How to Get My Ex Boyfriend Back – 3 Signs He Still Loves You

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If you want to know if your ex boyfriend still loves you just look for these 3 signs. If you want to learn “how to get my ex boyfriend back” keep on reading…OK? A break up does not mean the end of a relationship, sometimes it is just the beginning of a better, and stronger relationship. If you see any of these 3 signs then I would say he still loves you.

Get My Ex Boyfriend Back – Love Sign 1

This sign that he still loves you is pretty obvious, yet it can be confusing, and hard to read. You want to know how to win your ex back, but he says he just wants to be friends. Why would he just want to be friends? I believe it is because he hasn’t completely let go of you because he still cares deeply about you. This is a good way to buy time, and keep an eye on you at the same time. Even though this is one of the more confusing signs he still loves you…it is a foot in the door. You are on your way to getting your ex boyfriend back” for sure.

He Can Not Move, And That is a Great Sign That He Still Loves You

Get My Ex Back – Love Sign 2

Another sign that he still loves you is that he seems to be hiding something. This can make you pretty nervous because you do not know whether to trust your instincts or not. On your quest to learn how to get an ex back you will have to learn to trust your own instincts. When he talks to you, does he ask about your social life?

There is another sign that he still loves you. Even though he thinks he is playing it off, you can see right through that by the way he acts. Is he always chuckling and acting like everything is just sort of a joke? Well, that is how he is hiding his true feelings and intentions. The more of these signs you can pickup the closer you are to getting my ex back.

Get Your Ex Back – Love Sign 3

This is a real hot sign (ding! ding! ding!) that he still loves you. Even if he has been on dates, and even if he has been intimate. If he has not stayed with any of them very long it is because he still loves you. Use this sign that it’s time to find a plan on “how to get my ex boyfriend back.” With all these signs staring you right in the face it is time for action.

These 3 signs that he still loves you are the first steps on your way to getting your ex boyfriend back. If you really want to “get my ex back” then the time is right. Use these 3 signs that he still loves you along with a great plan on winning back an ex boyfriend, and start getting him back today. You really need a good plan now that you know the time is right .

If you have seen one or more of these tell tale signs that your ex boyfriend still loves you, it’s time to act…OK? If you have any comments or questions about using these signs of love to get your ex back, write them in the comment box below, and I will answer them ASAP! What can I do to help you win your ex back? What are you willing to do to “get my ex boyfriend back?”

Who Am I and Why Should You Listen to Me?

My name is S. Williams, and I have been helping people for more than 3 years to overcome break up pain, and get their lives back. I even have an “About” section that I recommend you read. I know the name of my site is: How to Get Your Ex Back Fast, but I teach people how to get their lives back, not their ex’s.

If you’re interested in working with me (and our forum members) to get your life back, join my free newsletter for access to the free plan to get your ex back fast, and start getting your life back today. The answers you need to start your personal evolution are waiting for you, don’t hesitate another minute…come and get them.

Once you get your life back, everything else will just start to fall into place…I promise. If you have any comments or questions please write them in the comment box below.

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53 Responses to “How to Get My Ex Boyfriend Back – 3 Signs He Still Loves You”

  1. Tata says:

    Dear Scott,

    I do have a question. before I aquire the book of Majic of Making Up, I need to really understand whether I do have some chanches to win him back, I mean if there are some signs that he still loves me.

    We have been in seperation already for 8 months. From the begining,he seemed to be more interested with keeping the contact with me, as far as we are having a child together. The problem, is that the lady tried her best to influence phsycologically on him when we were facing some relationship and understanding problems, and this became the reason of out break up. SInce than, he is still with the same lady, though indicating that he is not in love, or planning to marry her, or things like that. She from her side, is making her best to merry him and seize him stongly. I do not know what to do and how can I get him back. He is contacting me once a week asking for child, but lately does not even show his deep interest even towards the boy. The lady is working with him at the same office and they are together for the whole day, which gives her a chance to control him.

    A month ago, he even send me SMS (did not call) on divorce. As far as I got really angry, and told him that if he is planning to make some steps in his personal life, I will not be impeding, he answered, that the reason he wants to make divorce is not that he is going to meery her or something like that, but reason is that it is bette for me to seperate finally. ???? I could not really understand this. AFter this conversation, he made no additional steps for finalize the divorce.

    Since than, he called me on two verious holidays and festivals to congratulate and tries to keep frienfly attitude with compliments and nice replics.

    Please advice me what can I do. At the same time, he is spending the whole days with her huging in the street and everywhere, not hiding his attitutes.

    Do I have any chance to win him back, or are there any signs of re-attracting / influencing him for winning back? Maybe, it is better for me to ask him to talk about our relations and openly tell him that I still love him and care??? PLEASE ADVICE..

    Thanks A lot

  2. S. Williams says:

    Hi Tata,

    You have told me everything that he and she have done so far, but what about you?

    What have you done to reconcile with him?

    Why have you waited 8 months to seek a solution to your problem, and win your ex husband back?

    It seems to me if he was truly over you, and your son, that he would just move on, and get a divorce.

    Why hasn’t he served you with divorce papers yet?

    From what you have told me this other woman is desperate to get him to marry her, but yet he hasn’t?

    If these are not enough signs for you to take some action, I’m afraid that you are the one having a problem now.

    You are scared to try, because what if you fail?

    But, on the other hand if you just “give up”, you”ll wonder the rest of your life if you did the right thing or not.

    My advice is to get a plan, and start working towards getting him back, you can do it.

    The longer you wait, the harder it will be…OK?

    I look forward to working with you to get your ex husband back again.

    Take Care,

    S. Williams

  3. Sherri says:

    ok. so do not respond to him. when do i respond? will he contact me again if so, how long? then what do i do? what about the other girl he has been seeing? why won’t he stop seeing her and work it out with me? 8 months since we broke up.

  4. S. Williams says:

    Hi Sherri,

    Before you can get the answers to all those questions you must attract him back with no contact.

    Then, after about a month or so, set up a short daytime meeting.

    Keep it about the present no talk about yours or his personal life, just talk and have some fun.

    Then wait another week or so and set up another short date, if things are going well, then around the third date bring up the possibility of being exclusive again.

    Having a relationship just between you two…understand?

    This is just a quick overview of the plan I personally support.

    If you want to learn more about this, and get my personal private support take a look at this:

    Help Me Get My Ex Boyfriend Back

    Take Care,

    S. Williams

  5. Tata says:

    Ok. I understood that I should have to take some action.
    I did it two days ago. I asked him to come and told him that I thought of everthing and that I really have a desire to get with him again and to recover out family and not mis this chance. I told him that it is my personal desire and forwarded the question to him, to understand what does he think about and what is his will.
    First, I can say, that he was admiered with my open-hearted speech and first move from my side, as hw mentioned he would never image it.
    Second, he was trying to be honest. He told me that he is dating with a lady for long ago( and he knew that I know about this)they are having every day contacts already, though he mentioned that he is not about to merry her, and even can not understand deeply whether he likes her, loves her and what’s going on.
    On my question, “what is your idea on getting back together”, he answered that he is not ready right now and can not unswer this questions on that moment. Thus, I asked him to think about this and gave him a deadline for two weeks. That’ all I could do..

    Please give me your comments and ideas how should I have to act further and what are my chances to win him back…

    PS. the lady he is dating, it trying her best to merry him, and is jealous towards me and never leaves him alone even for moment.

    Please help me……….

  6. S. Williams says:

    Hi Tata,

    You’re doing this all wrong, if you give him a deadline, he will choose her.

    The idea is to “attract” him back, not threaten him.

    You really need to look at this:

    How To Win My Ex Husband Back

    You might want to read some of my articles about using no contact as well, none of them tell you to give your ex a “deadline.”

    Take Care,

    S. Williams

  7. Tata says:

    Yesterday, I send my ex the message of greeting a religios holiday. He did not answer me at the same moment, but replyed 3 hours later, saying not to call or send a massage to him unless the information is concerning our child.

    I was really astonished, as since our last meeting and face-to-face conversation, he told me that he had to think about the case whether he wants to get back with his family or not, and was very polite and opened-hearted. All of a sudden, he replyed my greeting massage, that I mentioned above in such uprecendent way. Can you help me to expalin what is going on with him? I thought maybe the girl with whom he is dating she is pushing him to stop all the converstions with me (as far as she is always with him as they work together, in one and the same office).
    On the other day, in the evening, he called me back, as if nothing happened asked me how I was feeling, how was a child, and then told me that he is having some problems with handset, which is used to switch off suddenly, and also asked me to ignore the massage he sent me a last day…

    What is going on???

    Please advice me what to do…

  8. S. Williams says:

    Hi Tata,

    I think you would understand more about what is going on if you had read the book I recommend and support.

    When you use no contact you do not initiate any contact that’s personal, and you ignore the same from your ex.

    He asked you to not contact him about anything other than talking about any problem with your child, so do it…OK?

    And don’t make up reasons about your child to contact him either, he will see through that.

    You need some guidance and a plan to follow, because you sure don’t know what you’re doing right now.

    He is also flip-flopping around…one of you needs to take control of this situation before the other women, does for good…understand?

    Get strong, and get the book, get informed, and get him back.

    Take Care,

    S. Williams

  9. Tata says:

    Dear Scott,

    I really appreciate your advice on purchase the book, but can’t you assist me with some immidiate “action steps” what to do before I purchase the book? you are like acting as an “advisor or initiator” for attracting people to purchase a book. I understand that no advice is fee in this world, but still if you’ll give me some advices for “fist action, first steps” and since I will realize that it works, or even changes a little bit the situation for better future, I will definitly purchase the book and will even advice others to do it. So??

    Thanks again for your support in advance…

  10. S. Williams says:

    Hi Tata,

    Thank you for being truthful with me about how you think I am only trying sell you a book.

    Now I will be truthful with you, if you don’t want to help yourself, then no one else can help you either.

    I have supplied a Blog with a lot of free information, and if you had read it, like this section here Get My Ex Back Tips, you would see 5 tips for immediate action.

    There are also 4 videos that you can watch as well…have you?

    Maybe if you took the time to read all the other comments on my blog which I have answered you would get the answer to your questions.

    It seems to me that you are either too afraid, or not willing to invest anything other than the time to constantly ask me questions about why he did this, and why he did that.

    I don’t know why your ex acts like he does, you know him better than I do.

    If you can’t reason a guess, then how am I supposed to know…really?

    I believe that even if I gave you the book for free, that you would not even take the time to read it.

    If you don’t feel like you’re getting the help you need from me, or my Blog, please look else where…OK?

    The sooner you find the help you’re looking for, the sooner you will solve your problems.

    I wish you the best of luck.

    Take Care,

    S. Williams

  11. Tata says:

    Dear Scott,

    I agree with you that you are giving some tips and video files but you know that actually these are general tips in break-up situations. But, since I got in contact with you with my personal story, this was the reason that I need proper tips whcih exactly fit my situation and not general ones. You understand what I mean. Thus, I asked you to advice me with very first steps from now what should I have to do and later on I would definitlky follow all your recommendations….

    For example, one of the general tips is No Contact just after the break up… I understand that, but now I am 8 months apart form my husband who is having a girlfriend dating, where the later is trying her best to merry him, and he seems to be on that way.. I do not think that this is the situation where all “general tips” can be easily applied… Thus I asked you for several “advice steps” what can I do right now somehow to re-attract and win him back and later on I would follow all your relevant recommendations.

    You are telling me that I am not eager to help the situation and myself, but it is not true. I can’t found a place during these 8 months… and I am trying to do my best to win him back again.

    I rely on your support…

    thanks a lot

    Tata

  12. S. Williams says:

    Hi Tata,

    You are like most people, under the illusion that your situation is so unique that my advice will not work for you, but you are wrong.

    It sounds like you want my personal private email support, correct?

    That is what “my customers” paid for, but you want me to give it to you for free…right?

    Plus, all my advice works hand in hand with the step by step plan in the book.

    If you don’t have the book, what plan are you going to follow?

    If you’re really serious about getting your ex back, then you need to get the book, and I will help you follow, and stick with the step by step plan in the book…understand?

    And if you didn’t notice, or just haven’t taken the time to read, it comes with a 60 day (no questions asked) money back guarantee.

    So, where is the risk for you?

    Now, if you are only interested in free information, I suggest that you keep searching the internet.

    I offer what no other people offer, my free personal private email support to all my customers.

    I will even help people publicly on my Blog that have bought the book from someone else…who else does this?

    Give me the URL so I can go see how they are doing it…OK?

    Now, the choice is yours, waste another 8 months, or get busy working with me to get your ex back…

    What’s it going to be Tata?

    Take Care,

    S. Williams

  13. Sandy says:

    Hi Scott
    I have been following your plan,and my ex and I went out together for the first time in three years since our divorce. Granted this was for our daughters 19 birthday. I am confuse on some things. I am feeling if he did not want to see me, he didnt have to, Am I correct on this one? Its not like our daughter is a child, or am I reading to much into this at the moement? Could he just trying to be nice again and it was our daughters birthday. But last night we had fun. We didnt talk about bad times. It was about good times that we shared. We laughed and made jokes, he was flirting with me I think. He was smiling and winking at me. He did however answer his cell phone three times, So I feel that was a bad sign. I played it like it was a business casual meeting, and I was mainly there for our daughters sake. I dont know what to make of this, I do not want to think something that isnt there, because I dont want to get hurt again by him. That is the problem I read to much into something and think it is something that it is not, I did send him a nice note thanking him for the wonderful time, and that it was something I needed because it was like we were a family for the moment. I also told him I know things will never be the same between us, but I wanted to let him know that I appricate all the good times that we had. I also indicated that maybe someday I will find someone special like he did. But for know I am not ready to date, because I feel I need to love myself before trying to love someone else. Do you think I ruined everything that I have worked so hard to accomplish? thanks for your guideness

  14. S. Williams says:

    Sandy wrote:

    That is the problem I read to much into something and think it is something that it is not, I did send him a nice note thanking him for the wonderful time, and that it was something I needed because it was like we were a family for the moment. I also told him I know things will never be the same between us, but I wanted to let him know that I appricate all the good times that we had. I also indicated that maybe someday I will find someone special like he did. But for know I am not ready to date, because I feel I need to love myself before trying to love someone else.

    Hi Sandy,

    I think you need to think more about something before you start spilling your guts. You want to lay it all out on the table, but you really don’t need to.

    For example, the note saying you had a good time was just being polite, but telling him all the rest, showed you were still thinking about him, and feeling needy.

    These are things you need to have under control before you attempt to interact with an ex that you want back.

    No contact is about taking time to get your feelings in order, while creating an absence (personally) from your ex.

    You’re just not letting your ex know your inner feelings, but you feel the need to tell him everything you’re feeling…that is not necessary…understand?

    Sandy wrote:

    Do you think I ruined everything that I have worked so hard to accomplish?

    No, I don’t, but you need to learn to control your emotions next time…OK?

    Work on that and really try not to over think things, or over express yourself until the time is right.

    Take Care,

    S. Williams

  15. laurencia shermain volney says:

    my broke up with me,its been 4weeks now.he still has stuffs meaning his clothes.what does that mean.is he coming back.his at his mom.use 2 call me often but not anymore.i love him very much,we had something some special,we have been 2gether 2yrs.in the 1 year we break up 4 at least 1month.he came back,same year round again he break up with me again.but this time he has left some of his clothes.what does that mean 4 me?

  16. S. Williams says:

    laurencia shermain volney wrote:

    .what does that mean 4 me?

    Hi,

    It means it is time to take control of your life using NC.

    Stop letting him call all the shots…OK?

    Go read the free plan, and follow ALL the steps.

    Take Care,

    S.W.

  17. berry says:

    Dear Scott,

    I broke up with my fiance 1 year ago because i was confused and cheated on him with my ex. Then, we get back together..

    But, the relationship was not as happy as before. Now, we broke up again. We constantly on a fight and on and off relationship in this 1 year, I never realized that i will ever lost him in my life until he said, he doesn’t love me anymore and he want me to date someone else.

    i went mad when i found out he seeing someone else. we had into a terrible fight and i lost control and start trowing stuff. i regretted it. i feel like im loosing the chance to win him back. after the incident, he did call me right away and say, i shouldn’t do that cause it will make any man scared of me. i know he s right, then i asked, if there is any chance in the future we will be back together? he said no and he said he think about me but he doesn’t miss me.. he hope i wont do something stupid but he told my friends that i am crazy and i should get some help from the psychologist.

    I purchase your book. I did the no contact now..but the more i read, the more i feel like he wont coming back.. i do not want him now as i want to be own my own to heal and be better at myself.. but i wonder if there will be any chance for us? deep down, i really want him back, do you think there is any chance for us?

  18. S. Williams says:

    berry wrote:

    i really want him back, do you think there is any chance for us?

    Hi,

    You have a 50/50 chance if you follow the free plan.

    The free plan is a supplement guide to the book MOMU.

    Make sure you read it, and start following all the steps in it, OK?

    Take Care,

    S.W.

  19. aurelie says:

    Hi,

    i’m just wondering before sending out this nc message.

    What if he googles the nc message and find out your blog?

    thanks for the answer

    Aurelie

  20. S. Williams says:

    aurelie wrote:

    What if he googles the nc message and find out your blog?

    Hi,

    If your ex is that concerned about losing you to Google your message, that means they still want you back, right?

    It has happened before, and it actually helps.

    Your ex will know that you are not going to wait around, and if they truly want you back they will be ready when you contact them after you are finished with NC.

    Take Care,

    S.W.

  21. orange says:

    Hi, so i have been doing NC for over 30 days. My ex emailed me telling me that its been 30 days since we “contacted”, and he told me about how his grandma was doing (in my nc message, i told him its okay to tell me about grandma). But he also told me about his life and what he is doing. So i replied only about grandma, wishing her well. Then over the 3 weeks, he sent me weekly emails about how his grandma is doing, but also adding the “hope you are doing okay” lines.I replied, strictly about grandma, because i dont want to be cold towards his sick grandmother.

    So after the 3 weeks, i was trying to test the waters..and email him asking him how he was doing and if he would like to meet up. He replied coldly and seem like he didnt care if we met up or not. So i decided to call him the same night, but he told me he was busy, so i said we will talk some other time. And since then, he did not call me back at all…

    Do i need to start NC again?

  22. S. Williams says:

    orange wrote:

    Do i need to start NC again?

    Hi,

    Yes, and this time don’t tell him he can contact you about his grandmother.

    NC, and the free plan works best when you don’t change the plan around…as you can see.

    Take Care,

    S.W.

  23. orange says:

    Thanks Scott, i was also wondering…if i should combine and send the “magic second chance letter” from MOMU along with the NC message from the site…Because i remember 30 days ago (before 1st NC message), i did say some “dumb” things after the break up. Thanks again!

  24. S. Williams says:

    orange wrote:

    i was also wondering…if i should combine and send the “magic second chance letter” from MOMU along with the NC message from the site…Because i remember 30 days ago (before 1st NC message), i did say some “dumb” things after the break up.

    Hi,

    No, just send the NC message from the free plan, and then focus on sticking to the plan.

    Take Care,

    S.W.

  25. lisa barnes says:

    i have seen all the signs. my ex boyfriend just broke up with me and he still wants to be friends. he still text me and call me and he still tells me he love me. he is confusing, one minute he wants to move on and the next minute he dont want to let go? what should i do?

  26. S. Williams says:

    lisa barnes wrote:

    he is confusing, one minute he wants to move on and the next minute he dont want to let go? what should i do?

    Hi,

    You came to the right place, follow ALL the steps in the free plan ASAP.

    Take Care,

    S.W.

  27. feternod says:

    Hello!

    I am really looking forward to your help! My ex bf broke up with me a year ago after 2 yrs of relationship, living together since the day we met. We had a wonderful relationship, with ups and downs like any other, but at his 25 he decided to go wild and meet new people (note: he had been in the Navy from 18 to 23). Anyways, I have not been able to date anyone else and it seems he has had several dates or relationships, but short lived – he circles back with me every 3-4 months since we broke up.

    Now: he has been sending me casual messages asking me how I am doing, saying I was right about this and that, and finally asked me out to the movies, to which I replied the next day “I was at a class but appreciate the invite”. A few points:

    1. Most of his texts are on Fri or Sat very late at night – why?
    2. I usually take my time to respond..days or a week. Is this ok? (he has already asked me twice why it takes me so long)
    3. he asked me out to the movies, I politely turned him down: it’s been 2 weeks and I haven’t heard from him. Is there a chance he will contact me again?

    I wonder if he misses me and wants back together. I am deeply in love with him and would love to, but dont want to sound/look desperate.

    What are your thoughts? Thanks!!!!

    • S. Williams says:

      feternod says:

      I wonder if he misses me and wants back together. I am deeply in love with him and would love to, but dont want to sound/look desperate.

      What are your thoughts? Thanks!!!!

      Hi,

      It sounds like he is interested in dating you again, whether that means he is “deeply in love” like you are…who knows?

      People usually call late when they are either drunk, or lonely, or both, this doesn’t matter much.

      I suggest you read the reconnection stage of the free plan, and if you have the book The Magic of Making up, read chapter 6 too.

      The key thing here is to not rush back to where you left off in your past failed relationship.

      This will be a new relationship, and you should learn from your past mistakes to help build a stronger relationship this time, one that will last…make sense?

      If he tries to rush things, slow him down, if he gets angry, end the date, and then go home and read the free plan on my Blog, and start from the beginning with the recommended NC message.

      You should also watch video #4 on my Break up Help Video section.

      I hope this helped.

      Take Care,

      S.W.

  28. Ha says:

    Hello,

    I’m realy looking forward to your help.

    We broke up a month ago and we didn’t have any contact till a week ago. He called me and asked me if I was going well. We talked friendly and cheerfully. However, I soon realized that he just wanted to be friends, I want more than it. He called me just b’cos he really wanted to keep contact with me as a friend.

    I’m really upset cos he doesn’t want to go farther and I look for everywhere a way to flirt him, get out of friend zone. Today, I made a big mistake that can destroy everything and I might never have a chance with him anymore. I called him, I told him that he is very important to me, I cried and begged him to give me aother chance. Although I’ve read many books (the book you advice,too), I still did that. I was really stupid. Now he said that he didn’t want to talk to me anymore (last time he talked like this, too but I think this time is true). He even didn’t want to meet our mutual friends.

    So what can I do now? Is it true that my hope is dead now?

    Thank you.

    • S. Williams says:

      Ha says:

      So what can I do now? Is it true that my hope is dead now?

      Hi,

      Please, enough fucking drama, OK?

      Hope is not dead…get a grip.

      Go read the free plan on my Blog, and follow ALL the steps.

      It doesn’t matter what has happened in the past, this plan will help you get your life back, if you use it correctly.

      Take Care,

      S.W.

  29. Ha says:

    During the break up time, I tried to move on, I went out and travelled with friends so he thought that I moved on and contacted me. Now, I ruin everythings.

  30. WPG72girl says:

    i really would like your help.

    my ex and i purchased our home together. i learned from my previous relationship so i put everything on my name. i was dealing with a lot of personal issues, job change, family death, bills were coming in, home renovation items, money issues etc. this caused me to be very very stressed out. so to have a release i cried all the time. one day i had an issue that happened at work and they needed to take x amount of money in the next 4 cheque. i asked some financial help from my ex and he looked at me and didnt say anything (at that time i felt that he didnt care).

    prior to moving in of my friends made a comment that my ex found himself a sugar mommy that really hurt i kept this comment for awhile and one day i was so frustrated with the $$$ issue at work and that comment really bugged me. i told my ex that one of my friends said that about him. i was so upset that i end up crying.

    3days later the ex packed up all of his stuff and moved out of the house and left me with the items that needs to be cared for.

    i am currently dealing with house issues and money issues on my own.

    for one month i was texting him and tried to reason out with him. that didnt get me anywhere… so one day i literally stopped messaging him no text or phone call..

    and at the beginning of october 2010, he started sending me Instant mesages and text messages. it was the same person that i met a year ago.

    then today, i got a message from him saying that he wanted a “back massage” i said ok.. but it has to be at his house not in this house… he sent me a text back indicating that i didnt want him in the house…. i told him in a text message that its not that.. the house is bought for both of us but if he comes here and leaves again the pain would emerge again.

    i didnt get any follow up text message.

    You see when i met this man i knew in my heart that hes the one that i wanted to spend the rest of my life with.. this man and i never fought and all of a sudden he packed up his stuff out of that comment.

    so if you think that this relationship is saveable can you please tell me what steps do i need to do.

    ty so much and more power to you

    WPGGIRL

    • S. Williams says:

      Hi,

      I don’t know if a relationship is “salvageable”, or not.

      This plan is NOT about getting your ex boyfriend back, it is about getting your life back, and in the process revealing your ex’s true feelings for you.

      If you are interested, go read the free plan on my Blog, and follow ALL the steps.

      Take Care,

      S.W.

  31. emma says:

    hi.
    just looking for some guidance on if i should now give up or not.

    my ex and i split about 8 weeks ago now. at the time of the split i told him to do wot he had to do and finish it and that i wouldnt bother him again. about 3 days after this he contacted me by email and asked if he could still keep in contact with my son, ( not his son) as he thought alot of him, after i agreed he said he would like us to stay friends and asked me if i was ok with us not talkin. my reply was no i wasnt all right with it but it was just to hard. he said he understood and if i wanted to talk then i could.

    we had no contact for about 3 to 4 weeks after that then suddenly he contacted me by email again askin how my son and i were keeping, at this point i was very angry and just gave him a very blunt were fine answer, he then replyed back that if we couldnt be friends he would at least like us to be civil with one another, which at that point made my blood boil and i replyed very badly to this…i told him that we dont always get wot we want in life and that we should just leave it at that. to this he took me off the social network site he used to contact me and deleted all the comments i had left on his page.
    this happened about 4 weeks ago, i realised the other week that i had been really harsh and added him back as a friend on the same site, he has accepted the request but on the same day he placed on his profile that he was in a relationship with another woman.
    he has also not been on his profile much but he has not sent me any messages askin why i added him back as a friend, tho it has only been 1 week.

    so from a mans point of view, have i completley ruined any chance of us getting together again because of the last message. and should i give up hope, or just keep up the no contact?? anything you can tell me on this would be so apretiated.

    • S. Williams says:

      Hi,

      If your ex boyfriend truly loved you, he will come back.

      Don’t focus on the past, you can’t change that, but you can start using the no contact rule correctly.

      Go read the free plan on my Blog, and follow ALL the steps.

      Take Care,

      S.W.

  32. David says:

    Success!! my ex has asked for a ‘catch-up’ is this what i hope it is or is she just wanting to be friends. She has been sending me emails and a recent text saying ‘ i have just got back from Norway and thought of you’!! whooop whooop!

    Am i leading to a fall… how do i go about arrange this catch-up??

  33. Alice says:

    It’s been over 2 months an almost 3 months since my break up. My ex and me were almost together for a whole year, and loved each other to bits, but towards the end he started giving less attention to me and he wasn’t interested in anyone else he just didn’t love me anymore like he used to.But I’ve been using a forum to help me with the break up and its helped but sometimes i don’t get an answer for my questions, and ive been doing no contact for a few weeks and he’s started texting me a few times a week and over this week and last week he started saying “I think I still Love you” and “I love you” and also leaving kisses at the end of the text but the downer for me is that he still loves me but don’t want to go out with me… :/ so I’m confused of what to do.

    Help please.

    • S. Williams says:

      Hi,

      Your ex is confused and sending “mixed signals” meant to keep you from moving on, and this only keeps you “both” in relationship limbo.

      One of you has got to be the strong one, and set you both free.

      You say you’re using the no contact rule, but are you using it correctly?

      It really does make a difference how you use NC and the mindset you have while using it.

      I help people survive a break up and get their lives back, not get their ex boyfriend back, and I explain why in the “About” section on my Blog.

      The fastest way to get your guy back is to get your life back first.

      Go read the free plan to get your ex back and follow ALL the steps to heal your broken heart, evolve past the breakup, and get your life back again.

      Thank you for writing.

      Take Care,

      S.W.

  34. mya says:

    hye there…my ex and i broke up 4 months ago after 5 years 2gether….but we still contact each other..at first went i know he cheated on me with another girl…i went completely insane and begging him to leave her…and he says that he loves her and can’t do that….so we broke up…after few days he contact me…asking if i’m ok…i was still begging him….now it’s been 4 months and we still cntact each other and every week once we will hook up…and he doesn’t want his girlfriend to know….we even kiss each other…and i told him that i wanted to be his 2nd wife…he agrees with me…i juz want to know what can i do now? i made 2 many mistakes….i juz want him back…please help me…i don’t want to share him with anybody…what should i do now? i’m afraid if i stop contacting him…he will forget me and that woman will get him alone….

    • S. Williams says:

      Hi,

      I can help you use the no contact rule to evolve past the break up and reveal your ex boyfriend’s true feelings for you.

      I help people survive a break up and get their lives back, not get their ex boyfriend back, and I explain why in the “About” section on my Blog.

      The fastest way to get your man back is to get your life back first.

      Go read the free plan to get your ex back and follow ALL the steps to heal your broken heart, evolve past the breakup, and get your life back again.

      Thank you for writing.

      Take Care,

      S.W.

  35. mya says:

    I use phone message to send the nc letter…is it ok? cause my ex juz move a few weeks ago and i dont know his new address….

  36. foxy says:

    My bf broke up with me 5months ago we didn’t hav any contact until end of may this year. We got back in contact and we met up just to catch up.
    In that time I acted as if I didn’t care and pretended to be over the breakup which actually made him phone me more and wanted to meet up more and more. Many times he said he didn’t think things are working so he would cut off cvontact a few days later he would start calling again … Through all that time I would just listen to his problems and tried to be there for him without judging or make him feel bad I really acted as if I didn’t care what happened between us … Which really worked then he said he still loves me and wanted to be with me so I jus said let’s see how things go … I started spending weekends at his place we went out everything … Now here is where I made my mistake I told him that I loved him and wanted to be with him four days ago. I thought the time was right as we practically spent the last two months seeing each other every weekend. But when I told him that he kissed me and yesterday he said he decided that its not goin to work … Please give me any advice you can please as I’m still in contact with him and trying to play it cool I don’t know what to do from here on as I do not believe that is what he really wants

    • S. Williams says:

      Hi,

      It sounds like you are stuck in the “just friends with benefits” zone.

      You can use the no contact rule to break out of this place, and reveal your ex boyfriend’s true feelings for you.

      I help people survive a break up and get their lives back, not get their ex boyfriend back, and I explain why in the “About” section on my Blog.

      The fastest way to get your man back is to get your life back first.

      Go read the free plan to get your ex back and follow ALL the steps to heal your broken heart, evolve past the breakup, and get your life back again.

      Thank you for writing.

      Take Care,

      S.W.

  37. Cynthia says:

    My ex sent me an apology online back in Dec, I didn’t want to contact him because I had a boyfriend at the time, when my bf and I broke up, I realized how much I missed my ex. I contacted him in January and we met up the next day. It felt so comfortable.. He did question me of whether or not I was still dating, I told him its too much hurt and drama so no, he agreed and said he wants to try at being friends. He promises to take me to lunch soon and that we will hang out. Before these promises, he tried to kiss me, but i pushed him away out of fear of being hurt again. Well I saw him today and he was standing around talking to a girl, he greeted me, I said hi and gave him a hug, then walked away. The girl left and I saw him right after. He kept walking by me throughout the rest of the night, looking at me and smiling, but not talking. At some points, he would stand near me and kind of watch me and talk to others close by. What should I make of this and what should I do? I’m terrified of being hurt again, but after months apart, I realize how much I do miss him :/

    • S. Williams says:

      Hi,

      It sounds like he just wants to be FWB – and your instincts are telling you to beware!

      Listen to your instincts, and stay away from your ex.

      You need to follow the no contact rule correctly, and evolve past the break up – it takes longer than 30 or 60 days.

      Once you have let yourself evolve past the breakup you will not miss him as much because you will start to see the truth about who he really is as a person.

      He is trying to take advantage of the fact that you still have feelings for him – that is a selfish person who has little respect for you, or himself.

      I help people get over a break up and get their lives back, not get their ex back, and I explain why in the “About” section on my Blog.

      Go read the free plan to get your ex back and follow ALL the steps to get over a broken heart, evolve past the breakup, and get your life back again.

      Thank you for writing.

      Take Care,

      S.W.

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  38. Cynthia says:

    Thanks for your response. We discussed that and he said he doesn’t want FWB, he respects me and doesn’t want sex to get in the way of our friendship. By his email to me it seemed he wanted to get back together with me but I’m afraid to get into any relationship again because I always fail at them. My last relationship was awesome and he left me for his job, so I am scared to date anyone again..

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