Comments on: Is it Ever Too Late to Get My Ex Back Using No Contact?

By: karena

karena — Wed, 29 Dec 2010 19:13:34 +0000

Me and my ex boyfriend broke up Nov30th, he brokeup with me because he felt after 3 years I didnt SHOW I trusted him and I was very jealous, since this was for very first serious relaionship I didnt know what to do, I went to his house the next day, and tried everything I could, I decided on Dec 20th everything I was doing wasnt working, so I told myself to just not talk to him, its been a week and 2 days and he hasnt even messaged me , please tell me what to do! I think i’ve changed and im ready to show him, i love him so much!

By: jon

jon — Mon, 20 Dec 2010 22:04:42 +0000

Well she bailed on me. Turns out she has to work and can’t meet. So should I ask her again to meet up or let her come to me? We only dated a couple months but I miss her dearly…

By: S. Williams

S. Williams — Mon, 20 Dec 2010 13:44:35 +0000

Hi,

Yes, there is a very good reason, to make your ex hungry for another meeting.

Plus, if you move too quickly towards reconciliation you can scare your ex off.

This is all explained in the free plan, and by following all the links in the free plan, and reading the articles.

Take Care,

S.W.

By: jon

jon — Sun, 19 Dec 2010 23:17:24 +0000

I am meeting with her after 7 weeks of being broken up. My question is would it be bad if we did see each other longer than 30 min? What if the meet up lasted longer but not forced or conciously thinking we are spending a chunk of time together? Is there a reason to keep it 30 min?

By: Bobby

Bobby — Tue, 31 Aug 2010 01:06:43 +0000

So I recently got broken up with by my fiance of two and a half years. Two months later she is back with her former BF who she dated before me. They were best friends for a long time and recentley rebuilt their friendship however they are worried about losing each other to another relationship either might have and decided to start dating again. I also expressed concern (as a Friend) that dating her Best Friend was not a good idea as if it didn’t work out she would hurt it all the more, and if they were hanging out as friends for two months and it was working fine why complicate it with a relationship? She thought this was jelaousy. ( he did not treat her that great the first time. He was rude to her and her family he also made her do thigs she didn’t want too social wise, and they were fighting alot. To quote her mom she couldn’t be Kristin around him) She insists that this time it is diffrent as they were very qucik to forgive their problems and think they could work threw them agian if needed, I think this is eaiser said then done, and is not true at all. I just think they are one of those couples who are better friends then BF/GF. Anyway I’ve really made her upset latley, (she doesn’t even want to be my friend right now) Overall my question is is it too late to win her back? Have I burned too many birdges to get her back? Also am I right to be concerned that dating her best friend just to not lose him is a mistake? Also she is acting very strange and not like herself, is this a sign she still has feelings for me or has she moved on?

By: S. Williams

S. Williams — Mon, 21 Jun 2010 12:50:49 +0000

Stephen wrote:

She now lives with him.Does this make a difference to my chances, I am 11 days in with no contact and I dont want to go through this 30 day no contact if she is never going to leave him?

Hi, It doesn't make a bit of difference if she is living with another man, why? Because the free plan, and NC is about you getting your life back, not your ex. You have a 50/50 chance of getting your ex back, but you have a 100% chance of getting your life back if you follow the free plan. Results have shown that the people who got their lives back (first) get their ex back too, that's if they (you) still want them back after their (your) personal evolution. Take Care, S.W.

By: Stephen

Stephen — Mon, 21 Jun 2010 12:26:20 +0000

I broke up with my ex, and suspect she left me for someone else. She claims to have met him the next day, but I recall his num being in her phone the week before. She didnt leave me beacuse she wasnt happy it was for some other guy. She now lives with him.Does this make a difference to my chances, I am 11 days in with no contact and I dont want to go through this 30 day no contact if she is never going to leave him?

By: S. Williams

S. Williams — Thu, 27 May 2010 12:32:58 +0000

steve wrote:

What am I goiun’ to do?

Hi, Follow the free plan, and get your life back. The harder you try to get her back, the further away she will get. Let this romance run it's course, and allow yourself to evolve past the old failed relationship. The whole point of the free plan is to get your life back, and then decide what to about your break up. Take Care, S.W.

By: steve

steve — Thu, 27 May 2010 07:00:38 +0000

my wife left me last April10, we quarreled for sometime before that,I noticed that she had changed her attitude including love making,…little did I know that she had already a lover on the internet despite of that I tried to win her back,she told me the truth also about it,…but next day she went away from our home bringing our daughter,…I’m so sad coz we been together for 17 years and I want to save our marriage but still no effect,…I know that she loves that guy on the internet,…What am I goiun’ to do?

By: S. Williams

S. Williams — Tue, 18 May 2010 21:45:21 +0000

dude wrote:

i just came across this site but at this point a no contact letter would seem useless, so do i have an option? (she is still living with her new bf and happy i was told)

Hi, Would making yourself feel better be considered useless to you? The free plan on my Blog is about getting your life back, not your ex. If you want your life back, and possibly your ex after that...follow ALL the steps in the free plan, OK? Take Care, S.W.