I Have to Get My Ex Boyfriend or Ex Girlfriend Back – A Love Addicts Diary Part 3

Do “I have to get my ex boyfriend or ex girlfriend back” again to be happy? That is the question you really need to answer, and I will help you do just that, keep reading. In the first part we discussed how someone loses their sanity right after a break up. Then in part two we broke down how it happened. Now we are going to focus on reversing the damage, and getting your ex back…let’s get started, OK?

Breaking Your Love Addiction

 

Since you know that you need to get your sanity, and life back before you can get your ex boyfriend/girlfriend back, let’s talk about how you can do that. The first step would be to stop the sanity. That means no more begging, pleading, and badgering your ex for answers. Chances are they don’t even know why you broke up themselves, so why ask them?

Use No Contact to Get Your Ex Boyfriend - Girlfriend BackUse no contact to break the chain of madness, and to slowly regain control of your sanity, and your life again. I know you have probably done some research and think you know how no contact works, but I will guess you are totally wrong…why? Because 99% of people are really confused about how to properly initiate, and maintain no contact. Using the no contact rule along with a step by step plan to regain everything you lost in this break up is the best way to “get my ex boyfriend or ex girlfriend back” again.

Once you send the correct no contact message to your ex your personal evolution begins. Once your personal evolution begins you are on your way to getting your sanity, and your life back again. As crazy as it seems once you flip your exes switch with the NC message things will begin to change for both of you. Your ex will not think you’re crazy any more, and they will worry why you’re not chasing them anymore.

If they were insisting on staying friends you have taken that life line from them as well. Now they have to either sink or swim…make sense? You regain a feeling of self control you have not enjoyed since the break up. You are in control, and your personal journey to happiness has begun. This new found strength will almost certainly attract your ex back. You will never get your ex boyfriend or ex girlfriend back for good until you get back a sense of yourself.

Who Am I and Why Should You Listen to Me?

My name is S. Williams, and I have been helping people since 2008 to overcome break up pain, and get their lives back. I even have an “About” section that I recommend you read. I know the name of my site is: How to Get Your Ex Back Fast, but I teach people how to get their lives back, not their ex’s.

If you’re interested in working with me (and our forum members) to get your life back, join my free newsletter for access to the free plan to get your ex back fast, and start getting your life back today. The answers you need to start your personal evolution are waiting for you, don’t hesitate another minute…come and get them.

Once you get your life back, everything else will just start to fall into place…I promise. If you have any comments or questions please write them in the comment box below.

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Until next time,

S. Williams

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  1. Where is your blog and the free plan?

    1. Hi,

      You are on my Blog right now, you left a comment on it.

      There are links to the free plan all over my Blog (top, RH side, and inside comments) but here is a link to the free plan to get your ex back.

      Thank you for writing.

      Take Care,

      S.W.

  2. hi,
    i have bewn in a relatiosnhip for 14 months..we first broke up 4 months ago when i thought he was crazy in love..i told him that i will change and will not be that jealus but because i beged him too much he had me for granted and did whatever he wanted..he flirted with other girls…we had a bad fight and he said to have an open relatiosnhip until i find another guy because it was difficult to me but i refused..then qe said some very bad words to each other..he deleted me from facebook,msn and all and he didnt want any contact with me!then after 2 days i called him calm to meet and talk and he didnt want he said its over..i then told him that i will kill myself and stupid things..he called my sister and a friend of mine and he said that he doesnt want to happen anything bad to me and to take care of me cause he was fare away and he couldn do anything..he talked with my friend on how i was and to meet the three f us..an yesterday i sent him an sms and told him”hey,you dont have to worry any more for me cause i am fine,i understood that life is very beautiful with or witout you.i am macure enough to respekt your decision to break up.i cant come with my friend to meet you.we dont have to meet cause we arent together.i will not contact you anymore.bye” he didnt response 🙁 he talks with my friend and they will meet to talk.i just adore him..he is the man of my life we had a perfect relationship, he used to love me so much..i dont know what do//please help

    1. Hi,

      I help people get their lives back after a break up, I don’t help people get their ex’s back.

      If you want my help getting your life back, go read the free plan on my Blog, and follow ALL the steps.

      Take Care,

      S.W.

  3. Albert wrote:

    so what i do if she have a “free” relationship or maybe fall in love with other guy, meanwhile im in the process of no contact, thanx.

    You said you were together for 5 years, no one can just move on that quickly, understand?

    If she truly has deep feelings for you, she will not just “fall in love” so easily…do not kid yourself, NC works.

  4. so what i do if she have a “free” relationship or maybe fall in love with other guy, meanwhile im in the process of no contact, thanx.

  5. Fatima Nicholson wrote:

    where is the free plan on your blog located at, thanks.

    At the top of my Blog in the middle there is a link.

  6. @ S. Williams: The NC rule will help, even though I acted selfish, and dramatic in the relationship. My husband and I have been together for five years. And,where is the free plan on your blog located at, thanks.

  7. Fatima Nicholson wrote:

    We have not spoken for month, though I miss him, I figure I need to backaway and see myself who I know I can truly become.

    Hi Fatima,

    You should follow the free plan on my Blog, and use no contact to give you both the space, and time to emotionally heal.

    It will help both of you personally evolve your past failed relationship so you can prepare for a much stronger relationship in the future.

    Take Care,

    S.W.

  8. I had just recently, broke up with my husband and I went on the offensive in the beginning crying, begging and pleading and my ex-husband was cold like ice. We broke up due to fighting and agruments and the fact I was drifting mentally away from him. Than, I our dog passed away and our dog meant alot to him. He kinda blames me b/c I left him outside and he had a heat stroke ( he was temporarily out there for 30minutes and I was cleaning the house so I can bring him inside). So, with the combination of our relationship going downward and the passing our dog, it killed him emotionally. I took the path of desperation, but since than I needed to regain control myself b/c I didn’t know myself at all w/o him. We have not spoken for month, though I miss him, I figure I need to backaway and see myself who I know I can truly become.

  9. Margarita wrote:

    i want him bak still. Please help?

    Hi Margarita,

    My advice is going to sound weird, but a lot of people have followed it, and feel a lot better now.

    You need to read and follow the free plan on my Blog, and yes that means sending the recommended NC message, even after all this time.

    If you think it is silly and you will feel stupid doing it, and do not want to do it…there is nothing I can do to help you.

    Maybe you can find some help at another website.

    The choice is yours.

    Take Care,

    S.W.

  10. I was with this guy for 1 year and a half and i did love him so much. Im gonna try to make my story short. So ever since we met we fell inlove quickly and it was easy. He was my first love and is hard to get over your first love right? I moved to another city and he moved to another state. WE stayed together but we didnt see each other for 6 moonths. He was so busy working and we didnt talk on the phone like we used to. Im gonna admitt i did cheat on him. I did tell him i didnt lie to him he broke up wit me but we got bak together. I moved again to another city and we were doing good until he pranked called me n he was being really flirty wit me n i was too and i had said a lot of stupid things like i had sex wit the guy i cheated on him wit. And he took it personal and broke up wit me. I swear i didnt idk why i said it. Its been 1 year and 8 months that weve broken up. And i learned my mistake. Ever since we broke up ive been trying to get him bak. I called him everyday i was being annoying stalking him. But he would ignore me.I just want him bak! I havent bothered him for mayybe 6 months and 1 week ago my friend told me he has a gf and it hurts me n i want him bak still. Please help?

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