Break Up FAQ’s
A List Of Frequently Asked Questions About Break Ups
1. My ex just broke up with me, what do I do?
A. Go read my Free Basic Step by Step Plan to Get Your Ex Back
B. Stay calm, and do not panic, do not try to contact him/her for at least 30 days, that means text messages, emails, and phone calls. If they contact you, just be polite, and tell them you need some space, and time to think, and you will be in-touch when you’re ready, after that ignore all their contact attempts that are personal. If you share a child, or business together, then keep your conversation strictly about that, and those subjects only, nothing personal…Understand?
C. Read all my articles in the “No Contact Rule” section (especially this article) to better understand the concept behind using no contact. Also read all the comments on my Blog, there are a lot of good questions from people like you, and my responses to their questions.
D. If you haven’t already join my Free Newsletter, and get weekly advice, and tips on How to get your ex back delivered directly to your email in-box.
E. Go watch all the videos in the Breakup Advice section of my Blog.
F. Do not listen to what friends, family, and co-workers have to say about the no contact rule, because it does work. Just take a look at the many Real Life Break up Success Stories from people like you, who have used The No Contact Rule correctly.
G. The previous 6 tips will get you off to a great start, if you follow them. Of course if you want the best chance to get your ex back, pick up The Magic Of Making Up System.
2. I didn’t just break up, how do I use no contact this long after a breakup?
Actually the only information that was meant to be used right after a break up (with in a week) was the letter that TW suggests. After that what do you do? I say you initiate NC anyways like I explain in our forum…it’s all in the plan I have laid out for you, come read it.
The whole purpose of NC in my mind is to make your ex decide what they want from you…friendship (which I think is just a stall tactic) or you back as their lover again. Everyone wants to believe that staying friends with their ex will help get them back, when in fact it traps you…why? Why would your ex make a decision one way or the other if they can have both their new partner and you…right? But you hang on because you don’t want to lose them, but this only works against you.
The bottom line is you have to let them go, in order to win them back…you can’t hang on and hope for the best…understand? That seems to be a common human trait that we all share and need to overcome in order to get control of our current situation and make progress. I think the same reason people didn’t see the break up coming, and took action early to prevent that breakup is the same reason they are failing to get their ex back…they are not paying attention…what do you think?
“This addition to my FAQ section was inspired by a readers suggestion – Thank You Mary”
3. Is it too late for me to get my ex back?
No, it is never too late to attempt to get your ex back (unless they just got married). Before you ask me this question on my Blog let me answer it here, no matter what your situation is you have a 50/50 chance to get them back. Just in some cases where you have been broken up longer, and made a lot of mistakes, it will take a bit longer, but you’re willing to deal with that, right? Probably the biggest reason you have not been able to get your ex back yet, is because you haven’t been using a step by step plan. If you follow the right plan, with proper coaching, you can win your ex back, for good. Even if your ex is dating, the game is NOT over…understand?
4. Won’t using No Contact only make my ex more angry with me, and drive them away?
That is a myth, and if you believe in myths you’re in for a big surprise. The No Contact Rule when used correctly will have your ex dying to come back in 30 days or less. They will even start trying to contact you before you’re ready…it works that well.
5. Will this plan work for long distance relationships?
Yes, I have seen many people solve their relationship problems, and win back their ex using The Magic Of Making Up System. What is very critical in “any” situation, is time. The faster you start doing things correctly, the better your chances are of getting your ex back.
6. What if I “mess up” and break no contact…do I still have a chance?
Nope! (just kidding) Everyone screws up at first, all you have to do is start over again. After all how can we learn, if not from our mistakes, Right? The important thing is to not “beat yourself up”, and get back on the program…OK?
7. What if my ex is dating? How can I possibly win back my ex now?
You can still get your ex back even if they’re dating someone else. How? By using and following a step by step plan designed to get them back. A lot of times these “new” relationships are only “rebound” relationships designed to make them feel better about themselves, while punishing you for making them mad/sad. But there is always a chance that these rebounds can turn into something more. My advice, stop waiting around for that to happen, and start taking some action…Today!
8. Damn! I not only broke NC, but I slept with my ex. Now, the next day he/she says it was a mistake. Did I blow this whole plan for good? I feel so stupid, and I just want to give up.
You’re not alone my friend, I have heard of this situation over and over again. A lot of times your ex just wants to make sure they still have you under control. You see while using no contact you were gaining the control over them, and they wanted to get it back, and they did…didn’t they? Of course you can’t rule out that you were both horny, or drunk, or both (like in most cases). But once again, just pick yourself up, and get back on course. And next time…listen to me and don’t try to rush through no contact…OK?
9. I already own the Magic Of Making Up, or another similar book…will you still coach me?
Yes I will…
If the book you are working with is not the Magic of Making up, then you will need to send me a copy, so I can read it, and help you…OK?
If you have already bought the book the Magic of Making up from someone else, and you would like to get my Free Coaching/Support go FAQ #1.A follow the free plan, and join our forum we are changing lives in there everyday.
You Do Not Have To Buy From Me To Get My Help – Ever!
I just want you to have a step by step plan that I can help you follow. Without a good step by step plan to follow we would be wasting our time. I am willing to help you if you are willing to help yourself, and get a plan, and follow my advice…OK? Let’s Do It! I will teach you how to drive, but you need to provide the car.
10. I Am Having Trouble Keeping My Emotions Under Control During This Stressful Time, What Can I Do About It?
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This is a work in progress, and I would love to have your input.
If you have a “general” question that isn’t listed here, please email me your question, and I will add it to this FAQ page…OK?
~I know that “love hurts” but with my help you will get strong enough to kick love’s ass~
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