Is it Ever Too Late to Get My Ex Back Using No Contact?
If you have been dumped and it has been a few months of ups and downs. You’ve made every mistake known to mankind trying to get your ex back, but there is hope. If you’re at this point of no return and are about to give up…don’t. Because it’s not too late to get my ex back using no contact.
Your Worst Enemy
I bet you thought I was going to say “yourself” well it is sort of, but it really is this common human trait that tells us it is better to hold on and hope for the best, then it is to let go for the time being to try a different approach (no contact). Yes NC is a scary thought because the good old if you hold on long enough they will come around belief gets in our way. This actually hurts you more than helps, and traps you in relationship limbo not knowing which way to turn. You have to release the belief that “holding on” will help get my ex back.
Your Best Friend
The best weapon you could have in a time like this is hope. Hope is that little flame burning in your heart that you don’t want to blow out. So why not fan the flames of hope with commitment? If you’re really committed to get an ex back, you will keep that flame burning with hope and commitment.
There may come a time to walk away from the whole idea of getting them back, but you must give it a real effort first. The key to getting my ex back is this…you must let go for the moment and focus on a plan to get back together with them. It might not make much sense, but it is true. It is time to silence that voice telling you to hold on, and follow a different strategy.
Sometimes our human instincts work against us when they are driven emotionally. You have to learn how to tell the difference between what your heart wants, and what you need to do. If you need help shifting from holding on, to letting go to get my ex back, join my newsletter and forum for free videos, tips, and advice. The answers you seek are waiting for you, don’t hesitate another day…come get them. If you haven’t already make sure you join, and ask your questions in our forum, maybe while you’re helping someone else you will help yourself as well…make sense? If you have any comments about this article please write them in the comment box below.
Until next time,
S. Williams
~I know that “love hurts” but with my help you will get strong enough to kick love’s ass~
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Hey Scott I would love some help devoloping a plan to get my ex back.
Damon Williams wrote:
Do you have a book to work with like the magic of making up?
If so, join the forum and start participating with the other members.
I am not going to be answering questions on the Blog anymore, unless they are about an article or something on the Blog itself.
If you don’t have a book yet get one, and you know which one we work with, right?
is it okay,because i’ve waited 2 months before taking the NC approach.
sapphire wrote:
It’s never too late to start your personal evolution.
its been 2 months of up and down is it 2 late 4 me
steven wrote:
No!
Just start following the free plan (link at the top of my Blog)…2 months is nothing to worry about.
Take Care,
S.W.
so me and my ex split up 6 months ago and me the fool has been in contact since!! which i am kicking myself about, he is now seeing some one else and aksed me to leave him alone, he said he does now care, i have to be honest i never contacted him every day at times a couple of weeks have went by before i would contact him and then this would last again for a few days on and off, he was responding positivly then ignoring me then i would get confused, i love this guy with all my heart, he has nto dealt with the split to greatlyu either, is it too late??? sad x
i feel like an idiont right now!! aarrgghh help, i am loosing faith
dione wrote:
dione wrote:
Hi,
It is never too late to start using NC correctly (unless your ex is married).
Go find the link to the free plan, it is on the home page, and then follow ALL the steps..
Take Care,
S.W.
My man broke up with me 2 weeks ago, i tried the no contact for about 8 days, and then tues i received a text from him. On last night I started drinking alcohol (i now dumb move) and made a fool of myself concerning my ex, and he was rather upset with me needless to say. Is it to late now to go back to no contact, or have i blown any chances for good.
monique wrote:
Hi,
No, it’s not too late.
Go read the free plan on my Blog, and follow all the steps, make sure you send the recommended NC message ASAP, OK?
Take Care,
S.W.
Well, I know I have made some stoopid moves since our break up. I mean We were living together and he went back home to visit his parents, and then told me over the phone he wasn’t coming back. I mean I call him almost everyday. I ask the same questions over and over. I am just totally lost. He says he loves me and is going to come back. We just had a son In december, but I don’t Know if it’s because he feels like he is missing out with his friends or what. That is al he has done since he left. He has no time for me, when we do talk its arguments. Maybe we get along for a few hours then boom. back to square one. Im lost
Skatergurl wrote:
Hi,
If you want to take control of your break up, and get your life/ex back again, you need to read the free plan.
Take Care,
S.W.
Hey so my ex broke up with me back in june. She has just moved in with a guy. Between then and now I made every mistake I could causing her to change her number. I asked her to lunch and her turned up from where it started. Kind of need a state of the union because I still want her back.
jon wrote:
Hi,
If you really mean that, then go read the free plan, and follow ALL the steps.
As far as it being too late, someone in the forum just got back together with a ex after 1.5 years and they (their ex) had gotten married and then divorced.
So, as you can see, neither time, nor marriage, can stand in the way of true love.
Stop making excuses, and start taking action, OK?
Take Care,
S.W.
I have realized that I need to work on me but I want my ex to see that I’m making changes just don’t know how to make him see it? I have made him really mad because I’ve drunk called him twice went over to our mutual friends and talked about how much I miss and love him yeah I feel as if I butchered my chances I went crazy but I get it now and I haven’t called him or will call him. He has tried to reconnect with me but I was stupid and scared him away and now he’s distant. it’s been 6 months now that we’ve been broken up and he has told me that he’s interested in someone else? Would it still make sense to send him a NC when he’s the one recently not making contact with me?
Tasneem wrote:
Hi,
It would make total sense to use NC, and send the recommended NC message in the free plan.
The NC message as written, is for you, not your ex.
You must help yourself and get your life back, before you can get your ex back…everything must be competed in steps, understand?
Go read the free plan, and follow ALL the steps.
Take Care,
S.W.
me and my ex dated for 3 1/2 years..So we broke up 9 months ago. we have had drama off and on since, we had to see eachother almost every day. Now we dont have to see eachother at all, and its been almost two weeks and he has not tried talking to me once…does that mean hes done?
Steph wrote:
Hi,
I can’t tell you if it’s over between you and your ex, but the free plan can.
Go read, and follow ALL the steps in the free plan, and it will reveal your ex’s true feelings for you.
Then you will know for sure if it is over or not.
Take Care,
S.W.
i broke up with my ex 2 months ago after violating her privacy and seeing messages from other guys. we’d been together over 2 years. i tried apologizing 2 days later but she wouldnt respond to texts so i went to see her in person. she wasnt home and came to find out she was with a guy. she started practically LIVING with him that day. she told me she needed a break and i made every mistake ( crying, begging, lashing out, berading her new boyfriend and undermining their relationship) two weeks later after no contact i went to see her in person (we had not seen eachother since the day before the breakup) i told her i needed to hear from her in person it was over. she said it was, that she didn’t love me anymore and hasn’t for months. also that she’s happier now and loves her new bf. i told her i was glad she was happy and i’d stay out of her life. that was 6 weeks ago. i have had absolutely no contact since. i just came across this site but at this point a no contact letter would seem useless, so do i have an option? (she is still living with her new bf and happy i was told)
dude wrote:
Hi,
Would making yourself feel better be considered useless to you?
The free plan on my Blog is about getting your life back, not your ex.
If you want your life back, and possibly your ex after that…follow ALL the steps in the free plan, OK?
Take Care,
S.W.
my wife left me last April10, we quarreled for sometime before that,I noticed that she had changed her attitude including love making,…little did I know that she had already a lover on the internet despite of that I tried to win her back,she told me the truth also about it,…but next day she went away from our home bringing our daughter,…I’m so sad coz we been together for 17 years and I want to save our marriage but still no effect,…I know that she loves that guy on the internet,…What am I goiun’ to do?
steve wrote:
Hi,
Follow the free plan, and get your life back.
The harder you try to get her back, the further away she will get.
Let this romance run it’s course, and allow yourself to evolve past the old failed relationship.
The whole point of the free plan is to get your life back, and then decide what to about your break up.
Take Care,
S.W.
I broke up with my ex, and suspect she left me for someone else. She claims to have met him the next day, but I recall his num being in her phone the week before. She didnt leave me beacuse she wasnt happy it was for some other guy. She now lives with him.Does this make a difference to my chances, I am 11 days in with no contact and I dont want to go through this 30 day no contact if she is never going to leave him?
Stephen wrote:
Hi,
It doesn’t make a bit of difference if she is living with another man, why?
Because the free plan, and NC is about you getting your life back, not your ex.
You have a 50/50 chance of getting your ex back, but you have a 100% chance of getting your life back if you follow the free plan.
Results have shown that the people who got their lives back (first) get their ex back too, that’s if they (you) still want them back after their (your) personal evolution.
Take Care,
S.W.