How to Win Your Love Back After a Bad Break Up
You can win your love back after a bad break up if you know what to do. As a matter of fact sometimes a break up can even make your relationship stronger, How? Because sometimes you have to “break” things in order to fix them. If this confuses you just keep reading and let me explain…OK? You will soon be aware of the things you need to do to get your ex back again.
The Passion Fire
When a relationship just starts they usually burn red hot for a while, but along with highly charged emotion comes worry, worry that this will not last. This feels so good it is almost “too good to be true” and this is where doubt and fear enter. You see your boyfriend or girlfriend talking with another guy or girl and you get jealous. You are so afraid of losing them that you start to question their love and how much you can trust them. Once the trust starts to fade it is all down hill from here and the break up is just around the corner. But you can win your love back after a bad break up if you are smart.
The Break Up
Your doubt and fear starts to get the better of you and you confront your mate, this leads to an argument and a break up. You start to feel like it’s all over and there is no way you can get your ex back…but you’re wrong. If you take this time to examine what happened you will realize that a break was just what was needed to let things “cool down” a bit. Do not text, email, or call your ex during this period this is the BIGGEST mistake people make when they break up, they panic and start acting crazy which makes your ex really wonder if they should be with you or not.
If you want to win your love back after a bad break up you must stay calm and focus on what lead to the break up, and how to prevent it from happening again in the future. The knowledge you gain from this will only help to make your relationship stronger when you win back your ex later on. So to recap if you break up do not panic, just give your ex sometime to cool down and reflect on what lead up to the break up. Now use this information to strengthen your bond, if you did not break up you would not have had this chance to evolve…understand? You can win your love back after a bad break up and you can make that love even stronger.
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It sounds fantastic but what about where i have already done the feeling needy begging , making myself look a fool thing
That’s what I’m afraid of making myself look like a fool. I had a very hard time sleeping last night and I kept thinking. I know it’s been several months since I broke up with him and like I said I get nervous about making that first move. I’m really glad I got the book because I read it whenever I need too. In the past when we had split up he always contacted me by leaving love songs on my voicemail and this last time text messaging. I guess I’m afraid of his reaction. I promise to follow whatever advice you give me Scott. Thank you so much.
same here ive always done the contacting when it comes to falling out but this is the first time its turned into a break up ,but this time i refuse to do it as i have actually done nothing wrong and she is just so stubborn im not doing it ,im sick of asking and her throwing mixed signals at me so the NC way is in place now and if she gets in touch then i will talk to her but if not then i do have decisions to make and il cross that bridge if i come to it.
Also i think her mother has a lot of influence over her so we will see its only the first day of NC and i saw her yesterday as i had to fix the boiler at the house that we own together ,i kept it friendly but to be truthful i didnt want to be there as it was killin me to be round her knowing that she broke up with me
Andy wrote:
Hang in there…it will easier with time.
CHERYL wrote:
I answered your question on a previous comment.
Andy wrote:
Then you are like EVERYONE else that is going through a break up…everyone one does it, believe me.
Love makes fools out of us all, but it is a very important part of life…wouldn’t you agree?
ye i agree i can do it though ,the only thing im concerned with is the amonut of time i have left before contcting you to put NC into place , i should have done something earlier
Andy wrote:
You can’t change the past, but you can shape the future…focus on the future.
@ CHERYL:
good luck cheryl
Thank you Andy!! Good luck to you too. I’m trying very hard to be patient and it’s so hard. We’ll hang in there together!
@ Andy:
I meant to add that I can relate to you about the family issue too. When there was texting going on[he thought it was me]bit it was our son trying to fix everything between his dad and I. His sister called me and said that the texting had to stop because it was upsetting him alot . He is going through some medical stuff and the stress was making it worse. Sometimes he’ll have his sister call to say something about whatever and I get upset because that is between us not other people. My mom has influence on me too but she knows I love him and any decisions is between him and I. I haven’t contacted him in a little over a month. This is the hardest I know. Hang in there!!
@ Andy:
@ CHERYL:
You can form or join a Forum Buddy Support Group in our forum.
Take a look at this post:
http://forum.howtogetyourexbackfast.com/topic/forum-buddy-support-system
People helping each other work through this plan, and we all know united we stand, divided we fall…right?
Day 2 and to be honest i feel like just going round and givin her head a big shek an tellin her to wake up and stop this madness , but still managed all day with no contact ,im trying to get my mindset , hignsight can mess with your head
I saw my ex yesterday from a distance but he didn’t see me. I wanted so much to go and talk to him but I didn’t. I’ve been holding my ground and trying to be positive. I’ve been following the advice from the book and I do feel pretty good and keeping things in perspective. Scott, how long is long enough before you try to make contact? Believew me I have read the forum but it says to wait about a month. I guess sometimes it takes longer than that I know. I’m fast learning patience and boy is it hard to do. I;m still hanging in there.
CHERYL wrote:
The step by step plan in our forum is only a supplement to use along with the book the Magic of Making up.
You really need to have this book and do ALL the exercises in chapters 1-5.
No contact is not about a certain amount of time, it is about evolving by exploring what went wrong and learning emotional well-being as a single person.
Once you have evolved you will be ready to move to chapter 6 in the book MOMU and start the reconnection stage.
If you do not have this book you really need to get it ASAP, and start reading and following the instructions inside.
@ CHERYL:
hi cheryl , i know how you feel honey but stick it out you can do this , heres me convincing you when ive just had to walk out of my local pub due to the ex walking in with her cousin, but im ok with it well im not but for this to work i have to , its harder than i thought but il be on my third day tomorrow and i could easily spoil it but im stronger than that im sure, and so are you x
@ S. Williams:
Hey Scott! I understand,ok. When I read it and I go through it alot I just got to thinking about wait a month but it’s been longer than that and I just thought I waited too long. Plus I’ve been feeling alot of guilt too because our son has been talking about his dad and he doesn’t blame me but he feels I should’ve never said I was severing all ties with his dad. I try to be honest with my boys and I told our son why I said that and he’s very upset about it. He feels this reflects on him too because he hasn’t heard from his dad. Our son wants me to apologize to his dad and I don’t know what to do.I’m in a very difficult position and I feel terrible. He feels that since his dad is sick that I sent him away when he needed us the most and he won’t come back because I sent him away and told him to stay away. I didn’t want to say anything to my son but I told him that his dad told me that he met someone and I got upset and that’s why I said that. Our son wants me to call him or write him a letter and apologize for what I said. I have both boys in Boy Scouts and my son talks to his Scout Master alot and he told him everything. His Scout Master wanted to talk to me and told me everything that my son said. He said that my son is hurting alot about his father and that I sent him away. His Scout Master feels I should contact his father and try to straighten everything out. I told him that I was trying to give his dad some space and time to get his medical problems and other issues straightened out. You see when something happens with his dad and I my son will get in trouble at school, he’ll get into a fight. Another time he got caught shoplifting,the police came to my door for another fight, he spraypainted someones car a couple of tears ago . He’s not a bad kid and he’s not perfect. In school he struggles with his subjects and had to go to summerschool. I talked to his guidance counselor at school and he had talked to her and told her he misses his dad. He only acts out after his dad leaves. But this time I sent his dad away not because I wanted too because we didn’t spend enough time together and I was upset.I’ve been thinking about writing him and apologize. I do feel better about the situation and that I could talk about things rationally. What’s your opinion Scott? THANK YOU!!
He Andy! Yeah I know how you feel. I saw my ex the other day too but he didn’t see me. I wanted so much to say something but I didn’t. That is a very difficult situation to be in especially when someone is your best friend and you’ve known them forever and you can’t talk to them. Boy do I know. Hang in there!!
CHERYL wrote:
You can not rush through NC and expect a good out come.
Your son doesn’t understand how these things work and you really can’t expect him to right now…
But, he can be responsible for his own behavior.
If you really feel you’re ready then proceed to chapter 6 and follow the instructions on how to set up your first “short” meeting with your ex.
CHERYL wrote:
That is not how you should reconnect, you should follow the plan in chapter 6…OK?
CHERYL wrote:
Reading is not DOING ALL the exercises…have you completed all the exercises?
Do you understand what went wrong, and what you need to do to fix it?
Yes I have a good idea what went wrong. It could be several issues and I’ve beenwracking my brain to pinpoint exactly the main cause. It could be his impotentcy or the situation with his family or both. You see Scott for you to understand more about the family issue let me explain. I’ve been at my job for 22 yrs. About 9 yrs ago when my ex were together he asked me to go on a cruise. The company his dad owns earns trips when they buy products for a period of time. The people who work for his dad brought their wives and girlfriends. My ex and I were kind of having problems at the time and were looking forward to 7 days together. When I went to work a co-worker mentioned that I was going on a cruise with one of her best friends and her husband. The guy works for my ex’s dad and I didn’t know that. This co-worker is also best friends with my boss. They all hang out together go on vacations, have block parties and th ewhole nine yards. They of course knew that these trips were paid for by my ex’s dad. His dad also sent the boys and I to Disney World. I’ve never asked his family for nothing they did this because they like me and know I love their son. These women I work with are technically put High Maintenance. Their husbands work constant to keep up with their extravagant lifestyles. Through this guy that works there they would find out stuff. Basically they would make it their business to find things out. They found out about my ex’s drug problem from the guy who works there. The woman would literally break her neck to tell me things. I kept saying I don’t care and I even went as far as saying I didn’t love him anymore. I just wanted the gossip about my ex to stop. I don’t share any of my personaL business with anyone I work with. I would never tell them anything about him. They found out from the guy who works there and his wife. Finally when the last episode supposibly happened I called his sister. They had said that he had gotten arrested for drugs. Of course I’m going to ask his family this is my son’s father. His sister wanted to know who told me that and I told the truth. My ex already knew this for about a year and he told his other sister who runs the company and she told him to leave it alone. When the guy was confronted about it he lied and said that I talk about the family all the time. The only thing they heard by eavesdropping was something I had to ask my union representitive. They said that I trash their family alot. This is not true. Everything got blowed out of the water and I got bhlamed foreverything. If I go his dad and sister and tell them the truth about what really happened my job will be in jeopardy. I’ve been looking for another job but I make wexcellent money and I can’t afford to leave unless I find something where I make just as much. My boss will see to it that I quit she’ll make it unbearable for me. She’s been ther for 33 yrs. His family is mad at me and we haven’t spoken for 2 yrs and it hurts me so much. This is whats stressing my ex out because in March when he went to see his dad in Florida for 9 days I didn’t call him for a couple of days. When I text him he asked why I haven’t been in touch. I told him that I didn’t think he wanted to talk to me. He said that was ridiculous. Then I texted him and asked if he talked to his dad about us and he didn’t answer me. I got mad and said there was nothing more to talk about. He took it the way it sounded and I didn’t mean it that way. I meant I would’nt bring it up anymore. I feel these are the 2 issuses that is the cause and the family one is the more serious one. He told me that everything will work itself out to be patient and I didn’t hang in there I dumped him instead. With everything he was going through I didn’t think first I reacted. Even my mom yelled at me for breaking up with him on voicemail. My best friend said don’t be surprised if he never speaks to you again.My emotions are all over the place and I feel bad because of our son something awful. He wants me to apoligize to his dad because he feels this will leave the door open so his dad won’t be reluctant to contact him. He loves his father so much and wants a relationship with him so much. This is what I had said to the woman at work that they were talking about my son’s father and I would oprotect my son no matter what. She talks to me now but no longer interferes with my personal life. My ex says that he believes me he knows I’m not a gossip or troublemaker but Scott I can’t even tell him the full story either. Not until I find another job then I will. This is killing me and I’m hurting so badly. I listen to your advice wholeheartedly and the book believe me and I trust the advice from you and the book. How should I handle this now that I told the full story? Thank you!!!
CHERYL wrote:
Like I said earlier, I would use the details in chapter 6 of the book to set up a short casual meeting.
Follow the plan in that chapter to slowly reconnect, once you have gotten used to each other again then, “slowly” bring up each issue and talk about it…do not rush into this it will blow up in your face…OK?
Don’t send apology letters, just follow the plan for reconnection in chapter 6…take it one step at a time.
I also forgot to mention that my boss is best friends with this guy and his wife too. The co-worker let it slip to me that my boss asked the guy if my ex goes to any of the family/business functions. She asked one of my friends at work if I have a new beau. I was so mad and wanted to tell her off so much. Anybody who may get more than they have they are all over it like bees to honey. My best friend was furious when she found out they were gossiping about my personal business. They do it to everyone I’m not the only victim. Because of their nosiness and gossiping they cost me my relationship with him and his family. I know he loves me and yes Scott I am following the guidelines in the forum.I’m excercising, eating healthier, getting my teeth whitened, spending time with friends, just technically keeping myself focused. I’ve always been in love with him and I know he feels the same I just know. Also these people had asked me if I knew where he worked now and I said I didn’t know. I had told you that I hate to make waves or argue or be on someones bad side. I just want to fix this situation so much and it’s driving me crazy. Well not crazy just so miserable the longer it goes on. His dad and I were so tight and he even had a nickname that he always called me. He would tell me that he wanted to see his son and I married and together so much he was heartsick. When my boys and I went to Florida he brought up his son and called him stupid stupid stupid. He’s got the most fantastic woman who has everything and he’s too dumb to do something about it. His father knew how much his son loved me. At the time my ex was involved with the drugs. I asked my ex why he keeps coming back and he told me because he loves me so much and I am the one he’s always wanted. I know that if I would’ve hung in there I know he would have gradually gotten his dad and I to talk. He had told me that he wasn’t going anywhere and that he would be around for as long as I wanted him. I strongly believe it’s the issue with his family and he doesn’t know what to do. Now he’s angry at me and won’t talk. Plus I think he believes I left because of his impotentcy. He’s a very sensitive person and the way I handled things made him hurt and angry and he lashed out at me. He had told me that he has everything he’s ever wanted he’s happy at his job, been clean for over 3 yrs, and he finally has the woman he’s always wanted. Back in March after he got back from Florida I sent him flowers at work after I left the message on his voicemail. I know he loved that because nobody ever has done that before. He always done this for me. This was another thing that the women at work commented about. He would send me flowers at work all the time. Sometimes he would send 4 dozen for our anniversary, Valentines Day , Mothers Day, or just because. They would say that their husbands never did that they had to get mad at them and suggest they send flowers. Everytime flowers would come in I would hear one say “Oh GOD, We know these are for Cheryl no doubt what do you want to bet”. I don’t know how to make things right Scott. I will tread slowly that’s why I purchased the book. I just would really appreciate advice on this situation and how do I handle it if I get to finally talk to him. I know I should bring this up gradually and ease into small or other conversation when or if we meet. Who would dream that they would have to worry about losing their job in order to make things right with family. I have known his whole family since we were kids. His mom passed away 9 yrs ago and her and I were best friends. We would hang out all the time and we were shopping buddies. I miss her so much and know that if she were here I could talk to her. She was so happy one time when I said that her son and I were talking marriage. They wanted to pay for everything and even build us a house. So you see his family and I were very close. Even the older sister thought I was the perfect woman for him. He told me she idolized me. They tried one time to get us back together by having a big birthday party for everyone that had birthdays in January, February and March. Something they never had before. His is January and our sons is in March. They made sure that him and I were next to each other and they coincidently had other things to do and left us by ourselves. He told me it was all set up. Thanks so much Scott for listening and offering the best advice ever!!
CHERYL wrote:
Actually instead of trying to take on all your relationship issues yourself, see if you can find some free, or low cost marriage counseling.
This would be after you had a few short casual meetings to reconnect first.
Once again the key to success is emotional control, this will enable you to take the time to proceed slowly and carefully, understand?
@ S. Williams:
Hey Scott Thanks for your advice. I’m really bummed right now and very hurt. I ran into my ex’s son tonight. His son from his first marriage. He asked if he could talk to me. He was sharing the apartment with his dad but he moved out. His dad always talked about me and how distraught he was over losing me. His son kept telling him to talk to me that we could work it out. Well I guess my ex wanted revenge and wanted to really hurt me. A girl he had met in rehab well he started to see her and now their living together and his son moved out. His son nor his daughter is speaking to him. His son argued with him and said he was making a mistake and that this was just a rebound and he would regret it. His son told me that his dad really loves me and he’s just using this girl to hurt me. His son was apologizing to me and said that he really likes me. Oh God I’m so hurt and feel like all my hard work is going down the tubes! How could he do this? I know that rebound relationships rarely work but it hurts so much. I guess he hooked up with her right after I broke up with him. His son said that he argued with his dad and said that he was ruining any chances with me by doing this. His son told me that his dad is devestated . I guess he’s known this girl for about 6 yrs and this must be the one that called me. I told her that he would be back to me he always does. Why is he doing this I’m absolutely heartbroken . I don’t know if I should throw in the towel now I don’t know if all my hard work is going to worth it. I do love him and want this to work.
@ CHERYL:
@ S. Williams:
I’m sorry I can’t sleep at all. Everything keeps going round and round. His son asked me not to give up on his dad I don’t know. My butt is definitely getting kicked now. His son told me that he talked alot to him and I definitely have his dad’s heart. I asked him why he did what he did. I guess alot of the problems that were there he wanted to work them out gradually but I walked away. His son wants me to hang in there and wait it out. He doesn’t care for the girl at all and said that his dad told him that this girl is on his mind because she’s there when I should’ve been but I have his heart and no other woman will ever get that but me. His son told me that his dad does have the medical problems and isn’t working alot because there isn’t much work now. He doesn’t want to be alone. His son was working with him and said that he got another job. He’s really mad at his dad. His son said that this was it that his dad wanted to marry me and stay with me forever. He really poured his heart out and from his words I pulled his heart out and stomped all over it. I started to cry in front of his son and told him I would try to hang in there. I guess from what he said this girl is a replacement for me temporarily. That’s why his kids are so mad at him. They don’t like her but they don’t like the way he’s doing things. I’ve known his kids since they were small and they all like me. His son said that as long as I stay positive it’ll all be ok. He said his dad was very sad right now and his self esteem is in the bucket. I guess he’s going through alot of emotions too. I’m so glad to vent Scott. I’ve been working so hard for this I really have. Tonight I found out I lost 31 pounds. I was so happy and then I find this out. I know it’s not going to work between them but it still hurts so much. His son wants his dad to be happy and hopes he’ll come to his sences.I’m still going to look into talking to someone. I need some encouragement so bad.Now I have to really study the strategy of a rebound relationship. His son told me that he wanted to tell his father that he saw me with another man. I said that might make things worse. He asked me to trust him that it would definitely work. I don’t like to be dishonest like that it’s wrong. He said that his dad knows I lost alot of weight and if he tells him this it would definitely work. His son said dad knows how pretty you are he kept saying I was the whole package and the real deal and he wants me to be his wife. If I’m dating he might lose me because other guys will definitely pick up on what a great catch I am and he’ll lose me. His son said he will handle it and just casually tell him and he knows his dad will definitely be interested. I guess he would tell the guys at work too about me and they think he lost his mind that he let me walk away. He also still has my pictues all my texts and my voicemails on his phone. He still has the flowers I sent him and he even had them preserved to protect them. I know his son would always tell me the truth. I’m still confused he is a puzzle sometimes. I am going to move up a notch in the book and take it from there. His son said he’ll let me know the outcome. I’m going to try to sleep now and hope for the best. We dohave plenty of history and I know this is in my favor. Thanks for listening Scott!
CHERYL wrote:
Starting a relationship out of revenge isn’t a very good idea.
This will actually work in your favor…how?
The relationship is doomed (started for revenge only…not love) and he will feel guilty about it later, which will work to your advantage when you attempt reconnection.
Hang in there and keep working with the exercises in chapters 1-5 to maintain your emotional control…OK?
Thanks Scott. He did the very same thing when we were teenagers and I tried to test his feelings to see if he really cared. He begged me to change my mind. He waited until he met someone and broke up with me. He assummed that I was unhappy with him so he found someone else. That only lasted a couple of months. His son contacted me and told me he told his dad he saw me out with some guy. It worked. He wanted to know where, when, what the guy looked like,how I looked, the whole 9 yards. He told his dad again that he was making a huge mistake. He told his dad that I lost so much weight. He said his dad got very quiet and had tears in his eyes. His son thinks I should make the first move and I doubt that. His dad knows that his son isn’t happy with his choice for now and thinks his dad is going to give this girl the heave ho. His son told me that he dad feels so alone and theres alot that he doesn’t like about this girl. They don’t have much in common and he compares her alot to me. He says I have alot in my favor. You were definitely right Scott. He also listens to songs that we loved in his work truck. We both love Def Leppard and he knows I had won tickets to one of their concerts and said to his son he wondered who went with me. He wished it was him. I feel like I’m living a soap Opera and I hate it. I don’t want to let him go really I don’t. I love him with my whole heart and soul and always have and always will. He’s the love of my life and I haven’t loved anybody like this since him. He truly has my heart and I will not give up and fight to keep this in my life. I will only give up if theres nothing to fight for. I do have a trmendous amopunt of hope and I’m going to keep getting stronger and fight for what I want. I had a long talk with our son and he understands. He’s the one that works out with me and we weighed ourselves and said hey mom you lost 31 pounds and high 5ed me. I assurred him that his dad loves him and we have to stick together and be positive and we’ll be ok. He agreed. His oldest son,he’s 21, said that he knows we’ll work it out and he doesn’t like working behind his dads back but he wants to help us. He firmly believes that his dad and I belong together. I strongly agree. I can’t believe this fear I have though of approaching himwhen I feel I’m ready. I’ve always been afraid of rejection and my friends and family said thats whats wrong. I have known him all my life and he is the most caring compassionate person and I’m scared. He’s also the most stubborn too. Don’t get me wrong he’s not mean at all but when he gets hurt he lashes out big time. I will continue to hang in there Scott! Thanks.
@ S. Williams:
I did something really dumb Scott. My girlfriend and I went on a whim to see a psychic and she told me very unpositive things and I got rewally upset. Dumb I know but it was just a whim. I was so despondant but my best friend brought me back up. I shouldn’t have done that now I feel a little trickle of doubt. I won’t do that again.
@ S. Williams:
My ex broke up with me because he thought I didn’t trust him and kept him from going out with his mates. And that I kept bringing up his ex girlfriend and accusing him of her loving her. We’ve been together for 14months. He said it wasn’t working out and that he didn’t love me anymore.
Can somebody just stop loving you? Even if you weren’t the first person they loved?
emit8 wrote:
Anything is possible, but most of time people say things like that to get you to leave them alone, not because it is true.
Use NC and follow my free plan to turn the tables on your situation, OK?
I just broke up with my grilfriend of 5 years. We had off and ons before but this time i got a little too emotional and went into panic mode by calling all times off the night, visiting uninvited, and emailing, to the point where she demanded no more communication ever again. I totally lost my cool in tis situation. The relationship was pretty serious and I even moved cross country to be with her.
Any hope or is it time to move on?
john wrote:
Hi John,
I answered your first comment, what’s the problem?
Go read my free plan at the top of my Blog, OK?
john wrote:
Do you know why you were having “offs and ons”?
Because your relationship was dying, it’s time to let the old relationship die, and prepare for a new one, understand?.
Go use my free step by step plan and start your personal and emotional evolution, ASAP!
Wow… What about all the NC rule advice? @ S. Williams:
john wrote:
You’re kinda dense aren’t you John?
OK, one more time…
Go Read My Plan and then do what it tells you to do, it will teach you how to use the no contact rule, and how to get your ex back for free, what else can I do for you?
Please do not ask me another question until you take the time to follow through on my advice…OK?
Hi,
I didn’t see your first response. My fault. kind of bummed out from the break up and looking for options. It’s easy for me to meet and find another woman but this one is very special to me.
Any advice would be appreciate.
Thx
john wrote:
John,
Click the link below:
Free Plan to Help John Get His Ex Back So He Doesn’t Have to Find Another Woman
Thanks.
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Hey, I had the worst break up ever! myself and my ex were together over 5 years and have a son together. We were very much in love but I developed post natal depression and pushed him away. Our communication broke down and he fell into the arms of an oportunistic B**ch who had previously tried to steal him with no success. Only, this time he was much more vunerable as he never had me on my usual form. The problem is this was nearly two years ago. We coninuously rowed (on and off) over access issues and our son. When he speaks I hear her words falling from his mouth. It got to the point that I had to brake all contact (using third party as drop off and pick up point) as it was unhealthy for all involved, especially our son. In this time, around 3 months I have had no contact with him and i have tackled the depression using exercize and diet. I feel and look very well. My question is is it too late to try and win him back? I think (well, hope) he still loves me as he has not moved in with her, when we did see each other he would look at me as he always did, tries to find out information about me through friends and my family, and constantly tries to touch me (not sexually-just very tactile, which he was not before), and has put on alot of weight-suggesting hes not happy? I honestly feel this woman has warped his mind and got him at such a vunerable time that i may never get him back. she has nothing to do with our son, although he says this is his decision-not hers. His mother never liked me (because I am working class and they are middle class), never took much intrest in her grandson and yet she has offered to PAY for a holiday for my ex and this homewreker. My ex is a good man at heart he just has two other women in his life-both of whom, dont want him near me. Is this a fight I can win? He looked so unhappy every time I saw him. What do I do? wait it out? I dont want to cause him further heartache I just want to hold him and be there for him. Help me decide what to do Please. XX
smiler wrote:
Hi Smiler,
Unfortunately you have to go through some pain to get what you want.
My best advice would be to send him the NC message (even though it has been 2 years) and then follow the plan.
Sending him the recommended NC will make him take notice and start to think about you and the old break up again, this is how you both start to evolve, OK?
Whether it will work or not…I can’t tell you, but what have you got to lose, right?
@ S. Williams:
Is it possible to win him back after nearly two years though? I guess thats what Im asking. Have you heard of other couples reuniting after this long? It just took this long to de-tangle from one another and for me to recoup, regroup and get through the depression.
smiler wrote:
Here is a story I found about some people who were broken up waaay longer than 2 years, and got back together again.
Amazing Reunion
So, you tell me what is possible, and what isn’t?
I believe anything worth having, is worth fighting for, don’t you?
Follow my free plan, and find out if you can win him back or not.