I help people survive a break up and get their lives back, not get their ex boyfriend back, and I explain why in the “About” section on my Blog.

You have a 50/50 chance of getting back together with your ex boyfriend if you use the no contact rule to start your personal evolution.

During your personal evolution you can figure why you treated your ex badly, and how you are going to do things differently.

Go read the free plan to get your ex back on my Blog, begin your personal evolution, heal your broken heart, and evolve past the break up.

Thank you for writing.

Take Care,

S.W.

Just send the recommended no contact message without any changes, and then follow the rest of the steps in the free plan.

You are not using no contact correctly…the NC message is only the first step.

Take Care,

S.W.

I really wish I could give my email address or ask theirs (not by u but I want to ask them personaly) so we could still stay in contact because I really still want to talk with them.

Hi,

You don’t have to wish, you should have asked them for their email address while the forum was open to posting, right?

Actually you would not have had to ask them, if you simply looked at their member profile while you were logged in.

Take Care,

S.W.

When I came back to the forum, to be honest I got quite shocked but since I read about what happend I understand you have to close it. Its a good thing we can still read the posts there.

However Im really sad I cant contact my friends anymore. The people I have shared so many support with. Is there no way I can contact them? Like in the forum buddy. I dont ask for a chance that the forum will get open again, I really wish I could give my email address or ask theirs (not by u but I want to ask them personaly) so we could still stay in contact because I really still want to talk with them. It would be really nice for a chance, thanks.

There are a lot of good people on there and for every one person that was complaining i think there were so many more actually working the plan

Hi,

I didn’t close the forum, I just made it a “read only” forum, if it was closed it wouldn’t even be visible.

I didn’t do this because people were complaining and not following the plan.

I did it because people were abusing it by becoming too dependent on it.

It was meant to be used as a tool, and to be used sparingly as a “temporary” crutch, not as a prosthetic limb.

Many people were using it as a home away from home, and becoming trapped in limbo, and that is what will happen if people use a support forum incorrectly.

The forum was evolving in the wrong direction, and trapping more people than it was helping, as an “open to posting” forum.

In it’s present form people will have no choice but read it, and learn from it, and not become trapped in it.

If people are looking for a “place to hang out”, or “a home away from home”, there are plenty of those forums in existence, they can use them.

I intended the How to Kick Loves Ass Break up Help Forum to be different.

Take Care,

S.W.

P.S. People can still “work” the plan, and if they need help they can post their questions right here on my Blog. And people are free to support each other by responding to each others questions/comments too.

sorry this is probably not the place to post this but i can not figure out how to post my story on the forum…I do not see a link to create a new story…If you could tell me where to look that would be great thanks…

Hi,

I see you figured it out, good job! :thumbup:

what is she doing to me? does she just want to make sure i”m still there?

Hi,

It sounds like she is trying to keep you “on the hook”, until she decides what she wants to do.

You can help yourself, and get off the hook, by following the free plan on my Blog.

Take Care,

S.W.