If you use the no contact rule correctly you cam reveal your ex boyfriend’s true feelings for you.

This is much more productive than just guessing why he does this, or says that…make sense?

I help people survive a break up and get their lives back, not get their ex back, and I explain why in the “About” section on my Blog.

The fastest way to get your man back is to get your life back first.

Go read the free plan to get your ex back and follow ALL the steps to heal your broken heart, evolve past the breakup, and get your life back again.

Thank you for writing.

Take Care,

S.W.

My ex boyfried broke up with me a month ago. He told me I wasn’t the one and in the same sentence said he did want to have a future with and did see a future with me. In the run-up to the break-up my ex and I had been arguing a lot and a lot of it was to do with my insecurities about his excessively close relationship with his sister/ His sister didn’t like me and I let it get in the way of our relationship. I think this is what drove him away fro me.

I made all the silly mistakes that most girls do in the first week, and then eventuall accepted the break-up and inititated NC. Unfortunately, it just wouldn’t work as my ex would keep contacting. I also told him I didn’t think I could be friends with him and I think he panicked a little. He kept on contacting me and I had to ask him for space twice. Over the courss of the month I have become stronger, mature and have gained control of my emotions, when in the past, I would allow my emotions to get the best of me. I asked my ex if he was free to chat a couple of days ago. We had our first proper telephon conversation and it lasted for hours. In the end we planned to meet. I only wanted to meet because I wanted to see him. He said he didn’t want to come and me beg and plead. I was insulted, as this was never my intention to meet.

He told me he has’t changed his mind about the break-up and that there is still nothing I can say that will convince him to change his mind, but is there something new I can say?? Also, I don’t understand why he would think I would beg and plead when I have accepted the break-up and told him this. Is he expecting me to beg and plead?? Why would he?

I really do want my ex back and am doing everything to detach myself from him. However, what can I do when we meet and see each other in order to make him like me again and see me in a different light.

Help would be very much appreciate. Thanks!

It is never too late to use the no contact rule to get your life back.

You tried to reconnect way too soon, it takes 3-6 months in most cases for you “both” to evolve past the breakup.

I help people survive a break up and get their lives back, not get their ex boyfriend back, and I explain why in the “About” section on my Blog.

Go read the free plan to get your ex back and follow ALL the steps to heal your broken heart, evolve past the breakup, and get your life back again.

Thank you for writing.

Take Care,

S.W.

And sorry, since he broke up with me originally and now because he coldly used me and I’m the one that left without a word… Which version of the NC message do I send? The side that I got dumped? Or the side that I broke up with him?

It sounds like your personal evolution is coming along nicely.

I would give it another 30 days and see how you feel then. Let your ex boyfriend soak in the new found you, as you get stronger everyday.

Have you been following the free plan?

I help people survive a break up and get their lives back, not get their ex boyfriend back, and I explain why in the “About” section on my Blog.

Go read the free plan to get your ex back on my Blog, and follow ALL the steps.

Thank you for writing.

Take Care,

S.W.

First of all, he wore the shirt I gave him as a gift almost right before the break-up. Second my heart didn’t skip a beat or ANYTHING like it would in the start of the break-up when I saw him. When I saw him today, I just smiled, gave him a little nod, and he smiled back.
I was actually a bit excited about it. I was thinking of inviting for coffee in a week or two. Am I too excited? Not patient enough?
What do you think?
Thanks.

I have heard this MANY times before.

This website is not a secret, and you’re not using NC to get your ex back, you’re using the free plan to get your ex back, to get your life back.

I help people get their lives back, not their ex boyfriends, and I explain why in the “About” section on my Blog.

Every instance I have ever heard of someone’s ex finding this site has scared their ex boyfriend into wanting them back even more.

The only problem was that they didn’t want their ex back any more.

The free plan is NOT a tactic to persuade your ex to come back, it is a personal evolution.

Your personal evolution.

Thank you for writing.

Take Care,

S.W.

I told him not to contact me again via text, calls or email. I also told him that I’m gonna delete him number. I ended up emailing him and we exchanged a few emails back and forth and on one i was like i’ll always love you!

truffle says:

Now I discovered you, so where do I start with the No Contact? I havent contacted him since my last email to him. Do I still need to send him another no contact message from your blog?

Hi,

You contradicted yourself many times after trying to initiate no contact “your way”, and even if you didn’t fuck up so many times, you still need to send the recommended NC message as outlined in the free plan, why?

Because it works!

Go read the free plan to get your ex back here on my Blog, and follow ALL the steps.

Take Care,

S.W.

I broke up with my bf and this was before I discovered your blog. I told him not to contact me again via text, calls or email. I also told him that I’m gonna delete him number. I ended up emailing him and we exchanged a few emails back and forth and on one i was like i’ll always love you! I know what a dickhead move! Anyhow after he sent his last email I did an even more dumbass thing I emailed him back with a pdf file cos it had a pic of him taken by his old workplace and was just nice to him! Now I discovered you, so where do I start with the No Contact? I havent contacted him since my last email to him. Do I still need to send him another no contact message from your blog? Also he said take care and goodbye in his final message back to me.