How The Fear of Using No Contact Can Imprison You

Do Not Let The Fear Of Using The No Contact Rule Imprison You
 
If you’re afraid of using no contact, you need to read this.

You are imprisoning yourself, in a no-win situation, and I’ll prove it.

Maybe, after reading this, you’ll reconsider using, the no contact rule.

It will help you out of the tight spot, you’re sitting in, right now.

 


 

Do Not Let Fear Stop You From Getting Your Ex Back

 

Let’s start with, how you got to where you are, right now.

Your ex boyfriend/girlfriend, wife, or husband left you, correct?

Now, they say they want to be friends, but, you want more, that is why you agreed to be “friends.”

Here, is where, you started to build your prison, brick by brick.

The no contact rule, can help you, take it down, brick by brick.

The only way to get your ex back, is, to change the situation, but, you’re afraid, right?

It’s like, someone left the cell door open, but, you’re afraid to leave, because, you have in a sense, become comfortable, and, change scares you.

Yet, you long for a change…don’t you?

Yep, you’re in prison alright, and, you hold the key, to the cell door, but, you’re afraid, to use it.

Why?

 


 

Get Over The Fear Of NC – Get Your Ex Back

 

Now that we have identified the prison, and, how it was built, let’s talk, escape.

The same way you built the prison, brick by brick, staying friends with your ex, you can use the no contact rule, to take it down.

How?

Every day, you stay in no contact, you take another brick down, and you are one brick, closer to freedom.

Once you are free, you will have a chance, to have the kind of relationship, you long for, with your ex.

Are you seriously going to let fear, stop you?

And, just what is it, that you are afraid of, anyway?

Are you afraid, they’re going to leave you, again?

They already left, that is why they are your ex.

So, now that we know, they can not leave, what other fear, do you have, of using the no contact rule?

The biggest one I know of, is…they will move on, and forget you, right?

How do you know, that being friends with them, is going to stop them, from moving on?

 


 

Do Not Be Afraid To Get Your Ex Back

 

Do you really believe, imprisoning yourself, in this “just friends” zone, is going to work, to keep them, from moving on?

They are “free”, you are not.

They can do whatever they want, you can not.

They can move on, you can not.

Still afraid of using the no contact rule, to free yourself?

Every day, you follow the no contact rule, you are one, day closer, to freedom.

Free to get your ex back, again.

You can not stop, your ex, from moving on, by staying friends with them.

It will not work.

But you will imprison yourself, and, that is not good.

If you truly want to be free, and, get back together with your ex, you will need to use, the no contact rule, correctly.

Everyone, that I know, who failed at the no contact rule, failed because they didn’t use it, correctly.

You need to follow a good plan, to succeed, and, learn to control, your emotions.
 


 

Winning Your Ex Back – Brick By Brick

 

Now that you know, you have a prison, to break out of, you will need a plan, to help you do that.

Listen, if your ex, left you, because, they said your old relationship wasn’t going anywhere.

Where they think, this “just friends” relationship, is going?

If you think, being where you’re at now, is better than escaping, and, getting what you deserve.

Can you please, tell me why?

If you have any comments, or questions for me, please write them, in the comment box below, and, I will answer them, ASAP!

What can I do, to help you get over, your fear of using the no contact rule?

Do not let fear, keep you from, winning your ex back.

 


 

Who Am I and Why Should You Listen to Me?

 

My name is S. Williams, and I have been helping people since 2008, to overcome breakup pain, and, get their lives back.

I even have an “About” section, that I recommend you read.

I realize the address, of my site, is: How to Get Your Ex Back Fast, but, I “really” teach people, how to get their lives back, not just their ex’s.

If you’re interested in working with me, (and our forum members) to get your life back.

Go ahead, and, join my free newsletter, for access to the free breakup survival plan, and, start getting your life back, today.

The answers you need, to start your personal evolution, are waiting for you, don’t hesitate another minute…come, and get them.

Once, you get your life back, everything else will just start to fall into place…I promise.

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Until next time,

S. Williams

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  1. Hi Scott.

    Bit of a weird one this, not so straight forward. I apologise in advance for the length of it!

    I was with my ex for nearly 9 years, and she ended the relationship because of the way I was towards her, generally being controlling etc. I spent the next five months basically trying to win her back(in which time I did buy your plan, The Magic Of Making Up) but didn’t exactly follow it, until it was too late. Well anyway, at the end of the five months, I found out she was dating someone else, and so I finally came to my senses, and decided to cut my losses and get my life back on track. I went to counselling, which was a hard thing to do to admit your faults, but felt it had really helped me, and friends and family had noticed the difference in me.

    I then began to feel better about myself and started dating again, and slowly everything got back to normal. I still missed her but was able to keep things in check. Six months after absolutely no contact whatsoever, I received a strange email from her, telling me how she never got the chance to tell me how
    much I’d made her feel loved, how sorry she was for everything etc. I didn’t reply immediately, and a couple of days later I received another one saying “you must really hate me, I’m sorry xx” . Well, I did reply, saying I don’t hate her, I had just been busy with things recently. She asked if we could keep in contact and I agreed, and she seemed very happy with that.

    Well, she then asked if we could meet up on my birthday so as to give me a present. I agreed, and the meeting was fairly short, and I was polite but not in anyway like my old(needy) self. We said goodbye and that was that. For the next year, she would initiate contact every few weeks, and when we could we would meet up. Now, during that year, she progressively said some things to me which I found very strange. “It was the biggest mistake splitting up with you”, a moment where she kissed me on the lips and said “I love you” etc.etc. Speaking to my family about these things, I/we couldn’t understand why she would say them unless she wanted me back.

    I now know that throughout that year, she has told me the couple of relationships she had were because her head was in such a bad place. She has said she would never have gone out with them under normal circumstances. They were rebounds etc. She said one of the guys used to get really annoyed as she was daily saying, “oh, me and james used to do this or that”. He finally said to her when they split up, that he would totally understand if she got back with me as she never stopped talking/thinking about me.

    Anyway, a couple of months ago, she gently suggested we go on holiday together, which I didn’t take seriously at first. Well, in the end we did. And on that holiday, the first night I kissed her properly, to which she put her arms around my neck and said “I know you’re the one I’m meant to spend the rest of my life with”. In a nutshell, we had sex a couple of times during that holiday. She would suggest things we could do. The whole time she would say things like “let’s do this, not in a romantic way though!”, “we could do this together, just as friends though!”. It started to sound like the lady does protesteth too much, like she was protecting herself from me seeing her true feelings….

    Anyway, we had a great time, and when I got home I felt very deflated, and realised that maybe I still loved her more than I realised. So a couple of days later, I decided instead of leaving it forever, I range her up and arranged to meet her. I basically laid it all out on the table and told her how I felt. Every time in the past year she had said she loved me etc., I hadn’t really known what to say back. Part of me wanted her to ask ME back out, but in the end I thought, swallow your pride and tell her you love her. So I did. But I didn’t get the reaction I expected. She basically said that only in the last few months has she finally begun to feel like her again, the first time since the split 2 years ago. She doesn’t have to worry about anyone else’s feelings and it’s nice to feel free again. I asked if she could/couldn’t see us together at some point, and she said that she genuinely didn’t know. She said that if it was going to cause me pain, then maybe I should move on without her, but as far as she was concerned she would like to see me again, and soon. I asked if she had any dreams for the future, and she said it would be that we had never split up and were still together. She felt the same way she did two years ago, she still loved me the same as back then and never wanted to have to finish it but she didn’t have a choice.

    I said I wasn’t giving her an ultimatum, I just thought it was time to let her know how I feel. I said if she genuinely doesn’t know how she feels, then I can’t ask any more of her than that. My only worry I told her, would be that she wouldn’t have the nerve to tell me if she changed her mind. She said, that she could guarantee if she realised she wanted to try again, she would ring me, go bright red and get embarrassed, and tell me. Which I believed….. At the end, she said she would ring me soon. A week later she txts to meet up, so we do. From that meeting we spend the next four days together, and have a really good time. Now…….

    A couple of days after that, I was speaking with my family, and I told them how I felt, and I said that I wasn’t sure how much longer I could keep doing this for, now that I realised how I felt about her. So I rang her the next day, and she was bright and cheery when she answered the phone. We started to talk about the situation, and as happens with her, whenever it gets brought up, she seems to back off and come out with the “just as friends” thing. I said to her that the funny thing is, when we are actually together, we don’t act like friends, we act and do things like a couple, to which she agreed. She then reiterated the fact that she just doesn’t know?, needs to be ‘her’ for a bit. She said if I was the person I was now, back when we split up, she never would have split up. But we have split up though she said..

    So… and this is what my question is about Scott. I basically said to her, that if she had shown me some/any commitment, like ” I don’t know what I want, but I know I don’t want to lose you, how about we take things very slowly and see how it goes from there”. then I said I could have worked with that, that would have been something. She replied “I can’t commit though”. So I said in that case, because I know how much I still love you, and genuinely feel that you are the woman I should be with for the rest of my life, I cant possibly sit on the sidelines as a friend. .It’s not fair and it’s selfish. Friends do not kiss, but we do?? Why?? We hold hands, why??. She couldn’t reply. If I’m always just on the other end of the phone, you will never have to make a decision. So then, I said, because of that I don’t think we should have anymore contact, unless at some point you realise you’ve made a mistake, then feel free to call, and if I’m single then we can go from there. I said, I’m not saying I never want to speak to you again, ring me if you realise you’ve made an error, and I’d gladly take your call.

    The phone had been dead silent while I was saying all this, and she just said in a very quiet and broken voice, “ok then”. She mumbled a few more things including “I’m sorry I’ve burst back into your life and messed with your head”. We said a few more things then I said, “well ok then, take care”, she said the same, we said goodbye, then we put the phone down and that was that.

    My question Scott, is do you think I’ve done the right thing?

    Because of the different nature of this situation from the normal, ‘she’s broke up with me, NC for a month, then go from there’. I’m not sure if I should have stuck by her while she sorted her mind out so she could have seen more evidence of us and how we could have been together. During the last year she has repeatedly told me how much she think’s I’ve changed, I just can’t help feel maybe I have jumped the gun on doing this, and should have hung in there a bit longer.

    It is amazingly difficult to tell someone you love that you don’t want any more contact with them. Especially as this is not the ‘I’ve just been dumped phase’. We were really getting on well. I just couldn’t stand the thought of it dragging on if she (for now) only wanted to be friends, because of the way I feel about her.

    My plan is to not contact her at all, and all my family say if she meant any of those things she said, and the fact she has told me she has thought about me literally everyday for the past two years, then she, at some point will more than likely get in touch. But who knows?. She’s told me her friends all say “James is great, you two make a great couple” etc.

    Sorry again for the extremely long post, but I thought it important to try and give you the whole picture as it’s a bit of a weird situation.

    Regards,

    Grant.

    1. Hi,

      Everyone’s situation is different/unique, but their question is pretty much the same: what is my ex thinking/feeling about me/us?

      I help people use the no contact rule to evolve past the break up and reveal their ex’s true feelings, and sending the recommended NC message is necessary…no exceptions.

      I help people survive a break up and get their lives back, not get their ex girlfriend back, and I explain why in the “About” section on my Blog.

      Go read the free plan to get your ex back and follow ALL the steps to heal your broken heart, evolve past the breakup, and get your life back again.

      Thank you for writing.

      Take Care,

      S.W.

  2. Hi Scott.

    i lost the love of my life 3 months back after a bitter fight. earlier i was pinning the blame on her but now i see it was a culmination of both our mistakes. since then im lost. she used to poke me on FB till last month or so but not any more. But all our photos are still there on her profile and she haven’t returned any of my stuff back like i did with her’s. basically nothing has changed. everything is like they were. only difference is that we are not together any more.

    she initiated contact with me for more than 5 times after the brake up and her mom recently told me that she has dumped the guy she had a ‘thing’ with after me. now she is posting all sorts of weird status posts on FB like ‘nothing you confess will make me love you less…, if i cant call you angel what else can i call you… etc. what does it mean? is she trying to tell me something?

    i havent contacted her for more than 3 weeks after i sent her a NC message saying that breaking up was the right thing to do. should i initiate contact now? or do you advice me otherwise?

    im in agony for the past couple of weeks and any help would be great.

    thank you friend…

    Nel

    1. Hi,

      If you’re talking with her mom she probably knows about it, and knows you are still after her, turn the tables.

      You can reveal her true feelings for you by using the no contact rule…my way.

      I help people survive a break up and get their lives back, not get their ex girlfriend back, and I explain why in the “About” section on my Blog.

      The fastest way to get your girl back is to get your life back first.

      Go read the free plan to get your ex back and follow ALL the steps to heal your broken heart, evolve past the breakup, and get your life back again.

      Thank you for writing.

      Take Care,

      S.W.

  3. Hi there,

    I’m worried about using the NC rule, because my boyfriend is emotionally volatile and very self-righteous. i imagine it will push him even further away, to his friends who validate his view of things.

    he asked me for a break, for a month, but wanted to text me every night to say sleep well, so i know he loves me and wants to move forward. last night was my birthday–he didnt want to see me. i invited a friend of the guy i cheated on him with to my birthday party, and texted him to let him know. he got very angry and wrote back that he is tired of waiting for me to change, and that its time to quit. it was the first night he hasnt sent the sleep well message.

    i feel so sick in my stomach, just wanting to be happy with him. i guess i dont want to send the NC message because i feel like i can give him what he wants from me now.

    ugh, help?

    thanks so much,

    priya

    1. priya g says:

      i feel so sick in my stomach, just wanting to be happy with him. i guess i dont want to send the NC message because i feel like i can give him what he wants from me now.

      ugh, help?

      Hi,

      You are asking for the wrong thing.

      You ask for help, but you refuse to use the advice that is given to you.

      You need courage, enough courage to do what you know you must do, and that I can not help you with, you have to find that with-in yourself, by yourself.

      All the help you need is waiting for you, go read the free plan here on my Blog, and follow ALL the steps.

      Thanks for writing.

      Take Care,

      S.W.

  4. Hi William,

    I was in india, in a deep relationship with this girl for like one year. We shared everything deeply connected with eachother. I left for United States, and we still talked on phone and our passion for eachother continued for a long time, like more than one year when I was in states.

    Only three months were left when I was coming back to India again and I was so confident about our relationship, that it would be a great reunion after such a long time. It would be like dream coming true. But she started to distance her self all of suddenly, and then slowly she started talking with me on phone like she talks to a friend. It hurt me. I asked her many times if somebody is there in her life she said no she is still single. I became depressed and become more of possessive person because I did not want to loos her. I started phoning her many times, text messages, but she remained cold. But before 15 days of my arrival to India she showed interest and said she thinks about us seriously. ” so comeback quickly”. First day when I met her it was still awkward because of depression I went through for 2 months in United States because of her. Second day when we met we suddenly started fighting when I asked about the other guy, and that guy really existed. He is my best friend. She used to meet him every sunday alone. She rejected me all of suddenly. It was like a huge blow on me. I still tried to find out why she is changed all of sudden. She said she is still single, but all of sudden her change of behaviour and my friends also told me about this guy, so it was confirmed that she was leaving me because of this guy.

    After one month when I left India I gave her no contact letter. I said I need space and time. But inside I know it is very tough to get her back, and even if I get her back, will she be same person? Now I am in United States , what can I achieve with No Contact when this girl is meeting this guy every sunday and falling for him. She gave me reason that I am possessive thats why she left me. Can you give me some guidance? I have already decided to move on, and it is my 19th day of No Contact.

    deep,

    1. Deep says:

      what can I achieve with No Contact when this girl is meeting this guy every sunday and falling for him.

      Hi,

      The free plan is about getting your life back, not your ex.

      What can you achieve, how about being happy again?

      If she accused you of being possessive you can turn that around by using NC properly, and evolving past the breakup, not by just ignoring her.

      NC will reveal your ex’s true feelings while giving you your life back again.

      Go read the free plan here on my Blog, and follow ALL the steps.

      Take Care,

      S.W.

  5. Dated him for 1 1/2.We live 2 hours away and try to see each other 2-3 times a month. He always come to my house to stay and we’re in a hotel room when I go to visit him. I have never been over to his home. His mother lives with him. He has met my friends and family. I have NEVER met his family or friends. He knows about my life here and I know nothing about his over there. When I bring it up, he never ever says a word. The way I called it off I stopped answering his calls. He has only called twice and that’s been over 2 months ago. He is a really nice man. I know he adores me, but something isn’t right. Getting back with him is NOT the right things. I’m just writing you for ‘any’ advice. I stumbled on your site and have been empowered! I must admit, I thought he would have called more (only twice since Sept) or come over. Which tells me he wasn’t as invested as I was.

    1. Hi,

      You’re right to to follow your “gut” instincts, he is most likely hiding something.

      The free plan is about getting your life back, not your ex.

      If you’re ready to evolve past your failed relationship (breakup), go read the free plan on my Blog, and follow ALL the steps.

      Take Care,

      S.W.

  6. so you are giving up on me? I want to use the plan and i would REALLY like some support

  7. hi scott, i have just read through the plan and i like it. my only question is, with the NC letter im not sure whether its a bit insensitive to the fact im closing the door to her especially with her mother being so ill. am i being stupid and/or nieve?

    1. Just from these few posts I can tell you are not ready to use the free plan, you should look somewhere else for help, OK?

      This plan is not for the meek and timid, it is about kicking loves ass, not kissing it, and if you don’t have the right attitude you will fail.

      I am not here to help people fail.

      Good Luck!

      Take Care,

      S.W.

  8. Hi Scott, thanx for replying so quickly but in regards to getting her back, have i done the right things?

    im sticking to NC for atleast 2 weeks, getting her to take all her stuff and so on…

    we also have a dog and a cat together. would it be a good ice breaker after NC to say she’s always welcome to come see them?

    1. You are doomed to fail if you are in this just to get your ex back.

      I gave you all the advice you need, now it’s up to you to either follow it, or not.

      The free plan explains it all, read every word, and follow every link and read every word there as well.

      You will learn a lot more reading, than you will from asking questions that are already answered in the plan.

  9. sorry, i left out that 2 years ago her mother was given the all clear from cancer but then it came back in 3 different places. wev known about the relapse for about a year but im wondering if her trip to the hospital has really spooked her. i say maybe that was the case but she says she thinks theres more to it that that??

    1. Bryn says:

      wev known about the relapse for about a year but im wondering if her trip to the hospital has really spooked her. i say maybe that was the case but she says she thinks theres more to it that that??

      Hi,

      It doesn’t matter what the cause was, she wants to break up, right?

      You can’t stop her so all you can do is evolve past this break up, get your life back, and see what happens.

      Meanwhile let her deal with her own personal issues without you.

      Go read the free plan on my Blog, and follow ALL the steps.

      As you personally evolve, you will be able to further explore what went wrong with your old failed relationship, and then you can learn from your mistakes.

      Take Care,

      S.W.

  10. Hi Scott,

    me and my fiance of 4 years (2yrs engaged) broke up 6 days ago. about a week and a half ago, my fiance had to take her mother to a cancer hospital to have a chemo tube repositioned. after this day she seemded distant, she went out all weekend with her friends and family and the day we split up, she went swimming for 3 hrs. when she come home i confronted her about her distance and she said that since she had taken her mother to the hospital, she has no feelings for anyone else but her motherand she didnt know what to do about us anymore. because she lived with me i said that if she wasn’t sure about us any more, she should move out and take all her stuff with her as it would of hurt me to much having her come back and forth. she left some dvd’s here and rang me and asked if she could pick them up which i accepted. when she came i gave her her stuff and asked her how she felt about me and she looked me straight in the face and said as a friend and cant see a future with me anymore. our relationship was far from perfect but i know she truely loved me. apart from her mother and our own problems, she was depressed that we didn’t have any money as i am a student ant she was about to start uni(college)with me. she had however beein to uni and said she never liked the experience then and not sure if she wants to do it now. anyway, when she picked up the rest of her stuff i told her i wont contact her as she asked for time and space and so far i have kept to my word (4th day NC today).

    as you have alot of experience in this field, i was just looking for reassurance that i have done the rite thing, or if anything could have been done better. also, due to (i think) the unique circumstance of my situation, what do you think of my chances for a reconciliation would be if i keep up the NC?

    Thanx for your help

  11. Hi Scott,

    My boyfriend and I of approximately 2 years broke up about 6 weeks ago. He graduated from college in May, but he has been unable to find any type of work since then. With that and with his parents constantly pressuring and reminding him about this, he became more and more depressed. He also is being forced to take classes at a local college so he can stay on his dad’s health insurance; he is very sickly. We had started arguing a little bit about really stupid things and decided to go on a week break. I could tell that he just needed to clear his mind and go from there. Unfortunately, after the break, he called me up and said, “I’m sorry, but it’s not good for me to be in a relationship right now. Something inside of me changed; I can’t explain it. It’s not fair for you that I am emotionally unavailable.” He and I were planning on getting married as soon as we were financially stable and after I graduate in May 2010.

    We are 500 miles apart currently, and I have been keeping the NC rule. However, something happened to our pets, and I had to let him know. I emailed him on a Friday night, kept it brief and simply asked him how he was doing. He then responded to my email around 2am Monday morning with a very excited tone to hear from me. He seemed genuinely interested in hearing about how I have been doing and asked a little bit more about our pets.

    I took a couple of days to respond; I wasn’t sure what to say. I still love him more than anything, and my only dream is/was to be his forever. Finally, I responded and kept things very neutral and simply told him how school was going, etc. I did ask him some questions about some things (he got his migraines back, and I asked him if he knew what caused them).

    He hasn’t responded to this email, yet. What drives me nuts and keeps me awake at night is trying to figure out whether or not he still loves me, misses me, wonders about me, etc.

    Do you think that there is a good chance he will come back to me once he figures things out in life? Should I tell him how much I miss him?

    Thank you
    Becky

    1. Becky says:

      I have been keeping the NC rule. However, something happened to our pets, and I had to let him know. I emailed him on a Friday night, kept it brief and simply asked him how he was doing.

      Hi,

      You broke no contact, you should have kept it all about your pets, and not asked how he was doing.

      You need to re-send the no contact message (no changes) and read, and follow ALL the steps in the free plan on my Blog.

      The only way to answer those questions you have every night is to let go of the past relationship, evolve past it, and get your life back.

      You are holding yourself back…no one else, you MUST move on from your old “failed” relationship otherwise you will suffer in relationship limbo for a long time.

      If you really want to reveal your ex boyfriends true feelings for you, follow ALL the steps in the free plan, and do not break NC until your are ready.

      Take Care,

      S.W.

  12. robin wrote:

    Anyway please tell me how to handle this.He always wants to do things for me and gets mad when I don’t let him.but I can’t take anymore good-bye hugs!
    Please HELP!

    Hi Robin,

    It’s time to get serious, and use no contact.

    Who cares if he gets mad…who’s running your life anyways, you or him?

    Go read, and follow the free plan on my Blog.

    This will help you get out of the friends zone, and get your life back again.

    Take Care,

    S.W.

  13. Ok here is the problem me and my ex broke up about 3 months ago.But now he has started calling me everyday and coming to my house most everyday but he says he just wants to be friends.I can not take it anymore.I do want a relationship with him but I don’t see that happening since we are in this friends zone rut! At the same time i am having trouble moving on because he does come to my house.
    I have men who want to date me,nice men.
    What in the world do I do? I don’t know how to turn this around,I am considering not coming home until later at night and not answering my phone most of the time when he calls.He is my neighbor so he knows when I am home even what time I come home because he has told me what times I return home..lol..
    Anyway please tell me how to handle this.He always wants to do things for me and gets mad when I don’t let him.but I can’t take anymore good-bye hugs!
    Please HELP!

  14. brenda wrote:

    wat can i do 2 get him back,please help?

    Hi Brenda,

    My advice would be to use the plan in our forum…follow it step by step and things will turn around for you, OK?

    If you want my help to get your ex back follow this link:

    http://forum.howtogetyourexbackfast.com/topic/read-this-first

    Make sure you read the rules and guidelines before you join, I strictly enforce them.

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  15. hey i was wonderin cud u help me,i was goin out wit a guy for a year and i lived wit him 4 6months..he broke up wit me,said he doesnt want a relationship anymore.im heartbroken and that was 2months ago.now we have been 2gether few times since but not in the last month.i did sumtin really stupid and he stopped talkin 2 me but we made up as friends soon after..friends is all he wants now and its killin me,i miss him so much and i tink hes wit sumone else now..he stil texts me friendly texts but dats it..i dont tell him how i feel cos he jus ignores it..wat can i do 2 get him back,please help?

  16. @ chris:

    Chris why don’t you join our forum and tell us your whole story. Go read the instructions in FAQ #1F under the section called Start Here First.

    See you on the inside! 🙂

  17. i really dont know what to do. because i love her so much. but i dont think she will ever forgive me for never leaving her alone when asked. im scared that at this point no contact will make her run even farther. she tells me how much she hates me.

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