You are imprisoning yourself, in a no-win situation, and I’ll prove it.
Maybe, after reading this, you’ll reconsider using, the no contact rule.
It will help you out of the tight spot, you’re sitting in, right now.
Do Not Let Fear Stop You From Getting Your Ex Back
Let’s start with, how you got to where you are, right now.
Your ex boyfriend/girlfriend, wife, or husband left you, correct?
Now, they say they want to be friends, but, you want more, that is why you agreed to be “friends.”
Here, is where, you started to build your prison, brick by brick.
The no contact rule, can help you, take it down, brick by brick.
The only way to get your ex back, is, to change the situation, but, you’re afraid, right?
It’s like, someone left the cell door open, but, you’re afraid to leave, because, you have in a sense, become comfortable, and, change scares you.
Yet, you long for a change…don’t you?
Yep, you’re in prison alright, and, you hold the key, to the cell door, but, you’re afraid, to use it.
Get Over The Fear Of NC – Get Your Ex Back
Now that we have identified the prison, and, how it was built, let’s talk, escape.
The same way you built the prison, brick by brick, staying friends with your ex, you can use the no contact rule, to take it down.
Every day, you stay in no contact, you take another brick down, and you are one brick, closer to freedom.
Once you are free, you will have a chance, to have the kind of relationship, you long for, with your ex.
Are you seriously going to let fear, stop you?
And, just what is it, that you are afraid of, anyway?
Are you afraid, they’re going to leave you, again?
They already left, that is why they are your ex.
So, now that we know, they can not leave, what other fear, do you have, of using the no contact rule?
The biggest one I know of, is…they will move on, and forget you, right?
How do you know, that being friends with them, is going to stop them, from moving on?
Do Not Be Afraid To Get Your Ex Back
Do you really believe, imprisoning yourself, in this “just friends” zone, is going to work, to keep them, from moving on?
They are “free”, you are not.
They can do whatever they want, you can not.
They can move on, you can not.
Still afraid of using the no contact rule, to free yourself?
Every day, you follow the no contact rule, you are one, day closer, to freedom.
Free to get your ex back, again.
You can not stop, your ex, from moving on, by staying friends with them.
It will not work.
But you will imprison yourself, and, that is not good.
If you truly want to be free, and, get back together with your ex, you will need to use, the no contact rule, correctly.
Everyone, that I know, who failed at the no contact rule, failed because they didn’t use it, correctly.
You need to follow a good plan, to succeed, and, learn to control, your emotions.
Winning Your Ex Back – Brick By Brick
Now that you know, you have a prison, to break out of, you will need a plan, to help you do that.
Listen, if your ex, left you, because, they said your old relationship wasn’t going anywhere.
Where they think, this “just friends” relationship, is going?
If you think, being where you’re at now, is better than escaping, and, getting what you deserve.
Can you please, tell me why?
If you have any comments, or questions for me, please write them, in the comment box below, and, I will answer them, ASAP!
What can I do, to help you get over, your fear of using the no contact rule?
Do not let fear, keep you from, winning your ex back.
Who Am I and Why Should You Listen to Me?
My name is S. Williams, and I have been helping people since 2008, to overcome breakup pain, and, get their lives back.
I even have an “About” section, that I recommend you read.
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