How to Tell if Your Ex Still Loves You – 4 Excellent Signs That They Want You Back

Do you want to know how to tell if your ex still loves you? I am sure that is the one thing everybody wants to know after a break up. Although there really isn’t anyway to tell 100% (only your ex knows for sure) if your ex still cares. But these signs will give you a good indication if your ex still loves you, or not.

How to Tell if Your Ex Boyfriend Still Loves You – Sign One

Did your ex ask to still be friends? If so there is a great chance that he/she still loves you. I know you want to be more than friends, and there are step by step plans to teach you how to do that. But, for now be happy in knowing that your ex still loves you, and you have a chance to get your ex back.

How to Tell if Your Ex Girlfriend Still Loves You – Sign Two

Does your ex contact you daily, or every other day? This is another good sign that your ex boyfriend/girlfriend still loves you. They are keeping tabs on you, and you’re on their mind. Do not get over excited and try to force things, you’ll need a good plan for that. Just enjoy the fact that there’s a very good chance to win back your ex.

If Your Ex Touches you A Lot - That is a Sign That Your Ex Still Loves You

How to Tell if Your Ex Wife Still Loves You – Sign Three

Do you seem to run into your ex a lot? This is another great sign that your ex still loves you, and is looking for a way back into your life. Once again do not over react you need to know what you’re doing first…OK? Just relax knowing that your ex still cares, and you have a good chance to get your ex back.

How to Tell if Your Ex Husband Still Loves You – Sign Four

This sign is the ultimate indication that your ex still loves, and cares for you. Whenever you’re talking face to face with your ex; do they come into your personal space? I mean do they come close into you and look in your eyes a lot? This is the mother of all signs that your ex still loves you and wants you back. Beware! Do not overact and try anything foolish. You could scare your ex away again. Get yourself a good plan with support, and follow it to get your ex back.

Now that you are almost positive that your ex still loves you, and wants you back, you need to take some action. Right now you’re excited and emotionally unbalanced you need someone or something to keep you in balance…Right? If you have any comments about the article, or questions about what to do next, just write them in the comment box below, and I will answer them ASAP! Now that you know how to tell if your ex still loves you; What are you willing to do to get back together with your ex?

Until next time,

S. Williams

~I know that “love hurts” but with my help you will get strong enough to kick love’s ass~

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54 Responses to “How to Tell if Your Ex Still Loves You – 4 Excellent Signs That They Want You Back”

  1. jourden says:

    Hello scott,
    So i know that you said no contact works, but we have been split for about a month and i will admit that i have been crazy like i will call me and be needy and all that and try my hardest with words to reach his heart and make him change his mind, but for the past two weeks i have not been calling him he has been txting me about every other day to see how i am and all that, i have to book the magic of making up by TW jackson but, i just want to know that even though it has been two months since the breakup if i start no contact now do i still have a chance?
    Thank you

  2. S. Williams says:

    Hi Jourden,

    I guess whomever you bought the book from doesn’t offer free personal support like I do?

    If your interested in getting my free personal support you can go request a refund here, and then buy it through my link, and I will send you my personal private email address for my customers only.

    I just wanted to get that out there because it pisses me off all the people who are selling this book, but not supporting their customers like I do.

    From all my experience working with this book, and the people who buy it, I have seen without a doubt, that personal support makes a big difference between who is successful, and who isn’t.

    OK, sorry for the little rant, back to your question.

    Will no contact work if you start it today?

    Yes

    Will your ex like it?

    No

    Why?

    Because now they won’t know what you’re up to, and that will bug the shit out of them…they might even start to worry about losing you.

    They like to keep you on a short leash, so they know that you’re still waiting for them…understand?

    This is a very good sign that they still have feelings for you…take advantage of that, and get them back using no contact.

    Open the book, and start from page one…it is NEVER too late to start doing things right…OK?

    I hope this helped, and don’t hesitate any longer…get started!

    Take Care,

    S. Williams

  3. Djinho says:

    Scott, how the hell are you supposed to make a woman feel appreciated when you are in NC mode and someone else is doing the appreciating in place of you?
    Djinho

  4. S. Williams says:

    Hi Djinho,

    Actually you are showing her appreciation by giving her the space she asked for when she left you…make sense?

    Most people would only think of themselves, and start begging and pleading for them to come back, so “they” could feel better.

    Then once you win back your ex girlfriend you can start showing her the other kind appreciation again.

    Take Care,

    S. Williams

  5. Jason says:

    My ex girl has a new boyfriend and i am really worried i cannot win her back, please help me, what can i do???

  6. S. Williams says:

    Hi Jason,

    When did you and your ex girlfriend break up?

    Even though that doesn’t really matter, and neither does the fact she is dating someone else.

    With the right plan, and guidance you can win her back…you interested?

    First of all stop worrying, and start taking some action.

    You get the plan, and I will give you the free guidance and support you”ll need to be successful.

    The faster you take action, the quicker she will come back.

    I look forward to working with you, and helping you win back your ex.

    Take Care,

    S. Williams

  7. Jason says:

    i am very very interested, what did i have 2 do?? do i have 2 come up with a plan or will u assist me?

  8. S. Williams says:

    Hi Jason,

    No, you don’t have to come up with your own plan, unless you want to.

    I can recommend the best plan for getting your ex girlfriend back.

    Just click here: I Want My Ex Girlfriend Back and follow the instructions on the website…OK?

    If you have any questions/problems just leave them for me here, and I will answer them for you…sound good?

    Take Care,

    S. Williams

  9. Phil says:

    Hi Scott,
    My Ex broke up with me a couple of months ago. I did the usual beg, plead, wrote her a letter told her things would be different, I would change ect… I then reed lots of stuff on the internet and stopped the wining & almost cut contact. By that I mean the only contact I had was to write her a short letter saying I was now ok with the brake up and thought it was for the best. During the next two and a half weeks we didn’t really speak, I then replied to a txt thanking me for sending back a dvd to her. She asked how I was I replied and we exchanged about 10 messages before she said she had to go. Since then we’ve had couple how similar txt chats and I’ve bumped into her a couple of times while in the local night club. On both occasions I’ve tried to keep my distance just saying hi. From reading the magic of making up, I think the best thing to do now is to try dating again? I have been trying but as of yet have had no joy. I have been told that she is seeing someone else now.
    I would be very grateful for any advice you could give me.

  10. S. Williams says:

    Hi Phil,

    I think you should go back and complete the 30 days no contact, you have been communicating i.e. ” 10 text messages” if you read the plan in the book, you”ll see that is not a good idea.

    Why?

    Because now she knows you’re still waiting, and what you’ve been up to.

    You don’t have to come out and tell her you’re waiting…she will be able to read between the lines…understand?

    Here’s a video I think you should watch by the author of the magic of making up, “Premature Reconciliation”, it is about the dangers of rushing through the no contact stage of the plan.

    My advice is to not worry about what you did, and what she is doing, and focus on following the plan in the book.

    Emotional control is the “key” to success, if you need help in that area see my section about emotional control…OK?

    She is still interested…I can feel it, been bumping into each other, that’s a good sign.

    If she wanted to she could’ve ignored you…right?

    Get back on your horse…you’re still in the game.

    Let me know if you have anymore questions…OK?

    Take Care,

    S. Williams

  11. Nick says:

    Hey Scott
    my girlfriend and i broke up about three and a half weeks ago We dated for just over a year. I sent the letter saying i was sorry for any mistakes but that maybe the break up was the best thing for the both of us. Ive been hanging out with friends but on of the problems is that my girlfriend works at a bar that me and my friends go to alot. Ive limited how many times we have gone but ive still gone with friends to the bar twice when she has been there once she was working the other time she was just there with friends. On the first occasion I found out she started crying because i was out with friends, and i feel this is one of the problems in our reltionship twoards the end i wasnt going out with her enough. But on both occasions i just acted cool and confident said hi made small talk and went on having fun with my friends. She still has not attempted to make contact with me at all. Im worried i dont know if no contact is having the desired effect. Im wondering how to proceed, i was thinking that if i see her again in a week or so, that id reiterate that i was cool with the break up and that we should catch up sometime. Please help just a little confused on how to proceed.

  12. Nick says:

    I guess the one time she was crying i text her the next day just to tell her that i saw her and the other time i just text her to say it was nice to see her.

  13. S. Williams says:

    Hi Nick,

    Are you serious about getting her back?

    If so, do what all the other serious people did, and get a plan to follow.

    Nick wrote:

    I guess the one time she was crying i text her the next day just to tell her that i saw her and the other time i just text her to say it was nice to see her.

    I guess that is called breaking no contact…you need a plan badly.

    I will donate my time, and guidance for free, but I am not going to spoon feed you a plan…I don’t have the time.

    I will teach you to drive, but you need to supply the car…fair enough?

    If you are planning on “winging it” then take a look around my Blog, and read the hundreds of comments and responses, chances are your question has already been answered.

    Take Care,

    S. Williams

  14. Nick says:

    Yes, im very serious about getting her back. Ive recently purchased the Magic of Making Up, and have had no contact at all for just over two weeks. But I dont know if its getting its desired effect. Were both in college and I guess im just hoping no contact is having the desired effect.

  15. S. Williams says:

    @ Nick:

    You might have to wait a little longer than 2 weeks, to see the “desired effect” you are waiting for.

    I would stop “hoping” and start working the plan, there’s way more to the plan than just using NC for 30 days.

    Read the book, do each and every exercise in each chapter, and stop watching the clock like 30 days is a magic number.

    Read my Blog, and all the comments on here, and most of…be patient.

    If you need help with controlling your emotions look into self help tools like the one’s I mentioned on my Blog.

    Life runs in cycles, and no matter how much you want a cycle to be over you have to wait until it runs it’s full cycle.

    Breakups and make ups are the same way they run in cycles too.

    I can help, but I can not answer “vague” questions like is my NC getting the “desired effect”?

    Understand?

    Take Care,

    S. Williams

  16. Phil says:

    Hi Scott,
    Thanks for your advice, I have now had no contact at all with my ex for over 30 days. I’m feeling a lot better mentally and emotionally. I have been keeping myself busy and have been going out a lot with friends. The only thing am I really having a problem with is getting myself a date! My Ex has been going out with someone else for the last four weeks, I haven’t really let it bother me, from reading your blog and other stuff I know it’s got nothing to do with my personal relationship with my Ex and chances of wining her back. Suppose my next question is do you think is important for me to go on a few dates before reconnecting?
    I know 30 days is the minimum time you should leave it, but is there a point where you can leave it to long?

    Many thanks

    Phil

  17. S. Williams says:

    Phil wrote:

    I have now had no contact at all with my ex for over 30 days. I’m feeling a lot better mentally and emotionally.

    Did you initiate NC correctly?…see FAQ#1,2 besides being a time to get your emotions in order you needed to let her know why you’re taking time away from her.

    Phil wrote:

    I know 30 days is the minimum time you should leave it, but is there a point where you can leave it to long?

    Dating is optional, but it will send her a clear message that you’re not going to wait around for her, that is if you initiated NC correctly.

    I don’t think you can stay in NC too long, but I do think you can do it incorrectly.

    Using NC incorrectly would be if they asked to meet after 30 days and you repeatedly turned them down…after a while anyone would give up…right?

  18. Kitty says:

    Hello,

    I’m going through the biggest nightmare of my life. A few days before our six year anniversary, my boyfriend left me. We were high school sweethearts, and moved away for university together. Our lives were.. ‘perfect’ to say the least. We had a beautiful home, our cats, a laid back routine, and we helped each other with the stresses of school. We had plans to get married and have four children, amidst a ton of other goals we were striving towards. Then he suddenly got depressed, but swore it wasn’t me and he didn’t know what it was. We were still passionate as ever, our intimate life was really fantastic, even after all those years. Then we went home for a friends birthday party. He became adament that we move home. I didn’t want to, we had it all in another city, but as I caved, more and more issues came up with our new living situation for the summer. He woke me up that morning with kisses, we were still arguing over the summer plans. He went to the party himself, and I guess got a taste of what we left behind. Then when he got home, he told me he didn’t know if he loved me, or what love was, or anything.

    He took some of his stuff and left. He said the cruelest things to me imaginable, and forced me to leave my home and move back. We kept contact, it was mainly him yelling at me for reasons i’ll never understand. Its as if we fought so little, and were so happy, that he needs to make up things to argue about. A month and a half has passed now. When this all went down he was adament that he didn’t want me ever again, and he was getting routinely drunk, trying drugs too. Then he seen that I was gonna hang with an old friend of mine, and ‘needed’ to see me. We did, and he started off so hotheaded, but by the end of the night we were crying in each others arms and he said that maybe he just needs to go crazy this summer and come home to me. And that while he was originally so sure, now he doesn’t know, he thinks there may be a possibility of us together again. Weve seen each other four times since its all happened. And after everytime we start texting one another, get super happy, and everything just picks up.

    Hes started talking to me on a daily basis. He tells me about what he’s up to and wants to know what i’m doing. He brings up alot of happy stuff from our relationship and inside jokes. He even sent me songs that remind him of me. It sounds cliche, but I know hes the one for me. Two nights before he left me we were in our bed in each others arms crying and reminiscing our past 6 years together. We still act like kids, dancing and playing, and just being us. He’s not really the party, drug type guy, hes more of the school, goal oriented, video game type. He’s dropped the heavy drinking, but i’m scared he’s looking for someone else, knowing that I love him and want him back as back up or something. It would really kill me.

    I’ve done my best to focus on myself. He’s always said I was super hot, but I’ve dropped a ton of weight, fixed up my hair, and look alot better, he mentions it alot when he sees me. I’ve realized I was over reliant on him, but I see that our independance can help our relationship huge when were together again. It will make us look forward to those alone times alot more. I don’t know what to do really. I am going out and I think its getting to him, he likes to know what im doing and where im going and what not. He messages me all the time and clearly wants to keep contact claiming that im ‘so beautiful and precious and sweet that he wants to make sure im okay because he cares so much about me’. I don’t buy it. I know he misses me, hes said it. But I don’t know what to do from here. Hes the love of my life, I really need some guidance. Should I still sit here and joke around and laugh with my boyfriend, or should I ignore him to make him miss it. Ugh. Sorry for writing so much >.< Thank you.

  19. S. Williams says:

    Kitty wrote:

    I am going out and I think its getting to him, he likes to know what im doing and where im going and what not. He messages me all the time and clearly wants to keep contact claiming that im ’so beautiful and precious and sweet that he wants to make sure im okay because he cares so much about me’. I don’t buy it. I know he misses me, hes said it. But I don’t know what to do from here.

    You’re right…he is kidding himself.

    Do you have the book The Magic of Making up?

    If you don’t you need to get it and then we can work out a plan of action…OK?

    Right now I need you to go to my FAQ section and read about how to get the book and how to join our forum.

    Click Here for The FAQ Section

    Together with the book, my help and the forum members you stand the best chance ever of getting your life and your ex back again.

    Let’s do it! :)

  20. Kitty says:

    I haven’t purchased the book yet. I realize I need a plan of action. I decided to stop talking to him today. I’ve made it past day one, barely. I know he’ll see it as coming out of the blue. We’ve been talking nearly everyday now. He’s bringing up alot of memories and good stuff. I’m scared that by just disassociating myself with him he’ll turn to another woman to fill that void. Weve been lovers, best friends and companions for six years now, but i’m very worried that by not talking to him at all he’ll just turn to someone else.

    Back when this originally started, he was being so cruel so I started ignoring him. Then he reels me back in, per say, by saying something like ‘clearly you don’t want to try to make this work’ or ‘if any of my friends started ignoring me, i’d probably miss them too’. When he does contact me, which i’m sure he will when he realizes i’m not as accessible as i’ve been, what do I say? I know i’ll feel like saying i’m still waiting for you, I love you. But that’s definitely not going to help, as right as it feels for me to do. Any reasoning or logical answers I have for him aren’t doing a thing, even showing him the strides i’ve made to resolve my own insecurities (something that I believe led a great deal to us disolving). In some respects its like he wants to come back, (ie. ‘what would your family think?’ ‘How could I face them?’ ‘What would stop me from doing this again two years down the road?’) Then his normal pessimism comes in and he just keeps apologizing and basically saying he can’t do it. His friends have told me that he’s worried theres some other love out there better than what we had. Its rediculous. I don’t like to toot my own horn, but I am very good to him, we have a very strong intellectual, emotional and physical bond. Personally I think he needed to see the opposite route he could’ve taken, and has construed a bunch of nonsense to rationalize it.

    I’m scared that i’ll send the message I don’t care anymore and he’ll just start looking for someone else who will. Its hard after being together for so long, since I was 14, to just.. not. If you think it will help, I will do it. But what do I say when he talks to me. We talk on msn everyday and he texts once a week or so. Thank you I truly appreciate it.

  21. Kitty says:

    Also, I will take your past advice, and I am exploring your site. I see that you have answered my questions already in there and that NC isn’t really ignoring. But I know my guy, and that’s what he’ll call it :( so I need your guidance.

  22. S. Williams says:

    Kitty wrote:

    Also, I will take your past advice, and I am exploring your site. I see that you have answered my questions already in there and that NC isn’t really ignoring. But I know my guy, and that’s what he’ll call it so I need your guidance.

    It doesn’t matter what he calls it, it works.

    Have you joined the forum yet…I only answer questions in there now.

    (see my first response to you)

  23. Jessica V. says:

    Hey Scott,
    My Bf Broke up with me a few days ago through an electronic Message about Personal Space. He said That we Can talk about it when he has the time to. We were together for almost 6 months and Rarely argued, we mostly had playful bickering with each other. I was caught offguard with his message, everything seemed great and I never suspected a message such as this. We didnt see each other every day, usually only when we both had a few days to spare to see each other; he doesnt live in the same town as i do. The day before he said he felt bad about not being able to see me more..I really want to work this out with him but I feel deep down that nothing I say will help..do you have any advice?

  24. S. Williams says:

    Jessica V. wrote:

    I really want to work this out with him but I feel deep down that nothing I say will help..do you have any advice?

    Read this Blog and the FAQ section, and join the forum.

    If you work hard enough you can usually solve any problem.

  25. Phil says:

    Hi Scott,
    Bit confused on what to do now?
    Spoke to my ex for the first time since completing the NC. Trouble is I was really drunk & don’t even remember talking to her, not good I know. Thing is the next day in work I was told she was moving to Spain for 3months, I live in the UK. My phone stopped working that night too, but when I got it working again I found she’d txt’d me that night from her new phone number. When I got home later she’d also left a message on my facebook saying “heya u ok was nice too see u last night hope u had a good night n will hopefully c u before i move to Spain xxx.”
    I have now started txtin one of my friends, girlfriends friends and asked her out on a date, which she accepted. I’ve aslo had a couple of one night stands which I’d rather leave as that. I’d love to say i’m over my ex but I do sill have strong feelings for her. She is also still dating someone else, not really sure what the best thing for me to do now is?
    Thanks again for all your help and advice
    Phil

  26. S. Williams says:

    Phil wrote:

    She is also still dating someone else, not really sure what the best thing for me to do now is?

    The best thing is for you to do is read the FAQ section on my Blog and follow the directions for joining our forum.

  27. r.elliott says:

    i have been broken up from my ex for 3 months now, i tried the no contact thing for a month after we split, i then broke all the rules and did the begging,texting and telling him how much miss him and him. he never answers my texts and in fact told me he never wants me in his life again…what do i do to get him back now… if i do no contact for another month and text again just asking to meet for drink or something what are my chances of changing him calling me a f* pain that he never wants in his life, can i win him back if so HOW ?????????
    regards
    rachel

  28. S. Williams says:

    r.elliott wrote:

    i tried the no contact thing for a month after we split, i then broke all the rules and did the begging,texting and telling him how much miss him and him.

    You need some guidance and you will get just that in our forum…go to the FAQ section and carefully follow the directions…OK?

  29. robert says:

    me and my girl broke up about two and a half months and she sometime will returne my call or even talk to me when i call,but she dont text or call me,what should i do i ask her to lunch and she said ill think about it,what does this mean…

  30. S. Williams says:

    Robert,

    You need some guidance and you will get just that in our forum…go to the FAQ section and carefully follow the directions…OK?

  31. robert says:

    @ S. Williams:
    yesterday was her birthday and i surprise her with chocolates,candy,and a birthday card,which i left with her mother to give her win she woke up…and about four hous later i called to wish her hb and she was very happy,she said that a few months back she had to remind me of her birth day..what do this mean..

  32. S. Williams says:

    robert wrote:

    she said that a few months back she had to remind me of her birth day..what do this mean..

    It means that she didn’t think you would remember her birthday without a reminder.

  33. robert says:

    @ S. Williams:
    do this mean shes starting to ackwnolege how much i love her

  34. S. Williams says:

    robert wrote:

    do this mean shes starting to ackwnolege how much i love her

    I don’t know, but there is a way you can find out.

    Ask her out for a short meeting (30 minutes) for coffee or something like that, make sure you keep it short and do not ask her about her personal life or bring up the break up.

    If she asks about yours…(politely) change the subject…OK?

    If she refuses then come back here and use the no contact plan we follow in our forum.

    If she accepts but gives you I just want to be friends line, come back and use the no contact plan.

    If things go good, then plan another date (not that day) a few days later for the following week…take things very slowly.

    There is a great plan on how to do this in the book the magic of making up (chapter 6).

    The key to this whole little plan is to TAKE THINGS SLOWLY and DO NOT RUSH, OK?

  35. robert says:

    @ S. Williams:
    i did and she said ill think about it i just need time and two months is not enough

  36. robert says:

    i think i should just give her the time she need,

  37. S. Williams says:

    robert wrote:

    i think i should just give her the time she need,

    Robert,

    I really think your situation is perfect for using the plan I mentioned earlier.

    No contact will stop pushing her away with unwanted attention, and start attracting her with the absence of “neediness”, and it will definitely make her curious about you once again.

    She will not take you for granted and start to see you in a whole new light.

  38. robert says:

    @ S. Williams:
    thank u,i do appreciate ur advice…

  39. john says:

    I recently broke up with my girlfriend of 5 years although we had plently of off and situations, I think I went a little overboard with my emotions this time around. I instantly went into panic mode and called her numerous times and even stopped by her apartment univited to try to talk to her. We started emailing each other back and forth till in got to a point where demanded all communication to stop.

    Do i still have a chance if so, what should I do?

  40. S. Williams says:

    john wrote:

    Do i still have a chance if so, what should I do?

    Hi John,

    You still have a chance just go to the top of my Blog and read my free plan.

    Take Care,

    S. Williams

  41. pinky says:

    Hi,

    My ex responded to NC and was even willing to talk to me.
    When I went to talk to him he moved closer to me gave me a look in the eyes and said”tell me pls.i have all the time to listen to you”.
    I told him that time I will talk later as we were in office and someone called me.
    Now again last 2 days he has been very angry with me and not willing to talk to me.Is it that he is scared he will fall into the relationship again.is he trying to be friendly and not wanting anything more than that.
    i feel like he is making a fool out of me.
    this guy never ever did a closure with me at all even though we are together in the same office

  42. S. Williams says:

    pinky wrote:

    i feel like he is making a fool out of me.

    Join our forum and follow the free plan, and stop complaining, OK?

  43. Stacia says:

    my boyfriend and i dated for about a year.. we were together jan 08 to feb 09. but still always saw each other and stayed with each other,, through the relationship starting about 6 months in we started to always argue over the stupidest shit. we broke up got back broke up got back.. well this may he left for college to orlando. and im still here in missouri. we were absolutely inseperable. i went and saw him 3 times since he left in may but after my last trip in aug he was telling me that i need to move on cuz he isnt gonna come back up here. butyet he made two songs about me and how much he misses me and wished i was there..(hes going to school for audio engineering). well just this last month he didnt text all the time anymore and id panic like normal. and just this last week his x my friend told me that he said i was an amazing girl and he loves me but i wasnt his girl. he said he doesnt say no when i come down cuz he loves me and misses me.. well i brought that convo i had with her to the table and just asked him.. and he said it was true and that he is moving on and i need to do the same..but yet he still wants to be friends (a thousand miles away) and still calls me baby every once in a while.. and about the time i heard the news from my friend i heard his new song and it basicly sounded like a goodbye song.. how can his feelings change soo fast in so little time… just in august i went on a cruise and he came to pick me up at the port in fort lauderedale and the kiss he gave me when he saw me was sooooo passionate that it made my heart melt.. he acts like hes all ok and moving on and etc… can u please help me.. im so in love with him and not being with him everyday is killing me.. i was dumb and still did the ive realize stuff which was a mistake.. what can i do.. i dont want to loose him.. my heart is crushed to the point where i think about it all the time

  44. S. Williams says:

    Stacia wrote:

    what can i do.. i dont want to loose him

    Follow the free plan on my Blog…at the top you will find a link to it…start with stage one, and follow every step, OK?

  45. Anii says:

    hi there
    Well my ex and i had been together for over half a year and towards the last few months amounting to our breakup, he had just been treating me different…and, well he seemed to care less. I decided we needed to talk and it resulted in an argument as he just wasnt answering me clearly; i.e. When i texted him whether he cared about me, he answered ‘i’m not going to say i care or i dont’ and when i asked him to just be clear with me and tell me what i was to him, he told me ‘there is nothing to be clear about’
    :s. Anyway he was aware that he was upsetting me and said that he wanted to end the relationship as the smile from my face was fading and he couldnt seem to make me happy like he used to. He also blamed the relationship…when it was not the relationship, but HIM. After a bit more arguing and a feeble attempt to change his mind
    I cut off all contact. I was deeply hurt. I had no will to do anything. He was my first love and to stop these incessant thoughts about him, i erased every ounce of memory of him i had saved on any digital device or anything else. A difficult month and a half passed, and i wondered if he missed my company as much as i missed his. Then, the other night, he texted me and had written a poem about our memories and how he didnt want to say goodbye and how it is worth waking up every day because there are few like me who are worth talking to.
    At the end of the text he wanted to know how i was doing and asked me how i was. We exchanged about 5 texts after that and i told him i was low on credit at which he said ‘okay then, good luck with your uni interview, i’l chat to you soon cyaa’. I dont think anytime soon though…you see, im just maintaining my distance.
    Do you think that there is perhaps the slightest possibility that he still has feelings for me? I dont know what to do anymore.

  46. S. Williams says:

    Anii wrote:

    Do you think that there is perhaps the slightest possibility that he still has feelings for me? I dont know what to do anymore.

    Hi,

    How can I tell you if your ex still has feelings for you?

    I am not psychic.

    You know him better than I do…if you don’t know, how am I supposed to know?

    But!

    If you want to find out what his true feelings are, follow the free plan on my Blog.

    Take Care,

    S.W.

  47. maryann says:

    my guy and i have dated for 2yrs plus some months now,i love him so much but the problem is that we quarel over stupidiest,we broke up got back.sometimes he sents me packing[we are not living together].i dont know if he truly loves me and the funniest part of it is that he does not want to see me with another man but he has 2-3 girlfriends apart from me.please ineed your advice.Thanks maryann

  48. maryann says:

    Do u think that this guy really loves me or is he using me.

  49. S. Williams says:

    maryann wrote:

    Do u think that this guy really loves me or is he using me.

    Hi,

    I think you let him walk all over you.

    It is time to stand up, and take control of this situation, and your life.

    Go read the free plan, and follow ALL the steps, OK?

    You must get your life back (as a single woman) first, then all the pieces will fall into place, trust me.

    Take Care,

    S.W.

  50. Jani P says:

    HI

    My husband and I have ben seperate for three weeks. We have been togeather for 17 years and married for ten. I have been devestated since this has happened to me. He tells me that I have humiliated him and hurt him emotioanally.We have two small children 9 months and 3 yrs old. I know he loves me dearly but he is so hurt and full of remorse. Our problem is not due to infidelity, but I never thaough he was that emotional.

    He comes to the house to see the children a few times a week and I have apologized for what I have done. However, he tells me that he wants to just be my friend and have a good relationship for the childresn sake. I have agreed even though it’s very painfull. I usally text him at least twice a day just to see how he is and to let him know about the kids. He does respond to my texts though. When he comes over I can resist myself but to hug him and kiss him, but I can feel that he still responds in a positive way. However, he had said to me that he didn’t feel passion and the love he once had for me. Help I don’t really know what to do???

  51. S. Williams says:

    Jani P wrote:

    Help I don’t really know what to do???

    Hi,

    Read the free plan, it will tell you what you need to do.

    Take Care,

    S.W.

  52. nich says:

    hey i just want an advice. me and my ex girlfriend is still in touch. we’re living on the same roof and i can’t move on cause im still seeing her.
    cant take this anymore.
    dont know whats running through her mind.
    she doesnt want to leave our house but she said she doesnt love me anymore.
    what should i do?
    do you think she still loves me and she’s just not showing it?

  53. S. Williams says:

    Nich says:

    she doesnt want to leave our house but she said she doesnt love me anymore.
    what should i do?
    do you think she still loves me and she’s just not showing it?

    Hi,

    First, it doesn’t matter what your ex girlfriend thinks, you can take control of your situation.

    You can use no contact while still living in the same house, but if you can’t take it…move out, and start no contact after you move out.

    If you’re really serious about getting your life back, go read and follow ALL the steps in the free plan on my Blog.

    If you correctly use no contact you can reveal your ex girlfriend’s true feelings for you.

    Take Care,

    S.W.

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