How to Find Out Does My Boyfriend Love Me And Win Back Your Ex

The true test to determine “does my boyfriend love me?” is completed in 3 steps. If you follow these steps correctly you will know for sure and win back your ex. This is not rocket science yet it is so simple that women over look it all the time. Let’s get started so you can get a jump on getting your ex back…OK?

Step One

You have to let go of your current relationship with him, this is probably the hardest part of the 3 step plan but it will make you feel so much better once it’s over. You must use the correct no contact message and send it to him via email, text…but not on the telephone. Why?

Because if he senses weakness in your voice he will not take your message seriously, that’s why. The message should be polite, unemotional, and direct. This is not the place to apologize, this is where you set the tone and take control. This is the beginning of your journey to find out “Does my boyfriend still love me?”

Focus on Emotional Control and You Will Find Out Does My Boyfriend Love Me

Step Two

The key to success and winning back your ex is emotional control, how do you get it? You need to formulate a plan that will include using self help tools and other things to help you “evolve” emotionally and become stronger and independent. There are many books on the Internet to help you and I will recommend my choice later on.

If you do not take this step seriously you will become frightened, weak, and break your no contact session and have to start all over. Do not make the mistake so many others have and get the necessary information, or book. “Does my boyfriend love me?” well at this point you’re well on your way to finding out and getting him back.

Step Three

You will need a plan to reconnect with your ex once you have used no contact long enough to gain the emotional strength it will take for this step. No contact is not about waiting 30 days, it is about breaking the connection (contact) with your ex and working on yourself (emotionally) while researching what went wrong with your old “failed” relationship.

You will need all these things to prepare yourself for the new relationship you are going to create. Your ex will also be evolving this way too if you followed steps 1 and 2 correctly. Now, when you feel ready you will contact your ex and set up a series of meetings to reconnect in a “new” relationship. If your ex boyfriend agrees to this then you have the answer to your question; “Does my boyfriend love me?”

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Who Am I and Why Should You Listen to Me?

My name is S. Williams, and I have been helping people since 2008 to overcome break up pain, and get their lives back. I even have an “About” section that I recommend you read. I know the name of my site is: How to Get Your Ex Back Fast, but I teach people how to get their lives back, not their ex’s.

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  1. @S. Williams

    I would love your advice.

    Briefly: My boyfriend of 6 years broke up with me about a week ago. We were not fighting, so I was really caught off-guard. He has told me several times over the past 6 years that I am “the one.” Last week he told me that he “can’t be with me right now”, telling me several times in the phone call that he loves me and misses me and can’t imagine his life without me. The reasons he gave me for not being with me right now were that 1) we have been long-distance for the past 4 years (I finish grad school in one year) and he says he was having problems with the distance, and 2)that he is unhappy with his job and hates where he lives (NYC) and needs to make a change.

    Needless to say I was/am very confused because he said the breakup had nothing to do with us and that he loves me and is scared, and did not want to hang up the phone.

    I told him that I could not be friends with him. He agreed that he could never just be friends with me either.

    Then he asked if he could call me in a month and I agreed. My question is why would he want to call me? I made it very clear that I could not just be friends with him and he agreed, so why call then? In addition he said just because he is calling me it does not mean that he wants to get back together… so again why call?

    I followed the T.Dub guide and agreed with the break-up and have not contacted him since and am trying to get back to being good on my own. I was wondering what your advice would be if he does call me in a month. What would I say? The T.Dub guide doesn’t really gives much on the actual conversation other than to keep it brief. What are your thoughts?

    It’s tough because I still love him very much and we have been together for 6 years. It’s hard to think that after all this time that he could no longer want to be with me. I appreciate any help that you could offer.

    1. Elizabeth says:

      It’s tough because I still love him very much and we have been together for 6 years. It’s hard to think that after all this time that he could no longer want to be with me. I appreciate any help that you could offer.

      Hi,

      It is impossible to determine why your ex boyfriend is acting this way, so the best move would to be not even bother guessing about it, and focus on getting your life back instead.

      I help people get their lives back, not their ex’s, if this confuses you, go read the “About” section on my Blog.

      Although the book MOMU is a great book, the letter in there sucks, that is why I created a better one in the free plan.

      I recommend that you go read the free plan here on my Blog, and follow ALL the steps, and yes, that means sending the recommended NC message (without changes).

      It doesn’t matter what you said on the phone, you need to send this message to get your personal evolution started.

      Thanks for writing.

      Take Care,

      S.W.

  2. Leen wrote:

    @ Leen:
    i have been following the plan. i havent contacted him for 3weeks. i agreed with the break up. i’ve been focusing on myself…

    Going out to breakfast isn’t part of the plan…you need to start over again.

    Start with stage one, and resend the recommended NC message…then stick to the plan this time, OK?

  3. @ Leen:
    i have been following the plan. i havent contacted him for 3weeks. i agreed with the break up. i’ve been focusing on myself…

  4. Iman wrote:

    And what if you were in a long distance relationship ? how does that work? I am really confused and I really need your help. I don’t know what to do .

    Hi Iman,

    First you need to calm down, and focus.

    The best way to do that is by following the free plan on my Blog…and yes, we do cover LDR’s as well…so you came to right place.

    The sooner you stop worrying about your situation, and start focusing on following the free plan, the sooner you will feel better again, OK?

    The free plan is located at the top of my Blog…go get started.

  5. And what if you were in a long distance relationship ? how does that work? I am really confused and I really need your help. I don’t know what to do . I love him so much. I was with him for nine months. I know that he loved me becasue of all the things that he did for me. It wasnt easy. But then I had to leave and go to another country. He was still optimistic … we kept it together for one month .. adn then he started to change… and eventually he started beign really rudely with me… but i still love him despite all that…please tell me wht to do..

  6. Leen wrote:

    after that he just went home and acted like nothing happen. i’m so confused.. what does this mean? i want him back in my life i really love him.

    Hi Leen,

    It seems like he was just checking to see if you were still waiting for him…and you are.

    If you follow the free plan on my Blog you will be able to determine his true intentions…are you just a friend, or does he want a new relationship with you?

    The best way to make room for a second relationship is to completely break away from the old one…following all the steps in the plan will help you do that.

  7. hai.
    i broke up with my boyfriend of 1 year about 1 month ago. i haven’t contacted him for 3weeks. till he suddenly called me up and wanted to have breakfast with me.. as usual i agreed.. we had a great time. a few days later he wanted to go to a theme park and invited me along. We spend the entire day together. he likes it when i hug him and pamper him. he even asked me to hug him..i missed him so much and so i hugged him tightly and he hugged me tightly also…

    after that he just went home and acted like nothing happen. i’m so confused.. what does this mean? i want him back in my life i really love him.

    thank u

  8. kathy wrote:

    Hey i am on your forum

    Why are you posting on my Blog and not in the forum?

    If you read our forum you will see a member called Brandon with a baby and he is following the plan.

    This plan has worked for a married couple living in the same house with three kids…think your situation is any worst than that?

    Make sure you read the top 3 posts in our forum, so you don’t get blocked…OK?

    BTW – if you really think the book is a “scam” why would you listen to me?

    I support that “scam” book?

  9. Hey i am on your forum….how to kick loves ass but how do you initiate the no contact when you have a baby involved….it seems almost impossible and i havent bought the book yet….the magic of making up because i was trying to do some research on it to make sure its not a scam before i pay for it and then lose money but is the book gender specific because men and women think differently and some things men will do women wont and vise versa so i was just wondering if it was written for all people in a break up or does it have specific sections for men patching up with women and women patching up with men? i would appreciate your response….my name on your forum is fairweather friend…thanks

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