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How Can I Get My Ex Boyfriend Back? – 3 Fast Steps to Get Your Ex Boyfriend Back

You Must Flip His Switch to Get Your Ex Boyfriend Back
Everyone tells you to move on, forget him…he’s gone.

I will show you 3 fast steps, you need to take, to get your ex-boyfriend back.

The plan is really so simple, but, it is overlooked and ignored…why?

Because most women find it hard to believe, just how easy it is, to get their ex-boyfriend back, again.



Step One – Agree and Walk Away


You have probably heard of the no contact rule, and, how you shouldn’t beg or plead.

But, do you know how to “flip” your ex-boyfriends “switch”, and, make him miss you?

That’s the real key to success, with NC.

You must flip his “emotional” switch, as soon as possible.

Just send your ex a message agreeing with the breakup, and, telling him you need some time to think over some “big” upcoming decisions, you have to make.

Believe me, this message is like using voodoo, and, it will slowly start to eat away at him.

This is the first step towards getting out of the friend’s zone, and, getting your ex-boyfriend back, again.



Step Two – Start the Evolution


After you properly initiate NC, and, flip his switch, you will both begin to evolve.

You will begin to feel very confident.


Because you had the “guts”, to send your ex, the no contact message.

Your evolution has begun…but, what about his?

“How can I get my ex-boyfriend back, if I don’t let him contact me?”

Once he sees that, you are strong enough to stand up to this situation, he will begin to change the way, he perceives you.

You’re not begging and pleading, and, on top of that, you told him to leave you alone, you never acted like this before, when you two broke up…you’re changing.

Something’s different.

Whether he admits it or not, he is starting to worry about, getting his ex-girlfriend back, too.



Step Three – Reconnection


No contact is NOT just about time, it is about evolving.

During your NC period, you should be working on yourself, and, learning how to be “single” again.

One of the biggest problems you”ll face, during your no contact period, is “spying” on your ex.

Using social media sites to “virtually stalk” your ex.

I’m sure he will post plenty of  “bogus” information, that he wants you to see, to make you worried, and eventually break NC.

Stay away from his social sites ( especially Facebook ), or, it will only drive you crazy.

Why would he be doing this, you ask?

Because, he wants to freak you out, and, make you break no contact, then he has the control back, once again.

This blows the evolution, and, all the work you have done, so far…don’t fall into this trap.

Stick with no contact for “at least” 30 days (longer if you want better results), and, then start to plan your reconnection process.

If you use the free breakup survival plan, along with a good system on reconnecting with your ex-boyfriend, you will be successful, and, in much less time.

I suggest you get started, ASAP, the sooner you’re using the no contact rule, correctly, the better.



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Who Am I and Why Should You Listen to Me?


My name is S. Williams, and I have been helping people since 2008, to overcome breakup pain, and, get their lives back.

I even have an “About” section, that I recommend you read.

I realize the address, of my site, is: How to Get Your Ex Back Fast, but, I “really” teach people, how to get their lives back, not just their ex’s.

If you’re interested in working with me, (and our forum members) to get your life back.

Go ahead, and, join my free newsletter, for access to the free breakup survival plan, and, start getting your life back, today.

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Once, you get your life back, everything else will just start to fall into place…I promise.

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  1. Hi,

    Please help as my mother hates men after her destructive marriage and I never ask her for advice.

    I’m 22 and this guy I dated for 6 months was 25. We both live in London with incredibly demanding jobs and I have always acted cool and independent throughout. However, in the last month I broke up with him twice out of insecurity because I never met his friends (he met all of mine) and he never showed any signs that we were a couple (small things that buld up over time and start to irritate you). He has never been in a relationship for more than 3 months with a girl and is mature beyond his years…too mature really so I was worried if I protested, he would walk away.

    The second time I broke up with him, I went back whereas the first time he came to me begging for me back (I didn’t play games but was very upset at this point). This time I was crying my eyes out and told him work pressure and everything had got to me and that he meant so much to me – have never revealed this to him. He said he needed time to think as he was so busy at present and he was scared that if we got together, we would break up again within 6 weeks. After a month of giving him space, replying placidly to his text messages and not encouraging the flirty ones he sent, we eventually met in person where he acted all normal and when I addressed the situation he squirmed and mumbled saying he wasn’t sure even though he’s never liked a girl as much as me etc. This indecisiveness tore me inside because I felt he was trying to break up with me ‘nicely’. My tears gave me away but I stood up calmly, declined his offer to be friends where we could ‘text maybe in the future’ (I didn’t want his sympathy after losing all my pride). I left and stated we have no contact. I have not heard a thing since (three weeks) and he is currently on holiday with his brother in China.

    I’m crushed and just throw myself into my 14hour days. I am scared I will never hear from him again but do not want to go against my word and look unstable by texting him. I miss him so much and don’t even know if he has a second thought about me. Is there a chance to get him back if we live at opposite ends of London, have no mutual friends and are only connected via facebook?

    1. Hi,

      You have a 50/50 chance of getting back together with your boyfriend.

      You can use the no contact rule to reveal your mate’s true feelings for you, but you have to use it correctly, and that means following every step in the plan.

      I help people survive a break up and get their lives back, not get their ex boyfriend back, and I explain why in the “About” section on my Blog.

      The fastest way to get your love back is to get your life back first.

      Go read the free plan to get your ex back and follow ALL the steps to heal your broken heart, evolve past the breakup, and get your life back again.

      Thank you for writing.

      Take Care,


  2. Hi,

    My ex BF and I had a lot of break up and make up. He left and came back. We have broken up för about a month ago. He didnt want to collect his belongings and was trying every excuse to prolong getting his things and leaving my key. I insisted by saying that I will throw them away if he does not. He did and he did not want to leave i could tell. Althoug he does not want to get back together, he has contact with me almost every day by now, the further the more often. Im keeping passive, answering politely but never taking a contact myself.
    What should I do if I want him back? Shall I break off the contact alltogether or should I keep our communication? It feels like he s geting closer and closer then otherwise.

    1. Hi,

      He can tell you’re still interested and he is hoping to parlay that into some easy sex, then he will go back to being “confused” about what he wants again.

      I help people survive a break up and get their lives back, not get their ex boyfriend back, and I explain why in the “About” section on my Blog.

      The quickest way to get your man back is to get your life back first.

      Go read the free plan to get your ex back and follow ALL the steps to heal your broken heart, evolve past the breakup, and get your life back again.

      Thank you for writing.

      Take Care,


  3. My ex and I have been broken up for months. Since ive been back home from college and he is graduating to come to my college he has mentioned us getting back together. Ive been through no contact and he has initiated contact. He says I luv you and I want you. He also wants to hangout on his graduation night but I dont know what we can do? Im nervous about seeing him…I need some help please I really want him back.

    1. Hi,

      Go read the last stage of the free plan to get your ex back on reconnection to get some ideas on how to successfully start dating your ex boyfriend.

      Just keep in mind that this must be a new relationship, not a continuation of the old failed relationship.

      If he is just after FWB, or wants to rush things, start the no contact rule over again, and this time follow ALL the steps in the free plan.

      Thank you for writing.

      Take Care,


  4. Hi.

    I have a very good friend (a female) who recently lost his boyfriend, about a week ago. She said that it was because she didn’t admire him enough, and she feels guilty. On top of it, they haven’t had sex for 6 monthes (sounded like exaggeration to me, but who knows?) anyways, I wanna help her, and I may show your site to her. But since it was due to her lack of interest in his boyfriend…

    Wouldn’t it just “approve” that he is right, when she just “moves on”? She said she begged and plead for the next three days, and said she should stop because it didn’t work, and she also said a lot of stupid things like “I’ll change for you” which of course just pushed him further away (I tried this before) she haven’t send the NC message you recommend. Should she? Wouldn’t it just confirm that she weren’t interested in the relationship?

    Kind regards,

    1. Hi,

      Yes, it would “approve” his decision to break up.

      There is nothing she can do about the break up, it already happened, and refusing to accept that will only keep her trapped in relationship limbo.

      I help people get their lives back, not get their ex boyfriend back, and I explain why in the “About” section on my Blog.

      Go read the free plan to get your ex back, and follow ALL the steps.

      Thank you for writing.

      Take Care,


  5. does this really work?? i mean i begged and cried and told him iw ould not move on and i havent but i have tried really hard not to show him that. WHat are some other things i can do also?

    1. carolyn says:

      does this really work??


      If you have any doubts about how good the free plan works, go read the success stories on my Blog, and in our forum.

      The free plan speaks for itself.

      And 99.999% of the people who started using the free plan begged and pleaded just like you did before they started doing things correctly.

      Take Care,


  6. marie wrote:

    what if i’ve already beged and cried during the breack up?

    Then you will be included with 99.99% of the people in our forum…you’re not alone.

    Our plan will work no matter what you did before (short of murder), but you have to take action and join our forum and follow the rules/plan.

    If you want my help to get your ex back follow this link:

    Make sure you read the rules and guidelines before you join, I strictly enforce them.

    1. Hi there I hope u can give me good advise I was with my boyfriend for about 4 months and his dad was dying do I only seen him when I could which I understood he told me he would never shut me out and that his dad passed away about 7 weeks ago and the week
      after his funeral he went funny with me I was suppose to meet up with him and he made excusses not to meet up then he texted and said he didn’t deserve me and I don’t need him I was saying to him stop saying that I am here for u and always will be. I ended up in hospital and he didn’t come to see me but texted and phoned to see how I was. The day I was getting out I never heard from him so I was asking what was up and he texted and said i am greiving for my dad so that means u just want to be left alone so I didn’t contact him for about 4 or 5 days then I phoned him and he said he is drunk and been on the drink for 4 days and said he would phone me later on but I got so worried that I bombarded him with texts. I got a text from him saying he gas fallen out with me cause of me bombarded him with texts and he also said he needed time when going through that bad patch and I never gave him that if anything I have made things worse for him. Is there still a chance with me and him I haven’t contacted him in a week now

      1. Hi,

        I am wondering why you’re worried about getting your ex boyfriend back when it sounds like he is turning into a self-pitying drunk?

        Is that the kind of man you want?

        This is why I help people use the no contact rule to evolve past the break up and start thinking with a clear head…people change and not always for the better.

        It is not your job to “save him”, but it is your job to take care of yourself.

        I help people survive a break up and get their lives back, not get their ex boyfriend back, and I explain why in the “About” section on my Blog.

        Go read the free plan to get your ex back and follow ALL the steps to heal your broken heart, evolve past the breakup, and get your life back again.

        Thank you for writing.

        Take Care,


        1. Thank you for replying to my comment we never argued in our relationship he just shut me out after his dad died we got on really well but do u know why he wld shut me out. I did bombarded him with texts but I was worried about him and I wanted to know were I stood with him when I was asking were I stood he would answer me then he said yes he had fallen out with me cause I constanly texted him and it was doing his head in cause the way he was feeling. He also said I didn’t give him the time he needed and if anything I made it worse for hi
          so I haven’t contacted him in about a week I do want to hear from him and patch things up do u think there is still a chance.

  7. what if i’ve already beged and cried during the breack up?

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