Your heart is broken and you want relief, so you wonder; “How can I get over my ex boyfriend?” The answer is a step by step process that I refer to as “the evolution” where you learn how to become single and happy again. Don’t be surprised if at the end of this process that your ex boyfriend’s knocking on your door again…OK?
Picking Up The Pieces
The first step after you get your heart broken is to pick up the pieces so you can put it back together again. The more you allow yourself to beg and plead for him to come back, the more scattered the pieces of your heart become. The sooner you stop and allow your ex to go the better for you. I know this doesn’t make much sense because our first reaction when someone wants to leave is to hold on to them even tighter.
So how do you let go? You send your ex boyfriend a no contact message this starts the evolution for both of you. You will be on your way to becoming a happy woman again and he will start to understand that you will not be waiting forever. You’re probably asking yourself; “How can I get over my ex boyfriend using a message?” The answer is this is only the first step, but remember every journey starts with the first step so the sooner you take that step the sooner you will be getting over your ex boyfriend and your broken heart.
The No Contact Message
I will give you a sample NC message to use, I highly recommend you use it word for word and only include your first name at the end…OK?
I agree with you about the decision to break up, I really believe it was the best thing for both of us. I have some big decisions to make and I need some time to think them over. I would really appreciate it if you didn’t contact me during this time. I will be in touch when I am ready.
(your first name)
This is a very important step of the evolution, and to getting your life back again so do not be afraid to send this message. The longer you hesitate the longer you will be in pain, so take the leap and stop asking; “How can I get over my ex boyfriend?”
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Who Am I and Why Should You Listen to Me?
My name is S. Williams, and I have been helping people since 2008 to overcome break up pain, and get their lives back. I even have an “About” section that I recommend you read. I know the name of my site is: How to Get Your Ex Back Fast, but I teach people how to get their lives back, not their ex’s.
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