Getting My Ex Back or Getting My Life Back – Which Should I Do First?

Getting my ex back or getting my life back…which one is more important to me? If you even have to ask yourself that question, you are in trouble my friend. The answer should be simple, but when your going through a break up, even the simplest questions can be answered wrong. I want to help you clear your thoughts, and help you get back together with your life and your ex.

OMG – How Can You Say That?

I have heard a lot people say they have no life without their ex girlfriend, boyfriend, husband, or wife. What they really mean is this whole situation has torn their life apart, and they just want their life back again. Anyone who thinks “getting my ex back” will get their life back, is a little crazy, don’t you think? But then again relationship problems will drive you crazy, right? Once you settle down and find a plan to help you get your life back, you”ll see what I mean, OK?

Getting My Ex Back Requires Getting My Life Back First

Now You Are Talking

Once you realize that “I’m not getting my ex back,” until you get your life back, things will look a lot brighter. Now you have the beginnings of a plan, and with a plan you have a direction, and with direction you have a great chance to succeed, and win back your ex. The first thing you want to do is stop contacting your ex…no more begging, pleading, drunk dialing…etc.

The best way to accomplish that is to send your ex a no contact message to begin the process, so they don’t think you’re just ignoring them. The shift of power after you send this powerful message will make you feel like you’re getting your life back already. I can help you write this message, and get your life back for free, so keep on reading, OK?

Who Am I and Why Should You Listen to Me?

My name is S. Williams, and I have been helping people since 2008 to overcome break up pain, and get their lives back. I even have an “About” section that I recommend you read. I know the name of my site is: How to Get Your Ex Back Fast, but I teach people how to get their lives back, not their ex’s.

If you’re interested in working with me (and our forum members) to get your life back, join my free newsletter for access to the free plan to get your ex back fast, and start getting your life back today. The answers you need to start your personal evolution are waiting for you, don’t hesitate another minute…come and get them.

Once you get your life back, everything else will just start to fall into place…I promise. If you have any comments or questions please write them in the comment box below.

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Until next time,

S. Williams

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  1. Yoyo wrote:

    i read the About Me too, it was touching, you’re a good man : ) i hope you will find your true love too

    Thanks!

    I hope I do too…someday, right now it’s all about you guys.

  2. ok, ya i read the free plan and by asking the 30 days… i am clearly not ready yet… ><

    i read the About Me too, it was touching, you're a good man : ) i hope you will find your true love too

  3. ok, ya i just read your free plan, gotta remember it’s not the 30 days… aww and i was counting down too : P getting her back may be tougher than i thought >< guess i'm gonna be here for a while : )

  4. Yoyo wrote:

    i mean the plan right now, after the 30 days i can contact again though right?

    Like I said it is very important that you focus on the steps in the plan, and the exercises in the book to obtain the emotional mindset you will need to reconnect, understand?

    It’s not about waiting 30 days.

  5. i mean the plan right now, after the 30 days i can contact again though right? i just need to be emotionally ready… then i meet up with her and use the reconnect technique… that usually does the job i think, it sounds really powerful : )

  6. It’s not about 30 days…you’re missing the point, it may take much longer than 30 days.

    Just focus on the plan, and not on how many days…OK?

  7. right now i’m following the plan and it’s just a matter of waiting 30 days >< i hope that will happen to me too! i would definitely take her back : D

  8. ok, i don’t think i handled it well, the night she broke up with me she was like crying and was like we can still be friends still right? promise me you will still be friends… then i was like ok, cause she was crying.

    then the next morning i just said i’m sorry… i just can’t do it… being friends is too painful, then eventually she accepted my decision.

    and ya, i get it now, so basically we’re meeting eachother again. i just don’t get how people in the testimonials get their exs to ‘beg’ them to come back and crying for them to talk to them again lol. i want that!

  9. Yoyo wrote:

    i just don’t get how people in the testimonials get their exs to ‘beg’ them to come back and crying for them to talk to them again lol. i want that!

    It really happens, (not all the time) when people follow the plan.

    Kitty went from begging her ex to him begging her in the end, and she walked away, she was happier with someone else.

    I Don’t Want My Ex Back

    Funny things happen when you let yourself evolve.

  10. Yoyo wrote:

    is being friends with your ex good? or is that dangerous and may risk never getting them back?

    You must let the old “failed” relationship die…peacefully.

    If you go from a break up straight into “friends” the old relationship never really dies…it goes into storage, and if you ever try to reconnect with your ex as more than friends, it pops up again with all the old unresolved problems.

    When you properly initiate NC you are killing the “old” relationship once and for all…that is the job of the NC message.

    After that you follow a plan to personally and emotionally evolve, learning from all the mistakes that were made in the past relationship…preparing yourself for future relationships, either with or without your ex.

    You can’t skip this evolving process…it is very important to get your single life back first, before you attempt to reconnect with your ex, or anyone else, understand?

    When you’re ready to reconnect…you start out as friends and slowly get to know each other again…make sense?

  11. is being friends with your ex good? or is that dangerous and may risk never getting them back? some sites say friend zone = danger zone where others say you must become friend then progress to getting back with them :S because i thought friend zone = danger zone so after my ex broke up with me she said let’s be friends still ok? then i said no… we can’t… it’s too difficult

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