I will show you 3 fast steps, you need to take, to get your ex-boyfriend back.
The plan is really so simple, but, it is overlooked and ignored…why?
Because most women find it hard to believe, just how easy it is, to get their ex-boyfriend back, again.
Step One – Agree and Walk Away
You have probably heard of the no contact rule, and, how you shouldn’t beg or plead.
But, do you know how to “flip” your ex-boyfriends “switch”, and, make him miss you?
That’s the real key to success, with NC.
You must flip his “emotional” switch, as soon as possible.
Just send your ex a message agreeing with the breakup, and, telling him you need some time to think over some “big” upcoming decisions, you have to make.
Believe me, this message is like using voodoo, and, it will slowly start to eat away at him.
This is the first step towards getting out of the friend’s zone, and, getting your ex-boyfriend back, again.
Step Two – Start the Evolution
After you properly initiate NC, and, flip his switch, you will both begin to evolve.
You will begin to feel very confident.
Because you had the “guts”, to send your ex, the no contact message.
Your evolution has begun…but, what about his?
“How can I get my ex-boyfriend back, if I don’t let him contact me?”
Once he sees that, you are strong enough to stand up to this situation, he will begin to change the way, he perceives you.
You’re not begging and pleading, and, on top of that, you told him to leave you alone, you never acted like this before, when you two broke up…you’re changing.
Whether he admits it or not, he is starting to worry about, getting his ex-girlfriend back, too.
Step Three – Reconnection
No contact is NOT just about time, it is about evolving.
During your NC period, you should be working on yourself, and, learning how to be “single” again.
One of the biggest problems you”ll face, during your no contact period, is “spying” on your ex.
Using social media sites to “virtually stalk” your ex.
I’m sure he will post plenty of “bogus” information, that he wants you to see, to make you worried, and eventually break NC.
Stay away from his social sites ( especially Facebook ), or, it will only drive you crazy.
Why would he be doing this, you ask?
Because, he wants to freak you out, and, make you break no contact, then he has the control back, once again.
This blows the evolution, and, all the work you have done, so far…don’t fall into this trap.
Stick with no contact for “at least” 30 days (longer if you want better results), and, then start to plan your reconnection process.
If you use the free breakup survival plan, along with a good system on reconnecting with your ex-boyfriend, you will be successful, and, in much less time.
I suggest you get started, ASAP, the sooner you’re using the no contact rule, correctly, the better.
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