How to Win Your Love Back After a Bad Break Up

You can win your love back after a bad break up if you know what to do. As a matter of fact sometimes a break up can even make your relationship stronger, How? Because sometimes you have to “break” things in order to fix them. If this confuses you just keep reading and let me explain…OK? You will soon be aware of the things you need to do to get your ex back again.

The Passion Fire

When a relationship just starts they usually burn red hot for a while, but along with highly charged emotion comes worry, worry that this will not last. This feels so good it is almost “too good to be true” and this is where doubt and fear enter. You see your boyfriend or girlfriend talking with another guy or girl and you get jealous. You are so afraid of losing them that you start to question their love and how much you can trust them. Once the trust starts to fade it is all down hill from here and the break up is just around the corner. But you can win your love back after a bad break up if you are smart.

I Can Help You Win Your Love Back After A Bad Break Up

The Break Up

Your doubt and fear starts to get the better of you and you confront your mate, this leads to an argument and a break up. You start to feel like it’s all over and there is no way you can get your ex back…but you’re wrong. If you take this time to examine what happened you will realize that a break was just what was needed to let things “cool down” a bit. Do not text, email, or call your ex during this period this is the BIGGEST mistake people make when they break up, they panic and start acting crazy which makes your ex really wonder if they should be with you or not.

If you want to win your love back after a bad break up you must stay calm and focus on what lead to the break up, and how to prevent it from happening again in the future. The knowledge you gain from this will only help to make your relationship stronger when you win back your ex later on. So to recap if you break up do not panic, just give your ex sometime to cool down and reflect on what lead up to the break up. Now use this information to strengthen your bond, if you did not break up you would not have had this chance to evolve…understand? You can win your love back after a bad break up and you can make that love even stronger.

Who Am I and Why Should You Listen to Me?

My name is S. Williams, and I have been helping people since 2008 to overcome break up pain, and get their lives back. I even have an “About” section that I recommend you read. I know the name of my site is: How to Get Your Ex Back Fast, but I teach people how to get their lives back, not their ex’s.

If you’re interested in working with me (and our forum members) to get your life back, join my free newsletter for access to the free plan to get your ex back fast, and start getting your life back today. The answers you need to start your personal evolution are waiting for you, don’t hesitate another minute…come and get them.

Once you get your life back, everything else will just start to fall into place…I promise. If you have any comments or questions please write them in the comment box below.

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  1. Hi i done the worst thing my partner broke up with me over 3 months ago after spending 10 years together and i have spent the last 3 month chasing him and doing everything to win him back emailing texting calling and being upset and angry have i still got a chance if a stop all contact and act sensible.

    1. Hi,

      The best thing to focus on is getting over the break up, and moving on with your life – this will greatly improve your chances of either getting your ex back (50/50), or finding someone even better.

      I help people get over a break up and get their lives back, not get their ex back, and I explain why in the “About” section on my Blog.

      Go read the free plan to get your ex back and follow ALL the steps to get over a broken heart, evolve past the breakup, and get your life back again.

      Thank you for writing.

      Take Care,

      S.W.

      IMPORTANT – If you found this information helpful or useful, please give me a “+1” rating by using the colored “+1 button” at the bottom of the above article. I’d really appreciate it.

  2. smiler wrote:

    Have you heard of other couples reuniting after this long?

    Here is a story I found about some people who were broken up waaay longer than 2 years, and got back together again.

    Amazing Reunion

    So, you tell me what is possible, and what isn’t?

    I believe anything worth having, is worth fighting for, don’t you?

    Follow my free plan, and find out if you can win him back or not.

  3. @ S. Williams:
    Is it possible to win him back after nearly two years though? I guess thats what Im asking. Have you heard of other couples reuniting after this long? It just took this long to de-tangle from one another and for me to recoup, regroup and get through the depression.

  4. smiler wrote:

    I dont want to cause him further heartache I just want to hold him and be there for him. Help me decide what to do Please

    Hi Smiler,

    Unfortunately you have to go through some pain to get what you want.

    My best advice would be to send him the NC message (even though it has been 2 years) and then follow the plan.

    Sending him the recommended NC will make him take notice and start to think about you and the old break up again, this is how you both start to evolve, OK?

    Whether it will work or not…I can’t tell you, but what have you got to lose, right?

  5. Hey, I had the worst break up ever! myself and my ex were together over 5 years and have a son together. We were very much in love but I developed post natal depression and pushed him away. Our communication broke down and he fell into the arms of an oportunistic B**ch who had previously tried to steal him with no success. Only, this time he was much more vunerable as he never had me on my usual form. The problem is this was nearly two years ago. We coninuously rowed (on and off) over access issues and our son. When he speaks I hear her words falling from his mouth. It got to the point that I had to brake all contact (using third party as drop off and pick up point) as it was unhealthy for all involved, especially our son. In this time, around 3 months I have had no contact with him and i have tackled the depression using exercize and diet. I feel and look very well. My question is is it too late to try and win him back? I think (well, hope) he still loves me as he has not moved in with her, when we did see each other he would look at me as he always did, tries to find out information about me through friends and my family, and constantly tries to touch me (not sexually-just very tactile, which he was not before), and has put on alot of weight-suggesting hes not happy? I honestly feel this woman has warped his mind and got him at such a vunerable time that i may never get him back. she has nothing to do with our son, although he says this is his decision-not hers. His mother never liked me (because I am working class and they are middle class), never took much intrest in her grandson and yet she has offered to PAY for a holiday for my ex and this homewreker. My ex is a good man at heart he just has two other women in his life-both of whom, dont want him near me. Is this a fight I can win? He looked so unhappy every time I saw him. What do I do? wait it out? I dont want to cause him further heartache I just want to hold him and be there for him. Help me decide what to do Please. XX

  6. Thanks.

    lol

  7. john wrote:

    Hi,
    I didn’t see your first response. My fault. kind of bummed out from the break up and looking for options. It’s easy for me to meet and find another woman but this one is very special to me.
    Any advice would be appreciate.
    Thx

    John,

    Click the link below:

    Free Plan to Help John Get His Ex Back So He Doesn’t Have to Find Another Woman

  8. Hi,

    I didn’t see your first response. My fault. kind of bummed out from the break up and looking for options. It’s easy for me to meet and find another woman but this one is very special to me.

    Any advice would be appreciate.

    Thx

  9. john wrote:

    Wow… What about all the NC rule advice? @ S. Williams:

    You’re kinda dense aren’t you John?

    OK, one more time…

    Go Read My Plan and then do what it tells you to do, it will teach you how to use the no contact rule, and how to get your ex back for free, what else can I do for you?

    Please do not ask me another question until you take the time to follow through on my advice…OK?

  10. Wow… What about all the NC rule advice? @ S. Williams:

  11. john wrote:

    Any hope or is it time to move on?

    Hi John,

    I answered your first comment, what’s the problem?

    Go read my free plan at the top of my Blog, OK?

    john wrote:

    I just broke up with my grilfriend of 5 years. We had off and ons before

    Do you know why you were having “offs and ons”?

    Because your relationship was dying, it’s time to let the old relationship die, and prepare for a new one, understand?.

    Go use my free step by step plan and start your personal and emotional evolution, ASAP!

  12. I just broke up with my grilfriend of 5 years. We had off and ons before but this time i got a little too emotional and went into panic mode by calling all times off the night, visiting uninvited, and emailing, to the point where she demanded no more communication ever again. I totally lost my cool in tis situation. The relationship was pretty serious and I even moved cross country to be with her.

    Any hope or is it time to move on?

  13. emit8 wrote:

    Can somebody just stop loving you? Even if you weren’t the first person they loved?

    Anything is possible, but most of time people say things like that to get you to leave them alone, not because it is true.

    Use NC and follow my free plan to turn the tables on your situation, OK?

  14. @ S. Williams:
    My ex broke up with me because he thought I didn’t trust him and kept him from going out with his mates. And that I kept bringing up his ex girlfriend and accusing him of her loving her. We’ve been together for 14months. He said it wasn’t working out and that he didn’t love me anymore.
    Can somebody just stop loving you? Even if you weren’t the first person they loved?

  15. @ S. Williams:
    I did something really dumb Scott. My girlfriend and I went on a whim to see a psychic and she told me very unpositive things and I got rewally upset. Dumb I know but it was just a whim. I was so despondant but my best friend brought me back up. I shouldn’t have done that now I feel a little trickle of doubt. I won’t do that again.

  16. Thanks Scott. He did the very same thing when we were teenagers and I tried to test his feelings to see if he really cared. He begged me to change my mind. He waited until he met someone and broke up with me. He assummed that I was unhappy with him so he found someone else. That only lasted a couple of months. His son contacted me and told me he told his dad he saw me out with some guy. It worked. He wanted to know where, when, what the guy looked like,how I looked, the whole 9 yards. He told his dad again that he was making a huge mistake. He told his dad that I lost so much weight. He said his dad got very quiet and had tears in his eyes. His son thinks I should make the first move and I doubt that. His dad knows that his son isn’t happy with his choice for now and thinks his dad is going to give this girl the heave ho. His son told me that he dad feels so alone and theres alot that he doesn’t like about this girl. They don’t have much in common and he compares her alot to me. He says I have alot in my favor. You were definitely right Scott. He also listens to songs that we loved in his work truck. We both love Def Leppard and he knows I had won tickets to one of their concerts and said to his son he wondered who went with me. He wished it was him. I feel like I’m living a soap Opera and I hate it. I don’t want to let him go really I don’t. I love him with my whole heart and soul and always have and always will. He’s the love of my life and I haven’t loved anybody like this since him. He truly has my heart and I will not give up and fight to keep this in my life. I will only give up if theres nothing to fight for. I do have a trmendous amopunt of hope and I’m going to keep getting stronger and fight for what I want. I had a long talk with our son and he understands. He’s the one that works out with me and we weighed ourselves and said hey mom you lost 31 pounds and high 5ed me. I assurred him that his dad loves him and we have to stick together and be positive and we’ll be ok. He agreed. His oldest son,he’s 21, said that he knows we’ll work it out and he doesn’t like working behind his dads back but he wants to help us. He firmly believes that his dad and I belong together. I strongly agree. I can’t believe this fear I have though of approaching himwhen I feel I’m ready. I’ve always been afraid of rejection and my friends and family said thats whats wrong. I have known him all my life and he is the most caring compassionate person and I’m scared. He’s also the most stubborn too. Don’t get me wrong he’s not mean at all but when he gets hurt he lashes out big time. I will continue to hang in there Scott! Thanks.

  17. CHERYL wrote:

    I don’t know if I should throw in the towel now I don’t know if all my hard work is going to worth it. I do love him and want this to work.

    Starting a relationship out of revenge isn’t a very good idea.

    This will actually work in your favor…how?

    The relationship is doomed (started for revenge only…not love) and he will feel guilty about it later, which will work to your advantage when you attempt reconnection.

    Hang in there and keep working with the exercises in chapters 1-5 to maintain your emotional control…OK?

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