We always had a very dramatic relationship, mostly because we are both very stubborn and refuse to listen to each other and make compromises.

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I’m in love with this site right now… I’ve been feeling terrible ever since i dumped my boyfriend …cough… ex boyfriend, a couple of months ago. We always had a very dramatic relationship, mostly because we are both very stubborn and refuse to listen to each other and make compromises. It had gotten to the point where every time we fought id end up dumping him, not because i didn’t want to be with him anymore, but because i felt so frustrated and helpless that i couldn’t see another way out. I felt like he just wasn’t listening, or rather he heard me but was so convinced of his point of view that mine didn’t matter. Obviously that attitude coupled with my flair for drama led to epic battles.

The twist in this story is that right now hes living in London for a few months, and though hes not sure if he might be relocating permanently, it is a distinct possibility. That said, we had another major fight (via skype this time) and i staged my usual rant, but this time instead of patching things up he turned all cold and indifferent on me, and its really scaring me. Apparently according to what he says, i dumped him so there’s no reason for him to treat me like anything but a friend, and that hes stressed out and doesn’t want to get back together for me to do the same thing again in a couple of months, but being that i don’t believe in the whole “my ex is now my friend” thing, and the fact that we’ve gone through this many times before, i don’t know what it is that makes him behave this way now.

Its been like this for about a month and a half now, and I’m basically maintaining the flow of conversation. He doesn’t attempt to contact me, were online at the same time and i get nothing from him, and the few conversations we have are “friend” like, and not even that, its more like speaking casually to an acquaintance with no interest or curiosity for whats really going on in the conversation.

Obviously the distance is not helping the situation. Hes coming back for a bit in August, but I’m so afraid that he simply just doesn’t want me, and hes so far away….. I’m also angry, at myself for humiliating myself and practically begging him, and at him for being so obtuse and unwilling to make a compromise in his behavior and attitude, so that we can make things right once and for all (and yes, i am more than willing to admit my faults as well and work on them, a fact that i have stated many times over to him…. i just cant be the only one to give).