How to Get My Ex Boyfriend Back – 3 Signs He Still Loves You

If you want to know if your ex boyfriend still loves you just look for these 3 signs. If you want to learn “how to get my ex boyfriend back” keep on reading…OK? A break up does not mean the end of a relationship, sometimes it is just the beginning of a better, and stronger relationship. If you see any of these 3 signs then I would say he still loves you.

Get My Ex Boyfriend Back – Love Sign 1

This sign that he still loves you is pretty obvious, yet it can be confusing, and hard to read. You want to know how to win your ex back, but he says he just wants to be friends. Why would he just want to be friends? I believe it is because he hasn’t completely let go of you because he still cares deeply about you. This is a good way to buy time, and keep an eye on you at the same time. Even though this is one of the more confusing signs he still loves you…it is a foot in the door. You are on your way to getting your ex boyfriend back” for sure.

He Can Not Move, And That is a Great Sign That He Still Loves You

Get My Ex Back – Love Sign 2

Another sign that he still loves you is that he seems to be hiding something. This can make you pretty nervous because you do not know whether to trust your instincts or not. On your quest to learn how to get an ex back you will have to learn to trust your own instincts. When he talks to you, does he ask about your social life?

There is another sign that he still loves you. Even though he thinks he is playing it off, you can see right through that by the way he acts. Is he always chuckling and acting like everything is just sort of a joke? Well, that is how he is hiding his true feelings and intentions. The more of these signs you can pickup the closer you are to getting my ex back.

Get Your Ex Back – Love Sign 3

This is a real hot sign (ding! ding! ding!) that he still loves you. Even if he has been on dates, and even if he has been intimate. If he has not stayed with any of them very long it is because he still loves you. Use this sign that it’s time to find a plan on “how to get my ex boyfriend back.” With all these signs staring you right in the face it is time for action.

These 3 signs that he still loves you are the first steps on your way to getting your ex boyfriend back. If you really want to “get my ex back” then the time is right. Use these 3 signs that he still loves you along with a great plan on winning back an ex boyfriend, and start getting him back today. You really need a good plan now that you know the time is right .

If you have seen one or more of these tell tale signs that your ex boyfriend still loves you, it’s time to act…OK? If you have any comments or questions about using these signs of love to get your ex back, write them in the comment box below, and I will answer them ASAP! What can I do to help you win your ex back? What are you willing to do to “get my ex boyfriend back?”

Who Am I and Why Should You Listen to Me?

My name is S. Williams, and I have been helping people for more than 3 years to overcome break up pain, and get their lives back. I even have an “About” section that I recommend you read. I know the name of my site is: How to Get Your Ex Back Fast, but I teach people how to get their lives back, not their ex’s.

If you’re interested in working with me (and our forum members) to get your life back, join my free newsletter for access to the free plan to get your ex back fast, and start getting your life back today. The answers you need to start your personal evolution are waiting for you, don’t hesitate another minute…come and get them.

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  1. hi my problem with my guy is he is 14 yr older. I have know him for 20 years and together for 4, we have lived on and off together for 4 yrs he gets angry and i’m gone and back again. He finally seemed to be on the right track even proposed to me. I was ecstatic for all of 2 weeks. He got extremely upset over a minor incident by my young son on our vacation and he made us leave our week vacation. I went home (we were living together at the time), upon his return, he stayed living downstairs in living room for next 12 weeks. angrier than ever. He has never talked about our problems ever. ive begged him to talk to me and nothing. a week before I moved out he finally started talking to me as usual. now it has been 2 months since I have moved and every week since my move he finds something to argue about and does not speak to me for 3-4 days. Always blames me. I have learned to pick my fights and stay quiet as not to get him upset. He has upset me with hiding texts and late nights where I end up finding receipts and such. i, however do not mention as not to fight as if i even say anything he blows up. This last break up was different. i found out he signed up on a singles website looking for casual relationships. When i confronted him, he said he was angry with me and did it but he was going to delete it as it was dumb of him to do it and he felt bad, however, not once did he apologize or even show me how bad he felt. he started leaving home about 3:30-7 and those time i could never reach him. he has never worked like this in the 4 yrs ive known him. He does this about 4-5 days a week. when i mention it he fights and does not come around. He threatens me to shut my phone line off and finally i told him to do it and he stated he was but never did it until last night. He blames me. I have did everything for this man any man would only wish for. I took care of him and his grown kids that do nothing for themselves. I did not deserve any of this. I would never let any man control me but i allowed him to do this to me and i do not know why. We purchased a truck together and now he is threatening me to leave me walking if i do not return to him asap. we switched cars every week but his other lil car we were switching no longer has insurance and i refuse to use it as i will not lose my license for him. I finally purchased a car of my own without his knowledge and am giving him our truck back. I don’t know if he is still trying to be in control. He is 60. He humiliated me time after time and i allowed it. Why do i still let him do this and take him back even when he doesn’t even have to explain himself. How do i gain control again? I thought with his shutting off my phone it was it but i don’t believe it is

    1. Hi,

      Don’t figure in the “age difference” as a factor, an asshole is an asshole, no matter what age they are.

      OK, now, you need to go read the free plan and start your personal evolution.

      When you start your own personal evolution, he (like it or not) will begin to do the same.

      You can gain access to the free plan through my newsletter, which you can access through the link below.

      The Free Breakup Survival Plan

      If you are really serious about being happy again, you will stick to NC for at least 6-12 months, that’s when “the magic” starts to happen.

      Take Care,

      S.W.

  2. Thanks for your response. We discussed that and he said he doesn’t want FWB, he respects me and doesn’t want sex to get in the way of our friendship. By his email to me it seemed he wanted to get back together with me but I’m afraid to get into any relationship again because I always fail at them. My last relationship was awesome and he left me for his job, so I am scared to date anyone again..

    1. Hi,

      It sounds like you have trouble picking the right guy for you – you should take a look at this website.

      The more you learn about men, the easier it will get to choose the right guy – educate yourself and be better prepared for your next relationship.

      I hope this helps.

      Take Care,

      S.W.

  3. My ex sent me an apology online back in Dec, I didn’t want to contact him because I had a boyfriend at the time, when my bf and I broke up, I realized how much I missed my ex. I contacted him in January and we met up the next day. It felt so comfortable.. He did question me of whether or not I was still dating, I told him its too much hurt and drama so no, he agreed and said he wants to try at being friends. He promises to take me to lunch soon and that we will hang out. Before these promises, he tried to kiss me, but i pushed him away out of fear of being hurt again. Well I saw him today and he was standing around talking to a girl, he greeted me, I said hi and gave him a hug, then walked away. The girl left and I saw him right after. He kept walking by me throughout the rest of the night, looking at me and smiling, but not talking. At some points, he would stand near me and kind of watch me and talk to others close by. What should I make of this and what should I do? I’m terrified of being hurt again, but after months apart, I realize how much I do miss him :/

    1. Hi,

      It sounds like he just wants to be FWB – and your instincts are telling you to beware!

      Listen to your instincts, and stay away from your ex.

      You need to follow the no contact rule correctly, and evolve past the break up – it takes longer than 30 or 60 days.

      Once you have let yourself evolve past the breakup you will not miss him as much because you will start to see the truth about who he really is as a person.

      He is trying to take advantage of the fact that you still have feelings for him – that is a selfish person who has little respect for you, or himself.

      I help people get over a break up and get their lives back, not get their ex back, and I explain why in the “About” section on my Blog.

      Go read the free plan to get your ex back and follow ALL the steps to get over a broken heart, evolve past the breakup, and get your life back again.

      Thank you for writing.

      Take Care,

      S.W.

      IMPORTANT – If you found this information helpful or useful, please give me a “+1” rating by using the colored “+1 button” at the bottom of the above article. I’d really appreciate it.

  4. My bf broke up with me 5months ago we didn’t hav any contact until end of may this year. We got back in contact and we met up just to catch up.
    In that time I acted as if I didn’t care and pretended to be over the breakup which actually made him phone me more and wanted to meet up more and more. Many times he said he didn’t think things are working so he would cut off cvontact a few days later he would start calling again … Through all that time I would just listen to his problems and tried to be there for him without judging or make him feel bad I really acted as if I didn’t care what happened between us … Which really worked then he said he still loves me and wanted to be with me so I jus said let’s see how things go … I started spending weekends at his place we went out everything … Now here is where I made my mistake I told him that I loved him and wanted to be with him four days ago. I thought the time was right as we practically spent the last two months seeing each other every weekend. But when I told him that he kissed me and yesterday he said he decided that its not goin to work … Please give me any advice you can please as I’m still in contact with him and trying to play it cool I don’t know what to do from here on as I do not believe that is what he really wants

    1. Hi,

      It sounds like you are stuck in the “just friends with benefits” zone.

      You can use the no contact rule to break out of this place, and reveal your ex boyfriend’s true feelings for you.

      I help people survive a break up and get their lives back, not get their ex boyfriend back, and I explain why in the “About” section on my Blog.

      The fastest way to get your man back is to get your life back first.

      Go read the free plan to get your ex back and follow ALL the steps to heal your broken heart, evolve past the breakup, and get your life back again.

      Thank you for writing.

      Take Care,

      S.W.

  5. I use phone message to send the nc letter…is it ok? cause my ex juz move a few weeks ago and i dont know his new address….

    1. That should be fine.

      1. i still didn’t get my confirmation email to join the forum…i have sent the nc letter…please i would like to share my feelings in the forum….

        1. Check your junk/spam folders and make sure to whitelist the email address for the forum.

          1. i have check…but it’s not there 2…

            1. Try registering again.

  6. hye there…my ex and i broke up 4 months ago after 5 years 2gether….but we still contact each other..at first went i know he cheated on me with another girl…i went completely insane and begging him to leave her…and he says that he loves her and can’t do that….so we broke up…after few days he contact me…asking if i’m ok…i was still begging him….now it’s been 4 months and we still cntact each other and every week once we will hook up…and he doesn’t want his girlfriend to know….we even kiss each other…and i told him that i wanted to be his 2nd wife…he agrees with me…i juz want to know what can i do now? i made 2 many mistakes….i juz want him back…please help me…i don’t want to share him with anybody…what should i do now? i’m afraid if i stop contacting him…he will forget me and that woman will get him alone….

    1. Hi,

      I can help you use the no contact rule to evolve past the break up and reveal your ex boyfriend’s true feelings for you.

      I help people survive a break up and get their lives back, not get their ex boyfriend back, and I explain why in the “About” section on my Blog.

      The fastest way to get your man back is to get your life back first.

      Go read the free plan to get your ex back and follow ALL the steps to heal your broken heart, evolve past the breakup, and get your life back again.

      Thank you for writing.

      Take Care,

      S.W.

  7. It’s been over 2 months an almost 3 months since my break up. My ex and me were almost together for a whole year, and loved each other to bits, but towards the end he started giving less attention to me and he wasn’t interested in anyone else he just didn’t love me anymore like he used to.But I’ve been using a forum to help me with the break up and its helped but sometimes i don’t get an answer for my questions, and ive been doing no contact for a few weeks and he’s started texting me a few times a week and over this week and last week he started saying “I think I still Love you” and “I love you” and also leaving kisses at the end of the text but the downer for me is that he still loves me but don’t want to go out with me… :/ so I’m confused of what to do.

    Help please.

    1. Hi,

      Your ex is confused and sending “mixed signals” meant to keep you from moving on, and this only keeps you “both” in relationship limbo.

      One of you has got to be the strong one, and set you both free.

      You say you’re using the no contact rule, but are you using it correctly?

      It really does make a difference how you use NC and the mindset you have while using it.

      I help people survive a break up and get their lives back, not get their ex boyfriend back, and I explain why in the “About” section on my Blog.

      The fastest way to get your guy back is to get your life back first.

      Go read the free plan to get your ex back and follow ALL the steps to heal your broken heart, evolve past the breakup, and get your life back again.

      Thank you for writing.

      Take Care,

      S.W.

  8. Success!! my ex has asked for a ‘catch-up’ is this what i hope it is or is she just wanting to be friends. She has been sending me emails and a recent text saying ‘ i have just got back from Norway and thought of you’!! whooop whooop!

    Am i leading to a fall… how do i go about arrange this catch-up??

    1. Hi,

      If you have been following the free plan it is all explained in the last stage…reconnection.

      Take Care,

      S.W.

  9. hi.
    just looking for some guidance on if i should now give up or not.

    my ex and i split about 8 weeks ago now. at the time of the split i told him to do wot he had to do and finish it and that i wouldnt bother him again. about 3 days after this he contacted me by email and asked if he could still keep in contact with my son, ( not his son) as he thought alot of him, after i agreed he said he would like us to stay friends and asked me if i was ok with us not talkin. my reply was no i wasnt all right with it but it was just to hard. he said he understood and if i wanted to talk then i could.

    we had no contact for about 3 to 4 weeks after that then suddenly he contacted me by email again askin how my son and i were keeping, at this point i was very angry and just gave him a very blunt were fine answer, he then replyed back that if we couldnt be friends he would at least like us to be civil with one another, which at that point made my blood boil and i replyed very badly to this…i told him that we dont always get wot we want in life and that we should just leave it at that. to this he took me off the social network site he used to contact me and deleted all the comments i had left on his page.
    this happened about 4 weeks ago, i realised the other week that i had been really harsh and added him back as a friend on the same site, he has accepted the request but on the same day he placed on his profile that he was in a relationship with another woman.
    he has also not been on his profile much but he has not sent me any messages askin why i added him back as a friend, tho it has only been 1 week.

    so from a mans point of view, have i completley ruined any chance of us getting together again because of the last message. and should i give up hope, or just keep up the no contact?? anything you can tell me on this would be so apretiated.

    1. Hi,

      If your ex boyfriend truly loved you, he will come back.

      Don’t focus on the past, you can’t change that, but you can start using the no contact rule correctly.

      Go read the free plan on my Blog, and follow ALL the steps.

      Take Care,

      S.W.

  10. i really would like your help.

    my ex and i purchased our home together. i learned from my previous relationship so i put everything on my name. i was dealing with a lot of personal issues, job change, family death, bills were coming in, home renovation items, money issues etc. this caused me to be very very stressed out. so to have a release i cried all the time. one day i had an issue that happened at work and they needed to take x amount of money in the next 4 cheque. i asked some financial help from my ex and he looked at me and didnt say anything (at that time i felt that he didnt care).

    prior to moving in of my friends made a comment that my ex found himself a sugar mommy that really hurt i kept this comment for awhile and one day i was so frustrated with the $$$ issue at work and that comment really bugged me. i told my ex that one of my friends said that about him. i was so upset that i end up crying.

    3days later the ex packed up all of his stuff and moved out of the house and left me with the items that needs to be cared for.

    i am currently dealing with house issues and money issues on my own.

    for one month i was texting him and tried to reason out with him. that didnt get me anywhere… so one day i literally stopped messaging him no text or phone call..

    and at the beginning of october 2010, he started sending me Instant mesages and text messages. it was the same person that i met a year ago.

    then today, i got a message from him saying that he wanted a “back massage” i said ok.. but it has to be at his house not in this house… he sent me a text back indicating that i didnt want him in the house…. i told him in a text message that its not that.. the house is bought for both of us but if he comes here and leaves again the pain would emerge again.

    i didnt get any follow up text message.

    You see when i met this man i knew in my heart that hes the one that i wanted to spend the rest of my life with.. this man and i never fought and all of a sudden he packed up his stuff out of that comment.

    so if you think that this relationship is saveable can you please tell me what steps do i need to do.

    ty so much and more power to you

    WPGGIRL

    1. Hi,

      I don’t know if a relationship is “salvageable”, or not.

      This plan is NOT about getting your ex boyfriend back, it is about getting your life back, and in the process revealing your ex’s true feelings for you.

      If you are interested, go read the free plan on my Blog, and follow ALL the steps.

      Take Care,

      S.W.

  11. During the break up time, I tried to move on, I went out and travelled with friends so he thought that I moved on and contacted me. Now, I ruin everythings.

  12. Hello,

    I’m realy looking forward to your help.

    We broke up a month ago and we didn’t have any contact till a week ago. He called me and asked me if I was going well. We talked friendly and cheerfully. However, I soon realized that he just wanted to be friends, I want more than it. He called me just b’cos he really wanted to keep contact with me as a friend.

    I’m really upset cos he doesn’t want to go farther and I look for everywhere a way to flirt him, get out of friend zone. Today, I made a big mistake that can destroy everything and I might never have a chance with him anymore. I called him, I told him that he is very important to me, I cried and begged him to give me aother chance. Although I’ve read many books (the book you advice,too), I still did that. I was really stupid. Now he said that he didn’t want to talk to me anymore (last time he talked like this, too but I think this time is true). He even didn’t want to meet our mutual friends.

    So what can I do now? Is it true that my hope is dead now?

    Thank you.

    1. Ha says:

      So what can I do now? Is it true that my hope is dead now?

      Hi,

      Please, enough fucking drama, OK?

      Hope is not dead…get a grip.

      Go read the free plan on my Blog, and follow ALL the steps.

      It doesn’t matter what has happened in the past, this plan will help you get your life back, if you use it correctly.

      Take Care,

      S.W.

  13. Hello!

    I am really looking forward to your help! My ex bf broke up with me a year ago after 2 yrs of relationship, living together since the day we met. We had a wonderful relationship, with ups and downs like any other, but at his 25 he decided to go wild and meet new people (note: he had been in the Navy from 18 to 23). Anyways, I have not been able to date anyone else and it seems he has had several dates or relationships, but short lived – he circles back with me every 3-4 months since we broke up.

    Now: he has been sending me casual messages asking me how I am doing, saying I was right about this and that, and finally asked me out to the movies, to which I replied the next day “I was at a class but appreciate the invite”. A few points:

    1. Most of his texts are on Fri or Sat very late at night – why?
    2. I usually take my time to respond..days or a week. Is this ok? (he has already asked me twice why it takes me so long)
    3. he asked me out to the movies, I politely turned him down: it’s been 2 weeks and I haven’t heard from him. Is there a chance he will contact me again?

    I wonder if he misses me and wants back together. I am deeply in love with him and would love to, but dont want to sound/look desperate.

    What are your thoughts? Thanks!!!!

    1. feternod says:

      I wonder if he misses me and wants back together. I am deeply in love with him and would love to, but dont want to sound/look desperate.

      What are your thoughts? Thanks!!!!

      Hi,

      It sounds like he is interested in dating you again, whether that means he is “deeply in love” like you are…who knows?

      People usually call late when they are either drunk, or lonely, or both, this doesn’t matter much.

      I suggest you read the reconnection stage of the free plan, and if you have the book The Magic of Making up, read chapter 6 too.

      The key thing here is to not rush back to where you left off in your past failed relationship.

      This will be a new relationship, and you should learn from your past mistakes to help build a stronger relationship this time, one that will last…make sense?

      If he tries to rush things, slow him down, if he gets angry, end the date, and then go home and read the free plan on my Blog, and start from the beginning with the recommended NC message.

      You should also watch video #4 on my Break up Help Video section.

      I hope this helped.

      Take Care,

      S.W.

  14. lisa barnes wrote:

    he is confusing, one minute he wants to move on and the next minute he dont want to let go? what should i do?

    Hi,

    You came to the right place, follow ALL the steps in the free plan ASAP.

    Take Care,

    S.W.

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