If My Ex Boyfriend Wants Sex, Does That Mean My Ex Boyfriend Still Loves Me?

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If your ex boyfriend wants to have sex with you, you’re probably asking yourself; “Does my ex boyfriend still love me?” Women usually see the act of love making as an act of bonding…but do men? Your ex could very well be in love with you, but if he only comes around for sex, where does that leave you? If you want to find out how to tell if your ex boyfriend still loves you, here are a couple ways to flush out the real truth.

Do Not Give Up The Goodies

One real way to convince yourself that your ex boyfriend wants you and just not your body is to cut him off, as a matter of fact take a break from this whole little routine he has going with you. The best way to do this would be to initiate no contact, by using the no contact rule correctly you”ll start an evolution in your relationship with your ex boyfriend. At the end if this evolution you will be able to tell if your ex boyfriend still loves you.

I Can Help You Examine Your Past And Get Your Ex Boyfriend Back

Dissect Your Past Relationship

Once you have properly initiated no contact by sending the correct no contact message (I will tell you more about that later), you”ll need to follow some simple exercises. These exercises will help you to determine what went wrong (the break up), and how to prevent that from happening again…make sense? The best way to do that would be to get a good self-help book (I can recommend one to you later).

You can attempt this without a good book/plan, but your rate of success will be a lot slower. If your ex boyfriend is using sex to keep you in relationship limbo, and you want the answer to “If my ex boyfriend wants sex, does that mean my ex boyfriend still loves me?”, you must to take action on what I have talked about…Today!

Who Am I and Why Should You Listen to Me?

My name is S. Williams, and I have been helping people since 2008 to overcome break up pain, and get their lives back. I even have an “About” section that I recommend you read. I know the name of my site is: How to Get Your Ex Back Fast, but I teach people how to get their lives back, not their ex’s.

If you’re interested in working with me (and our forum members) to get your life back, join my free newsletter for access to the free plan to get your ex back fast, and start getting your life back today. The answers you need to start your personal evolution are waiting for you, don’t hesitate another minute…come and get them.

Once you get your life back, everything else will just start to fall into place…I promise. If you have any comments or questions please write them in the comment box below.

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Until next time,

S. Williams

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4 Responses to “If My Ex Boyfriend Wants Sex, Does That Mean My Ex Boyfriend Still Loves Me?”

  1. tina says:

    Scott,
    What does it mean when ur ex bf tells u he loves u ad cares for u, but isn’t in love with u anymore. But right b4 he said that he was kssing me, and tried to make love to me. I turned him down, and he said he wanted to do that in hopes that he would have better clarifivation on his feelings for me. I was numbe , said nothing, fell asleep. I woke up 2 hours later to find him still holding me. I asked him to leave. This all happened after no contact for 30 days. He tried to hug me goodbye, amd kiss me, I couldn’t hug or kiss him back after hearing that he wasn’t in love with me anymore. Again, what does this mean? He left my home, said I will always love you, and started weeping and walked out. I can’t even bring myself to writing another nc letter. It seems out of context. I was just thinking that if he contacted me from here on out, then I would not answer him back. The nc letter doesn’t seem like it would makwe sense at this point. I bought the book, and have read it over and over. I love him, and of course at this point I want him back, but he has hurt me so m,any times and is non commital. Is not contacting him at all a good approach, or do I have to write that nc letter again. And again what does not being in love mean, but still loving and caring for me. I thought not being in love meant that u couldn’t even bring urself to holding hands, or kissing. He certainly had np with that. He is so cocky, ansd knows all too wellhow much I love him and adore him. I am trying to move on. Going on a date this Wednesday, but I want that one day of satisfaction where he comesrunning to me scott, for once. What do I do? Just stay away, or what kid of nc. Letter do I write. I don’t feel good about sending him crap, after what he said. But if I don’t, will the plan still work? Thanks for all ur support and timely responses. I have 3 small kids, and I am doing everything I can to survive this and take care of them at the same time I am trying to take care of myself. My body is in such shock, and pehpas I am drifting into depression.

  2. S. Williams says:

    tina wrote:

    What does it mean when ur ex bf tells u he loves u ad cares for u, but isn’t in love with u anymore. But right b4 he said that he was kssing me, and tried to make love to me. I turned him down, and he said he wanted to do that in hopes that he would have better clarifivation on his feelings for me.

    Hi Tina,

    That is what is plainly known as a line of bullshit.

    He wanted to get laid…clarify his feelings…WTF?

    tina wrote:

    What do I do? Just stay away, or what kid of nc. Letter do I write. I don’t feel good about sending him crap, after what he said. But if I don’t, will the plan still work?

    By sending the recommended NC message you are taking back control.

    Use the one about agreeing with “your” decision to break up, OK?

    It is the first example…if you’re confused contact me either on my Blog, or in the forum, OK?

    The plan will work all you have to do is take the first step, and then your personal evolution begins.

    Where will it take you?

    You have to follow every step and then you will find out.

    But where ever it takes you it will be a better place than you are now.

  3. deliriousgal says:

    Hey there Scott, lol i find your response to Tina’s comment rather funny: “That is what is plainly known as a line of bullshit. He wanted to get laid…clarify his feelings…WTF?” I couldn’t have agreed more with you on that one!

    Anyhow, i’m rather confused myself. I’m going to make this short so please do ask if you require background information on this situation. It’s been a year since our break up and he suggested i visit him? However, he did make it clear to me that this would be just as “friends” and nothing more as in bf/gf. I don’t understand this??

  4. S. Williams says:

    deliriousgal wrote:

    It’s been a year since our break up and he suggested i visit him? However, he did make it clear to me that this would be just as “friends” and nothing more as in bf/gf. I don’t understand this??

    He is probably looking for the same thing Tina’s boyfriend was looking for…”friends with benefits”.

    If you want to find out his true feelings go to the top of my Blog, and click on the link for the free plan.

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