How to Get Your Ex Back in 3 Super Simple Steps

 
3 Simple Steps
 
Your ex has hit the road, and, you want them back fast.

Well, there is really only 3, super simple steps, you need to take, to make that happen.

If you don’t have a clue about what to do, keep on reading, because, I am about to give you one…OK?

Here is how to get your ex back in 3 super simple steps.

 


 

Step One – Get a Plan

 

The faster you get a plan after the break up, the better your chances are for success.

Every trip needs a map, and getting your ex back will be a trip, in more ways than one.

Find a book that will explain how and why relationships break up, so you will understand more about how relationships work.

This will be useful when you attempt to reconnect with your ex later on in the plan.

If you can find someone who will also offer free private email support along with a plan, that would be your best bet.

Everyone knows that sometimes we need a little guidance along the way, right?

 


 

Step Two – Follow The Plan Correctly

 

OK, reality check time, just buying a plan will not help you get your ex back.

You have to actually follow the plan, and not just “try” to follow it your own way.

You must focus, and believe in yourself and the plan, otherwise what is the point…right?

Another big set back is when you hold the belief that they will never come back.

Can’t you see where this will be a bit counter productive in your attempt to get back together?

If you really truly believe this then don’t bother following the plan, just use the book to help you move on.

 


 

Step Three – Evaluate Your Results

 

First, I want you to truthfully answer this question: have I followed this plan correctly?

If you had trouble sticking with the plan, I would go back to step two again…if not read on.

Has this plan worked to win your ex back?

When you came to the reconnection phase of the plan, did your ex agree to meet?

Do the signs look hopeful or are they really not interested in getting back together?

If you have done everything correctly, and they still just want to be friends it is time to move on.

If you’re not ready to move on, read the free breakup survival plan.

You have used a plan to answer the question; “can I get my ex back?” ,and, the answer was no.

This time.

You’re no longer wondering what to do, and, you are free to move on with your life, or, try again..

If they come back congratulations, you’re hard work to get your ex back, paid off, and, I wish you all the best.

If you need some more information in your quest to find the right plan, then subscribe to my newsletter, and, I will help you.

The first step in winning back your ex, is finding the right plan, and, the sooner you do that, the better…right?

Let me help you learn how to get your ex back in 3 super simple steps.

If you have any comments or questions for me, please write them in the comment box below, and I will answer them ASAP!

 


 

Who Am I and Why Should You Listen to Me?

 

My name is S. Williams, and I have been helping people since 2008, to overcome breakup pain, and, get their lives back.

I even have an “About” section, that I recommend you read.

I realize the address, of my site, is: How to Get Your Ex Back Fast, but, I “really” teach people, how to get their lives back, not just their ex’s.

If you’re interested in working with me, (and our forum members) to get your life back, join my free newsletter, for access to the free breakup survival plan, and, start getting your life back, today.

The answers you need, to start your personal evolution, are waiting for you, don’t hesitate another minute…come, and get them.

Once, you get your life back, everything else will just start to fall into place…I promise.

If you have any comments or questions, please write them, in the comment box, below.

If this article was useful, or helpful, to you in any way, please show your appreciation, by giving me a “+1″, using the buttons, below this article.

Until next time,

S. Williams

Copyright © 2008 and beyond – All Rights Reserved Worldwide – You DO NOT have permission to reuse this content in any way, shape, or form.

12 Comments

Add a Comment
  1. Hi my LDR fiancee end up our relationship when his mom died, we’re 3 years in a relationship all goes well, we met in person very often, when his mom died, he ignore me and sent me an email that we don’t have any future at all. I know he truly love me, he block me on his all contacts, in been 3 months now we’re not talking online, he sent me an email last May 20 for closure, please help me, is there a chance to get him back? I can’t afford to buy any books from the website, and I cant get ur free plan, please help me, my head keep spinning to end up my life.

    1. Hi,

      I already responded to you through email. Why can’t you get the free plan?…it’s free.

      All you have to do is join my newsletter, and follow the directions in the follow up emails.

      Take care,

      S.W.

  2. Lauren wrote:

    His behavior is puzzling. I really dont’ know what to make of this.

    It is hard to figure out people who can’t make their mind up.

    If he is always looking at you then it would seem like he is still interested.

    But why doesn’t he ask you out?

    Lauren wrote:

    Is he just playing a game with me since he was very angry with me when we broke up

    Who broke up with who?

    I would just ignore him and go on with your life, unless you like playing this game with him.

  3. Hi my boyfriend and I broke up 5 months ago. He is always just looking for my attention but won’t come over to talk to me like an adult. He saw me out one day talking to a guy and left right away with his friends.next he is trying for my attention but I don’t know what signals to give him that I am interested still. I definitely know he is, all his body language is giving the a signal. He might say a few things but then backs off, plays these games. Seems like he only wants my attention but does nothing else. then one day he says for me to please give him some space after i asked for my paper. I think he is acting strange, we don’t even talk. Could this mean he is still thinking about me or could he mean that he would like me to disappear. His behavior is puzzling. I really dont’ know what to make of this. I give him only minimal attention so if he wants to talk he will come over. We go to the same school. Is he just playing a game with me since he was very angry with me when we broke up. Please give me some feedback.

  4. Nick wrote:

    Thank you, please the more information and detail to my answers the better

    Nick,

    Do you own a plan like the magic of making up system to follow?

    You see this Blog is not a “Ask S. Williams” Blog.

    It is a blog where you have a plan that you have questions about using, and I do my best to help you understand how to use the information in the book you own.

    There is no way I can predict what her relationship is all about…understand?

    That is a question for a psychic not someone who is trying to help “serious” people stick with a structured plan.

    The sooner you get serious and buy a good book, and read it, the sooner you”ll be able to answer a lot of your own questions.

    Plus my advice will work a lot better when we are both following the same plan…make sense?

    Nick wrote:

    Im sure ill run into her sometime this weekend as both of our groups of friends often run into each other at the same bars.

    Maybe it’s time to stop spending your money in a bar and invest in getting your ex back…what do you think?

    Is she important enough to you?

  5. Hi my girlfriend broke up with me just over a month ago,we had been dating for over a year,we both go to the same college, she never gave me an exact answer to the reasons for the break up, but i feel like she felt unappreciated and taken for granted as i had quit going out with her as much and had gotten worse at spending time with her and her friends. I have seen the error of my ways, and i know its only been a month but i feel if ive done some really great inner reflection.
    So I sent her and email saying i was sorry for the mistakes I have made and that maybe a clean break was the best thing for us, I then followed a plan that asked for 30 days of no contact. At about day 28, I find out that she put on her myspace page that she is in a new relationship with a new guy. So I still did not panic and I contacted her on day 30 via text message and we exchanged some nice text messages and had a nice lite conversation. Im sure ill run into her sometime this weekend as both of our groups of friends often run into each other at the same bars. We have run into each other two previous times and I just remained calm and confident and had nice conversation with here, but for some reason I worry that my plan is not working she is i guess now “officaly” in a new relationship and has still not initiated contact with me, but has been responsive to me contacting here.

    1. Do I need to worry about this new guy, do you feel like this is just a classic rebound relationship being that she has started seeing him within 30 days.

    2. If I do have to allow this rebound to run its course how long should i wait, is there an average or rule of thumb. Ive done a good job on trying to move on with my life but I still think about here all the time.

    3. Are there any extra tips I can use to try to get her to miss me more and want to be back with me and not this new guy.

    Thank you, please the more information and detail to my answers the better

  6. Evon wrote:

    but what if i decide to try another month of NC and ask him to meet up again after that? Can i do this? Does no contact means it must be a month’s time limit? Otherwise when i should stop using NC and stop asking him to meet up?

    Evon you can do whatever you want it is your life, but if he is not coming back…he is not coming back, and someday you will have to accept that…understand?

    Good Luck!

  7. but what if i decide to try another month of NC and ask him to meet up again after that? Can i do this? Does no contact means it must be a month’s time limit? Otherwise when i should stop using NC and stop asking him to meet up?

  8. Evon wrote:

    I dont want to give up, i want to have a leap of faith. but with the growing distance between us everyday, there’s nothing i can do like what u said. Still, I dont know when there’ll be a miracle to deem me another chance. What if its really forever that he will not come back? Im so scare to hope about anything anymore.

    Nothing is forever…that’s the drama talking…OK?

    If he dies I guess you won’t see him in this world anymore, but is that the end…who knows?

    If you really try, you will be able to find a way to let go “for now” and move out of the place you feel you’re stuck in right now.

    The whole key to getting him back may very well be that you need to completely let him go, and then he will find his way back.

    But, you won’t be waiting for him anymore.

    Listen life is way too short to sit around crying over one person when the world is full of other possibilities.

    Who knows, you might thank him one day for breaking up with you when he did because you then found your true soul mate.

    How do you know that the best love of your life isn’t out there waiting for you?

    Get out there and start looking.

    Life won’t let you down, if you don’t let yourself down…understand?

  9. Thanks Scott.

    But i just feel the distance will get even wider if both of us did not contact or gotten a chance to meet up etc. If these go on, I will never ever be able to hear about him anymore, isnt it? We will drift apart and he would soon be accepting the break up and start seeing someone else…

    How am i suppose to move on when i cant seem to let go of the memories? I am so stuck in between. There is no way for a reconcile and at the same time i kept failing to move on with my life.

    I dont want to give up, i want to have a leap of faith. but with the growing distance between us everyday, there’s nothing i can do like what u said. Still, I dont know when there’ll be a miracle to deem me another chance. What if its really forever that he will not come back? Im so scare to hope about anything anymore.

    Sighs,
    Evon.

  10. Evon wrote:

    Do i really have to move on with my life because the ans is no, i cant get my ex back?

    That’s up to you.

    But if you have followed a plan “correctly” (the key word correctly), and you feel that you have done everything in your power to attract him back, and he doesn’t want to come back, what other choice do you have at the moment?

    When I say “move on” I mean at this time, maybe later on when you are not trying to win him back, he will come back…understand?

    It is NOT FOREVER.

    People like to get so dramatic, why not get realistic instead?

    There have been many cases of couples getting back together later in life.

    Embrace that thought and move on with your life for the time being.

    Or sit there and suffer.

    Remember this:

    “life is subject to change without notice”

    (I just came up with that this morning) 🙂

  11. “You have used a plan to answer the question; “can I get my ex back?” and the answer was no. You’re no longer wondering what to do, and you are free to move on with your life.”

    Scott,

    I had been using the NC rule and following to the plan, its been more than a month since we broke up. and the last time exactly one month after NC, i’d ever asked him to meet up, he was quite reluctant initially, so we didnt get to meet up. At this point in time, its been near 2 mths of NC. somehow my plan cant continue when i am stuck here. Do i really have to move on with my life because the ans is no, i cant get my ex back?

    thanks.
    Evon

What's on Your Mind?

How to Survive a Breakup © 2008 -
%d bloggers like this: