How to Be Brave Enough to Get Your Ex Back

Are you brave enough to get your ex back? Many people want to get back together with their ex, but they seem to chicken out…why? What are they afraid of? Is it finding out the truth about their ex girlfriends, boyfriends real feelings for them? Whatever it is you need to conquer your fear if you want them back. Let’s take a look at how you can do that, OK?

Find A Good Plan

People read about the no contact rule, and they think that just not talking to their ex is a plan…it’s not. If you want to have the confidence you need to beat back your fear, you need to have a good step-by-step plan to follow. Without a plotted course you will feel lost at sea, and then you will want to turn back, right?

It is very important before you do anything, to find a good plan, and then follow it step by step, understand? Your chances for success getting your ex back will be much greater if you have a plan to follow before you react to your break up situation.

Good Personal Support Will Help You Get Your Ex Back

Find Good Personal Support

Once you have a plan in hand, and you’re following it you’re on your way…but, you will have bad days…guaranteed. So what can you do when you feel like quitting? You find supportive people who will keep you on track…this is real important, and is what’s missing from all those “get your ex back” books on the Internet.

What if you could find a forum where there are people just like yourself, following a plan, and supporting each other…would this help you? You bet it would! Who knows how you feel better than someone who is going through the same emotional roller coaster ride you are? You can survive this breakup, and get your ex back if you have the right tools, and support to ride out all the bumps along the way.

Who Am I and Why Should You Listen to Me?

My name is S. Williams, and I have been helping people since 2008 to overcome break up pain, and get their lives back. I even have an “About” section that I recommend you read. I know the name of my site is: How to Get Your Ex Back Fast, but I teach people how to get their lives back, not their ex’s.

If you’re interested in working with me (and our forum members) to get your life back, join my free newsletter for access to the free plan to get your ex back fast, and start getting your life back today. The answers you need to start your personal evolution are waiting for you, don’t hesitate another minute…come and get them.

Once you get your life back, everything else will just start to fall into place…I promise. If you have any comments or questions please write them in the comment box below.

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Until next time,

S. Williams

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  1. Been in a relationship for 5yrs ma bf broke up with m bse I had made an abortion,it wasnt ma intention but we had arguments ever since I told him tht I was then eventually the last argument we had I threatened about aborting and his reply was rude like he as if he had supported ma threat..now its been two weeks since the break buh unfortunately I broke the no contact rule when I texted him with ma fake fb account. .we had along jazz and found out tht I was the one so he instantly blocked m.so wat shud I do I need him back

    1. Hi,

      The first thing you should do is subscribe to the free breakup survival plan.

      I will send you an email every day (for 30 days) to walk you through the process of surviving your breakup.

      It will not do you any good to focus on trying to get him back.

      Why?

      Because you cannot undo your abortion, and he will need a lot of time to come to terms with your decision.

      The best thing you can do, right now, is to focus on yourself and getting over the breakup.

      Take Care,

      S.W.

      PS – If you’re not ready to follow the free breakup survival plan, I can recommend a great plan to help you get your ex back, but, I HIGHLY recommend that you wait at least 6-12 months before trying to reconnect with your ex.

  2. I treated my ex bad. 🙁 can I still get him back?

    1. Hi,

      I help people survive a break up and get their lives back, not get their ex boyfriend back, and I explain why in the “About” section on my Blog.

      You have a 50/50 chance of getting back together with your ex boyfriend if you use the no contact rule to start your personal evolution.

      During your personal evolution you can figure why you treated your ex badly, and how you are going to do things differently.

      Go read the free plan to get your ex back on my Blog, begin your personal evolution, heal your broken heart, and evolve past the break up.

      Thank you for writing.

      Take Care,

      S.W.

  3. hi
    I first sent text mesg on cellphone saying..I don want to be friends.we gotta move on…then broke NC then after 2 weeks.
    stil continued NC without message which got him curious and acting polite he called me. I asked him not to disturb me.
    then sent ur NC message. NOw he didnot reply or cared to call even after 60 days
    Is it flipping switch?
    we recently met in a common friends birthday n he spoke to me asking for sex n got physical on me. we kissed then I pushed him off.
    He mocked at my big decisions and “dont want to be friends”msg.
    I would like send in another NC again n clearly include that I dont want to be friends for sex. please help.

    1. Hi,

      Just send the recommended no contact message without any changes, and then follow the rest of the steps in the free plan.

      You are not using no contact correctly…the NC message is only the first step.

      Take Care,

      S.W.

  4. Shiny wrote:

    I really wish I could give my email address or ask theirs (not by u but I want to ask them personaly) so we could still stay in contact because I really still want to talk with them.

    Hi,

    You don’t have to wish, you should have asked them for their email address while the forum was open to posting, right?

    Actually you would not have had to ask them, if you simply looked at their member profile while you were logged in.

    Take Care,

    S.W.

  5. Hey Scott,

    When I came back to the forum, to be honest I got quite shocked but since I read about what happend I understand you have to close it. Its a good thing we can still read the posts there.

    However Im really sad I cant contact my friends anymore. The people I have shared so many support with. Is there no way I can contact them? Like in the forum buddy. I dont ask for a chance that the forum will get open again, I really wish I could give my email address or ask theirs (not by u but I want to ask them personaly) so we could still stay in contact because I really still want to talk with them. It would be really nice for a chance, thanks.

  6. Mark wrote:

    There are a lot of good people on there and for every one person that was complaining i think there were so many more actually working the plan

    Hi,

    I didn’t close the forum, I just made it a “read only” forum, if it was closed it wouldn’t even be visible.

    I didn’t do this because people were complaining and not following the plan.

    I did it because people were abusing it by becoming too dependent on it.

    It was meant to be used as a tool, and to be used sparingly as a “temporary” crutch, not as a prosthetic limb.

    Many people were using it as a home away from home, and becoming trapped in limbo, and that is what will happen if people use a support forum incorrectly.

    The forum was evolving in the wrong direction, and trapping more people than it was helping, as an “open to posting” forum.

    In it’s present form people will have no choice but read it, and learn from it, and not become trapped in it.

    If people are looking for a “place to hang out”, or “a home away from home”, there are plenty of those forums in existence, they can use them.

    I intended the How to Kick Loves Ass Break up Help Forum to be different.

    Take Care,

    S.W.

    P.S. People can still “work” the plan, and if they need help they can post their questions right here on my Blog. And people are free to support each other by responding to each others questions/comments too.

  7. Scott i understand why you closed down the forum. I just want to say i really appreciate what you do for us. I really hope you consider reopening it…There are a lot of good people on there and for every one person that was complaining i think there were so many more actually working the plan…Thanks for your help Scott your the best…

  8. Mark wrote:

    sorry this is probably not the place to post this but i can not figure out how to post my story on the forum…I do not see a link to create a new story…If you could tell me where to look that would be great thanks…

    Hi,

    I see you figured it out, good job! :thumbup:

  9. tom wrote:

    what is she doing to me? does she just want to make sure i”m still there?

    Hi,

    It sounds like she is trying to keep you “on the hook”, until she decides what she wants to do.

    You can help yourself, and get off the hook, by following the free plan on my Blog.

    Take Care,

    S.W.

  10. hi, my ex and i have been broken up for about 6 months now and there has been some communications between us, but all small talk and mostly textes. one week ago i wrote her a letter asking her on a date with me and to please respond one way or another. we texted after that email just small talk again and no mention of it, see about 3 weeks ago i asked to see her and talked and she said yes i felt it coming anyway. she has been just putting it off since then, since she said yes and it confuses me. today i texted her and said happy easter and she texted back you too. i don’t know why she keeps texting me everytime i stop, she always comes up with a reason to text me. why???? please help i”m so confused about this. we never trashed each other during the break up and no bad words were said to each other at all. what is she doing to me? does she just want to make sure i”m still there? please help? please i beg you? tommy

  11. sorry this is probably not the place to post this but i can not figure out how to post my story on the forum…I do not see a link to create a new story…If you could tell me where to look that would be great thanks…

  12. Thanks now that I have been approved I have some homework to do before I loose my privilages on here 🙂

  13. Mark wrote:

    what i am doing right now is not working what is it call doing the same thing over and over and expecting different results…oh yeah insanity…hopefully this will get me past that…

    Hi,

    Sometimes…you have to go a little insane to become sane again.

    That means you fuck up, and then you learn from your mistakes and succeed.

    You sound like you are nearing the end of your fucking up period…now it’s time to move forward…follow the free plan.

    Take Care,

    S.W.

  14. Thanks for the link for the free account i used it and got all of the info. I am reading it now. This is a scary time because it is so counter intuitive but what i am doing right now is not working what is it call doing the same thing over and over and expecting different results…oh yeah insanity…hopefully this will get me past that…

    thanks so much

    Mark

  15. Mark wrote:

    I know i signed up for you free plan but i am not sure if it went to my spam mail or not…i can not find the email to set it up. is it possible you could resend it because i tried to resign up but it said that i already have signed up…

    Hi,

    Look in your spam folder for the email, it should be in your spam folder.

    If you can’t find it, try opening a free gmail account.

    Once you get a new email address, and sign up again using that new gmail address.

    Yahoo can be a pain in the ass about spam.

    I can’t re-send your email, that would be considered spam, you have to request it, and then confirm your request.

    If you really want help, you won’t give up, right?

    Take Care,

    S.W.

  16. S.W.

    I know i signed up for you free plan but i am not sure if it went to my spam mail or not…i can not find the email to set it up. is it possible you could resend it because i tried to resign up but it said that i already have signed up…

    Thanks
    Mark

  17. Mark wrote:

    This past week. 3-30-10 she told me she was done for good. she does not want to see me or talk to me again. Is it to late to implement your plan or if i implement it now do i still have a chance?

    Hi,

    No, it’s not too late.

    She just told you it’s over a couple days ago, now’s the perfect time to follow the free plan, and send the recommended NC message.

    Take Care,

    S.W.

  18. S.W.

    Hi. I am currently trying to get m ex back. We broke up at the end of july 09 and we saw each other all the way up until the end of Feb 10. We played co-ed touch football together and she is my assistant coach. This past week. 3-30-10 she told me she was done for good. she does not want to see me or talk to me again. Is it to late to implement your plan or if i implement it now do i still have a chance?

    thanks
    Mark

  19. tommy wrote:

    Hi, i’m to scared to do it.

    Hi Tommy,

    I can’t help you with finding the courage to help yourself…that’s a personal choice.

    I just provide all the tools, and support for free.

    But you have to use the tools to get the support…not the other way around, understand?

    There are a lot of “brave” people in our forum, and I am proud to offer them my help, and support.

    Take Care,

    S.W.

  20. Hi, i’m to scared to do it. i feel if i say that she will never come back to me. i love her to much to tell her not to contact me. i don’t think i have the strength to do that to her. i care about her to much to be that way. can i say something like i finally agree with your decision to breakup i guess its best for the both of us and the only way i can move on is to not see you or talk to you. i need to go heal my heart now a heart thats very strong and a heart that will move on and the only way i can do that is to not talk to you or see you.

  21. tommy wrote:

    I love her and want to be with her and everytime i stop calling her she text me or calls or has her son call. PLEASE WHAT IS SHE DOING TO ME?
    PLEASE HELP. Hurting in NJ, tommy

    Hi Tommy,

    She knows she has you wrapped around her finger…it’s obvious.

    Maybe you didn’t beg or plead, but you must have acted needy in another way, or she wouldn’t still think she still has you “wrapped.”

    Plus, you’re always available when “she” feels like reaching out…how convenient for her, huh?

    If you want to take control of your life again go follow the free plan on my Blog.

    Follow every step, OK?

    Take Care,

    S.W.

  22. hi, my girlfriend broke up with me backin september. i never begged or pleaded for her to stay,never said why, never said please dont do this to me. i wrote her a letter back in october, how i felt and wished her all the luck in whatever she does. she replied and said that was very nice tom. a couple days later i called and asked to see her for coffee she said no. we were on the phone for about an hour. see she said to me you have my ear and i just told her how i felt. we hung up nicely. 5 weeks went by, then she contacted me through her 7 year old son. he wanted me to go to his wrestling match i said ok let me know. there was no call from her,for 5 days , so i called talked about the match, then i ask her if she would go out on a date with me, she said no. i accepted nicely. then let it go. 2 weeks went by with me not contacting her. so she text me yesterday and said you want to hear something funny and i text back,yes. so she called me and was telling me something that happened , we talked about 27 minutes on the phone and we ended the conversation with us both just saying have a good day. then last night she forward me a joke that i have not gotten any forwards from her at all for 3 months. it was a joke you had to respond to and i did. i just responded to the joke. I just don’t know what she is doing to me. I love her and want to be with her and everytime i stop calling her she text me or calls or has her son call. PLEASE WHAT IS SHE DOING TO ME?
    PLEASE HELP. Hurting in NJ, tommy

  23. Amy wrote:

    Since I’ve been on this forum, it took me completely away from driving them nuts. You deserve a fruit basket for Christmas!

    Hi Amy,

    Thanks, but I am a fruit basket, or a basket case, or both…I think?

    Take Care,

    S.W.

  24. Before I found your site, I was unloading my misery onto my coworkers and friends about this situation that they couldn’t relate to at all and didn’t want to hear about every day. Since I’ve been on this forum, it took me completely away from driving them nuts. You deserve a fruit basket for Christmas!

  25. Charlotte wrote:

    Thank you- I have already read most of the articles and I am finding them very helpful!

    Hi Charlotte,

    That is not an article…it is a free step-by-step system to help you get your life, and then your ex back again.

    The sooner you start following the plan, and then send the NC message, the better.

    Then follow all the rest of the steps…including joining our forum as outlined in the plan.

    Take Care,

    S.W.

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