You have a part in your blog about successful stories but I really like to know if there have been any failure?

Hi,

Of course, people fail all the time, why?

They do not stick to the plan long enough, get too anxious, give up, and put themselves right back where they started.

Everyone has a 50/50 chance of getting their ex back, but I help people get their lives back, not their ex’s.

The people who focus on using the no contact rule to get their lives back, never fail, they either get their ex back, or they get someone even better than their ex.

The bottom-line…they are very happy (ex back, or not), and that is all that matters.

Anyone who doesn’t realize that (happiness is all that matters) is fully obsessed with getting their ex back, and they will most definitely fail…why?

Love and obsession are two different animals.

One is a natural part of life (love), and the other is a mental illness (obsession).

The whole idea behind getting your life back is to evolve past the break up, and the obsession to get your ex back.

If a person will not allow their self to do both of these things, they will not succeed.

They will make themselves miserable, and no one will want to be in a relationship with them, even their friends will not even want to be around them.

They will have built a prison for themselves, one paranoid brick at a time.

Thank you for writing.

Take Care,

S.W.

before NC she used to call me to ask some questions about her studies or our work. When my handphone was ringing she seemed to be jealous and asked my who was calling. Is that a sign she still loves me despite she says she has no feeling?

I venture to ask you sth may be its out of my anxiety and terrible mood from the break up. You have a part in your blog about successful stories but I really like to know if there have been any failure?

thanks

Is the work report necessary for your “work relationship”?

If so, you need to send it.

If you read the article about how to handle the no contact rule with a work partner it explains that you need to keep all your communication strictly about work, and nothing else.

With that said, how could sending your ex a “work” report be considered breaking NC?

There is nothing personal about it, you don’t discuss your breakup, personal life, or NC…it is all about work, therefore it is okay to send.

Thank you for writing.

Take Care,

S.W.

Can I send our weekly work report?

What should I do? should I listen and keep silent?

Hi,

No, don’t even listen, just delete anything she sends you without reading it.

Block her on all your social networks, and do not acknowledge her attempts to get your attention.

She needs to learn how to survive without you in her life, and you need to focus on yourself.

You can’t save anyone until you learn how to save yourself first.

This is all explained in the free plan.

I highly recommend that you take the time to read the free plan, and answer your own questions about how to correctly use the no contact rule.

Learning how to help yourself is a priceless skill.

Thank you for writing.

Take Care,

S.W.

I am sure she promised to stay with you forever too (before the break up), so much for promises, huh?

How can she expect you to concentrate and supply any kind of academic support while you’re trying to deal with this break up?

You have to handle one thing at a time, and right now, getting your life back on track is more important.\ than helping her with school work.

It doesn’t matter what she wants, you have to get your priorities straight.

You can use the no contact rule to reveal your ex girlfriend’s true intentions, and evolve past this break up, if you use it correctly.

I help people survive a break up and get their lives back, not get their ex girlfriend back, and I explain why in the “About” section on my Blog.

Go read the free plan to get your ex back and follow ALL the steps to heal your broken heart, evolve past the breakup, and get your life back again.

Thank you for writing.

Take Care,

S.W.

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You don’t need to kiss your ex’s ass by apologizing, that’s weak.

I teach people to kick loves ass, not kiss it.

You are either all the way in, or all the way out…it doesn’t work any other way with the free plan.

If you’re all the way in, send the recommended NC…no changes.

If you’re not comfortable following the free plan as it is laid out, I suggest you go find support somewhere else.

I can’t help you because you will not follow my instructions (your choice not mine).

Thank you for writing.

Take Care,

S.W.

Okay, I’ve drafted it, but I thought I could add in “Though it’s a little late, I just want to tell you” in front of the NC message, the rest stays the same. Is that feasible?? or does that give them any other message, that I may or may not have intentionally include?