The no contact rule works as long as you know how to use it. If you want to “rule” the no contact rule then keep on reading and I will tell you…OK? Just like any strategy there are Rules and Regulations, and the sooner you learn them, the sooner you will succeed. Stop whatever you’re doing and keep on reading…because no one can fail with the no contact rule if they use it correctly.
What The Rulers Know
They know that nothing comes without hard work and sacrifice. What are you willing to do to get your ex back? If you really mean that then here is the first “key” to ruling the no contact rule. You must have complete emotional control. This means you have to be able to cut your ex loose, and not worry day and night that they are going to get mad and leave you.
Guess what? They already left you and now you are in relationship limbo waiting for “something” to happen. Stop waiting for “something” to happen and “make” something happen. Get to your local library for some free information on self help, using this information will make you a ruler of the no contact rule, because it will give you complete emotional control.
You Can Not Get A Little Pregnant
And you can not “just try” using the no contact rule and expect it to work. You must believe in it and understand how it works. You have to stop contacting your ex, be polite but be firm and just do it. If you have developed emotional control as I suggested earlier, you will be ready and able to do this. OK, now what?
If your ex contacts you, do not reply to any emails, texts, or calls. If you run into them in public just tell them you need some time to think about “things.” This will send a strong message that you are not satisfied with the current relationship you have with them now. If you break down and start contacting them again out of “fear” of losing them, you will eventually lose them for good…Why?
Because this little arrangement is going to get stagnant someday…and just die along with your chances of getting back together with your ex. The no contact rule can save you from this fate if you know how to use it correctly. Even though I have shared some great tips with you about the no contact rule, you will need need a great plan, make sure you go read the free plan to get your ex back fast on my Blog. If you have any comments, or questions for me about using the no contact rule, please write them in the comment box below, and I will answer them ASAP!
Who Am I and Why Should You Listen to Me?
My name is S. Williams, and I have been helping people for more than 3 years to overcome break up pain, and get their lives back. I even have an “About” section that I recommend you read. I know the name of my site is: How to Get Your Ex Back Fast, but I teach people how to get their lives back, not their ex’s.
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