) and not concentrating on the present. I really feel lost and it seems impossible to let go... (and I am worried, that he will find someone else by the time I get back or that the reconnection will not be possible...) Do you have any idea what I should do? Would you allow me to become a member of your forum even thought I haven't send an NC message? I would really like to... Katty Hi Scott,

First I must say, that this is a really great place for people who are looking for help. Thanks for creating it!

I have this problem:
My BF (of six months) broke up with me three months ago. I didn’t sent him NC message, because I didn’t know I should do it. But I haven’t contacted him since the breakup (my pride has helped me with that). But I have met him few times because of our common friends and I tried to behave “neutrally friendly”.

I will be living abroad for half a year and only then do I plan to reconnect with him. (Do you think I have a chance to succeed or will it be too late to reconnect? I hope, that I will have more time to change and evolve, but who knows…)

The biggest problem right now for me is my personal evolution – I am working on changes (my attitude and appearance), but I am still thinking too far ahead (planning the reconnection) and not concentrating on the present. I really feel lost and it seems impossible to let go… (and I am worried, that he will find someone else by the time I get back or that the reconnection will not be possible…)

Do you have any idea what I should do?

Would you allow me to become a member of your forum even thought I haven’t send an NC message? I would really like to…

Katty

]]> By: S. Williams http://blog.howtogetyourexbackfast.com/no-contact-rule-30-days-or-a-lifetime/#comment-5425 S. Williams Wed, 14 Jul 2010 15:47:02 +0000 http://blog.howtogetyourexbackfast.com/?p=87#comment-5425 <b><a href="#comment-5424" title="Go to comment of this author" rel="nofollow">steve</a></b> wrote: <blockquote>Under these circumstances, shouldn’t I just build on the two days I already have going and not risk a redundant NC message simply looking like further contact?</blockquote> Hi, You're just afraid to send it. The bottom line is NC works much faster with better results when you follow ALL the steps in the free plan. Don't take my word for it, go read our forum, and the success stories on both my Blog and the forum. Success is waiting for you, if you have "the balls" to follow the plan correctly. 8) Take Care, S.W. steve wrote:

Under these circumstances, shouldn’t I just build on the two days I already have going and not risk a redundant NC message simply looking like further contact?

Hi,

You’re just afraid to send it.

The bottom line is NC works much faster with better results when you follow ALL the steps in the free plan.

Don’t take my word for it, go read our forum, and the success stories on both my Blog and the forum.

Success is waiting for you, if you have “the balls” to follow the plan correctly. 8)

Take Care,

S.W.

]]> By: steve http://blog.howtogetyourexbackfast.com/no-contact-rule-30-days-or-a-lifetime/#comment-5424 steve Wed, 14 Jul 2010 15:35:27 +0000 http://blog.howtogetyourexbackfast.com/?p=87#comment-5424 I know you're adamant about sending a NC message. Here's why I'm hesitant-- It would be redundant. I spoke with my ex gf in person over the weekend and I told her I wasn't going to contact her b/c I was still in love with her and not ready to be friends. Of course this was all before I found your site. She was rather cold, then we ended up hanging out the next night, which resulted in some drama, and she called me the next morning and we both agreed our hanging out isn't healthy right now. So I did contact her more that day, just everyday stuff, but now it has been two days with me not contacting her at all. If I send the NC message, I'm afraid of 2 things--first, it will come off as kind of redundant, and like I'm contacting her yet again to say things we've already been over, and secondly, I don' think she'll buy it--I have been soooo clingy and pleading, over and over, unfand done everything wrong up to this point--to suddenly ask that she not contact me will sound false and almost laughable, and like I'm trying to make a play for something. Under these circumstances, shouldn't I just build on the two days I already have going and not risk a redundant NC message simply looking like further contact? Thanks! I know you’re adamant about sending a NC message. Here’s why I’m hesitant– It would be redundant. I spoke with my ex gf in person over the weekend and I told her I wasn’t going to contact her b/c I was still in love with her and not ready to be friends. Of course this was all before I found your site. She was rather cold, then we ended up hanging out the next night, which resulted in some drama, and she called me the next morning and we both agreed our hanging out isn’t healthy right now. So I did contact her more that day, just everyday stuff, but now it has been two days with me not contacting her at all. If I send the NC message, I’m afraid of 2 things–first, it will come off as kind of redundant, and like I’m contacting her yet again to say things we’ve already been over, and secondly, I don’ think she’ll buy it–I have been soooo clingy and pleading, over and over, unfand done everything wrong up to this point–to suddenly ask that she not contact me will sound false and almost laughable, and like I’m trying to make a play for something. Under these circumstances, shouldn’t I just build on the two days I already have going and not risk a redundant NC message simply looking like further contact?

Thanks!

]]> By: S. Williams http://blog.howtogetyourexbackfast.com/no-contact-rule-30-days-or-a-lifetime/#comment-5416 S. Williams Tue, 13 Jul 2010 19:46:21 +0000 http://blog.howtogetyourexbackfast.com/?p=87#comment-5416 <b><a href="#comment-5409" title="Go to comment of this author" rel="nofollow">Kl</a></b> wrote: <blockquote>How long will it take to get the book “magic of making up” if I am from Malaysia? </blockquote> Hi, The book MOMU is only available online as a download, so if you order it, you should get it immediately. Go read the free plan for more details about the book, and how to use it along with the free plan, OK? Take Care, S.W. Kl wrote:

How long will it take to get the book “magic of making up” if I am from Malaysia?

Hi,

The book MOMU is only available online as a download, so if you order it, you should get it immediately.

Go read the free plan for more details about the book, and how to use it along with the free plan, OK?

Take Care,

S.W.

]]> By: Kl http://blog.howtogetyourexbackfast.com/no-contact-rule-30-days-or-a-lifetime/#comment-5409 Kl Thu, 08 Jul 2010 08:09:17 +0000 http://blog.howtogetyourexbackfast.com/?p=87#comment-5409 How long will it take to get the book "magic of making up" if I am from Malaysia? How long will it take to get the book “magic of making up” if I am from Malaysia?

]]> By: S. Williams http://blog.howtogetyourexbackfast.com/no-contact-rule-30-days-or-a-lifetime/#comment-4655 S. Williams Sat, 10 Apr 2010 15:01:05 +0000 http://blog.howtogetyourexbackfast.com/?p=87#comment-4655 <b><a href="#comment-4654" title="Go to comment of this author" rel="nofollow">arastol</a></b> wrote: <blockquote>but how do i get it if he doesn’t take or return my call in the first place? Should I switch to email?</blockquote> You know him better than I do, use whatever method you think will work, just stick to the plan I just gave you, alright? Take Care, S.W. arastol wrote:

but how do i get it if he doesn’t take or return my call in the first place? Should I switch to email?

You know him better than I do, use whatever method you think will work, just stick to the plan I just gave you, alright?

Take Care,

S.W.

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