Your ex boyfriend broke up with you, and now, he has a new girlfriend.
You are worried that it is forever, and constantly wonder; “How do I get him back now?”, or if it is even possible to get your ex boyfriend back at this point.
No surprise there…but I say you should be focusing on a better question like, should you even consider taking him back again?
Don’t let the confusion of a break up make you naive, take the time to evolve past the failed relationship, before deciding to jump right back in again.
Do You Really Want to Get Him Back ?
You have to ask yourself this very important question: do you really want him back, or do you just hate seeing him with his new girlfriend?
The answer to this question requires some time and thought, and can not be answered quickly…think about it.
Why do you really want your ex back?
I think that 99% of the time people want their ex back because they hate the idea of being rejected.
They hate this idea so much that they are willing to overlook the obvious reasons for the breakup, and just plunge headfirst, right back in again.
That is not love my friends, that is desperation.
Do not make big decisions when you are feeling desperate, you will only regret them later.
Don’t you have enough pain and confusion in your life already?
Can You Get Him Back if This A Rebound Relationship?
Here is another thought that is probably weighing heavily on your mind.
How serious is this new relationship, does he really love her?
Who can say, you thought he really loved you, right?
How did that turn out?
He turns around and changes his mind, and breaks up with you, or he becomes so distant that you break up with him.
It’s the same result no matter who broke up with who, right?
I would be worrying about a definite pattern emerging here, and not about how serious this new relationship really is.
Do you want to give your heart to an untrustworthy man?
This guy has broken your heart before.
Think about it: Do you really want to get him back?
What Would I Do to Get My Ex Back If I Were You?
First off, I would stop worrying, and start planning.
Planning what you ask?
Planning how I am going to kick loves ass and get my life back again.
You see, your situation is not unique, and it is not hopeless.
It only seems that way because you’re feeling desperate.
The first sign that you are desperate is that you are using the word “hopeless”…make sense?
Ahh, the light bulb is flickering on now.
OK, here’s what I think you should do, and what I would do if I were in your shoes.
- Stop trying to contact your ex in any way, and, stop hanging around with him.
- Focus on evolving past the break up, and, moving past the old relationship with your ex boyfriend.
- Avoid talking with your friends about your plan because they just like to meddle, and, will only mess things up for you.
- Find a good plan to follow, specifically one that teaches you how to use the no contact rule correctly.
- Find people who are also going through a break up for support and guidance, this is crucial.
There is no need to feel lost, or desperate.
You will become happy again, even if you don’t get back together with him.
I have seen it happen many times, and, I can help you make it happen too.
All you need to do is make a choice about what you want, and, what you’re willing to do to get it.
And, if it’s what you really want, here’s how to get your ex back.
Who Am I and Why Should You Listen to Me?
My name is S. Williams, and I have been helping people since 2008, to overcome breakup pain, and, get their lives back.
I even have an “About” section, that I recommend you read.
I realize the address, of my site, is: How to Get Your Ex Back Fast, but, I “really” teach people, how to get their lives back, not just their ex’s.
If you’re interested in working with me, (and our forum members) to get your life back, join my free newsletter, for access to the free breakup survival plan, and, start getting your life back, today.
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Once, you get your life back, everything else will just start to fall into place…I promise.
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