A break up is not the end if you know how to “get my ex girlfriend back”, but here are 3 sure fire ways to not get your ex back. If you do these things you will fail. Be very careful about making these 3 mistakes, and striking out.
Break Up Strike One
This one seems pretty obvious, but a lot of guys fall into this pit. The temporary insanity phase where you think you can force your ex girlfriend to come back by begging, and pleading, and promising to change. You have to realize that it is way too late to close the barn door after the horse has escaped…it doesn’t do any good. Your time would be better spent thinking about how to prevent it from happening again, make sense? If you want to “get my ex girlfriend back” then you need to calm down and focus.
Break Up Strike Two
Okay, now that you have started to overcome break up mistake number one, you’re probably starting to fall into the second pit…Mr. Nice Guy. You have seen that pleading and begging was getting you no where, so in your semi-psychotic state you think I will win back my ex by being really nice. Guess what? That just makes things worst…how?
Now you have just surrendered to the “just friends” zone. It is a break up purgatory where you neither go forward, or backward…you’re just stuck. This is worse than being dumped. You can’t be friends with your ex, and win them back. You need to use no contact correctly if you want to “get my ex girlfriend back.” Getting your ex back is not impossible, and it is not easy…but you need a good plan.
Break Up Strike Three
Usually by this time you have found some good advice about how to use the no contact rule…but you’re afraid to follow it, why? Because it doesn’t make any sense to you, and you think it will drive your ex girlfriend even further away. But you are wrong.
There is much more to using NC to get your ex back then reverse psychology, it is a “process”, a test of your exes true feelings for you. You really need this information so you can make an intelligent decision about how to continue your life, right? Otherwise you are stuck in the friends zone…relationship limbo. You need more than just a good plan to get your ex girlfriend back, you need great personal support too.
Who Am I and Why Should You Listen to Me?
My name is S. Williams, and I have been helping people since 2008 to overcome break up pain, and get their lives back. I even have an “About” section that I recommend you read. I know the name of my site is: How to Get Your Ex Back Fast, but I teach people how to get their lives back, not their ex’s.
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