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Making your ex miss you is your first step in how to “get my ex boyfriend back” again. “Well, does my ex miss me?” Don’t you think a better question would be how do I make “my ex boyfriend” miss me?
Step 1 – Make Your Ex Boyfriend Miss You
The easiest way to make your ex boyfriend miss you is to disappear from his radar. If you are constantly in his face asking about the break up, and when will you get back together again. He is not going to start to miss you, make sense? If you start to pull away from him he will notice, and wonder why. Now you have started to turn the tables, and you are back on his mind again…even if he is dating another woman.
Another way to get the ball rolling is to use the no contact rule, and send an effective NC message. A correctly written NC message will flip your ex boyfriend’s switch, and make him start to miss you even faster, sound good? It should, and if you don’t use a no contact message you will be setting yourself back, so don’t be afraid to send it. So, “does my ex miss me?” Well, if he doesn’t he soon will after you finish learning how to “get my ex boyfriend back.”
Step 2 – Reconnect With Your Boyfriend
Once you have been following a good plan using the no contact rule things will begin to evolve nicely. Your ex boyfriend will start coming around more, and you will take back more and more control…the right way. Getting your ex boyfriend back requires a good balance between pushing and pulling..what do I mean? You need to keep him interested enough without falling back into the friends with benefits zone.
You will become very good at this because during your NC period you would have been following a series of exercises designed to give you back your confidence, and self control. The needy, scared little girl he broke up with no longer exists. “Does my ex miss me?” I would say he not only misses you, but loves this new woman you have become. You personally and emotionally evolving is how to “get my ex boyfriend back”, and keep him for good.
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hello my name is joane a couple of weeks aho i brokeup wit my ex
out of anger and mixed emoyions. It was the biggest mistake I’ve
ever made i tried to work things out but he rejected saying hes not
ready for a relationship and meeds space. I finally agreed and gave Jim
space he recently text me for Christmas calling me sweety and in one
note he sayed sweet dreams which he only said when we were together.
i wanted to know does he still still love me? Then the other day i wrote
him an NC message he replies back “I guess the decision to splitup
was the best thing for us now. Even though it is extremely hard.” He also
asked if ive moved on or something? and Am i seeing someone now? To
me he sounds unsure of everything but i didnt reply back letting
him wonder. Is this a good sign? I also wanted to know how long should i keep the NC rule?
joane wrote:
Hi Joane,
It sounds like he is very unsure about his decision to break up.
What NC message did you send, was it the one recommended in the free plan?
Go read the free plan all the way through, and then start over from the beginning and follow every step.
If you already sent the recommended NC message (word for word) then skip that part, if you didn’t…send it ASAP.
NC is not about an amount of time, it is about an evolution, and each one takes as long as that person needs to evolve.
*Hint-The better you follow the plan without hesitation and mistakes…the faster you will evolve.
Take Care,
S.W.
My ex and I broke up near middle of Oct, nearly January now. Before i found your website, i unfortunately “begged”. But after some sense was knocked into me near November, I don’t contact him at all. He has begun talking to me, every so often. He even told a friend of mine that he somewhat misses me. But that’s all its gotten to. I show him that I’m happy without him, not depressed or angry. I don’t beg for him to come back. When I do talk to him, I show him that I’m happy and doing great.
I haven’t seen him since he broke up with me. I was supposed to see him through a friend, but plans were canceled.
Ques I am asking here, what else should I do? and should i send the message, “I’m okay with the break up blah blah” at all now?
If you can give me any other info/tips/help, that would be greatly appreciated.
Hi scott u mention that there has to be an equal pushing and pulling in order to keep a man that is were my biggest downfall is .is that to do with me insecurity to pull and cling to men if that’s the case do I need to go back an use those free tools in the plan becoz I need to correct this immediatly as its a big issue to me as I’ve done this with every man I’ve bein in a relationship with thannx
kel wrote:
Hi kel,
If you feel the NC message and the free plan is just “blah, blah, blah”, maybe you’re on the wrong website?
Maybe if you keep searching you can find an “easier” plan to follow.
I work with “ass kickers” not ass kissers…big difference, especially when it comes to succeeding.
Come back when you’re ready to kick some ass, OK?
Take Care,
S.W.
natalie10 wrote:
Hi natalie,
You will over come this, and learn how to do it in time.
This is not something you can read in a book and then repeat successfully…you have to feel it.
You must start your personal evolution correctly using NC, and then let yourself evolve for as long as it takes.
Otherwise you will be doomed to screwing up your relationships from now to until the day you die, understand?
This free plan, Blog, and forum is for the sole purpose of getting your life back again, and to learn how to handle yourself in a relationship.
It is not about just getting your ex back…there are steps that need to be taken before that will ever happen, take them first, and succeed…skip them and fail.
Invest the time now, and live a happier more fulfilled life afterwards.
Stay Strong!
S.W.
Hi Scott….
So, I’ve been trying to do the no contact thing (we broke up officially Dec 6). Anyway, he has been calling and texting on average once a week. I haven’t been answering the texts (especially because they usually come at 5 am, no idea why). Today he text me to ask can he come by to pick up the last of his belongings from my home. Of course I can’t deny him access to his things. I told him yes and to let me know when he is on the way. How do I handle this meeting to handoff his belongings?
@ S. Williams:
okay..
When I put the “blah blah” I wasn’t referring to the information, more the fact I didn’t feel like typing the rest of the message in the blog.
However, I did send the full NC message to him via text.
li li wrote:
Hi li li,
You handle it “professionally” make believe it is something you have to do for work, and you want to do it and get it over with as quickly as possible…make sense?
If you feel like it will be too much for you too handle, have someone else meet with him, or leave his stuff outside when you know he is coming.
You are NEVER trapped, you control each and every aspect of your life, and he can not make you do anything you don’t want to.
He will not die without his stuff or else he would have taken it with him when he decided to break up with you, right?
If you feel like he is going to try to pull some shit to get you to break NC…make alternate plans that will suit you…not him, OK?
Stay Strong!
S.W.
kel wrote:
Hi kel,
Great Job! (Thumbs High)
Now you have taken the first step, make sure you have read, and understand the whole free plan, and then follow each every step after the NC message.
Stay Strong!
S.W.
If you ever read some of the assholes comments I have had to deal with on my Blog, you would understand why I get right to the point when people seem doubtful.
yes, haha I saw some of them. But thank you for the advice.
Professionally, got it! Emotional control. I miss him and I want him back, but I won’t show him that.
li li wrote:
Go Kick His Ass li li!
Stay Strong!
Yes you r rite I do need this nc time I have found some very usefull tips on confidence with them self help tips I rushed through nc last time now I no why that was a mistake I wasn’t a single inch near ready the key is me first then the ex thanx scott I have the jist at last
Hi Scott :
Happy New Year !!
It has been three weeks of NC and I didn’t call my ex at all.
However, i found out he went out w/ his ex and to L.A w/ his female fds for Xmas. He seems so happy and enjoy his life w/o me.
We live close,and I see his car is not @ his house most of the time.I start feeling he may have a new gf already. Based on what he does during these three weeks, I really doubt he will miss me. How can he miss me when i know he is so happy with his life w/ his fds or even his ex ?
EX BF came to the house last night to get his things. Kept if very brief. I was polite. He didn’t even sit down. He asked how I was and how my trip home went. I asked him to take a look at the router to my computer that he’d set up previously because it wasn’t working. Long story short, he did and the problem was in the wall not the router. He was there for about 5 minutes total. I think i did ok, but I regret asking him to look at the router. Old habits. However, i didn’t get all misty and emotional. Didn’t talk about the relationship. I didn’t have verbal diarrhea, nor did I ask him lots of things about him. What do you think scott? i can’t tell if its working or if i am working against it.
Orangepekoooo wrote:
Hi OP,
First, 3 weeks isn’t shit…you just started NC so don’t get all jumpy, OK?
You didn’t “find out” shit…you are spying.
If you’re friends are feeding you this stuff it is 99% lies, tell them to mind their own fucking business.
Second, you are spying on your ex and making assumptions.
Assumptions you can not prove…so what’s the point?
Refresh my memory so I can find the step in the plan that tells you to spy on your ex and fill your head with a bunch of negative bullshit?
If you want to fail…continue doing what you’re doing.
You are on the right track.
If you want to succeed, stop acting like a baby, and start following the steps as outlined in the free plan…OK?
Stay Strong!
S.W.
li li wrote:
Hi li li,
I think that you’re on your way.
You handled everything well, now let NC do it’s work while you and your ex personally evolve past your old failed relationship.
Great Job li li! (Thumbs High)
Stay Strong!
S.W.
Hi scott u say that when u send ur recommended nc message to your ex its gives him a sucker punch what does that actually mean an if he is with another girl how can she sense I’m pulling him back thanx
@ natalie10:
These things are explained in the free plan, and in the many Blog posts about NC.
If you really want to learn quickly join our forum and interact with the other members instead of “hiding” on my Blog posting comments.
I’m scared that I have waited to long to send my NC message. He has pretty much cut me out now. He is annoyed with me and keeps telling me to get a hold of him for coffee then never following through with the plans. Im scared to send it because i fear people are right that i will get over him and find out that he isnt the one for me. I also fear that maybe at the end of it i will find out he is the one and he will still no longer have feelings for me. In my mind im almost certain that he has made up his mind and will not give into anything i plan to do to get him back. I wish I could read minds.
Anna wrote:
Hi Anna,
How do you like the prison you built for yourself?
That’s right…you built it all by yourself with your fears.
You will remain trapped in there until you get the “guts” to walk out of it by sending the recommended no contact message, and starting your personal evolution.
You can run, but you can’t hide from the truth…reveal it, face it, and then get on with your life.
Or you can hide like a fucking little baby sitting in a dark corner sucking on your thumb feeling sorry for yourself.
I work with “ass kickers” not ass kissers…OK?
Take Care,
S.W.
Hey Scott, its been nearly 2 weeks since i initiated nc. Im keeping up with it, even thought its hard. i like to think of it as a game. and if i cheat, i lose. lol, my competitiveness doesn’t really want that.
but my ques here is, should i delete my ex from facebook?
we don’t talk through it, but would it be better? so whatever i’m doing, he wont have the ability to see?
kel wrote:
Hi Kel,
I would recommend that you do that…it removes any temptation to peek at what he is doing too.
Stay Strong!
S.W.
Hey, sooo my boyfriend and I have been broken up for about a year now. We have been hanging out still, a lot..and its more than friends. I always talk to him about getting back together with him but he always says “he doesnt’ know what he wants” but when I do step away and not talk to him or just get out of town for a while-like go on vacations, or go visit my parents for like a week or two at a time, he always begs me to come back and says he wants to figure out everything. However when I get back to hanging out with him nothing ever happens. Its like he knows that he can “have his cake and eat it to”. I don’t want it to be like this but I do want to be with him. I just recently told him that we’re either going to be dating or nothing because its clear we can’t be just friends. I need some advice as to what to do now.
taylor wrote:
Hi Taylor,
You’re right on the money…now what are you willing to do about it?
You can follow the free plan at the top of my Blog, and take away his cake.
Your personal evolution will reveal the truth about his feelings, and yours too.
Take Care,
S.W.
its been 12 days since we broke off and 5 days since i started NC as per ur free plan by sending the NC msg and all.
even after all these he HASNT CHANGED HIS PASSWORDS to any of his accounts whereas i already have had access to all of those since we started dating 15 months back and hence he is aware.
even he had asked to be friends and said, “i like you so much but u see…”
however i declined with my NC.
what does all of these attitudes of his indicate??
he is a an honest man i know. we did not break up on an ugly spat. we both were calm.
Hi Scott,
I’ve just send my ex the NC (word for word). I’m ready to begin my evolution. I still haven’t been able to sign up for the forum yet. Can you advise what else I might be able to do so that I can log my progression?
Thanks for your help. You’re the best.
Hi Scott. My question is this… What’s the point in sending the NC letter when my ex has blocked every number I can call him from? He basiclly has given me the NC letter.
carol wrote:
Hi,
What’s the point?
What’s the point of asking for help, and not following all of the advice?
The point is…you are taking control of the situation now, and in order to do that you need to send the recommended NC message, word for word.
If you are not going to use every tool at your disposal to succeed…what’s the point?
Take Care,
S.W.
P.S. I have explained NC all over my Blog…go read, start with the free plan, OK?
Ok… I mailed him a NC letter.I also informed him he could cancel ALL the phone blocks since I would no longer be trying to contact him as well.
heyyyy hi SCOTT!!!
been 10 days since i commented here or interacted u via the blog.
and the 3rd week of my NC. YES!! i dont blv its been over 20 days since i last interacted with my ex. last i did was by sending him the NC msg recommended by u via sms, 21 days bak.
and he hadnt replied to it.
so we havnt contacted eachother after that. reminding u, we had a sober breakup with no pressing or pleading by me. i “accepted his decision ” as i love him.
and these 3 weeks now i have been following ur FREE PLAN thoroughly.
i am hanging out with pals, i goto the gym regularly, i am studying too for my MBA entrance exams, i am reading novels, watching movie.
i am living a normal life, but MINUS HIM.
its difficult but i am following as u said.
but in these 3 weeks, as i have disappeared from his radar, even he had completely disappeared from mine!!
is that normal??
i mean i am following the NC and keeping mah dignity but at the same time i realise that i still love him from ther core and i want him back!!
is his no curiusity and this total isolation from me normal Scott?
zenia wrote:
3 weeks is nothing, it takes a lot longer for no contact to work.
Someone just posted in our forum that they are getting married after getting back together.
It took her over 3 months to be successful, now she’s getting married.
This plan will reveal your ex’s true feelings, if he really loves you he will come back, if not, he won’t.
Just stick to the plan, it works.
The one thing I have learned is that nothing is “normal.”
Stay Strong!
S.W.
Hi! My name is Victoria and my ex broke up with me because he claims that he needs to get his relationship with his mother better. i like him so much and yes every time were at school i try to find out and hang out with him. i just want him back but i dont know how. Please Help me!!!
P.S
i DONT KNOW HOW TO WRITE A NC message!!!
Victoria wrote:
Hi Victoria,
No problem, go read the free plan (link at the top of my Blog), and it will take you step by step through the process.
Make sure you follow all the steps after you send the recommended NC message, OK?
Take Care,
S.W.
Hi, I use NC 5 days and my ex already text me. He is worry about me. He wants to know If I am Ok (becouse he has bad dream or what?).
When I will answer, will I break NC?
Can I write:
Im Ok. dont worry about me. Hope you are good as well.
?
Thank you
Marika wrote:
No, that would be breaking NC.
You’re ex is using sympathy to get you to break no contact…don’t be a fool!
Stay Strong!
S.W.
Thank you.
and one more quastion…
(probably I know the answer, just want to be sure)
If he will call me?
…do not pick it up?
Marika wrote:
How come there is ALWAYS one more question? ;)
That’s right, avoid contact with your ex, and go read the free plan on my Blog, it will explain no contact, and the rest of the plan in great detail.
The link is under “Pages” on the upper right hand side of my Blog.
Take Care,
S.W.
Hi Scott!!!
I pushed my fiance away with accusations of cheating…my insecurities from past relationships!!! I regret this terribly and now we are still living together as I have children enrolled in elem. schhol and finances do not allow me to move at the present time…he has said that he needs time to see that I can stop my jealous ways and we will live together as friends until schhol gets out and whatever happens happens….I want him back so bad!!! I never realized that I was losing him until it was too late!!! Any suggestions under these circumstances???
michelle wrote:
Hi,
I suggest you both go (together) for counseling, and try to work things out.
Take Care,
S.W.
hi Scott!my ex broke up with me over a month ago after 2years of being together.he broke up with me over the phone and the reason he broke up with me was because ‘his head wasn’t in the relationship anymore, and he wasnted to be on his own and concentrate on work.’ he moved up to london 10months ago for work and things had got harder between us as we didnt get to see one another much anymore-but when we were together we had the best time! the first week of us breaking up i txt him a few times asking to meet up and telling him how uch i loved him, but he just replyed saying ‘he didnt want to meet up and speak,and that he wasnt looking on getting back together-he was happy on his own’ i have not contacted him since then-and that was over three weeks ago.he has deleted all our photos of facebook and seems to be moving on.just wanted some advice…do you think he will want to speak in time?
Jo wrote:
Hi Jo,
I am not a psychic, but I do offer a free plan that will help you get your life back, and also reveal your ex’s true feelings.
If you’re interested the link is at the top of my Blog.
Take Care,
S.W.
hi SW:
since i owe him some $, is it OK to slip a handwritten NC letter along with it thru his mail slot (OR send it thru snail mail)
or does that look like i’m trying too hard? :D
besides everything else, i am an honest person who doesn’t think i am trying to rip him off. or should i wait for him to contact me for the $$?
thoughts?
BD
BabyDoll wrote:
You should email the recommended NC message to him ASAP.
When you have the money send it to him, don’t wait to pay him to start using the free plan, OK?
hey sw, i have a question. i have kept the no contact for 3 months now, i have not seen my ex nor talked to him.
however,there’s a pretty good chance i am going to see him today because of a mutual gathering i just found out we are both going to through a friend of his that decided to tell me?… if i bump into him at this, what should i do? just act somewhat friendly and polite, but pretend i dont care? and i cant back out, since its through my dancing school and his, a culture thing that both are needed to attend.
her0 wrote:
I have a question too.
Did you follow all the steps in the free plan 3 months ago, or did you just stop talking without sending the recommended NC message?
You see, there is a giant difference between the 2, and if you didn’t use NC correctly your results will not be the same.
Why don’t you read the free plan, the link is at the top of my Blog.
NC is a step by step process.
Take Care,
S.W.
yes, i did send the NC letter from this site in late december. he never replied. and i have never talked to him as i said before.
her0 wrote:
Why didn’t you follow the rest of the steps in the free plan, and join our forum?
You would have learned a lot more about how this whole process works.
There is more to it then just sending the message, it is a process, and you have to personally evolve to become ready for the reconnection process.
This is all laid out in the free plan, and in chapter 6 of the book MOMU.
Take Care,
S.W.
Ok…so my fiance’ told me 7 days ago that she “needed a break”. I kind of freaked out at first and when we talked later I told her that maybe I need to take this time to think about things too. Then ended with telling her that I hope she understands by taking this break she runs the risk of losing me forever. Since then
Tues-Her text-”can you talk” Me-maybe tomorrow
Thurs-text her to see how things are going. We ended up on the phone for 15 min talking about everyday stuff. No realationship stuff.
Fri-ME text (drunken state late at night) Are you up?
Saturday-She called me up and had a 5 min conversation about everyday stuff.
Today…I sent the NC letter. I have mixed feelings about it. Especially when the ex husband is constantly around for “the sake of the kids”.
I feel somewhat empowered but also nervous! What is my next step? Can this be salvageable?
Dave wrote:
Hi Dave,
I hope you sent it word for word…if so..Great Job Dave!
That is completely normal, just read the NC diaries in our forum.
If you changed the NC message re-send the original version outlined in the free plan.
Dave wrote:
You should!
You have just taken control of your break up situation, this is the only way to get the results you want.
Don’t worry about her ex husband, if you follow the plan correctly he won’t have a chance.
Stay Strong!
S.W.
He knows me really well and will think i am trying to manipulate him or sound very self important when i say: ‘big decisions’. also, I know it will sound pompous to say I will be in touch when I am ready.
please don’t get mad at me, i’m just sayin’!!!
BabyDoll wrote:
Hi,
It’s time to get a fucking life.
BabyDoll wrote:
“He will” this, and “He knows” that, fuck this guy.
Why does everything revolve around him, what about what you want?
Don’t you have a life of your own?
Probably not, and that is what the free plan, and your personal evolution will give back to you, with some hard work, and a lot of courage.
Just send the recommended NC message, or throw in the towel, and give up on getting your life back…for a long time.
I just approved your forum membership, make sure you complete those first 3 steps or you won’t be an “active” member for long.
Stay Strong!
S.W.