How Do I Get My Ex Boyfriend Back And Have Him Beg Me On His Knees? 2 Killer Tips

I can greatly enhance your chances of getting back together with your ex boyfriend, and have him down on his knees begging with these 2 killer tips.

 

Do you have the feeling that everything you try only creates more distance between you and your ex boyfriend? Do you find yourself asking the question “What can I do to get my ex boyfriend back” almost daily?

 

If saving and rekindling your relationship is very important to you, and it must be if you’re reading this article, you have to calm down…why?

 

Because your anxiousness to get your ex back fast will cause you to over react, and will only cause your ex to pull away from you…make sense?

 

Even though it is very hard to struggle against this because it is only human nature, you must learn good emotional control before it gets ugly…if you want to succeed. Excessive calling, sending emails or texting will drive him away so you must stop these things immediately.

 

I know you are wondering “What can I do to get my ex boyfriend back, before he finds a new girlfriend?”, but you must first focus on what you are doing to push him further away.

 

Here are some tips you can use to get your ex back. They will have him crawling back to you, and answer that question “What can I do to get my ex boyfriend back?”.

 

How to Get My Ex Boyfriend Begging Me To Come Back

Killer Tip 1

 

Follow the no contact rule. I know you think you know how to follow it correctly but believe me 99% of the people don’t…so find a good plan. The no contact rule is not just about ignoring your ex boyfriend it is about letting go of him, and finding yourself again, and this is very important. Most people think NC is about ignoring them until they want to get back together again…wrong!

Killer Tip 2

 

Once you pull back and stop chasing your ex boyfriend, he will begin to miss you…at first he will be surprised that you “gave up”, and it will cause a shift in the way he thinks about you.

I know you’re asking yourself “What can making him think I am not interested anymore do to help me get my ex boyfriend back again?” This is what you can learn from following a good plan to “get my ex boyfriend back”.

 

Especially a plan that is backed up with excellent personal support…want to know where to find one? OK, keep reading before your ex boyfriends dating a new girlfriend he found on a singles dating site.

Who Am I and Why Should You Listen to Me?

My name is S. Williams, and I have been helping people since 2008 to overcome break up pain, and get their lives back. I even have an “About” section that I recommend you read. I know the name of my site is: How to Get Your Ex Back Fast, but I teach people how to get their lives back, not their ex’s.

If you’re interested in working with me (and our forum members) to get your life back, join my free newsletter for access to the free plan to get your ex back fast, and start getting your life back today. The answers you need to start your personal evolution are waiting for you, don’t hesitate another minute…come and get them.

Once you get your life back, everything else will just start to fall into place…I promise. If you have any comments or questions please write them in the comment box below.

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Until next time,

S. Williams

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  1. Hi!

    My ex boyfried broke up with me a month ago. He told me I wasn’t the one and in the same sentence said he did want to have a future with and did see a future with me. In the run-up to the break-up my ex and I had been arguing a lot and a lot of it was to do with my insecurities about his excessively close relationship with his sister/ His sister didn’t like me and I let it get in the way of our relationship. I think this is what drove him away fro me.

    I made all the silly mistakes that most girls do in the first week, and then eventuall accepted the break-up and inititated NC. Unfortunately, it just wouldn’t work as my ex would keep contacting. I also told him I didn’t think I could be friends with him and I think he panicked a little. He kept on contacting me and I had to ask him for space twice. Over the courss of the month I have become stronger, mature and have gained control of my emotions, when in the past, I would allow my emotions to get the best of me. I asked my ex if he was free to chat a couple of days ago. We had our first proper telephon conversation and it lasted for hours. In the end we planned to meet. I only wanted to meet because I wanted to see him. He said he didn’t want to come and me beg and plead. I was insulted, as this was never my intention to meet.

    He told me he has’t changed his mind about the break-up and that there is still nothing I can say that will convince him to change his mind, but is there something new I can say?? Also, I don’t understand why he would think I would beg and plead when I have accepted the break-up and told him this. Is he expecting me to beg and plead?? Why would he?

    I really do want my ex back and am doing everything to detach myself from him. However, what can I do when we meet and see each other in order to make him like me again and see me in a different light.

    Help would be very much appreciate. Thanks!

    1. Hi,

      If you use the no contact rule correctly you cam reveal your ex boyfriend’s true feelings for you.

      This is much more productive than just guessing why he does this, or says that…make sense?

      I help people survive a break up and get their lives back, not get their ex back, and I explain why in the “About” section on my Blog.

      The fastest way to get your man back is to get your life back first.

      Go read the free plan to get your ex back and follow ALL the steps to heal your broken heart, evolve past the breakup, and get your life back again.

      Thank you for writing.

      Take Care,

      S.W.

  2. I used NC! and I mean, you’re right S.W. my ex evolved but the outcome turned out completely different 🙁
    After a month, he roughly contacted me so I thought alright since I am ready now to get my life back and everything was happy. I knew what I wanted, my ex saw that in me but what happen was he evolved to become a really good liar. He became a really good manipulator and cold blooded. He came back being sincere and everything and wanted me back. He apologised for the first time EVER about everything in the past, we started things slowly again this time, I showed him I had my lines that he couldn’t crossed. Within 2 months he manipulated and lied to me and by the end he treated me cruely. I realized I got sucked back into what happen before except this time he had everything planned with zero feelings. I got angry because he used me for sex and have ignored him for 1.5 weeks now. What do I do? Would NC really work if I do it again? And wouldn’t sending another message be awkward?

    And sorry, since he broke up with me originally and now because he coldly used me and I’m the one that left without a word… Which version of the NC message do I send? The side that I got dumped? Or the side that I broke up with him?

    1. Hi,

      It is never too late to use the no contact rule to get your life back.

      You tried to reconnect way too soon, it takes 3-6 months in most cases for you “both” to evolve past the breakup.

      I help people survive a break up and get their lives back, not get their ex boyfriend back, and I explain why in the “About” section on my Blog.

      Go read the free plan to get your ex back and follow ALL the steps to heal your broken heart, evolve past the breakup, and get your life back again.

      Thank you for writing.

      Take Care,

      S.W.

  3. So, I’ve used your message (NC Message) thirty days ago, no contact since at ALL. Today, I met my ex for the first time since the break-up…

    First of all, he wore the shirt I gave him as a gift almost right before the break-up. Second my heart didn’t skip a beat or ANYTHING like it would in the start of the break-up when I saw him. When I saw him today, I just smiled, gave him a little nod, and he smiled back.
    I was actually a bit excited about it. I was thinking of inviting for coffee in a week or two. Am I too excited? Not patient enough?
    What do you think?
    Thanks.

    1. Hi,

      It sounds like your personal evolution is coming along nicely.

      I would give it another 30 days and see how you feel then. Let your ex boyfriend soak in the new found you, as you get stronger everyday.

      Have you been following the free plan?

      I help people survive a break up and get their lives back, not get their ex boyfriend back, and I explain why in the “About” section on my Blog.

      Go read the free plan to get your ex back on my Blog, and follow ALL the steps.

      Thank you for writing.

      Take Care,

      S.W.

  4. Hi Scott, I did a google search with the NC message we sent, it goes straight to this website. Wouldn’t it look bad if my ex did a search as well and realise I am just NC on purpose to get him back? (I’m not doubting the system, but I’m just worried about the secrecy of the website.)

    1. Hi,

      I have heard this MANY times before.

      This website is not a secret, and you’re not using NC to get your ex back, you’re using the free plan to get your ex back, to get your life back.

      I help people get their lives back, not their ex boyfriends, and I explain why in the “About” section on my Blog.

      Every instance I have ever heard of someone’s ex finding this site has scared their ex boyfriend into wanting them back even more.

      The only problem was that they didn’t want their ex back any more.

      The free plan is NOT a tactic to persuade your ex to come back, it is a personal evolution.

      Your personal evolution.

      Thank you for writing.

      Take Care,

      S.W.

  5. Hi

    I broke up with my bf and this was before I discovered your blog. I told him not to contact me again via text, calls or email. I also told him that I’m gonna delete him number. I ended up emailing him and we exchanged a few emails back and forth and on one i was like i’ll always love you! I know what a dickhead move! Anyhow after he sent his last email I did an even more dumbass thing I emailed him back with a pdf file cos it had a pic of him taken by his old workplace and was just nice to him! Now I discovered you, so where do I start with the No Contact? I havent contacted him since my last email to him. Do I still need to send him another no contact message from your blog? Also he said take care and goodbye in his final message back to me.

    1. truffle says:

      I told him not to contact me again via text, calls or email. I also told him that I’m gonna delete him number. I ended up emailing him and we exchanged a few emails back and forth and on one i was like i’ll always love you!

      truffle says:

      Now I discovered you, so where do I start with the No Contact? I havent contacted him since my last email to him. Do I still need to send him another no contact message from your blog?

      Hi,

      You contradicted yourself many times after trying to initiate no contact “your way”, and even if you didn’t fuck up so many times, you still need to send the recommended NC message as outlined in the free plan, why?

      Because it works!

      Go read the free plan to get your ex back here on my Blog, and follow ALL the steps.

      Take Care,

      S.W.

  6. Not sure if this means anything but i life in the US (L.A) and he lives in Spain.

    1. It doesn’t mean a thing, you have the power to control your situation.

  7. Hey,

    I am so very very confused, i have read your blog and your tips, EVERYTHING on here. I feel like a idiot, I have been in an LDR for just over 1 year. We had plans for for it all, children wedding the lot. Then I went with him to meet his dad in june, it did not go as planed…I was not myself and I really acted very strange being so overly emotional and well just not the real me.. anyway as I came back home he was still nice, but then he started to change and became more cold and more distant. He would blow hot and cold and I would never know where I had him… He kept saying he would come to see me in my country but then did not come. Its been 8 months. then last week I got the text we done..Thank you for everything goodbye. not quite those words but you get the picture. I then went into a panic and called 5 times, only to get the vm. Then I wrote a mess to him saying I understand blah blah, take care. He then sent me a text back saying that he will call. I heard nothing then I wrote ok again i understand. Then i again i got: ill call.. then i wrote back no thanks in a very nice way. So I need to know shall I write the NC message you recomend or is it just too late for me?? I love him so much even after this long.

    1. Hi,

      I help people get their lives back, not their ex boyfriends.

      If you are interested in getting your life back, go read the free plan to get your ex back on my Blog, and follow ALL the steps.

      Take Care,

      S.W.

      PS – Once you have your life back, you can learn how to attract anything you want into your life, by learning the secret to manifestation here:

      The Quantum Cook Book

      You don’t have to wait for good karma to find you, you can attract it.

      You can get the kind of love you want and deserve, if you know how to attract it.

  8. I read the plan, I just don’t know where to go from here as I already told him I will not be in his life for a while bc he needs to find out what its like to not actually have me in it (we both agreed that he still kinda “has” me) .. so now what do I say to get on the road to getting him back? I have no idea..

    1. Hi,

      I said to read the free plan to get your ex back, and FOLLOW ALL the steps.

      That means send the recommended no contact message (without changes), it doesn’t matter what you said before, you are not using no contact correctly.

      The free plan is about getting your life back, and evolving past the break up.

      It is not about getting your ex boyfriend back.

      Now, I just told you what to do, you either choose to do it, or go somewhere else for advice.

      Take Care,

      S.W.

  9. Hi,

    No, you didn’t use the no contact rule correctly.

    Go read the free plan to get your ex back on my Blog, and follow ALL the steps.

    Take Care,

    S.W.

  10. So. I started the no contact rule today with my ex. I specifically told him i will not be in his life anymore bc he needs to figure out what he wants, and he needs to feel like what its like to miss me and not have me in his life. We’ve been broken up for about a month but have hooked up a couple times and exchanged the i miss you’s and whatever.. but i told him he has the best of both worlds and its not fair to me. So.. I told him Im giving him the chancce to miss me and we wont be in contact. Did i do the right thing?

  11. hi scott,
    i cheated on my bf. after 3yrs 🙁 and he doesnt want me back. by me sendn the NC message will he think like gud shes not worryin about me anymore. will he say or think like i dont care i didnt want to be bothered wit you anyway. will this push him away farther?

    1. Hi,

      If you doubt the free plan to get your ex back will work, go look elsewhere for guidance, OK?

      I have provided all the evidence you need to make an intelligent decision…the decision is yours.

      Take Care,

      S.W.

  12. Hi scot!

    I just received a text message from my ex-boyfriend, saying I can take all the time I need, that if I need anything I have his number and email. Also that, he only contacted me before coz I called him, he wasn’t trying to initiate anything.
    I sent the nc message to his work address and his phone as well, exactly as its written on your blog. He added I should quit sending him letters to his work place.

    Do you think I did it correctly this time and can now start my NC diary and break up story?

    Topaz

    1. Hi,

      If you sent the NC message without any changes then you did it correctly.

      Now just follow ALL the rest of the steps in the free plan to get your ex back.

      Take Care,

      S.W.

  13. Hi S.W
    Thank you so much for all your advices. I apologize if I`m repeating what others have written already. My boyfriend broke up with me after 8 months of relationship, he said he is busy with work. I know its coz I asked him for engagement. So after about 3 weeks I had the courage to send the no-contact letter. I sent it to his work address coz I don`t know his home address and he never agreed I visit his home, But he visited my house every time we met, before we would go on our date. He texted me and said he got my letter and thanked me for being understanding. He told his family about me but still didint invite me to his house (he lives alone), his reason being that he need to get things in order.(He is not married, has 3 cats). 3 months after we met, he broke up with me coz I hung the phone on him after he said he didn’t have time to see me. Coz he needed to work, and seeing me is the same as playing video games. I apologized and we got back together after a few days. He is very well off, and works 7 days a week 20 hours a day. But I work 8 to 5pm job. I waited 30 days after the no-contact letter and called him. He didn`t pick but called me 20mins later. I missed the call. He texted and said he didn’t mean to bother me, was just returning my call. The next day, I called again but he didn`t pick, I sent him a funny link to watch. Now, i really want him to come crawling back. I had 4 horrible dates already with other men. How long should I wait before I contact him again? Should I send him mail and ask him the best time to call him? He is 30yrs old and wants kids badly. I`m 29. When he broke up with me thru mail, I was very calm and just wished him well. In the no-contact letter, I told him I agree with the break-up and that since he didn’t feel like marrying me, it was good the relationship ended. Your advice will be so helpful. Thanks.

    Topaz

    1. Hi,

      My advice is you need to send the recommended no contact message even though you have already sent a “weak” one.

      Go read the free plan to get your ex back on my Blog, and follow ALL the steps.

      Take Care,

      S.W.

      1. Hi S.W

        I found the recommended no contact message and sent it. Starting afresh.

        Thanks

  14. Dear SW,
    Whatever said or done in this blog I think you are really kind to help & sacrifice your time on behalf of many many worried human beings!
    Binny

    1. Hi,

      This is all covered in the free plan to get your ex back, make sure you follow every link that explains how to use the no contact rule.

      Take Care,

      S.W.

  15. DUDE NONE OF THAT STUFF WORK. U SUCK.
    YES SO DOES UR SITE.
    SHEESH U GOTTA BE DESPERATE TO FOLLOW UP THIS CRAP.
    YEAH THATS RIGHT.
    MY BOYFRIEND OH WAIT MY EX-BOYFRIEND NOW.
    I GOT HIM BACK AT FIRST THEN HE DUMPED ME ON MY WEDDING DAY
    AND RAN OFF WITH MY BESTFRIEND.
    TURNS OUT HE JUST GOT BACK WITH ME TO GET CLOSER TO MY FRIEND
    WHO I JUST FOUND OUT IS MY SISTER. HALFSISTER. BUT STILL MY SISTER.
    SO YEAH THANKS.

    1. Hi,

      What are you some kind of hill-billy, are your mother and father, really brother and sister?

      Listen you ignorant fuck, this plan is about getting your life back, not to help you marry your first cousin.

      Do the world a favor, and don’t have any children, Please!

      Take Care,

      S.W.

  16. Hi Sir William,
    Thank you for the opportunity to ask my nc question. So, here goes. It’s sitting on the table, ready to go, but I haven’t sent it, wait,wait,it’s because I believe he knows not to contact me. I am the dumper. He asked to remain friends. I said we could talk maybe in 6 mths or something, as I needed time to heal. I love him but the relationship isn’t working for me….anyway, this was approx. one week ago. I am not going to call him. I won’t. I am strong. I’m on your site and I’ll buy your book, for support..to get a life! He’s not calling, and in the nc message, it requests nc but he’s not, so I think it’s in poor taste to send it. But, if you want me to send it…I will…what do you think?
    Dorothy

    1. Dorothy says:

      I’m on your site and I’ll buy your book, for support..to get a life!

      Hi,

      You are not on our forum anymore, you were banned for lying about sending the NC message…I don’t work with liars…go find another forum to join, OK?

      I don’t care if you buy the book because it won’t help you, you have to have “guts” to succeed, and liars are cowards.

      Dorothy says:

      He’s not calling, and in the nc message, it requests nc but he’s not, so I think it’s in poor taste to send it. But, if you want me to send it…I will…what do you think?

      I think you’re full of shit.

      You’re afraid to send the recommended no contact message.

      If you have read what I write on my Blog you would already know the answer to your question.

      You had your chance, and you lied, now go find support somewhere else.

      What I do, I do for free, that means I get to “pick and choose” who I work with, and…

      I DO NOT WORK WITH LIARS.

      Take Care,

      S.W.

  17. Cheers Scott. Your spot on, i dam well do know it. When you say “once you get your life back…..understand? what do you mean by that exactly Scott?

    Even though i sent my other message to him a week ago, I’ll send the proper NC message word for word now. Done.

    Thanks for getting back to me so quickly too! 🙂 Your an angel.
    Have a great weekend. I’ll let you knwo how I get on.
    Gilly

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