Comments on: How to Tell if Your Ex Still Loves You – 4 Excellent Signs That They Want You Back http://blog.howtogetyourexbackfast.com/how-to-tell-if-your-ex-still-loves-you-4-excellent-signs-that-they-want-you-back/ How to Get Your Ex Back Fast and Survive a Break up Thu, 09 Feb 2012 03:14:21 +0000 hourly 1 http://wordpress.org/?v=3.3.1 By: S. Williams http://blog.howtogetyourexbackfast.com/how-to-tell-if-your-ex-still-loves-you-4-excellent-signs-that-they-want-you-back/#comment-10154 S. Williams Sat, 21 Jan 2012 17:56:29 +0000 http://blog.howtogetyourexbackfast.com/?p=81#comment-10154 Amy said: <blockquote>we made the long distance relationship work last time</blockquote> Really? If it was working so well, why aren't you still together? Do you really think that doing the same thing over and over will produce different results? It won't. It takes 9-12 months (closer to 12, judging from the feedback in our forum) to actually evolve past a break up and get your life back, 2 months isn't enough time. If you didn't follow the free plan, you didn't use the no contact rule correctly. Thank you for writing. Take Care, S.W. Amy said:

we made the long distance relationship work last time

Really?

If it was working so well, why aren’t you still together?

Do you really think that doing the same thing over and over will produce different results?

It won’t.

It takes 9-12 months (closer to 12, judging from the feedback in our forum) to actually evolve past a break up and get your life back, 2 months isn’t enough time.

If you didn’t follow the free plan, you didn’t use the no contact rule correctly.

Thank you for writing.

Take Care,

S.W.

]]> By: S. Williams http://blog.howtogetyourexbackfast.com/how-to-tell-if-your-ex-still-loves-you-4-excellent-signs-that-they-want-you-back/#comment-10153 S. Williams Sat, 21 Jan 2012 17:50:50 +0000 http://blog.howtogetyourexbackfast.com/?p=81#comment-10153 Hi, It doesn't matter who contacted who. He is just trying to see if you are still in the "just friends zone", also known as relationship limbo. Trying to remain friends with your ex in hopes of winning him back is a BIG mistake, you can read all about that in the <a href="http://www.howtokicklovesass.com/forum/my-no-contact-diary" title="Link to My No Contact Diaries on the Forum" target="_blank" rel="nofollow">NC diaries</a> on our forum. You're not following the no contact rule correctly. Follow my previous advice, and focus on getting your life back, not your ex boyfriend. Thank you for writing. Take Care, S.W. Hi,

It doesn’t matter who contacted who.

He is just trying to see if you are still in the “just friends zone”, also known as relationship limbo.

Trying to remain friends with your ex in hopes of winning him back is a BIG mistake, you can read all about that in the NC diaries on our forum.

You’re not following the no contact rule correctly.

Follow my previous advice, and focus on getting your life back, not your ex boyfriend.

Thank you for writing.

Take Care,

S.W.

]]> By: Amy http://blog.howtogetyourexbackfast.com/how-to-tell-if-your-ex-still-loves-you-4-excellent-signs-that-they-want-you-back/#comment-10152 Amy Sat, 21 Jan 2012 17:46:28 +0000 http://blog.howtogetyourexbackfast.com/?p=81#comment-10152 we made the long distance relationship work last time, but I am going on dates with other people. I did NC by not talking after the break up and moving on. It been 2 months and we are talking again slowly.. we made the long distance relationship work last time, but I am going on dates with other people. I did NC by not talking after the break up and moving on. It been 2 months and we are talking again slowly..

]]> By: Amy http://blog.howtogetyourexbackfast.com/how-to-tell-if-your-ex-still-loves-you-4-excellent-signs-that-they-want-you-back/#comment-10151 Amy Sat, 21 Jan 2012 17:40:18 +0000 http://blog.howtogetyourexbackfast.com/?p=81#comment-10151 * and by first texting I mean after he was iniating conversations with me. He asked to be friends when we broke up, asked about my dating situation which I mentioned before. Basically we are talking lightly once or twice a week. * and by first texting I mean after he was iniating conversations with me. He asked to be friends when we broke up, asked about my dating situation which I mentioned before. Basically we are talking lightly once or twice a week.

]]> By: S. Williams http://blog.howtogetyourexbackfast.com/how-to-tell-if-your-ex-still-loves-you-4-excellent-signs-that-they-want-you-back/#comment-10150 S. Williams Sat, 21 Jan 2012 17:37:39 +0000 http://blog.howtogetyourexbackfast.com/?p=81#comment-10150 Hi, You "did the NC"...What does that mean? The whole of purpose of the no contact rule in the free plan is to get your life back, not your ex. The reconnection process is explained in the last part of the free plan, but why try to reconnect when you are not close enough to date? Doesn't make much sense to me, and I think you're just trying to keep him from dating other women. That is absolutely the wrong reason to try and reconnect with your ex. I recommend going back into NC (resend the NC message as outlined in the free plan) and following the plan until you have your life back, and you no longer worry about getting your ex back (or worry about keeping him from dating). It is necessary for both of you to evolve past the breakup, and date other people to reveal your true feelings for each other. There is no "quick fix" to real breakups (not just little fights), that is why none of those "get your ex back in 30 days" plans work for very long. Oh yeah, people get back together, they get back together just long enough to break up all over again...it is pathetic. I have seen it happen too many times, and that is why I created the free plan and support system. I help people survive a break up and get their lives back, not get their ex boyfriend back, and I explain why in the "<a href="http://blog.howtogetyourexbackfast.com/about-s-williams-how-to-get-your-ex-back-fast/" rel="nofollow">About</a>" section on my Blog. Go read the <a href="http://blog.howtogetyourexbackfast.com/" rel="nofollow">free plan to get your ex back</a> and follow ALL the steps to heal your broken heart, evolve past the breakup, and get your life back again. Thank you for writing. Take Care, S.W. IMPORTANT - If you found this information helpful or useful, please give me a "+1" rating by using the colored "+1 button" at the top or bottom of the above article. I'd really appreciate it. Hi,

You “did the NC”…What does that mean?

The whole of purpose of the no contact rule in the free plan is to get your life back, not your ex.

The reconnection process is explained in the last part of the free plan, but why try to reconnect when you are not close enough to date?

Doesn’t make much sense to me, and I think you’re just trying to keep him from dating other women.

That is absolutely the wrong reason to try and reconnect with your ex.

I recommend going back into NC (resend the NC message as outlined in the free plan) and following the plan until you have your life back, and you no longer worry about getting your ex back (or worry about keeping him from dating).

It is necessary for both of you to evolve past the breakup, and date other people to reveal your true feelings for each other.

There is no “quick fix” to real breakups (not just little fights), that is why none of those “get your ex back in 30 days” plans work for very long.

Oh yeah, people get back together, they get back together just long enough to break up all over again…it is pathetic.

I have seen it happen too many times, and that is why I created the free plan and support system.

I help people survive a break up and get their lives back, not get their ex boyfriend back, and I explain why in the “About” section on my Blog.

Go read the free plan to get your ex back and follow ALL the steps to heal your broken heart, evolve past the breakup, and get your life back again.

Thank you for writing.

Take Care,

S.W.

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]]> By: Amy http://blog.howtogetyourexbackfast.com/how-to-tell-if-your-ex-still-loves-you-4-excellent-signs-that-they-want-you-back/#comment-10149 Amy Sat, 21 Jan 2012 17:05:11 +0000 http://blog.howtogetyourexbackfast.com/?p=81#comment-10149 My ex and I have been reconnecting he contacted me I did the NC and I have told him all the new stuff I have been doing we talk about school family and casually stuff. He said he is happy to hear I am doing well, or he is happy to hear that with a :) We don't talk often every day so far just once or twice a week. but he messages me to see how I am doing He asked if I was seeing anyone I said no. But we are lightly talking again. We were in a long distance relationship so I don't know how a meet up would work. I don't know how to take this further.. do I keep talking to him on the phone or do Ignore his messages some times. He always asks about me.. when I first texted him asking how he was. My ex and I have been reconnecting he contacted me I did the NC and I have told him all the new stuff I have been doing we talk about school family and casually stuff. He said he is happy to hear I am doing well, or he is happy to hear that with a :) We don’t talk often every day so far just once or twice a week. but he messages me to see how I am doing He asked if I was seeing anyone I said no. But we are lightly talking again. We were in a long distance relationship so I don’t know how a meet up would work. I don’t know how to take this further.. do I keep talking to him on the phone or do Ignore his messages some times. He always asks about me.. when I first texted him asking how he was.

]]> By: S. Williams http://blog.howtogetyourexbackfast.com/how-to-tell-if-your-ex-still-loves-you-4-excellent-signs-that-they-want-you-back/#comment-10132 S. Williams Sat, 14 Jan 2012 23:15:03 +0000 http://blog.howtogetyourexbackfast.com/?p=81#comment-10132 Hi, Yeah, it sure sounds like you are being jerked around, and that's why you need to use the no contact rule correctly. It will get him off your back and ease your confusion, and it will also reveal his true feelings for you...over time (9-12 months). I help people survive a break up and get their lives back, not get their ex boyfriend back, and I explain why in the "<a href="http://blog.howtogetyourexbackfast.com/about-s-williams-how-to-get-your-ex-back-fast/" rel="nofollow">About</a>" section on my Blog. Go read the <a href="http://blog.howtogetyourexbackfast.com/" rel="nofollow">free plan to get your ex back</a> and follow ALL the steps to heal your broken heart, evolve past the breakup, and get your life back again. Thank you for writing. Take Care, S.W. IMPORTANT - If you found this information helpful or useful, please give me a "+1" rating by using the colored "+1 button" at the top or bottom of the above article. I'd really appreciate it. Hi,

Yeah, it sure sounds like you are being jerked around, and that’s why you need to use the no contact rule correctly.

It will get him off your back and ease your confusion, and it will also reveal his true feelings for you…over time (9-12 months).

I help people survive a break up and get their lives back, not get their ex boyfriend back, and I explain why in the “About” section on my Blog.

Go read the free plan to get your ex back and follow ALL the steps to heal your broken heart, evolve past the breakup, and get your life back again.

Thank you for writing.

Take Care,

S.W.

IMPORTANT – If you found this information helpful or useful, please give me a “+1″ rating by using the colored “+1 button” at the top or bottom of the above article. I’d really appreciate it.

]]> By: NICOLE SIMS http://blog.howtogetyourexbackfast.com/how-to-tell-if-your-ex-still-loves-you-4-excellent-signs-that-they-want-you-back/#comment-10130 NICOLE SIMS Sat, 14 Jan 2012 18:06:20 +0000 http://blog.howtogetyourexbackfast.com/?p=81#comment-10130 My ex texts me everyday and some days he may skip but everything is so confusing. He'll text me and ask me how I am he'll tell me how bad he's doing and if i start telling him how i'm doing then he asks if he can hit me back later or hes doing something or have had such a lack of sleep or something that is going on that is so bad he finally started telling me that he misses me and he always tells me he has time for me but he has so many things he has to do to get his life on track it all seems crazy to me i don't know what he wants but im starting not to want him but i Love him. My ex texts me everyday and some days he may skip but everything is so confusing. He’ll text me and ask me how I am he’ll tell me how bad he’s doing and if i start telling him how i’m doing then he asks if he can hit me back later or hes doing something or have had such a lack of sleep or something that is going on that is so bad he finally started telling me that he misses me and he always tells me he has time for me but he has so many things he has to do to get his life on track it all seems crazy to me i don’t know what he wants but im starting not to want him but i Love him.

]]> By: Annie http://blog.howtogetyourexbackfast.com/how-to-tell-if-your-ex-still-loves-you-4-excellent-signs-that-they-want-you-back/#comment-9817 Annie Sat, 29 Oct 2011 13:30:24 +0000 http://blog.howtogetyourexbackfast.com/?p=81#comment-9817 Thank you so much for your response and help. I definitely need to know how to use the no contact rule correctly. I am reading through your fantastic site and gaining lots of insight - its very calming. Now Im off to the gym and have a nice day planned just for ME. Thank you Scott. Thank you so much for your response and help. I definitely need to know how to use the no contact rule correctly.

I am reading through your fantastic site and gaining lots of insight – its very calming. Now Im off to the gym and have a nice day planned just for ME. Thank you Scott.

]]> By: S. Williams http://blog.howtogetyourexbackfast.com/how-to-tell-if-your-ex-still-loves-you-4-excellent-signs-that-they-want-you-back/#comment-9813 S. Williams Sat, 29 Oct 2011 12:28:32 +0000 http://blog.howtogetyourexbackfast.com/?p=81#comment-9813 Hi, Since you both cheated that really isn't relevant to the break up, there is something else he is not telling you. Since you can't torture him, or read his mind to find out what it is, all you can do is look out for yourself. I can help you use the no contact rule correctly to reveal his true feelings for you. I help people survive a break up and get their lives back, not get their ex husband back, and I explain why in the "<a href="http://blog.howtogetyourexbackfast.com/about-s-williams-how-to-get-your-ex-back-fast/" rel="nofollow">About</a>" section on my Blog. Go read the <a href="http://blog.howtogetyourexbackfast.com/" rel="nofollow">free plan to get your ex back</a> and follow ALL the steps to heal your broken heart, evolve past the breakup, and get your life back again. Thank you for writing. Take Care, S.W. IMPORTANT - If you found this information helpful or useful, please give me a "+1" rating by using the colored "+1 button" at the top or bottom of the above article. I'd really appreciate it. Hi,

Since you both cheated that really isn’t relevant to the break up, there is something else he is not telling you.

Since you can’t torture him, or read his mind to find out what it is, all you can do is look out for yourself.

I can help you use the no contact rule correctly to reveal his true feelings for you.

I help people survive a break up and get their lives back, not get their ex husband back, and I explain why in the “About” section on my Blog.

Go read the free plan to get your ex back and follow ALL the steps to heal your broken heart, evolve past the breakup, and get your life back again.

Thank you for writing.

Take Care,

S.W.

IMPORTANT – If you found this information helpful or useful, please give me a “+1″ rating by using the colored “+1 button” at the top or bottom of the above article. I’d really appreciate it.

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