The no contact rule works, as long as you know, how to use it.
If you want to “rule” the no contact rule, then, keep on reading.
I will tell you how to use the no contact rule to get your ex back fast.
The no contact rule speeds up your ex’s personal evolution (getting past the breakup), and, this saves you time.
Just like any strategy, there are rules and regulations, and, the sooner you learn them, the sooner you will succeed.
Stop, whatever you’re doing to get your ex back, and, keep on reading.
No one can fail with the no contact rule if they use it correctly.
What The Rulers Know
Rulers (people who rule) know that nothing comes without hard work, and, sacrifice.
What are you willing to do to get your ex back?
Anything, you say?
Alright, if you really mean that, then here is the first “key”, to ruling the no contact rule.
You must focus on having complete emotional control.
This means you have to be able to cut your ex, loose, and, not worry day and night that they are going to get mad, and, leave you.
They already left you, and, now, you are in relationship limbo, waiting for “something” to happen.
Stop waiting for “something” to happen, and “make” something happen.
Learning to cope with strong emotions is not easy, but, it is possible, especially, if you do some research and find tools, that will help you achieve, your emotional stability.
Get to your local library (or search online) for some free information on self-help.
The more you self-educate yourself, the quicker you become a ruler of, the no contact rule.
The real key to success after a breakup is strong emotional self-control.
You Can Not Get A Little Pregnant
You cannot get a little pregnant, and, you can not “just try” using the no contact rule, and, expect it to work.
You must believe in it, and, understand how it works.
You have to stop contacting your ex, be polite, but, be firm, and, just do it.
If you have worked hard to gain emotional control (as I suggested earlier), you will be ready, and, able to do this.
OK, now what?
If your ex, contacts you, do not reply to any emails, texts, or calls.
If you run into them in public, just tell them you are not ready to talk, and, you need some time to think about “things.”
This will send a strong message, that, you are very serious about changing the way, your relationship has been headed, lately.
If you break down, and, start contacting them, again, out of “fear” of losing them, you will eventually lose them, for good.
The more you break no contact, the less serious your ex will take you, and your chances of getting back together, get smaller with each time you break no contact.
The no contact rule can save your relationship, if, you know how to use it, correctly.
The bottom-line is, if you really want to get your ex back, you must use the no contact rule, correctly.
Even though, I have shared some great tips with you, about the no contact rule, you really need to read the free breakup survival plan.
If you have any comments, or, questions for me, about using the no contact rule, please write them in the comment box below, and, I will answer them ASAP!
Who Am I and Why Should You Listen to Me?
My name is S. Williams, and I have been helping people since 2008, to overcome breakup pain, and, get their lives back.
I even have an “About” section, that I recommend you read.
I realize the address, of my site, is: How to Get Your Ex Back Fast, but, I “really” teach people, how to get their lives back, not just their ex’s.
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Once, you get your life back, everything else will just start to fall into place…I promise.
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