NC was the best thing I could have ever done even though it was hard at first. Staying strong!!!

Great Job Annie! :thumbup:

That’s the way to kick loves ass >–> :kickbutt:

Stay Strong! :rambo:

S.W.

So… My ex and I still live together, I moved out as soon as he said he didn’t love me anymore.

OK, this part doesn’t make any sense, how can you move out, ad yet still live together?

Sara wrote:

I know I should not get jealous with him, but how should I react to somebody else flirting with me without making him move on?

I love this statement, why do people think they can make someone who dumped them move on?

Hello? They dumped you, that means they want to move on, I don’t think you can “make them” at this point.

The best thing you can do is to stop worrying about bullshit like that, and follow the free plan on my Blog (link at the top).

If you were “truly” loving yourself you wouldn’t be worried about your ex anymore.

You need to start your personal evolution, and start to think about working somewhere else.

If you’re really serious about getting your life/ex back again, you will do whatever it takes (with-in reason) to make it happen…I know I would, and have.

This is exactly why it is a BAD IDEA to have a work relationship…remember that next time, OK?

Take Care,

S.W.

Also, I initiated my own NC rule but one night I couldn’t get keys to my friend’s place that I was staying at and had to come back home. We hit it off like fire, it was really nice hanging out with him again but after awhile he grew hot and cold. His interest faded and now he claims he never felt anything then. I don’t believe that for a minute though.

He still acts like he cares a lot, in a variety of ways that confuses and annoys myself and most of the people that we work with.

So I sent out your message, unfortunately had to add stuff like “i would appreciate it if you did not contact me during this time unless it’s about house matters.” He replied with, “Ok, just do whatever it is you need to do.” This just happened about 5 minutes ago.

Since we’ve broken up, I’ve started to work on loving myself again. I realised that I changed quite a bit during the course of our relationship. I’m trying to get back to the old me.

I bet you’re asking, what’s the point of your rant eh? Well, what do you think about what I’m doing? Do you think I should maintain cordial relations at work, I don’t want to be his friend but don’t want to alienate myself or him from the rest of our co-workers. Further, because we work at a bar, people are constantly flirting with us. I know I should not get jealous with him, but how should I react to somebody else flirting with me without making him move on?

I dont know what to say if I called. I dont think he would even answer.

There is a letter you could try sending to him.

It is called the second chance letter and it is in your copy of “Mind Magic” that came as a bonus with your book The Magic of Making Up.

Read about that, and see if that would be an option before you move on, OK?

There should be a check box below the comment box you can check to sign up for a free gravatar, and then you can change the picture to whatever you want, OK?

Actually that feature doesn’t seem to be working anymore.

But in my side bar on (the right) in the middle I added a link to allow you to change your current picture if you like.

But I know he just got out of his divorce in June. I figured this was to soon for him. But I gave it a try anyway.

Call him, and set up another date, and do not push too hard for more than what you have…let it develop for a while, OK?

Sandy wrote:

Also how do I add my picture to this blog? I dont like the angry face

There should be a check box below the comment box you can check to sign up for a free gravatar, and then you can change the picture to whatever you want, OK?