Does My Ex Miss Me? – How to Make Your Ex Miss You Even More

 

I bet, after the breakup, you’re still, probably, wondering, “does my ex, miss me?”

Am I right?

If so…

I can show you, how to make your ex, miss you, and, how to win them back, if they already do, so….keep reading, OK?

 


 

Does My Ex Miss Me?

 

If your ex has tried to contact you since the breakup, even if it looks like it was for something else…it’s because they miss you.

If you didn’t have to contact someone, would you?

I wouldn’t, I would get someone else to do it.

If they contact you about some shirt, or picture they left behind…it’s just an excuse, believe me, they’re trying to get your attention.

If they have asked you to remain friends with them, they really miss you, and they are having doubts about the breakup.

This is one of the oldest tricks in the book.

Even if they are dating someone else, they still have you on the brain, and they can not shake it.

If they are contacting you, remain cool, and I will explain what you need to do next.

 


 

How to Make Your Ex Miss You Even More

 

If your ex-boyfriend or girlfriend is trying to keep in touch with you, after you broke up…they miss you.

Now, if you want to make them miss you, even more, you need to use the no contact rule.

First, you send them an effective no contact message, as outlined in a good plan, to help you, get your ex back.

If you use the right NC message, this will flip an emotional switch in your exes mind, and, they will start to miss you, even more.

Good news, huh?

The no contact rule is too detailed, to explain in this article, so, I wrote a detailed NC article, to explain it all, here: The Real Truth About NC

After you read that article, I would suggest finding a good free plan to follow, for guidance, and support.

It will VERY hard, to stick with no contact, without some solid guidance, and support.

Now, that you have answered the question; “does my ex miss me?”

What’s next?

Well, after, you make your ex miss you, here’s how to get your ex back.

 


 

Who Am I and Why Should You Listen to Me?

 
My name is S. Williams, and I have been helping people since 2008, to overcome breakup pain, and, get their lives back.

I even have an “About” section, that I recommend you read.

I realize the address, of my site, is: How to Get Your Ex Back Fast, but, I “really” teach people, how to get their lives back, not just their ex’s.

If you’re interested in working with me, (and our forum members) to get your life back, join my free newsletter, for access to the free breakup survival plan, and, start getting your life back, today.

The answers you need, to start your personal evolution, are waiting for you, don’t hesitate another minute…come, and get them.

Once, you get your life back, everything else will just start to fall into place…I promise.

If you have any comments or questions, please write them, in the comment box, below.

If this article was useful, or helpful, to you in any way, please show your appreciation, by giving me a “+1″, using the buttons, below this article.

Until next time,

S. Williams

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Updated: May 13, 2017 — 1:44 pm

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  1. hi there my ex was doing all of those things in the begining. then we talked in person for an hour both cried alot and she said she wanted to think on everything that was said and wanted to see me the next day. i thought great we are going to try again so i walked in full of confidence and joy only to have my heart torn out and stomt on. so i emeatitly said i cant talk to you and that i wouldnt be talking to her until she was ready to talk again.and i have not herd from her now for 35 days. i havent spooken with her or any of her frainds or family about her at all.

    only today i asked her brother what time hockey was and if hockey was still on. and that is it. nothing about her at all.

    however when i got my heart torn out again… of course i cried begged for another chance told her a bunch of things to guilt her without relizing i was doing it. until later of course. so i am wondering did i go no contact soon enough or did i make my last final mistake? and when do you think she may call me. im on day 35 right now. i think she is going threw what i have read to be a honeymoon fase were it just feels good to be single and ive read it somtimes only last about 60 days of no contact then they start to miss being loved?

    it also feels like she is on a grass is greener else were phase but i really dont no.

    does anyone no how long i should wait to contact her. i was thinking of sending a letter in the mail or by e mial just saying.

    that i exept the break up and that she is strong and i have always admired her for that and that i think she needs space and if she wants to talk to give me a call.

    im wondering if that is a good idea and when i should send it?

    any infromation and advice would be awsome.

    1. Hi,

      I recommend that you read, and follow all the steps in the free plan.

      You need to send the right kind of NC message, and that is included in the free plan along with free support – if you decide to join our forum.

      I help people get over a break up and get their lives back, not get their ex back, and I explain why in the “About” section on my Blog.

      Go read the free plan to get your ex back and follow ALL the steps to get over a broken heart, evolve past the breakup, and get your life back again.

      Thank you for writing.

      Take Care,

      S.W.

      IMPORTANT – If you found this information helpful or useful, please give me a “+1” rating by using the colored “+1 button” at the bottom of the above article. I’d really appreciate it.

  2. Hi, my name is Tim, and I been hanging out with my Ex-wife for a couple of months now, and everything is going great.. But now I’m getting feelings for her again!!!!!!!!!!!! And the other day I got a text from her saying, “we need to slow down spending so much time together”… What does that really mean?

    1. Hi Tim,

      It sounds like you are moving too fast, and you need to slow down.

      I don’t know what you mean by ‘hanging out’, but if you are having sex with her she might only be interested in FWB, and not a real relationship.

      If this is the case, and you are wanting more, you may need to see what her true feelings for you are by using the no contact rule as outlined in the free plan.

      Go read the free plan to get your ex back and follow ALL the steps to reveal your ex wife’s true feelings for you.

      Thank you for writing.

      Take Care,

      S.W.

      IMPORTANT – If you found this information helpful or useful, please give me a “+1” rating by using the colored “+1 button” at the top or bottom of the above article. I’d really appreciate it.

  3. Hi Scott,
    My GF broke up with me a month back on my birthday. She was acting a little distant for 2 months prior to that (we have been on long distance for the last 3 months), but eventually said, she wanted a break. Like all BF’s even I begged and pleaded on tat day.. but then got hold of myself the next day. Then was in minimum communication for one week, where she initiated all contact.

    Then I started reading up on web, and came across a lot of no contact suggestions. So I started no contact, for 2 weeks, and then she buzzed me yesterday, and I talked nicely to her, and immediately after the convo ended, I sent her the NC message like how you suggested in ur free plan. The thing is I had already started my self evolution for the past month, and I am already feeling a lot better… :), and a few girls asked me out as well.. but I dint want to commit to rebound so early, as I am completely not over my ex.. So my question is do I continue to ignore all her future attempts of getting in touch with me? Not sure how girls psychology works, may be she will just give up 😛 Please advice.. would love to hear from the guru 😀

    1. Hi,

      I am not a guru.

      You can read about that on my “About” page.

      This isn’t based on women’s psychology either.

      This is about using the no contact rule to reveal your ex girlfriend’s true intentions, and to help you get your life back.

      Actually by getting your life back you will reveal your ex’s true feelings for you.

      If her true feelings aren’t what you expected…so what?

      You’re happy and whole again, and free to move on with the right woman…make sense?

      I help people survive a break up and get their lives back, not get their ex girlfriend back, and I explain why in the “About” section on my Blog.

      Go read the free plan to get your ex back and follow ALL the steps to heal your broken heart, evolve past the breakup, and get your life back again.

      Thank you for writing.

      Take Care,

      S.W.

      IMPORTANT – If you found this information helpful or useful, please give me a “+1” rating by using the colored “+1 button” at the top or bottom of the above article. I’d really appreciate it.

  4. hello,
    my long time partner and i got seperated.he told me that i should go to my own way at the same time he told me he would call me.
    i waited for 4 months for him to call me. he did not.
    so i wrote him a letter and told him he can go to hell.but i am so happy that he left me because i was so miserable with him.
    it has been 7 months now,i have not heard from him.
    for me NC rule never worked!

    Do I have any chance? We are married but he still has not applied for a divorce? I dont understand what he is doing?

    1. Hi,

      You didn’t use NC correctly, that is why it “never worked” for you.

      If you use the no contact rule correctly you can reveal your ex husband’s true feelings for you.

      I help people survive a break up and get their lives back, not get their ex lover back, and I explain why in the “About” section on my Blog.

      Go read the free plan to get your ex back and follow ALL the steps to heal your broken heart, evolve past the breakup, and get your life back again.

      Thank you for writing.

      Take Care,

      S.W.

      1. Hi,

        Thank you for your reply. Is your book called Magic of make up?

        1. Hi,

          I didn’t write any book, I created the free plan to get your ex back.

          One of the books I recommend to use in conjunction with the free plan is called The Magic of Making up.

          But you do not need to buy a book to use the free plan to get your ex back.

          Thank you for writing.

          Take Care,

          S.W.

          1. Hi,
            Thanks for your reply.I wanted to read it but I couldn’t find that free plan.
            Magic of making up, I purchased that book 2 years ago.I didn’t like it and the next day I wanted to get my money back. Because the person who wrote the book said money back guarantee, I trusted.
            When I tried to contact him via email he gave, It was impossible to reach him. I sent him many many emails. No respond!
            Anyway, I learned not to trust anyone on the net.They lie.
            Kind Regards
            Sarah

            1. Hi,

              Your comment makes no sense at all.

              First of all, the link to the free plan is all over my Blog.

              If you couldn’t find it, you weren’t looking very hard.

              Second, the refunds are handled by the merchant account Clickbank.

              The creator of the book The Magic of Making up has no say over who does, and doesn’t get a refund, it is part of the contract they have with the merchant account.

              All the information you needed to contact your merchant for a refund (with-in 60 days) was on your receipt.

              Although I myself have been ripped off a few times buying online, buying on the internet is easy and safe.

              In the future only do business with reputable businesses (like Clickbank), and read the purchase agreement on your receipt to understand your rights.

              Just make sure you do your research before buying ANYTHING online or offline.

              Thank you for writing.

              Take Care,

              S.W.

  5. i left my ex for thinking that he doesn’t love me..but i am 80% sure that he loves me..after the breakup he didnt contact me in any way..he was angry that i left him and he said i wan us to stay frnds..after 1week he missed call me…i rplied with a missed call..i dno what to do:/ i really miss him and i cant get him out of mind :s i think that he wants to make me miss him so that i will be begging him to come back to me…what so i doo..does he love me???how do i make him miss me and want me back?? 🙁

    1. Hi,

      You can use the no contact rule to reveal your ex boyfriend’s true feelings for you.

      I help people survive a break up and get their lives back, not get their ex boy-friend back, and I explain why in the “About” section on my Blog.

      The fastest way to get him back is to get your life back first.

      Go read the free plan to get your ex back and follow ALL the steps to heal your broken heart, evolve past the breakup, and get your life back again.

      Thank you for writing.

      Take Care,

      S.W.

  6. I have a question. What about NC and a long distance relationship? We were madly in love Friday (we’ve been together 2 years when we reconnected on FB after many, many years) and then we were talking and I said something to him that was more truth than I think he wanted to hear (not in a yelling way, but a calm manner. It was something that I hadn’t said to him because I didn’t want to hurt him and “rock the boat’ as it were, but something he said to me made it come out. We ended the phone conversation with him saying calmly: “I’m going to get off the phone now and think about what you said.” Which for him usually means I am pissed off and hurt and I am now going to banish you for a few weeks. We also live 500 miles apart now. Anyway, I sent him an email saying that I loved him and that he could call me anytime that I would leave my phone on that’s next to the bed. Again none of what I said was in an accusatory form — but it had to be said. It basically was that he hasn’t stepped up to the plate in terms of us seeing each other — he is going through a very bad time in his life right now — no money; no place of his own; no job — and I can honestly say that I may have been enabling him with too much support. Frankly, right now I’m all he has or had. Anyway, on Saturday I was at work and just when he knew I was on Facebook he changed his Relationship Status from Engaged to Single. Ah, love in the 21st century. It NEVER stops being high school. I’m too embarassed to let you know our ages because it is such immature behaviour — of which we have BOTH been guilty. So I called him right away but he didnt’ answer. He quicky sent me and email telling me to not call him or write him because he would not answer. So, of course, I wrote back asking him to please talk to me. But — well, you know. So, I found your blog and I sent him the NC email. The only thing I changed was at the end I said “I will respect your desire for me not to contact you as I hope you will respect mine. Maybe in time we can contact each other and preserve the friendship.” Again, my question is: do I do anything different because we are long distance and he can’t “see” my “strength?”

    Thank you in advance and I will only say that we are both way old enough to know better than to behave like this — but I guess when you get hurt (like he was) we all revert to 8 year olds.

    1. Hi,

      I really don’t care about your age, why?

      Because it doesn’t matter.

      It also doesn’t matter that this is a LDR, why?

      Because he doesn’t need to see “your strength” because this is about getting your life back not your ex boyfriend.

      What matters is that you changed the NC message.

      Good job on fucking that up BTW.

      You need to leave the NC as it is written for maximum effect.

      If you use the no contact rule properly (as outlined in the free plan), you will reveal your ex lover’s true feelings for you, and evolve past the breakup.

      I help people survive a break up and get their lives back, not get their ex boyfriend back, and I explain why in the “About” section on my Blog.

      Go read the free plan to get your ex back and follow ALL the steps to heal your broken heart, evolve past the breakup, and get your life back again.

      Thank you for writing.

      Take Care,

      S.W.

      PS – You should be old enough to read and follow directions too.

  7. hye scott..

    I have sent the nc yesterday….it’s the 1st day and it’s been really hard…my ex call me juz now but i didn’t answer…and then he text me saying thank you for everythng you had done for me…i still didn’t reply….i know i can do it and if i really want a chance to be with him i need 2 follow your rules….thanx a lot scott…=D

  8. Afer 3 months my boy friend broke up with by sending an email. He is 30 (Lawyer) and I’m 25(Management student). He faced many problem before our break up and went to his cave for 2 weeks. at first he argued with me over a very stupid thing and then no news from him. I contacted him 2 times and last week, my short phone call led to the break up. I called him, I cried, I argued, I begged to give us another chance but then I realized he doesnt respond positively.After our phone call, I started thinking and decided to sent him a NC mail. I didn’t think about of first searching on google and get some advices so I wrote the mail and sent him the mail saying that I agree with the break up and that I need time.Also that he didn’t satify me emotioally and I coudn’t give him peace due to the sam reasona nd etc. it was deinitly not an effective message but I got a respond that evening. His tone of message was different. No more harsh words ( that we can be together because we are not connected emotionally and …. –> still not logical reason), but instead he wrote me what a reat pperson I am and that due to my achievements he always felt jealous of me for being so caring and active and that he is sure that I am every guy’s dream girl.but then he mentioned that his reason to break up was the lack of my experience in relationship and his lack of being patient to guide me through this path and also his own personal issue concerning work and etc. (still not a logical answe) however I decided to keep my silence and work on myself. I didn’t reply to the mail. two days later he sent another email saying that: ” I am forwarding you a document which I found on my laptop) I didn’t need the document, at first i got angry but then I kept cool and decided to stay on my decision and never gave him a respond.

    it’s been a week now. Deep inside I know he will contact me as I know he realy likes me. I know during his time in the cave I became so needy and sensetive but it’s time for me to change and become the same girl he fell for.
    But my only issue is that he is a very proud guy,also emotional but it’s very difficult to change his mind. So I don’t know if he would give us a chance or not? I want him to come back himself and start doubting about his decision. At the same time, i am busy with work, got a promotion this week, also making myself busy with painting and writing short stories in order to get back to who I was before.

    I didn’t took the exact step of writing the letter but do you think I still got a chance?

    1. Hi,

      As I have already explained to you in a reply to one of your emails, the NC message you wrote will not be as effective as the one outlined in the free plan.

      You replied and told me; “I can’t write a new mail because so far I have receved some reactions from him but I am just not willing to break my NC rules by writing him another note.”

      If that is your final decision, I can not help you.

      I help people use the no contact rule to evolve past their break up, and reveal their ex’s true feelings.

      I help people survive a break up and get their lives back, not get their ex boyfriend back, and I explain why in the “About” section on my Blog.

      The fastest way to get your man back is to get your life back first.

      Go read the free plan to get your ex back and follow ALL the steps to heal your broken heart, evolve past the breakup, and get your life back again.

      Thank you for writing.

      Take Care,

      S.W.

  9. Hi

    so here goes my story..!! split up with partner after 3 years, out of the blue 3 weeks ago, he was in a mood that day and came out with he doesnt feel the same and hasnt for a while. i handled it very well saying he should have told me at the time,i calmly got my belongings and left his house.
    he txtd that evening asking to meet and talk, a txt i never received until he txtd the following morning saying i take it thats a no to talk..? he then started yet another rant, again i replied calmly.anyways i hadnt done the usual girl begging crying phoning txting, i left well alone til a week later he appeared at my house with some money he borrowed, he again wanted to tell me to my face it was over, again i acted with dignity and politeness. Anyways he has txtd me every friday in regards to his belongings i replied politly and answered his question, that is all. i got sick of his texts so ended up leaving all his belongings with a joint friend then text him saying hi thats all your belongings left at …..house if you could do the same with mine. i do agree with you that breaking up has been best for us both, take care. he replied instantly saying, he thinks it was too, we had some great times together, enjoy my weekend away and to take care x.
    that was on monday ….this is now thurs, anyways the friend in question is saying my ex has been in touch with her in regards to my belongings which is what i wanted, i just wondered how i can go about sending the proper NC message? he will think im weird for sending two since i had already sent my version before coming across your site. i have also purchased MOMU and get him back forever.

    i must admit i have looked over peoples NC contact diarys and success stories and they fill me with much hope not just about getting my a relationship with an ex/anybody BUT the relationship i want and deserve.

    thanking you in advance

    1. Hi,

      Your version of the NC message is going to be very ineffective. I highly recommend you send the version outlined in the free plan.

      If you’re really serious about getting your life back, you won’t worry about “looking silly”, right?

      I help people survive a break up and get their lives back, not get their ex boyfriend back, and I explain why in the “About” section on my Blog.

      Go read the free plan to get your ex back and follow ALL the steps to heal your broken heart, evolve past the breakup, and get your life back again.

      The reason you feel so much “hope” after reading the other members no contact diaries and break up success stories is because their courage inspired you, now you have a chance to inspire other people as well.

      Thank you for writing.

      Take Care,

      S.W.

      1. thank you for the speedy response!!

        your totally right. my NC message gave him the cowards way out, leaving things on good terms allowing him to come and go, the odd txt to check up on me…….WELL NO MORE!!

        as soon as i get back from the gym this evening im gonna read through everything (im in the uk so its 5PM here). the gym always leaves me on a high and that will give me the balls to send the proper NC message!!

        thank you again and i will register for your forum tonite!!:)

        1. gemzy says:

          my NC message gave him the cowards way out, leaving things on good terms allowing him to come and go, the odd txt to check up on me…….WELL NO MORE!!

          Hi,

          The recommended NC message leaves things on neutral terms (neither bad nor good), and it draws a clear line in the sand about how you stand on the break up.

          The NC message is not meant to trick, scare, or hurt your ex, just to get the ball rolling on “both” of your personal evolutions.

          Please make sure you are ready to use our forum correctly before joining and posting, I have been banning a lot of people lately, and I am getting sick of it.

          Make sure you read and fully understand the forum guidelines.

          Thank you for writing.

          Take Care,

          S.W.

  10. Hi!

    I haven’t called or heard anything from my ex in a month.

    He broke up with me for a mix of reasons.
    The relationship would have had a difficult future.

    I don’t want to break the NC with a NC message, can i just continue with not contacting him?

    I still have his things and he still have my things at his place.
    What i don’t understand is why he don’t contact me about his things, right after breaking up he asked if i needed my things etc.
    Seemed like he wanted to give them back, why didn’t he just give them to me there and then. (the breakup was over a couple of days, the first day he was just so confused)

    Thanks

    1. Hi,

      If you just stop contacting your ex boyfriend without sending the recommended NC message, you are not using the no contact rule correctly, and this whole process will take much, much longer.

      You can’t break NC if you never started it.

      Now about your/his stuff…

      Since the whole point of the free plan to get your ex back is to use the no contact rule to evolve past the break up and get your life back, what does this matter?

      Who fucking cares why he left his stuff at your place?

      Just box it up and give it to charity…problem solved.

      If he really cared about it he would have come for it a looong time ago, right?

      And if he is leaving it there to torture you, and keep you from moving on…fuck him, and give it away to charity.

      You kill two birds with one stone, you get rid of his shit, and you give to the needy.

      As far as your stuff.

      If he ever contacts you, tell him to give it to charity because that is what you did with his stuff.

      Life is much too abundant to sweat the small stuff.

      Thank you for writing.

      Take Care,

      S.W.

  11. Blanche, not to burst your bubble or anything but I have followed the plan completely without buying MoMU, so yeah.. I agree that some things could be written better, but if it is SO bad why don’t you just write one yourself?
    Jane

    1. Hi,

      Even though the free plan won’t win the Pulitzer prize…it works.

      The plan is simple, the hardest part is sticking to the plan, that takes courage.

      No matter how well formatted or written a plan is, it won’t give you the courage to see it through and deal with the truth.

      The truth is you can not make someone come back that doesn’t want to come back, this is the biggest stumbling block for “love sick” people.

      You first need to get over your love sickness (the break up) and get your life back.

      I supply a free forum for support but most (not all) people use it as a hiding place to go through the motions and do nothing to evolve…just hang out and pat each other on the back.

      Believe me if I thought it would make a difference I would spend the time to clean up the free plan a bit.

      But I have found that if a person is “really serious”, they will find the information they need, and it will work for them.

      The bottom line is that a plan only works when the person following it is really serious anyways.

      In my experience, the “serious people” will find the information they need, follow the plan, and succeed.

      Mission Accomplished!

      The people who are not “really serious” will just find a reason to quit and fail, no matter how well laid out the plan is they were trying to follow.

      So what’s the point of wasting my time tidying up the free plan to get your ex back?

      I might as well use my time to interact with people who need support, right?

      Answer emails, Blog posts, and moderate our forum.

      Thank you for writing.

      Take Care,

      S.W.

  12. Hi,

    The so-called free plan is formatted very poorly and hard to read on the site. Not only that, it is hard to find, which should be obvious given that every third question on here is about where/how to find it.

    Additionally, just say “it’s an ad for MOMU” rather than pretending it’s a plan.

    G’day

    1. Hi,

      Having a bad day, and needed someone to bitch at?

      I have been doing this for 3 years, answered thousands of comments on this blog, and thousands of posts on our forum, and I think you are the first person to complain about getting something for free…lol

      OK, maybe the second…I doesn’t matter because judging by the break up success stories on my Blog, and emails I receive daily you are in the infinitesimal minority who think I am trying to scam you.

      When in reality you are just pissed off because you have been dumped by your ex.

      Thanks for stopping by and taking it out on me…lol

      As far as the free plan to get your ex back being “poorly formatted” if you read the bottom of my Blog it says “This Blog Is Best Viewed Using The FireFox Browser”.

      I am willing to bet you are not using Firefox, probably a fucking phone or something.

      And you’re wrong again about what most of the comments on my Blog ask, 99% of them ask me if they still have a chance to get their ex back.

      I don’t help people get their ex back, I help them get their life back.

      Once again, thanks for stopping by to break my balls.

      With such a positive attitude one can only wonder why you got dumped.

      Thank you for writing.

      Take Care,

      S.W.

      P.S. – Someone should tell all those happy people who followed the free plan and succeeded that they were following a “pretend” plan.

  13. Wow…thank you for responding so quick and being so goddamned patient. What it must be like to read people blubbering their breakup stories day in and day out.

    Thank you again for being supportive.

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