Your heart is broken and you want relief, so you wonder; “How can I get over my ex boyfriend?” The answer is a step by step process that I refer to as “the evolution” where you learn how to become single and happy again. Don’t be surprised if at the end of this process that your ex boyfriend’s knocking on your door again…OK?
Picking Up The Pieces
The first step after you get your heart broken is to pick up the pieces so you can put it back together again. The more you allow yourself to beg and plead for him to come back, the more scattered the pieces of your heart become. The sooner you stop and allow your ex to go the better for you. I know this doesn’t make much sense because our first reaction when someone wants to leave is to hold on to them even tighter.
So how do you let go? You send your ex boyfriend a no contact message this starts the evolution for both of you. You will be on your way to becoming a happy woman again and he will start to understand that you will not be waiting forever. You’re probably asking yourself; “How can I get over my ex boyfriend using a message?” The answer is this is only the first step, but remember every journey starts with the first step so the sooner you take that step the sooner you will be getting over your ex boyfriend and your broken heart.
The No Contact Message
I will give you a sample NC message to use, I highly recommend you use it word for word and only include your first name at the end…OK?
Hi,
I agree with you about the decision to break up, I really believe it was the best thing for both of us. I have some big decisions to make and I need some time to think them over. I would really appreciate it if you didn’t contact me during this time. I will be in touch when I am ready.
(your first name)
This is a very important step of the evolution, and to getting your life back again so do not be afraid to send this message. The longer you hesitate the longer you will be in pain, so take the leap and stop asking; “How can I get over my ex boyfriend?”
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S. Williams
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My ex and I have a 25 yr history. We were high school sweethearts. We have a 13 yr old son together. He’s 42 and I’m 40. He came back in January. I know he’s always loved me but he’s had some medical problems. While we were together he found out he was impotent from a new medication. He was devestated. I told him in the beginning that I had dated but nobody met my boys and he said that I just used them for sex. I said yes. I told him how very important sex was to me because him and I always had a very special relationship.We also spent very little time together because he works long hours and I broke up with him. Now theres no communication at all and he wo’t talk to me.
Cheryl wrote:
When he is off the medication the impotency should be solved.
Cheryl wrote:
How wise was it to tell this to a man who just found out he is impotent?
I would leave him alone do not chase him, let him come to you when he’s ready to talk.
I didn’t tell him how important sex was to me when I found out he was impotent. We talked about that way before that.Sex has always been very important to him and I always was shy about that to him and I knew he’d be happy if I told him that I was more apt to talk about this.The medication he’s on will be forever. He has Chrones Disease and he has to take medication forever. He has to more surgury to find anew site and his back is messed up too.He hasmedical problems but I have loved him for a long time and always will. I’m not sure but he said that he’s with someone else and I told him I was severing all ties with him. I’m having a very hard time with this but with his medical problems I’ve always been there for him in the past simply because I love him so much.
@ Cheryl:
You can try following the plan in our forum to get your ex back, just follow this link:
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