Frequently Asked Questions About Breakups
1. My ex just broke up with me, what do I do?
A. Go subscribe to the Free Breakup Survival Plan Newsletter.
After that, go read my article, entitled: How to Survive a Breakup.
B. Stay calm, and do not panic.
The emails I will send you as a newsletter subscriber, will walk you through, your first 30 days of breakup survival.
If your ex tries to make contact, do not reply, or answer the phone.
You will only make things worse, believe me.
Instead, send them the recommended no contact message, as outlined in the free breakup survival plan.
If you share a child, or business together, this is also covered, in the FBSP.
Also read all the comments on my Blog, there are a lot of good questions from people like you, and my responses to their questions.
D. If you haven’t already, sign up for the Free Breakup Survival Plan Newsletter, and get daily advice and tips on How to Use The No Contact Rule, delivered directly to your email inbox.
E. Go watch all the videos in the Breakup Help Videos section of my Blog.
F. Do not listen to what friends, family, and co-workers have to say about the no contact rule, because it does work.
Just take a look at the many Real Life Breakup Success Stories from people like you, who have used The No Contact Rule correctly.
G. The previous 6 tips will get you off to a great start, if you follow them.
Of course, if you want the best chance to get your ex back, (once you have evolved past the breakup) take a look at this unique system.
2. I didn’t just break up, how do I use no contact this long after a breakup?
Actually the only information that was meant to be used right after a breakup (with in a week) was the letter that TW suggests.
After that what do you do?
I say you initiate NC anyways like I explain in our forum…it’s all in the breakup survival plan.
The whole purpose of NC in my mind is to make your ex decide what they want from you…friendship (which I think is just a stall tactic) or you back as their lover again.
Everyone wants to believe that staying friends with their ex will help get them back, when in fact it traps you…why?
Why would your ex make a decision one way or the other if they can have both their new partner and you…right?
But you hang on because you don’t want to lose them, but this only works against you.
The bottom line is you have to let them go, in order to win them back…you can’t hang on and hope for the best…understand?
That seems to be a common human trait that we all share and need to overcome in order to get control of our current situation and make progress.
I think the same reason people didn’t see the break up coming, and took action early to prevent that breakup is the same reason they are failing to get their ex back.
They are not paying attention…what do you think?
3. Is it too late for me to get my ex back?
No, it is never too late to attempt to get your ex back (unless they just got married).
Before you ask me this question on my Blog let me answer it here, no matter what your situation is you have a 50/50 chance to get them back.
Just in some cases where you have been broken up longer, and made a lot of mistakes, it will take a bit longer, but you’re willing to deal with that, right?
Probably the biggest reason you have not been able to get your ex back yet, is because you haven’t allowed yourself to let go of the old failed relationship.
If you follow the right plan, with proper coaching, you can survive your breakup.
4. Won’t using No Contact only make my ex more angry with me, and drive them away?
That is a myth, and if you believe in myths you’re in for a big surprise.
The No Contact Rule, when used correctly, will allow you to take back control of your situation.
You will no longer feel “helpless”.
Your ex will wonder why you’re not chasing them, and they may even start trying to contact you before you’re ready to reconnect…it works that well.
5. Will this plan work for long distance relationships?
Yes, I have seen many forum members (who were in a LDR) evolve past the failed relationship, and survive their breakup.
What is very critical in “any” situation, is time.
The faster you start doing things correctly, the faster you will be happy, again.
6. What if I “mess up” and break no contact…do I still have a chance?
Nope! (just kidding) 🙂
Everyone screws up at first, all you have to do is start over again, which means re-sending the exact NC message you originally sent (no changes).
After all, how can we learn, if not from our mistakes, Right?
The important thing is to not “beat yourself up”.
Don’t worry, this is all covered in the free breakup survival plan.
7. What if my ex is dating? How can I possibly win back my ex now?
You shouldn’t be focusing on what your ex is doing, they are free to do whatever they please.
What you should be focusing on, is letting go of your ex, and your old failed relationship.
Besides, a lot of times these “new” relationships are only “rebound” relationships designed to make them feel better about themselves while punishing you for making them mad/sad.
My advice is to stop waiting around for your ex to come back, and start using the free breakup survival plan.
8. Damn! I not only broke NC, but I slept with my ex. Now, the next day he/she says it was a mistake.
Did I blow this whole plan for good? I feel so stupid, and I just want to give up.
You’re not alone my friend, I have heard of this situation over and over, again.
A lot of times your ex just wants to make sure they still have you under control.
You see while using no contact you were gaining the control over them, and they wanted to get it back, and they did…didn’t they?
Of course you can’t rule out that you were both horny, or drunk, or both (like in most cases).
But once again, just pick yourself up, and get back on course, which means re-sending the exact NC message you originally sent (no changes).
And, next time…listen to me and don’t try to rush through no contact…OK?
9. I already own the Magic Of Making Up, or another similar book…will you still coach me?
Yes I will…
If the book you are working with is not the Magic of Making up, then you will need to send me a copy, so I can read it, and help you…OK?
If you have already bought the book the Magic of Making up, and you would like to get my Free Coaching/Support.
Go to FAQ #1.A, and subscribe to the free breakup survival plan, and join our forum, we are changing lives in there everyday.
You Do Not Have To Buy From Me To Get My Help – Ever!
I just want you to have a step by step plan that I can help you follow.
Without a good step by step plan to follow we would be wasting our time.
I am willing to help you if you are willing to help yourself, and get a plan, and follow my advice…OK?
Let’s Do It!
I will teach you how to drive, but you need to provide the car.
10. I Am Having Trouble Keeping My Emotions Under Control During This Stressful Time – What Can I Do About It?
You are welcome to join our free break up support forum, How to Kick Loves Ass.
Make sure you subscribe to the Free Breakup Survival Plan, first.
The 3rd email you receive, (3 days after you subscribe) will walk you through the whole process.
This will ensure you get approved, the first time, you register.
Too many people rush to join, and get rejected, why?
They were not ready to join.
That is why I created the 30-day email program, I will walk you through everything you need to know, and do.
This will ensure your success, using the FBSP.
This is a work in progress, and I would love to have your input.
If you have a “general” question that isn’t listed here, please email me your question, and I will add it to this FAQ page…OK?
Who Am I and Why Should You Listen to Me?
My name is S. Williams, and I have been helping people since 2008, to cope with breakup pain, and, get their lives back.
I even have an “About” section, that I recommend you read.
I realize the address, of my website, is: How to Get Your Ex Back Fast, but, I “really” teach people, how to get their lives back, not just their ex’s.
If you’re interested in working with me, (and our forum members) to get your life back, join my free newsletter, for access to the free breakup survival plan, and, start getting your life back, today.
The answers you need, to start your personal evolution, are waiting for you, don’t hesitate another minute…come, and get them.
Once, you get your life back, everything else will just start to fall into place…I promise.
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