Get Your Ex Back – Top 3 Reasons You Must Break Up With FaceBook to Get Your Ex Back

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If you want to get your ex back you must break up with facebook first…why? Well here are the top 3 reasons breaking up with facebook will help you get your ex back again. I am sure there are probably more, but these three should be a good start.

#3 – You Will Not Waste Time Spying On Your Ex

Stop and think about how much time you waste checking your ex boyfriend, girlfriend, husband, or wife’s facebook account to see what their up to? You could be using this time to be out with friends, and family having fun, right? Why spend more time pouring salt on your relationship wounds? Do you like to suffer? The sooner you stop wasting your time on facebook, the sooner you will be able to use that time in a more positive manner…like living life, and having fun, right?

Stop Using FaceBook To Spy And Get Your Ex Back

#2 – Your Ex Will Not Know What You’re Up To

The sooner you delete your ex from your FB account, the faster they will be able to miss you, right? If you sent a good no contact message to them, and then delete them from your facebook account…how will they know what you’re up to? This will drive them a little crazy and make them miss you even faster…and that’s a good thing, right? The fastest way to get your ex back, is to make them miss you, and deleting them from your face book account will make them miss you.

#1 – Your Ex Can Not Attempt To Hurt You With False Posts

Lets face it everyone seems addicted to FB these days, and your ex knows it, and will use it to their advantage…especially if you decided to fight back and use the no contact rule. They will post pictures of them having a great time, trying to make you break no contact…and it works…a lot! You can defuse this whole situation, and give them a little kick in the ass by deleting them from your facebook account ASAP after the break up. Your best chance to get your life, and your ex back is using no contact, and it will be a lot easier to stick to NC if you aren’t spying on your ex with facebook…make sense?

Who Am I and Why Should You Listen to Me?

My name is S. Williams, and I have been helping people since 2008 to overcome break up pain, and get their lives back. I even have an “About” section that I recommend you read. I know the name of my site is: How to Get Your Ex Back Fast, but I teach people how to get their lives back, not their ex’s.

If you’re interested in working with me (and our forum members) to get your life back, join my free newsletter for access to the free plan to get your ex back fast, and start getting your life back today. The answers you need to start your personal evolution are waiting for you, don’t hesitate another minute…come and get them.

Once you get your life back, everything else will just start to fall into place…I promise. If you have any comments or questions please write them in the comment box below.

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31 Responses to “Get Your Ex Back – Top 3 Reasons You Must Break Up With FaceBook to Get Your Ex Back”

  1. emma says:

    So if my ex broke up with me AND delete me on facebook AND when I asked him why he did it, he said because he did some research online and was told he should delete me, what does that mean? What I’m trying to say is I am trying to get him back, but what he is doing is what I should be doing and that is confusing. What he is doing sounds like he wants to get me back, but then he also made it clear that he doesn’t want me back when I asked if we could start over. (I know, wrong move). I don’t really understand what is going on in his head because he still does initiate aim conversations with me, but I haven’t initiated contact and we haven’t been talking for days now.

  2. S. Williams says:

    emma wrote:

    but I haven’t initiated contact and we haven’t been talking for days now.

    What are you waiting for?

    I have a free step-by-step plan right here on my Blog…get started today.

  3. chris says:

    Hi all i ended up blocking my ex wife account and a few others so i could not see wot she was doing i fount it to be much better as i didn’t spend the time checking on her

  4. S. Williams says:

    chris wrote:

    Hi all i ended up blocking my ex wife account and a few others so i could not see wot she was doing i fount it to be much better as i didn’t spend the time checking on her

    Hi Chris,

    You saved time and grief…smart move!

    Thanks for your comment.

    S. Williams

  5. Yoyo says:

    oh, and i got an idea for the blog… i think you should make like a chat so the forum members online can all talk instantly, right now i need to refresh to see new posts so i think a chat will help a little

  6. S. Williams says:

    Yoyo wrote:

    oh, and i got an idea for the blog… i think you should make like a chat so the forum members online can all talk instantly, right now i need to refresh to see new posts so i think a chat will help a little

    Thanks for your suggestion…I will see what I can do in the future, but for now you at least have PM’s.

    One of the things I have encouraged people forming support groups on the forum is to share their Skype, Yahoo, MSN, and AOL IM names with their buddies so they can chat directly that way.

    Why reinvent the wheel when there is already some great IM software to use out there, right?

    But I will look into putting together something for the forum if I can.

  7. Yoyo says:

    oh, but like i see websites they actually have like a chat embedded in the site is what i meant… cause many people use different IM programs, i thought that if you had that chat embedded on your site it would be more universal and people don’t have to go through the trouble of installing the program they don’t have, like me for instance i only use MSN

    unfortunately… i don’t know how to put that chat on the site though ><

  8. Yoyo says:

    dang, for some reason my post got removed :S well i finally found out how to get a chat box, just go to www. xat . com (without spaces) then there is a chat box on the right and click ‘Get a Chat Box’ then there will be the embed code and you can copy it and put it on the site : D if you do use my idea i hope it helps :D

  9. S. Williams says:

    @ Yoyo:
    I will look into it…but if people can’t agree on using one system like Yahoo, MSN or another already established chat platform…I don’t think they really want to support each other.

    I would rather have them load their own chat software (on their own PC) then to take a chance crashing the forum.

  10. Yoyo says:

    oh ok, i just thought it would be more convenient because you don’t need to add eachother on the already established platform

    but you’re right, i don’t want to risk the forum getting crashed

  11. Jessica says:

    Why do men move on so fast. My ex was dating someone 2 weeks after we broke up. She is nothing like me. I am suprised that he is with her to be honest. I dont know what he could see in her. Low self esteem I guess,maybe he is using her to make me jelous???? He has been with her for over a month and my patiens are running short, I havent had much contact at all in the past month. Just see him around town, Siad hi. thats about it. Its driving me insane. I want to call him so bad and ask him out. But thats not right eithor if hes with someone else. What to do.

  12. S. Williams says:

    Jessica wrote:

    Why do men move on so fast.

    I have seen women move on even faster…so don’t kid yourself about it being just a male thing, OK?

  13. Leen says:

    i have delete my ex form FB and also MSN. i sent him an NC 2days ago.i’m going to follow MOMU strictly!! so many people have succeeded so can i right? what should i do next?

  14. S. Williams says:

    Leen wrote:

    what should i do next?

    Follow the all the steps in the free plan…the link is at the top of my Blog.

  15. Alexander Ryan says:

    Hi,
    My story is this.. after being together for just over a year, me and my GF broke up on Tuesday (3rd nov). As we couldn’t see each other every day,we’d chat every day on MSN/Facebook, and whenever we did meet up, we were a very happy, loving couple.. She has now been at Uni for 2 months and said she needed some ‘space’ and we she felt we weren’t ‘working as a couple’ anymore, Though there was never any problems in our relationship, i was there for her when ever she needed me, I helped her with everything I could, and though I knew Uni came first, i never tryed to stop her from going and i never made her feel crowded.
    After a very emotional phone call on Tuesday, I ended up not knowing if we were ‘on a break’ or totally fininshed for good. On the same day we split/went on a break…I found this site and following its advice,sent the NC letter and started the NC rule, cutting all ties with her (deleteing her and her Uni mates, as friends on Facebook)On Friday (6th nov) she contacts me on Facebook and says ‘I want to be your friend xx’.
    Im in two minds as what to do.. Do i tell her that ‘I gave her her space, now give me mine and ill get in touch when IM ready’ or do i ignore her fully for the 30 NC days?

    Please can anyone help?

  16. S. Williams says:

    Alexander Ryan wrote:

    she contacts me on Facebook and says ‘I want to be your friend xx’.
    Im in two minds as what to do.. Do i tell her that ‘I gave her her space, now give me mine and ill get in touch when IM ready’ or do i ignore her fully for the 30 NC days?

    Hi Alexander,

    If you are serious about sticking with no contact then DO NOT respond…that is how NC works.

    Go read the free plan on my Blog…the link is at the top of my Blog.

    Follow each and every step, and you will know exactly what to do, OK?

    Take Care,

    S.W.

  17. Alexander Ryan says:

    Thanks Scott, just ignored her request and sent NO reply! im going to stick to the plan..No contact for a month!

    through no fault of my own (i wasnt spying, i was told!) I found out she’d told a mutual friend on FB ‘unfortunatly broke up with Alex thought because i couldnt cope with the distractions of uni life and keep the relationship going’ … id never stoped her from doing anything at Uni, i was all for her to enjoy her time there!! i feel her ‘distractions’ may have been other blokes! :( does that mean ive no chance of getting her back because she’s moved on?

    Alex.

  18. S. Williams says:

    Alexander Ryan wrote:

    does that mean ive no chance of getting her back because she’s moved on?

    Hi Alex,

    No, that does not mean anything like that.

    The hard facts are sometimes people have to lose what they had in order to recognize what they had.

    When you prevent that from happening you cause more damage.

    It is best to follow the free plan on my Blog, and let her go (for now), and start your personal evolution.

    When you send the recommended no contact (in the free plan) it will kick start both yours, and hers personal evolution.

    Make sure you read the free plan (follow all the steps), and find out how to join our forum, and use our new chat room.

    Stay Strong!

    S.W.

  19. sapphire says:

    @ chris:
    way to go.I did that a week after we broke up cuz he was using it to spite me and you know how all these social sites are,they just have a way of giving you updates and shoving them up your nose.

  20. sapphire says:

    @ S. Williams:
    You are so right.at some point it was more like i was just tagging along…trying to make us happen.if i had known you and this forum,i would have probably been the one to break up,initiate NC and allowed us both to do a thorough evaluation of the whole thing efore i even went that far.well,no time is too late i believe.Lyf is a process,you learn it’s lessons only once cuz it’s a good teacher and you’ve got to be smart to not go through it’s classes on a particular subject over and over again.

  21. Jamie says:

    I’ve been in contact with my ex for almost 2 weeks now, but haven’t been acting too desperate..I’ve deleted her off of my facebook, should I delete her off of my msn too?

  22. Jamie says:

    @ Jamie:
    also is it too late for the no contact rule? thanx

  23. S. Williams says:

    Jamie wrote:

    @ Jamie:
    also is it too late for the no contact rule? thanx

    Hi Jamie,

    No, it’s not too late to start following the free plan (top of my Blog) on my Blog, and to properly initiate NC.

    It is all laid out for you carefully read, and follow all the steps, OK?

    As far as FB and MSN get rid of your ex…you can always add them back later.

    No contact is hard enough without social websites making it any harder.

    Take Care,

    S.W.

  24. Sailor H says:

    Hi,

    I need to know if he already blocked me from facebook, which is different from deleting me, its worse, it means even if we have a mutual friend, he cant see what im saying or doing, BUT, when we first started speaking again in November one of the main things we discussed was that sometimes, we would both admit to this by the way, but sometimes we would be around someone elses facebook account and look the other one up, whenever we had the opportunity, ALSO, because we have so many mutual friends, anytime they ;ost pictures and I am in them, he gets to see those….

    SO, the question here is, and I have been thinking of this for some time now….should I delete my facebook all together, or should I just take my wall away to where noone can see anything. i mean , we see that he DOES see it and check it no matter what, I also know how I am, I hear about things on his facebook through people so the same thing has to be happening to him as well, sooooo do you think it would be more effective to take the facebook completely down, be mysterious, noone in a million years would think id take facebook down, ever! It would really strike my ex as strange….at the saem time, theres nothing better than knowing a mutual friend of ours has posted 15 pictures of me with a big group of DIFFERENT people, smiling, and looking gorgeous. I love when I know he sees a picture of me that has me lookin really good that night, since men are visual, it makes me feel like when he IS alone, that he looks at those pictures and thinks about me, and im smiling and pretty so i figure that would make him miss me more….

    or does being able to see these photos mean that he is getting his “fix” of me, and through seeing these photos, he kind of gets an idea of what ive been doing, resulting in him not having missed me or not having the need to reach out and ask what ive been doing….

    WHICH ONE IS BETTER SCOTT?? Thanks so much, this is probably one of my biggest questions about no contact, i just cant tell which one strikes more curiosity and good feelings in my ex boyfriend.

  25. S. Williams says:

    Sailor H wrote:

    I love when I know he sees a picture of me that has me lookin really good that night, since men are visual, it makes me feel like when he IS alone, that he looks at those pictures and thinks about me, and im smiling and pretty so i figure that would make him miss me more….

    or does being able to see these photos mean that he is getting his “fix” of me, and through seeing these photos, he kind of gets an idea of what ive been doing, resulting in him not having missed me or not having the need to reach out and ask what ive been doing….

    Hi Sailor,

    If your ex sees pictures of you I don’t think that is giving him all the information about what is going on in your personal life.

    Now, if you post updates, or your friends post updates about your personal life…that’s different.

    If you didn’t post pictures and set your status to dating, then your ex would really start to wonder whats going on…are you moving on?

    Are you tired of chasing/waiting for him?

    You see all that begging and pleading you did in the beginning of the break up has boosted his ego to the point where he feels you are wrapped around his finger.

    This puts him in a comfortable place where he feels he can have his cake, and eat it too.

    The more cake you take away, the hungrier he gets…make sense?

    If your going to use FB to tease your ex it would be a good idea to say your dating, and stop posting pictures (your friends too)…this should cause a little stir, and flip his switch.

    You’re not doing anything wrong…you are just helping feelings he already has to come to the surface faster.

    After all…if he doesn’t have any feelings for you, why would he care if you’re dating, right?

    Stay Strong!

    S.W.

    P.S. I don’t know shit about using Facebook…just about how to flip your exes switch. I personally hardly ever go on those sites…big fucking waste time if you ask me. I don’t really care what others are doing, I spend my time on making my life better.

  26. nevagen says:

    i have just deleted his fone number ( although ino it off by heart :() his msn, n his facebook!! feels like i lost an arm at the moment, but also freeing!!

  27. S. Williams says:

    nevagen wrote:

    i have just deleted his fone number ( although ino it off by heart :( ) his msn, n his facebook!!

    Great Job NV! :thumbup:

    nevagen wrote:

    feels like i lost an arm at the moment

    Think of it as losing an arm that had it’s hand around your throat. :wink:

    Stay Strong! :rambo:

    S.W.

  28. Mark says:

    Well I have deleted her from my phone and from facebook. I still find myself looking at some our our mutual friends and looking for updates but I am hoping with time that will become less and less.

  29. S. Williams says:

    Mark wrote:

    Well I have deleted her from my phone and from facebook. I still find myself looking at some our our mutual friends and looking for updates but I am hoping with time that will become less and less.

    Great Job Mark! :thumbup:

    Now just find other things to occupy yourself with when you feel like spying on your friends for info on your ex, OK?

    Stay Strong! :rambo:

    S.W.

  30. Iya says:

    Hi,
    I was devastated since we broke up, it was last year ago. I change my cp# but months goes by he deleted me in his skype account and I was panicked at that time so I called him but I dropped that call. After that, I PM him in his fb wishing him all the best in his family, relationship, career and everything. I also include in that message that I sincerely wish it coz that are also my wishes fir my self. With matching God bless and take care with a smile. After 10 min. He replied that he pray that it also happen to me. Take care and he also said we both knew that I am nice and smart person. Till here…
    I really cried whe I read that but I was confused till now what is the meaning of his last word ” TILL HERE….”
    what do you think is the meaning?
    After that he deleted me in his fb and tasing me in his shout outs like he finally found the really one, of course that girl answer his shout out. He also shout out that he ” I miss her so much!” I don’t know who is that person? Double meaning and very confusing. So I decided to delete my fb so I control myself to spy on him and do the important things in my life. I am now continuing my MBA but most of the te I can’t control myself to open my net and wondering what he is doing right now and that girl. Please give me ab advice what sholud I do. I really want to control my life.

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