You have a 50/50 chance of getting back together with your boyfriend.

You can use the no contact rule to reveal your mate’s true feelings for you, but you have to use it correctly, and that means following every step in the plan.

I help people survive a break up and get their lives back, not get their ex boyfriend back, and I explain why in the “About” section on my Blog.

The fastest way to get your love back is to get your life back first.

Go read the free plan to get your ex back and follow ALL the steps to heal your broken heart, evolve past the breakup, and get your life back again.

Thank you for writing.

Take Care,

S.W.

Please help as my mother hates men after her destructive marriage and I never ask her for advice.

I’m 22 and this guy I dated for 6 months was 25. We both live in London with incredibly demanding jobs and I have always acted cool and independent throughout. However, in the last month I broke up with him twice out of insecurity because I never met his friends (he met all of mine) and he never showed any signs that we were a couple (small things that buld up over time and start to irritate you). He has never been in a relationship for more than 3 months with a girl and is mature beyond his years…too mature really so I was worried if I protested, he would walk away.

The second time I broke up with him, I went back whereas the first time he came to me begging for me back (I didn’t play games but was very upset at this point). This time I was crying my eyes out and told him work pressure and everything had got to me and that he meant so much to me – have never revealed this to him. He said he needed time to think as he was so busy at present and he was scared that if we got together, we would break up again within 6 weeks. After a month of giving him space, replying placidly to his text messages and not encouraging the flirty ones he sent, we eventually met in person where he acted all normal and when I addressed the situation he squirmed and mumbled saying he wasn’t sure even though he’s never liked a girl as much as me etc. This indecisiveness tore me inside because I felt he was trying to break up with me ‘nicely’. My tears gave me away but I stood up calmly, declined his offer to be friends where we could ‘text maybe in the future’ (I didn’t want his sympathy after losing all my pride). I left and stated we have no contact. I have not heard a thing since (three weeks) and he is currently on holiday with his brother in China.

I’m crushed and just throw myself into my 14hour days. I am scared I will never hear from him again but do not want to go against my word and look unstable by texting him. I miss him so much and don’t even know if he has a second thought about me. Is there a chance to get him back if we live at opposite ends of London, have no mutual friends and are only connected via facebook?

I am wondering why you’re worried about getting your ex boyfriend back when it sounds like he is turning into a self-pitying drunk?

Is that the kind of man you want?

This is why I help people use the no contact rule to evolve past the break up and start thinking with a clear head…people change and not always for the better.

It is not your job to “save him”, but it is your job to take care of yourself.

I help people survive a break up and get their lives back, not get their ex boyfriend back, and I explain why in the “About” section on my Blog.

Go read the free plan to get your ex back and follow ALL the steps to heal your broken heart, evolve past the breakup, and get your life back again.

Thank you for writing.

Take Care,

S.W.

He can tell you’re still interested and he is hoping to parlay that into some easy sex, then he will go back to being “confused” about what he wants again.

I help people survive a break up and get their lives back, not get their ex boyfriend back, and I explain why in the “About” section on my Blog.

The quickest way to get your man back is to get your life back first.

Go read the free plan to get your ex back and follow ALL the steps to heal your broken heart, evolve past the breakup, and get your life back again.

Thank you for writing.

Take Care,

S.W.

My ex BF and I had a lot of break up and make up. He left and came back. We have broken up för about a month ago. He didnt want to collect his belongings and was trying every excuse to prolong getting his things and leaving my key. I insisted by saying that I will throw them away if he does not. He did and he did not want to leave i could tell. Althoug he does not want to get back together, he has contact with me almost every day by now, the further the more often. Im keeping passive, answering politely but never taking a contact myself.
What should I do if I want him back? Shall I break off the contact alltogether or should I keep our communication? It feels like he s geting closer and closer then otherwise.

Go read the last stage of the free plan to get your ex back on reconnection to get some ideas on how to successfully start dating your ex boyfriend.

Just keep in mind that this must be a new relationship, not a continuation of the old failed relationship.

If he is just after FWB, or wants to rush things, start the no contact rule over again, and this time follow ALL the steps in the free plan.

Thank you for writing.

Take Care,

S.W.

Yes, it would “approve” his decision to break up.

There is nothing she can do about the break up, it already happened, and refusing to accept that will only keep her trapped in relationship limbo.

I help people get their lives back, not get their ex boyfriend back, and I explain why in the “About” section on my Blog.

Go read the free plan to get your ex back, and follow ALL the steps.

Thank you for writing.

Take Care,

S.W.