Does Your Ex Boyfriend Want You Back? – Use The No Contact Rule to Get Your Ex Back

Does your ex boyfriend want you back? Learn how to use the no contact rule to get your ex back. I can show you a great way to use the no contact rule to discover his true feelings…even if he is dating someone else. OK…Stop scratching your head, and start reading how to use the no contact rule to see if your ex boyfriend wants you back.

Getting Your Ex Back – Become Mysterious

Being mysterious is a great way of getting your ex boyfriend back. When you use the no contact rule correctly you will gain his attention, and eventually get your ex boy friend back. He was use to you being there to answer all his texts, emails, and calls, but now you are not. Your ex boyfriend is going to wonder why, and that will put you foremost in his mind again. You see “out of sight” does not always equal “out of mind.”

If you were worried that your ex boyfriend would forget about you and move on…you were wrong. Does your ex boyfriend want you back? I bet he is starting to wonder the same thing himself; “Do I want my ex girlfriend back?” If you are thinking; “Will this work to get my ex boyfriend back?” I have to tell you that you will win back your ex boyfriend a lot faster by becoming mysterious, as opposed to being easy to read. The no contact rule is a great little tool, and when used correctly it will help you get your ex boyfriend back even if he has another girlfriend now.

Do Not Let Your Fear Of Using No Contact Stop You From Getting Your Ex Back

Don’t Be Afraid To Use The No Contact Rule To Win Back Your Ex

You should not be afraid of the no contact rule because it works. It has helped many people get their ex boyfriend/girlfriend back. Will your ex boyfriend want you back if you stop communicating? I do not see why this would do your relationship with him any harm. If you follow a good plan, and use the no contact rule correctly not only will you get your ex boyfriend back, but he will have a higher level of respect for you as well.

Getting your ex boyfriend back doesn’t have to be hard or scary. The rumors running around the “help me get my ex back” forums out there are started by people who didn’t understand the no contact rule, or didn’t follow a good plan. How do you expect to get anywhere without a plan, or a map? Do you just get in your car and blindly drive around until you eventually end up where you wanted to go? NO! So why would you attempt to get your ex boyfriend back using the no contact rule without a plan? Trying to do anything including using the no contact rule without a plan is truly scary.

Winning Back Your Ex

Why would anyone do this? I mean, do you really think by randomly getting advice from friends, family, and co-workers, that you are going to succeed? You need a plan, a plan that works, and you need it now. If you have any comments or questions for me, please write them in the comment box below, and I will answer them ASAP! How can I help you use the no contact rule to get your ex boyfriend back? What are you willing to do to win back your ex?

Who Am I and Why Should You Listen to Me?

My name is S. Williams, and I have been helping people for more than 3 years to overcome break up pain, and get their lives back. I even have an “About” section that I recommend you read. I know the name of my site is: How to Get Your Ex Back Fast, but I teach people how to get their lives back, not their ex’s.

If you’re interested in working with me (and our forum members) to get your life back, join my free newsletter for access to the free plan to get your ex back fast, and start getting your life back today. The answers you need to start your personal evolution are waiting for you, don’t hesitate another minute…come and get them.

Once you get your life back, everything else will just start to fall into place…I promise. If you have any comments or questions please write them in the comment box below.

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  1. I’m just curious if this is worth the effort so I’m asking for some direction. I dated this guy for only a month in a half, we have known each other a year and never gave into his advances in wanting to date him before, but I thought his persistance made me think twice, so I gave in. So after a month in a half after spening alot of time together which he was always hitting me up for my free time to spend with him and asking me to stay the night all the time, I did. But one Sunday after staying the night he seemed distant, so I went home, normally he would say ” come back over later”. But he said nothing, so when I got home he called me two hours later just to talk, again he seemed distant, so I asked is “everything okay”? Then I said “do you want me to come over tonight”, he replied “no” “maybe Tuesday”. I already felt something wasn’t right, so I asked him “are you tired of me?” he replied ” a little”. So I asked “are you burnt out of spending time with me”? He said “everyone gets burnt out of something”. So I told him I have to get off the phone, but I called hime back later to break it off, Im like screw this, I don’t deserve this ‘doll on the shelf bs”. Anyway, I took him off my FB page and never heard nothing till the next day at 6am, he wanted to tell me how much he misses my hugs and kisses and cares so much for me, I told him I would miss him but whats done is done, then I said I got to go, he sent me a text later that afternoon and I never replied, I havent heard from him since and it’s been 5 days and he removed me from his instant messenger. So this sums up all my bs dating issues, I really have feelings for this guy and am a very strong woman, I can do the non- contact forever but I really do miss the guy. from what I wrote does this sound like it could work or is dating a guy for a month in a half even worth the the thoughtof trying to have back in my life? I will go on no mater what, I know I deserve to be adored.

    1. Hi,

      Your question is about whether the free plan will work to get your ex back, even after a short relationship, right?

      If you’re only worried about getting your ex boyfriend back, you’re in the wrong place.

      I help people survive a break up and get their lives back, not get their ex boyfriend back, and I explain why in the “About” section on my Blog.

      Go read the free plan to get your ex back and follow ALL the steps to heal your broken heart, evolve past the breakup, and get your life back again.

      Thank you for writing.

      Take Care,

      S.W.

      IMPORTANT – If you found this information helpful or useful, please give me a “+1” rating by using the colored “+1 button” at the top or bottom of the above article. I’d really appreciate it.

  2. Hi!
    When my boyfriend broke up with me he kept saying he didnt want to lose me as a friend. He kept saying he just had too much going on and he needed time to figure out things. Of course I argued with him and told him that if he ended things with me I could not be just his friend. He was in contact with me within a couple of days. He got mad when I missed his call but we had talked just chit chat. He was out of town at the time but I had to by his house for something. While I was there I left a note. ( this was all before I ever found your website). In the note I did state that I needed time to myself to think things out. I did not want to speak much and the friendship things would not work but if he wanted to work things out he knew where I was. I also said I would not wait forever and would be moving on. I was giving myself a month to get my life together. Only a few days went by after he got the letter and he texted me. I responded but kept it short. He texted again a few days later. A Few days later I made the msitake of texting him and got an immediate responce but it was short. So I quit texting him. In the past month I only contacted him that once. I havent talked to him in two weekds. I mainly said the whole month thing so I could try to move on myself if he didnt come back and to show him I wasnt gonna wait forever.. Well its been a month almost. Did I do the right thing? I feel like I screwed up. But alls I know is that I am not im not contacting him again..

    1. Hi,

      Obviously your method of NC is not working very well, otherwise you wouldn’t be posting on my Blog, right?

      If you want to learn how to use the no contact rule correctly keep reading, and be prepared to send the recommended NC message.

      I help people survive a break up and get their lives back, not get their ex boyfriend back, and I explain why in the “About” section on my Blog.

      Go read the free plan to get your ex back and follow ALL the steps to heal your broken heart, evolve past the breakup, and get your life back again.

      Thank you for writing.

      Take Care,

      S.W.

  3. tasha says:

    Why did my boyfriend replied LOL when i sent him the NC message?

    Hi,

    He was only trying to play it off.

    You kicked his ass if you used the NC message outlined in the free plan.

    tasha says:

    And Please how do i avoid his parents during this time because they can’t seems to do anything without my help like erands and stuffs! Should i say no to them when the call for my help? My boyfriend is still in school in the states and his parents live about 15minutes from my house. Am looking for a polite way of saying NO to them whenever the call me for any kind of help!

    If you like to help them, keep helping them, but once your ex comes home, let him take over.

    If you don’t want to help them anymore, just be polite, and tell them you are too busy or something. I am sure they will catch the drift once they realize their son broke up with you.

    As far as buying the book, just go through clickbank it is the only way to purchase MOMU. There is a link in the free plan for buying the book if you’re interested.

    Thank you for writing.

    Take Care,

    S.W.

  4. HI SCOT, Boyfriend nd i have been dating exclusively 4 15months nd we started LDR may last year bcus he left 4 his masters which i visited him once met his parents nd their were so proud of him for chosing me, His Mum nd Dad r fond of me, i run erands 4 dem, his Dad actually me One day Dat i was his HERO bcus He was satisfied wit d erand he sent me, his Mum said she wil support me No Matter What, Well 4 d past few months afta my visitation things changed,he never calls, our only means of communication was chatting thru Blackberry msger which i complained abt, We both promise 2 make our LDR work but i realize twas one sided. Which i complained, cried nd he promised 2 change but O’course tins got worse. He knws i can’t leave him so he wud misbehave nd i wud still take him back regardless, this went on 4 abt 4months. The thing is wheneva i ignore him it works, he sucks up to me but i jst can’t ignore him 4 long.. Am jst so fond of him nd keep putting up with his shit… Last month i told him that i was done trying nd that our relationship has drained me emotionally so i was setting him free 2 enjoy his freedom nd thanked him for making it easy which he replied nd said so u were lookin 4 a way 2 leave me? That same day i told my brother abt this, he said he needed 2 speak wit my boyfriend nd asked for his mobile number, my brother called him 2 ask what was goin on with us. He told my brother that their are sumtins he sees in me nd he doesn’t think i will eva change. Well when my brother told me abt dis, i called my boyfriend 2 be specific abt dos tins… Here was what he said to me: You’re Very Rude, Not To Me But In General And I Think You Can Control Me And Pple Don’t Change From tings Like Dis Easily, I Don’t Want To Play Around, But The Thing Is You’re A Cheerful Giver Which Is A Good Trait But Their Are Sometins Dat Shud Not Jst Go. I Don’t Knw Where This Is Goin But Let Jst Watch How Tins Wud Turn Out, Long Distance Relationship Neva Always work Out The Way We Plan Them, I Thot I Cud Handle It. Rite Now I Don’t know What I Want…… So i asked if he wants to breakup nd he Said NO but maybe we shud both take a break nd kept sayin we’re not breakin up…. I asked how long he wants 2 be apart? He said he can’t answer dat… Then i said Well have actually been thinkin of us takin a break even b4 now,he said Oh Really? I C, nd i replied nd said i wish u all the best, he was upset abt that.. Told him gudnite nd he replied i wud talk 2 u 2mauro… All dis discussion was on blackberry msger, he contacted me 2days later say Hey! U there but read n dint reply, i kept lvin my life and goin 4 parties wit frnds, i change my profile pics all the time so he sees it, He tried contactin 3times but wud read n ignore 4 2weeks, I eventually Checked on him sayin hello nd askin how school was, he replied nd said school is fine and i hope ure ok thou? I said am fine tanx… Dat was how long d conversation lasted, Dat same day i decieded 2 send the no contact message, I sent it to him, Guess what? He read it nd replied LOL but i ignored him… He’s stil on my blackberry contacts, i stopped updating my status and profile pictures, Its been 2weeks of no contact with him nd i knw 4 sure he’s waiting 4 me 2 talk 2 him first bcus he’s very sure of me,dat i love him so much 2 move on..he’s goin 2 be disappoint dis time bcus I’m so ready dis time, WAS SENDING THE NO CONTACT MESSAGE THE RIGHT THING TO DO? Am Sori dat d message its a bit long nd i hope u wud find time 2 read it : D

    1. Hi,

      First things first, I don’t even attempt to read text language.

      If you want my full attention, write to me in complete sentences, and in English.

      Second, why use something you do not believe in? If you weren’t sure about the no contact rule for your situation, why did you send the NC message?

      Third, why ask if it was the right thing to do after you already did it?

      That is what I call a redundant question.

      If you want to evolve past the break up, and get your life back, while revealing your ex boyfriends true feelings for you, NC is the way to go.

      Go read the free plan here on my Blog, and follow ALL the steps.

      Thank you for writing.

      Take Care,

      S.W.

      1. Hi,
        Ok, Sorry about the text abbrevation… Thought you would be able to read it, My Question still is. Why did my boyfriend replied LOL when i sent him the NC message? And Please how do i avoid his parents during this time because they can’t seems to do anything without my help like erands and stuffs! Should i say no to them when the call for my help? My boyfriend is still in school in the states and his parents live about 15minutes from my house. Am looking for a polite way of saying NO to them whenever the call me for any kind of help! Plus i really do want to buy THE MAGIC OF MAKING UP. Am in Africa

  5. Hi,
    My childhood friend of 12 years dated me for a year and half Relationship was great but i think it was a rebound.Now he’s back with his ex whom he dated back in college. Well i love him so much but i also believe each one is free to love whoever we choose to. He says we are still friends and we are still in contact. I call him often when i need something and he calls once in a while.When i call him he answers and anytime i ask him to call me he does call but usually he calls back when he is not busy. I was wondering if the no contact rule will help

    1. leila says:

      I was wondering if the no contact rule will help

      Hi,

      I am thinking you and your ex have a different idea about the definition of “great”, because if he felt the same way as you, he wouldn’t have left, right?

      The no contact rule works great to help you evolve past the break up and get your life back again, which is much better than waiting around for your ex boyfriend to come back.

      Go read the free plan here on my Blog, and follow ALL the steps.

      Thank you for writing.

      Take Care,

      S.W.

  6. My boyfriend asked me for time after 6 moths of dating he is going through a divorce, he said he loved me but he just needed time, of course I went into panic mode and did everything I was not suppose to do, so he said it was over and that was it. I started the no contact tactic and in a week from saying he didn’t want anything to do with me he added me back to facebook and send me a message “hope all is well” I responded that everything was great and that I hope he was doing well. He asked for details and so I just replied that I was moving on with life. This happened yesterday and he has not written today, I have not called or written either, what does this mean?

    1. Mary says:

      I started the no contact tactic and in a week from saying he didn’t want anything to do with me he added me back to facebook and send me a message “hope all is well” I responded that everything was great and that I hope he was doing well.

      Hi,

      I don’t know what “no contact tactic” you are using, but NC doesn’t work if you break it after a week.

      I help people get their lives back, not their ex’s, if you are confused, go read the “About” section on my Blog.

      If you are interested in learning how to correctly use NC to evolve past the break up and get your life back, go read the free plan here on my Blog, and follow ALL the steps.

      Thank you for writing.

      Take Care,

      S.W.

  7. Dear S.W.,

    I’ve read every website, forum, and e-book regarding how to get your ex back but I need special help. My boyfriend of 3 years broke up with me 2 weeks ago saying he didn’t think he was 100% in it anymore and it wasn’t fair to me; that he needs time on his own. He said he loves me and he’ll miss me but I need to understand (he was also crying during all of this). I had sensed things were weird with us for a couple of days but didn’t think it would result in a break up. When he told me all this, I did not cry or beg, I simply said that I wish we could work it out together but I understand. That weekend he went out with some mutual friends and told them that he was sorry he broke up with me and how strong I was and that he loves me. He called me 2 days later seeing how I was doing and he said he loves me but I asked him not to say that anymore since it’s hard to hear that he loves me but doesn’t want to be with me. He also said that he sometimes thinks he made a mistake but then he knows this is something he has to do. We then didn’t speak all week and he called me the next Sunday (exactly a week after the first phone call) and left a message since I didn’t pick up. I didn’t call back and he texted me the next day. We briefly chatted and he asked me to call him when I got home from work. I called him later that night and we talked for about 5-10 minutes just about our weeks and work and he asked me how I was doing. I told him good (I was very casual and calm on the phone) and he said the same. He also said he doesn’t know how to handle this (like when to call or when to give me space) and I said I didn’t know either. Again we didn’t speak all week but he called me yesterday for Christmas and left a message. I didn’t call back, instead I texted him saying thank you and we quickly chatted about how we had nice days with family. At the end of the convo he said call me if you ever want to talk. I said alright, sounds good. I haven’t initiated any contact since he broke up with me. I want another chance at our relationship and will continue no contact (this time not even answering when he calls or texts). I’m afraid he will just think I’m being bitter and then if he realizes he made a mistake he won’t contact me thinking that I wouldn’t answer anyway. I’m confused and don’t know what my next few steps should be. Help please!

    1. Hi,

      If you want to have another chance with your ex you must get your life back first.

      If you want to get your life back, you need to use no contact correctly.

      You are not using no contact correctly at this time, you are just ignoring your ex.

      Go read the free plan on my Blog, and follow ALL the steps.

      Take Care,

      S.W.

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