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How to Get My Ex Back – Good Bonds vs Bad Bonds

It seems the biggest obstacle in learning “how to get my ex back” is knowing the difference between a good bond with your ex, and a bad bond with your ex boyfriend/girlfriend. If you have a moment I would like to explain what I mean…OK? Hopefully this will open your eyes, and you can start to move forward and win your ex back again.

Get My Ex Back – Bad Bonds

While every one thinks it’s a great idea to stay friends with their ex in hopes of winning them back, it really isn’t. Why? Because this is creating a bad bond between you and your old relationship with them. If you’re really serious about “getting my ex back” this is the last thing you want. Your old relationship is where the big fight, or mistake happened. Let’s bury that using no contact, learn from your mistakes, and come back healed, and ready for a fresh start with your ex.

How to Get Back an Ex

I know that you’ve heard, and read horror stories about using no contact, but it works, and I can prove it if you want to contact me. Instead of worrying about your ex moving on and forgetting you, you should think about this bad bond you’re protecting so much…how good is it really? They keep you on a leash while you settle for “little crumbs” of attention from them, as they go on with their lives…is this what you want? You can “get my ex back” if you’re willing to do what it takes, and that means following a good plan, and sticking with it…OK?

Use No Contact to Strengthen The Bond You Have With Your Ex

Win Back Your Ex – Good Bonds

Here is the kind of bond you really want, you just don’t know it yet, but with some help you’ll begin to see. The old saying you have to let something go to see if you really ever had it, is completely true. If you want to get your ex back, this is what you’re going to have to do. The best way I know of doing this is using no contact with personal support. Let me say that again, using no contact with personal support. That is the missing piece of the puzzle in just about every plan out there…personal support. You need to break the old bad bond in order to create the new good bond.

Getting Back Ex

Listen, you can be friends with your ex, I am with mine, but it is usually after you both move on from the old relationship first, not right after the break up. It just doesn’t work trying to be friends after a break up because each person is trying to move on while holding on to each other with casual chit chat…how does that work exactly? It doesn’t and that’s why you are in a lot of pain, right? Plus, lets face it, you don’t really want to be friends. You are holding on hoping to get your ex back, right?

How to Win Your Ex Back

No contact is very hard to handle alone. Many people fail because they get depressed and quit no contact and start using the same old tactics that failed before. If you have any comments, or questions please write them in the comment box below, and I will answer them ASAP! How can I help you get your ex back? What are you willingly to do to “get my ex back?”

Who Am I and Why Should You Listen to Me?

My name is S. Williams, and I have been helping people for more than 3 years to overcome break up pain, and get their lives back. I even have an “About” section that I recommend you read. I know the name of my site is: How to Get Your Ex Back Fast, but I teach people how to get their lives back, not their ex’s.

If you’re interested in working with me (and our forum members) to get your life back, join my free newsletter for access to the free plan to get your ex back fast, and start getting your life back today. The answers you need to start your personal evolution are waiting for you, don’t hesitate another minute…come and get them.

Once you get your life back, everything else will just start to fall into place…I promise. If you have any comments or questions please write them in the comment box below.

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Until next time,

S. Williams

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  1. Heya he dumped me’ at July while his cousin there giggling on the phone background. When he wasn’t with his cousin he’s all ‘i miss you l, we gotta meet up and chat’ then when he work
    His cousin he’s all blunt and says don’t bother and rather still
    Be mates but wouldn’t be happy me’ being with someone so I said look I’m gonna remove you for a while so I can get my head sorted and move on and removed him off facebook then he blocked me’ :S! And haven’t contacted me’ after! Haven’t contacted me’ nearly a month and I haven’t untaxed him as well! He’s very stubborn person! He’s a Leo! It his birthday soon 2 days after mine and I’m not to sure if I call him to say happy birthday? I do miss him and want him back.

    1. Hi,

      It doesn’t matter how much “you want him back”, if he “truly” doesn’t want you, right?

      Plus, before you start chasing your ex boyfriend and kissing his ass to get him back, why don’t you make sure he is worth the effort?

      I would completely ignore his birthday, and if he tells you happy birthday, just say “thanks”, and that’s it.

      The no contact rule will help reveal your ex boyfriend’s true feelings for you.

      I help people survive a break up and get their lives back, not get their ex boyfriend back, and I explain why in the “About” section on my Blog.

      Go read the free plan to get your ex back and follow ALL the steps to heal your broken heart, evolve past the breakup, and get your life back again.

      Thank you for writing.

      Take Care,


  2. It is April 28th 2011 and I am not sure if you are still up and helping….
    Right now my boyfriend and I are broken up. We have been going out for about a year and a half. We fight often but less than we use to, still often. I get “crazy” he gets quiet.
    I have done pretty much everything in the book for him to not want to be with me but i have never cheated on him.
    He is and has expressed his complete done with me. In many ways i understand. We are yin and yang, black and white. But I do love him much. I also understand that I need to change much about me for us to have a successful relationship.
    Please tell me it is not too late. Right now he lives at my place with me. He is moving out in the next day or two. During the last couple days i have done much to push him farther away; cry, beg,scream, criticize, just everything. I realize that i should just shut up but I don’t.
    He does not have a cell phone and he works where I do most of my grocery shopping. please help

    1. Hi,

      You can not stop your ex from leaving, and trying to do so will only make matters worse.

      The best thing to do is to use the no contact rule to evolve past the breakup, and get your life back.

      I help people get their lives back, not get their ex boyfriends back, and I explain why in the “About” section on my Blog.

      Go read the free plan to get your ex back on my Blog, and follow ALL the steps.

      Thank you for writing.

      Take Care,


  3. kevin, follow the free plan and NC rule!!! it workss!!! let her go out with as many guys she wants to! there’s an article saying that and S. Williams will not tolerate any more tries and giving chances to people on once your in your forum and speaking of your ex, wanting them back, etc. Keep it positive! don’t worry about the ex, it’s about YOU and only you! keep it that way, not any other way! need any help, there’s many many people that can help you on the forum, they, we are all going through the same thing!

    So remember, it’s NC all the time unless you have to speak because of a project, work, or have a child. If she calls, don’t answer, if you answer not knowing it’s her, just be polite and cut the conversation short, and keep the NC rule! Let her date other people! If she really loves you, she won’t forget you right away and may do things to get you mad, thinking, etc. Don’t let it get it to you!

  4. In addition to that, would it be wise to do what she’s doing…Keep her around and date other people as well?? Or completely cut her off for those 30 days…..Im just worried that if I cut her off now….it’ll just push her to someone else and all the quality time i’ve been longing for will also go to someone else…….Will dating other people while seeing her help me regain the upper hand? Or is NC the only way?

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