Do you really think 30 days is too much to ask, to get your ex back?
You only have 2 choices, really.
Use it for 30 days, or spend the rest of your life, right where you are, now.
The funny thing is that most people choose the second choice…do you?
No Contact Rule – Point 1
When a person moves neither forward or backward, they are just stuck.
This is the kind of “limbo”, the no contact rule can break you out of.
People believe it is better to “play it safe”, then to take control of their situation.
You are sorely mistaken if you think this is the easiest way to go.
In fact, it is much harder than using no contact, to get your ex back.
So, ask yourself; “Why am I doing this?”
No Contact Rule – Point 2
I mentioned, that you might think that using no contact, will be “too hard.”
What exactly is “hard” about it?
I know being away from your ex-boyfriend, girlfriend, husband, or wife is hurting you.
But, you can fix this problem, and, you’ll have to start with yourself.
Because, you’re the one convincing yourself to do nothing, and, put up with the pain.
Since you are already in pain.
Why not use the no contact rule, to end it?
No Contact Rule – Point 3
There is no definitive amount of time, a person must use no contact, to win back an ex.
People seem to think there is.
The basic ground rule is you must use it for at least 30 days.
But, this is just a starting point, in fact, every breakup, will be different.
For instance, if this has been an ongoing problem (break up every other week), as compared to a simple little fight, that just got blown out of portion, each resolution will be different.
The first example will take longer to solve, than, say the little fight, that just went overboard.
But, in both cases, using the techniques in the no contact rule, will bring both couples back together, faster.
So you see, do not focus on the amount of time it will take.
Focus, on a positive outcome, instead.
No Contact Rule – Point 4
Most people do not know, how to correctly use no contact…do you?
If you think it is only about not contacting your ex, you are mistaken.
There is so much more to a good no contact strategy.
The reason people are failing with NC, is, because, either they don’t have a good strategy, or, they refuse to follow a good strategy.
Both cases are a no win situation.
You have to understand one thing, right now.
The chances of your ex, coming back on their own, without you taking some positive action, are very slim, like winning the lottery, very slim.
No Contact Rule – Point 5
Another factor, most people overlook, when using no contact is support.
You need to have someone, whether it is a close friend or relative, to keep you steady, and, on track with your NC strategy.
The trouble here is that most of the time, your friends, and family, will not support your plan.
They become a thorn on your side, instead of, a solid foundation, to steady you.
It’s not their fault really, they think they know what’s best for you, but, in this case, they don’t, you do.
You won’t be able to move on, or, live a happy life, until you know for sure if it’s really over, between you and your ex.
Most people can not do this all by themselves.
That is why, it is wise to find someone, who will help you.
Someone like me. 🙂
If you are emotionally unbalanced you need someone, or, something, to keep you on track.
You need a plan, a plan that works.
If you want to survive this breakup, you’ll need help.
Wouldn’t you rather spend 30 days or more (if necessary), to solve this problem, then, to have to live with it, the rest of your life?
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