How Can I Get Over My Ex Boyfriend?
Your heart is broken and you want relief, so you wonder; “How can I get over my ex boyfriend?” The answer is a step by step process that I refer to as “the evolution” where you learn how to become single and happy again. Don’t be surprised if at the end of this process that your ex boyfriend’s knocking on your door again…OK?
Picking Up The Pieces
The first step after you get your heart broken is to pick up the pieces so you can put it back together again. The more you allow yourself to beg and plead for him to come back, the more scattered the pieces of your heart become. The sooner you stop and allow your ex to go the better for you. I know this doesn’t make much sense because our first reaction when someone wants to leave is to hold on to them even tighter.
So how do you let go? You send your ex boyfriend a no contact message this starts the evolution for both of you. You will be on your way to becoming a happy woman again and he will start to understand that you will not be waiting forever. You’re probably asking yourself; “How can I get over my ex boyfriend using a message?” The answer is this is only the first step, but remember every journey starts with the first step so the sooner you take that step the sooner you will be getting over your ex boyfriend and your broken heart.
The No Contact Message
I will give you a sample NC message to use, I highly recommend you use it word for word and only include your first name at the end…OK?
Hi,
I agree with you about the decision to break up, I really believe it was the best thing for both of us. I have some big decisions to make and I need some time to think them over. I would really appreciate it if you didn’t contact me during this time. I will be in touch when I am ready.
(your first name)
This is a very important step of the evolution, and to getting your life back again so do not be afraid to send this message. The longer you hesitate the longer you will be in pain, so take the leap and stop asking; “How can I get over my ex boyfriend?”
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Who Am I and Why Should You Listen to Me?
My name is S. Williams, and I have been helping people since 2008 to overcome break up pain, and get their lives back. I even have an “About” section that I recommend you read. I know the name of my site is: How to Get Your Ex Back Fast, but I teach people how to get their lives back, not their ex’s.
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My ex and I have a 25 yr history. We were high school sweethearts. We have a 13 yr old son together. He’s 42 and I’m 40. He came back in January. I know he’s always loved me but he’s had some medical problems. While we were together he found out he was impotent from a new medication. He was devestated. I told him in the beginning that I had dated but nobody met my boys and he said that I just used them for sex. I said yes. I told him how very important sex was to me because him and I always had a very special relationship.We also spent very little time together because he works long hours and I broke up with him. Now theres no communication at all and he wo’t talk to me.
Cheryl wrote:
When he is off the medication the impotency should be solved.
Cheryl wrote:
How wise was it to tell this to a man who just found out he is impotent?
I would leave him alone do not chase him, let him come to you when he’s ready to talk.
I didn’t tell him how important sex was to me when I found out he was impotent. We talked about that way before that.Sex has always been very important to him and I always was shy about that to him and I knew he’d be happy if I told him that I was more apt to talk about this.The medication he’s on will be forever. He has Chrones Disease and he has to take medication forever. He has to more surgury to find anew site and his back is messed up too.He hasmedical problems but I have loved him for a long time and always will. I’m not sure but he said that he’s with someone else and I told him I was severing all ties with him. I’m having a very hard time with this but with his medical problems I’ve always been there for him in the past simply because I love him so much.
My exboyfriend haven’t been into a relationship for 10 years until he met me, but he didn’t admit he’s impotent. He initiated the break up saying that our lives will go in different directions. I really didn’t know what to do either. I’ve been trying to treat him well and we’ve been emailing even 3 months after we broke up, but he said we have to cut off daily communication in order to move on. He told me to explore all opportunities out there even though the outcome is not what he wants. I’ve started no contact now, but I have confidence because I know I still like him. I really didn’t what to do except being patient. Do you have any advice for me?
Hi,
Are you asking me (S.Williams) for advice or Cheryl?
Hi –
I’m asking you for advice.
Thanks!
@ Cheryl:
You can try following the plan in our forum to get your ex back, just follow this link:
http://forum.howtogetyourexbackfast.com/topic/read-this-first
Make sure you read the rules and guidelines before you join, I strictly enforce them.
hi…
i need your help and support in getting my life back.
And i know ur plan is d thng i nee the most.
thanks
Dear S.williams
I dnt know how relevant will my story be..bt still I want to share it with someone to get genuine advice.
My relationship is almost 2 years old and I was deeply in love with this guy Prateek and even he was..we had plans to get married and he was very sure that his parents will also support him in this.He introduced me to his family as a friend and his sister stayed with me for almost 9-10 mnths during which sm ups and downs happened between her and me..As a result of which my relationship with my guy also suffered.But somehow thngs became good between us again..
Then one day he told his parents about me and they refused completely fr our relationship.Still prateek said he will try but now the problem is he blames me fr not understanding his situation that hes stuck between two things.He says confidently to me something and after talking to his parents his confidence varies…
I dont know what to do…am stuck
and hes stuck too…is break up the only option I have?
I dont want to break up with this guy..
I love his so very much..
Plzzz help.
Bal says:
Hi,
It is obvious that they (his parents) carry a lot of control over who he decides to marry, and if they don’t approve of you, this isn’t going to work out.
If your boyfriend is under the control of his parents, it doesn’t seem like there is much you can do, but cut your losses, and move on with your life.
I help people get their lives back, not their ex’s.
If you want help evolving past the break up and moving on, go read the free plan here on my Blog, and follow ALL the steps.
Thanks for writing.
Take Care,
S.W.
Bal says:
It doesn’t matter how much you love him, if he doesn’t love you enough to go against his parents wishes, right?
hi..
thanks for revertng.
u c it may sound little surprising to u but in India parents do play a very important role..a kind of societal rules.I know where u live individual rights are much more important but on this part of the worls loving and respecting ones parents comes from agreeing with them..
I know what you are writing is the most practical advice one can give..
somewhr or d othr i know the ans..its just dat i thnk am scared to take this step..may b i dont have the courage to do that..
thanks a lot once agn
He tells me he still loves me and cares about me, he then tells he is indifferent, but he is still trying to hurt me, and he obviously still cares… But he is determined to move on, he said so. He also said he could never be my friend even if he wanted to, it would hurt too much.
I guess I just have to move on and never initiate contact with him. I’m so heartbroken.
Hi,
I help people get over a broken heart and get their lives back, not get their ex back, and I explain why in the “About” section on my Blog.
Go read the free plan to get your ex back on my Blog, and follow ALL the steps.
Thank you for writing.
Take Care,
S.W.