Flip This Mystical Switch in 5 Minutes to Win Back Your Ex

What if there was a “magic” switch you could flip and pull your ex back towards you again, would you use it? If I told you it would only take 5 minutes to do, would you wait? Don’t sit there thinking that it’s impossible until you give it try…OK? Why wouldn’t you spend just 5 minutes to win back your ex?

Reach Out And Flip It

How are you going to flip your ex boyfriends/girlfriends switch? Simple, you will send a carefully worded message…that’s it. Do not call them and tell them over the phone, either hand write it and mail it, or text/email it to them, simple enough? What will you write to win back your ex? Well it is a short direct message meant to start your no contact portion of a plan to get your ex back.

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How To Flip That Switch

Just use this simple little message to help you start the evolution “to win my ex back.”

Hi,

I agree with you about the decision to break up, I really believe it was the best thing for both of us. I have some big decisions to make and I need some time to think them over. I would really appreciate it if you didn’t contact me during this time. I will be in touch when I am ready.

(your first name)

Go ahead and try it today, the faster you use this message after a break up the better, but don’t worry it will work no matter how long it has been…OK? Do not change any words unless you broke up with your ex. In that case the first sentence should read “I agree with my decision to break up” now don’t let doubt and fear keep you from getting your ex back. Take this first step to winning back your ex and let the evolution begin.

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  1. Annie2010 wrote:

    NC was the best thing I could have ever done even though it was hard at first. Staying strong!!!

    Great Job Annie! :thumbup:

    That’s the way to kick loves ass >–> :kickbutt:

    Stay Strong! :rambo:

    S.W.

  2. Hello Mr. Williams. It’s been 2 months of NC and I think things are going great…for me anyway. My ex is trying to be a real player with every girl he sees. He texted me this past week and asked me if I ever thought about him. I waited awhile and texted him back and said I some times think about the “old” you. I have no idea who you are now and why would ask me that. He then said he missed me and every time he looks at me it reminds him of “us.” I told him there is no “us”, you broke up with me and this is what you wanted. Summer is coming soon and you won’t have to look at me ever again. (We have 4 classes together.) Anyway, he looked like he was going to cry. We have not spoken since but he stares at me constantly. Even my friends have noticed him starring at me. I am going out with friends, dating a little and working on myself. I feel so much better and happier than I have in a long time. I’m not sure what will happen with me and my ex, and I’m still not sure I even want him back anymore. NC was the best thing I could have ever done even though it was hard at first. Staying strong!!!

  3. Sara wrote:

    So… My ex and I still live together, I moved out as soon as he said he didn’t love me anymore.

    OK, this part doesn’t make any sense, how can you move out, ad yet still live together? 🙄

    Sara wrote:

    I know I should not get jealous with him, but how should I react to somebody else flirting with me without making him move on?

    I love this statement, why do people think they can make someone who dumped them move on?

    Hello? They dumped you, that means they want to move on, I don’t think you can “make them” at this point.

    The best thing you can do is to stop worrying about bullshit like that, and follow the free plan on my Blog (link at the top).

    If you were “truly” loving yourself you wouldn’t be worried about your ex anymore.

    You need to start your personal evolution, and start to think about working somewhere else.

    If you’re really serious about getting your life/ex back again, you will do whatever it takes (with-in reason) to make it happen…I know I would, and have.

    This is exactly why it is a BAD IDEA to have a work relationship…remember that next time, OK?

    Take Care,

    S.W.

  4. So… My ex and I still live together, I moved out as soon as he said he didn’t love me anymore. The problem with this NC rule is that we work together and are normally in close range at all times. My manager has been kind enough to keep us in separate areas but we’re always bound to meet.

    Also, I initiated my own NC rule but one night I couldn’t get keys to my friend’s place that I was staying at and had to come back home. We hit it off like fire, it was really nice hanging out with him again but after awhile he grew hot and cold. His interest faded and now he claims he never felt anything then. I don’t believe that for a minute though.

    He still acts like he cares a lot, in a variety of ways that confuses and annoys myself and most of the people that we work with.

    So I sent out your message, unfortunately had to add stuff like “i would appreciate it if you did not contact me during this time unless it’s about house matters.” He replied with, “Ok, just do whatever it is you need to do.” This just happened about 5 minutes ago.

    Since we’ve broken up, I’ve started to work on loving myself again. I realised that I changed quite a bit during the course of our relationship. I’m trying to get back to the old me.

    I bet you’re asking, what’s the point of your rant eh? Well, what do you think about what I’m doing? Do you think I should maintain cordial relations at work, I don’t want to be his friend but don’t want to alienate myself or him from the rest of our co-workers. Further, because we work at a bar, people are constantly flirting with us. I know I should not get jealous with him, but how should I react to somebody else flirting with me without making him move on?

  5. Sandy wrote:

    I dont know what to say if I called. I dont think he would even answer.

    There is a letter you could try sending to him.

    It is called the second chance letter and it is in your copy of “Mind Magic” that came as a bonus with your book The Magic of Making Up.

    Read about that, and see if that would be an option before you move on, OK?

  6. S. Williams wrote:

    There should be a check box below the comment box you can check to sign up for a free gravatar, and then you can change the picture to whatever you want, OK?

    Actually that feature doesn’t seem to be working anymore.

    But in my side bar on (the right) in the middle I added a link to allow you to change your current picture if you like.

  7. I am really embarrass because of my immature actions. Plus I just told him yesturday that I realize I was trying to make something happen when there wasnt anything in the begining. I guess I just have to move on, because I screwed this one up. I expected to much from him which he probley could not handle in his life right now. He told me that before, he doesnt like to be yelled at but I didnt listen. I listen to my best friend, who does not like him at all. I realize he didnt call me because he probley got busy with his marathon. I made a big deal out of it. I realize some men just dont call all the time. I feel so stupid..But I dont want to apologize, plead, and beg. I did that with my ex and I was absoultly pathic. I dont know what to say if I called. I dont think he would even answer. Then I would feel worst. So I am just damn if I do and damn if I dont. I think I answered my own questions. Just let it go for now? I hate being responsible. thanks

  8. Sandy wrote:

    But I know he just got out of his divorce in June. I figured this was to soon for him. But I gave it a try anyway.

    Call him, and set up another date, and do not push too hard for more than what you have…let it develop for a while, OK?

    Sandy wrote:

    Also how do I add my picture to this blog? I dont like the angry face

    There should be a check box below the comment box you can check to sign up for a free gravatar, and then you can change the picture to whatever you want, OK?

  9. I have a question, I just can’t seem to stop thinking about the guy I met. I feel we had a connection. We had one date, but it was fantastic. We had been talking for 3 months before the first date. After the first date we still were talking. But after I asked him about where this was going Are we ever going to be more than a casual phone call. This is when he started avoiding me. So I got mad and told him to go to hell and that I was the best thing he ever had. I realize I was thinking with my emotions and not my head. So after a week, I sent him the NC letter via text message. I wrote, I realize that I over reacted. I also realize I agree with you and tried to make something that just wasnt there. Take care and peace. I know I didnt exactly write the NC letter exactly to what you said. But I want your opinion about what I said.. Do you think I did more damage than good. I just can’t get him off my mind. I still feel that we can make each other really happy. But I know he just got out of his divorce in June. I figured this was to soon for him. But I gave it a try anyway. Is he just in a rebound phase of his life. Also how do I add my picture to this blog? I dont like the angry face. 🙂

  10. ok ty 🙂

  11. Rob wrote:

    I should not respond to this right?

    Really no need to right?

    Like I said before, there is way more to this plan than NC…it is more of a personal evolution.

  12. Hey I got a response from her after I sent the letter a good sign?

    here is what she said:

    “I got your letter. I’m glad you understand now. I also appreciate you letting me be alone for a while. I really need it. Anyway the reason I’m writing you is to let you know that I’m going to cancel the credit card we used for the paypal account”

    I should not respond to this right?

  13. Rob wrote:

    hey I sent a similar letter from the magic of making up course. does it matter?

    No, but this no contact message seems to work better in most cases.

    The message is only the beginning…have you been following the rest of the plan?

    I have a free plan on my Blog that supports the book MOMU…feel free to start following it, OK?

  14. hey I sent a similar letter from the magic of making up course. does it matter?

  15. cara wrote:

    What if you’ve already contacted this ex too many times in the past with similar letters? What should I try now?

    Similar letters don’t work do they?

    That is why it is important to use this letter word for word, and after that you need to follow a plan just like the free one we offer in our forum.

    If you want my help to get your ex back follow this link:

    http://forum.howtogetyourexbackfast.com/topic/read-this-first

    Make sure you read the rules and guidelines before you join, I strictly enforce them.

    Don’t forget to sign up for my free News Letter for free videos, tips and advice on How to Get Your Ex Back.

    Just click on the link under the little red heart in the upper right hand corner of my Blog.

  16. What if you’ve already contacted this ex too many times in the past with similar letters? What should I try now?

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