Does My Ex Boyfriend Want Me Back? – 3 Revealing Signs

 
Follow A Good Plan To Find Out If Your Ex Boyfriend Wants You Back
 


 
You can read your ex boyfriends mind and see if he does want you back, just look for these 3 revealing signs.

If your ex wanted you back, it is not difficult to see, because body language, is very hard to hide.

If you know what to look for, you will see right through his words and into his mind.

So, lets get started, so you can find out; “Does my ex boyfriend want me back or not?”
 


 

Over Reacting

 
Does your ex boyfriend tend to over react?

Does he say things like; “We will never get back together!”

If so, he probably still has strong feelings for you.

When someone over emphasizes something, they usually mean the exact opposite of what they are over emphasizing.

People think they can hide their true feelings with anger…this is not true.

So you ask if my ex yells at me; “Does my ex boyfriend want me back?”

The answer is “yes” he still has strong feelings for you that he is desperately trying to hide.
 


 

What A Coincidence

 
Here is another revealing sign.

Do you find yourself running into your ex boyfriend a lot?

Does he always seem to be showing up at the places he knows you hang out at?

Then he pretends not to see you until he catches you looking at him, and then he approaches like you called him over or something.

A-ha!

He is following you around and that means he is still very much attached to you.

If you keep tripping over your ex boyfriend like he was your shadow, I would say he still has strong feelings for you.

So,”Does my ex boyfriend want me back?”

I do, I really do think he wants his ex girlfriend back, but, he is too stubborn, to admit it.
 


 

Just Thought I Would…

 
Drop you a line to see how you have been?

OK, this is another revealing sign that your ex boyfriend wants you back.

Do you know what those little dropped lines really are?

They are hooks…each little note is a way to keep you hooked on thinking about him.

Oh, how thoughtful that my ex boyfriend worries about me even though we are broken up.

It is not just being thoughtful your ex boy friend is keeping his memory foremost in your mind, so you will not start dating someone else while he is trying to figure out what to do.

He does not want you to exchange him for someone else.

If you are experiencing these 3 revealing signs (or something close to them) then your ex is still interested.

It’s time to act.

Does your ex boyfriend want you back?

Well, I would say, the best way to find that out, for sure, is to follow a good plan for reconnection.

Go find yourself, a good plan, and start working on, getting back together, with your ex boyfriend.
 


 

Winning Your Ex Back

 
What?

You want to know if your ex boyfriend wants you back.

And yet, you still do not have a plan?

It is hard to get to your destination without a good map.

If you have any comments or questions, please write them below in the comment box, and I will answer them ASAP!

Does your ex boyfriend want you back?

What can I do to help you find out?

What are you willing to do if he does want you back?
 


 

Who Am I and Why Should You Listen to Me?

 
My name is S. Williams, and I have been helping people since 2008, to overcome breakup pain, and, get their lives back.

I even have an “About” section, that I recommend you read.

I realize the address, of my site, is: How to Get Your Ex Back Fast, but, I “really” teach people, how to get their lives back, not just their ex’s.

If you’re interested in working with me, (and our forum members) to get your life back, join my free newsletter, for access to the free breakup survival plan, and, start getting your life back, today.

The answers you need, to start your personal evolution, are waiting for you, don’t hesitate another minute…come, and get them.

Once, you get your life back, everything else will just start to fall into place…I promise.

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  1. Hello

    My ex showed up at my door after 16 yr absence with all his crap. My 24 yr old son let him in while I slept. this is his dad. Iask this man why are you here ? He gets mad fussing and cussing stating he’s here for his son. Yet this man chases me around the house for sex. No thank you I’m not falling for that one. Yet he just broke up with an ex of 20 yrs. And when I ask him his plans for him and I he says I Don’t want you or her ? funny but why are you here and chasing me for sex ? he won’t say. Only get’s mad fussing about me and the ex. what is his deal ?

    1. Hi,

      His deal is that he wants a place to crash, and some easy sex.

      Why are you letting him stay?

      Kick his ass to the curb.

      Take Care,

      S.W.

  2. I live with my ex we have a daughter together I broke up with him he had an ex who was seeing another guy he broke up with her I move back in he’s single tells me hell be single for awhile but I’m wanting him back but does he want me back I bring it up he yells when I get to talk with him about it we had a 14 year relationship but never married

    1. Hi Gretchen,

      I don’t quite understand your situation.

      Do you live together as roommates, co-parenting your daughter, or, did you move back in with him expecting to get back together?

      If he obviously doesn’t want to get back together, you should either, think about moving out, or, stop asking him about getting back together, and, just stick to co-parenting your daughter.

      Take Care,

      S.W.

  3. My ex boyfriend just lost his son in an automobile accident. We have not been talking since we broke up 7-8 months ago. I called him to apologize for his son’s death and keep in touch regarding the funeral. The day after the accident, I called to see if he wanted to meet up to talk. My younger son n he was playing pool n out of no where he gave me a kiss on the lips…not expected. He’s dating someone..he came to my house to see the dog we shared twice. The last time he was here he smacked me in my butt like he used to…playfully, he then gets ready to leave n gives me a quick kiss on the lips again. What am I reading? Friendship or more?? SO CONFUSED

    1. Also, he said when all this was over…meaning his son’s funeral, that he would like to come over and start visits with the dog again!?

      HELP PLEASE ?

      1. Hi,

        Your ex-boyfriend is fishing around for sex, that’s it.

        The “dog visits” are going to be a good excuse to get laid.

        All he is after is friend with benefits.

        If you’re okay with that, go for it.

        If you’re looking for more, forget it.

        Take Care,

        S.W.

  4. Me and my ex have been broken up for about a month. We’re really close, we go on day trips, he comes round mine a lot. He said he loves me yesterday.. then I said I want to start seeing each other, he said maybe, hes not sure atm. I don’t know what this means, but whenever we see each other, he’s always trying to kiss me.
    I know his brother hates me, so I’m wondering whether it’s his brother saying rubbish to him.. why doesn’t he go with his heart because its obvious he kinda wants me back..
    I don’t know what to do.. shall I carry on as normal like nothing happened?

    1. Hi Hannah,

      You have to watch and see if his “words” match his “actions”.

      He said he loves me yesterday.. then I said I want to start seeing each other, he said maybe, hes not sure atm. I don’t know what this means, but whenever we see each other, he’s always trying to kiss me.

      Now, you have to ask yourself: “How can a man love me, and, want to kiss me, but, not want to be in a relationship with me?”

      I believe the answer is, he just wants sex, and, once he gets laid, he will put you back in the “just friends” zone.

      The reason you are suffering is, you are not willing to accept the breakup, and, keep hanging around your ex hoping to reconnect.

      If you want to see your ex’s “true” feelings for you, you MUST use the no contact rule, correctly.

      You can find a free, step-by-step plan, on how to use the no contact rule to get your ex back, by clicking on the link, below.

      The Free Breakup Survival Plan

      The sooner you start using no contact, the sooner you will have the answers to all the questions you have, about why your ex is acting the way he is.

      Take Care,

      S.W.

      1. Totally get where you’re coming from. He came round mine, and one thing led to another, he got laid.. but continued to talk to me.. and constantly messaging me. Then my mate said he’s obviously still into you, otherwise if he just wanted to get laid, he would of stopped talking to you straight after.. It’s all just confusing, aha.

        1. Then my mate said he’s obviously still into you, otherwise if he just wanted to get laid, he would of stopped talking to you straight after.. It’s all just confusing,

          Hi Hannah,

          There’s nothing confusing about it.

          He considers you a friend with benefits.

          The longer you allow yourself to “stay confused”, the longer this will go on.

          Use the no contact rule, and, get yourself out of the “Just FWB” zone.

          I showed you a way out, now, it’s your choice whether to use it, or not.

          Take Care,

          S.W.

  5. My ex and I are working on getting back together (I Think) well we had a disagreement and usually I do all the talking with how I feel and he shuts down and does not say a word, but this time it was way different he actually went on and on how he felt, and at one point even said will you let me talk. WOW that was so shocking to me. I so respected that he did that for a change. Is this a good sign that he wants to work this out and is finally speaking up on how he feels?

    1. Hi Kelly,

      It’s always a good sign, when someone is willing, to talk about their, relationship problems.

      Especially, when they are also willing, to share their feelings, as well.

      All I can say, is, if he keeps flip-flopping from cooperative, to distant, you might consider following, the free breakup survival plan.

      Using the no contact rule, correctly, will bring things to a conclusion, and, end the roller coaster ride, for both of you.

      Take Care,

      S.W.

  6. My ex left me by jst thinkin tht i was very possessive towards him and he didn’t like it at all… then after 1mnth, he went for a rltnship with another girl 🙂 i rlly didn’t expect tht frm him cuz our rltn was very deep 🙂 still i had to believe it… now, whenever i want his good he reacts vigorously… he jst can’t see me with his both eyes now 🙁 but everytime there are some sudden coincidence going through us like our matches by the same time… what are these for? why so much of coincidence are happening? what kind of sign i coming on me? will he come back to me again?

    1. Hi,

      The truth be told, he was probably already eyeing this woman before he broke up with you.

      At least he was man enough to breakup first, and not just cheat on you.

      He will probably come back.

      The question is…do you really want to be his “fall back girl”?

      Do you really want to sit around waiting for him to get tired of this woman, and come back to you for a little while, and then do this to you, all over again?

      If you are smart, and I hope you are 🙂 , you will take control of your life by reading the free plan, and using NC to evolve past the break up, and get your life back on track, as a single woman.

      You can access the free plan through this link: Free Breakup Survival Plan

      Take Care,

      S.W.

  7. iv been with my boyfriend for 7 months and a couple off days ago he wanted me too meet him at a pub but iv started a new job and I work 12 hour shifts and was really tired I wasn’t in the mood too go anywhere so he txt me back asking I he could come to mine he then said let me guess your too tired I went well I did say that but I know you wont be happy with me he then he txt back forget it I went don’t be like that im not arguing so in the morning I txt him I said we need too talk he txt bk we will chat later so last night he txt me asking what I wanted too talk about I went us he text back saying don’t you think we should move on I went no and sent anther txt but not heard anything back from him what should I do I love him so much

    1. Hi Shelly,

      Have you broken up before?

      If not, just give him a few days, and let him contact you, and then set up a date to talk about what is going on in your relationship (don’t do it over the phone or by text) – if he refuses, use the no contact rule to help yourself move on from this pointless relationship that is going nowhere.

      If you have broken up before, then this time do it right, and use the no contact rule to evolve past the breakup and get your life back – it really doesn’t matter how much you love someone, what matters is that they are a good fit – meaning they are willing to talk things out, compromise, and grow with the relationship – not just always get their own way.

      I help people get over a break up and get their lives back, not get their ex back, and I explain why in the “About” section on my Blog.

      Make a commitment to yourself to stay in no contact for at least 12 months, and do not focus on getting your ex back – let your ex go.

      Your main focus is to break your dependency on your old relationship (and your ex) for happiness, and reestablish your life as a Happy Healthy single person.

      This is much more important than getting your ex back, and in 12 months you will realize what I’m saying is true.

      Go read the free plan to get your ex back and follow ALL the steps to get over a broken heart, evolve past the breakup, and get your life back again.

      Thank you for writing.

      Take Care,

      S.W.

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      1. no we haven’t broken up before but every time we have a argument over something petty or hes not getting his own way he always says I don’t think this is working I just don’t understand him and thankyou for your help

        1. Hi Shelly,

          You’re welcome! 🙂

          Like I said, if you can’t talk to him about your relationship, then the relationship is dead – time to move on using the no contact rule, the right way, as outlined in the free plan.

          There are plenty of nice guys out there, don’t waste your time trying to change this guy, go find a guy that already wants what you want – you will be A LOT happier.

          Take Care,

          S.W.

  8. Dear Scott,
    you see my ex now has moved back to West Point where he came from.. We dated 3 times. But just a few days ago he texted me… Before he moved i said some VERY bad things about his dad that passed away last year.. He told me He hated me and that he can garantee that we will never get back together… But i couple days ago he texted me… He asked me ti send bad pictures to him and he would forgive me. I didn’t know what to do.. He has a girlfriend and he still asked me to send and talk bad to him. I think has become a huge jerk! I love him to death though and I’m also in love with someone else. I don’t think he wants me back but i still don’t know what to do.. I’m lost. I know you probably won’t answer all this but i really need someone to talk too. Should i stop texting and talking to him or should i keep talking toi him and hope for the best? Please help..
    – Ashley Goss.

    1. Hi Ashley,

      I would forget about him, and move on with your life – anyone who requests naked pictures from another woman while he is dating someone else…is a loser.

      Just be thankful you only wasted 3 dates on this asshole.

      I help people get over a break up and get their lives back, not get their ex back, and I explain why in the “About” section on my Blog.

      Go read the free plan to get your ex back and follow ALL the steps to get over a broken heart, evolve past the breakup, and get your life back again.

      Thank you for writing.

      Take Care,

      S.W.

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  9. Hi Scott,

    My boyfriend and I were together for 6 years but we spent the last 3 years in a long distance relationship. We hardly see/talk to each other except over texts. He decided to call it quits earlier this year and he said it was due to me always heading out to clubs with my friends. He also has the perception that I am materialistic just because I was hanging out with a group of girls who are always hanging out with the rich boys. In a nutshell, his perception of me is warped and regardless of how i tired to explain, he still put me in a pigeon hole and told me I have become someone he cant see sharing our lives together.

    However, he wants to remain friends and would occasionally drop me a text asking me how am I. I made the mistake of telling him I was upset and miserable over our breakup amidst other problems I am facing as I just lost my job and am having some sort of quarter life crisis, trying to find some direction in my life. He said he would be there for me and I could speak to him whenever I am depressed. (altho he knows he is part of the reason for my misery) Recently, I bumped into him at a gathering and one of his friends started talking to me. He got really mad and said why would I talk to someone he doesn’t like (I didnt know that) and even asked me to get lost as I have made him ‘lose face’ and it is so typical of me to talk to guys. Prior to that he told the guy he didn’t like that i was his ex-gf.

    He did apologise after the outburst and I tried to find out if there was any chance we could get back together. I told him i still love him but he replied that he still cares for me. But nothing about ‘love’. And when I pressed on to ask if we could start dating again with no commitments, he just reply to say we could still hang out whenever he is back in town and take it from there. So what does it mean? Does he really just want to be friends? What should I do? I am afraid if I were to use the NC rule, he might really disappear from my life if he really just want to be friends. Please please advise!

    1. Hi,

      Using the no contact rule correctly will not make someone “disappear”.

      You can’t make them disappear because they are already gone.

      Actions speak louder than words…remember that.

      You are just agreeing with the break up, and asking to be left alone until you want to make contact again.

      Your fears are ungrounded, and you’re just being paranoid.

      This fear will only keep you trapped, and miserable.

      Set yourself free with the free plan, and the no contact rule.

      I help people get over a break up and get their lives back, not get their ex back, and I explain why in the “About” section on my Blog.

      Go read the free plan to get your ex back and follow ALL the steps to get over a broken heart, evolve past the breakup, and get your life back again.

      Thank you for writing.

      Take Care,

      S.W.

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  10. Hi, Scott.

    My boyfriend broke up with me after a very wonderful time together for 5 days. After the holiday, he said he noticed that we were not compatible, not right for each other, not meant as a long-term couple. That holiday was perfect for me. But I didn’t know it wasn’t for him as he had observed my attitude and all.
    He then went cold and dropped the bomb that we should part ways. I asked him why and he didn’t tell me. No clear reasons at all.
    I was hurt. But I didn’t beg and plead and cry.
    It has been one month and 3 weeks. Three weeks of no contact- nothing. He said in his last email that he still has strong feelings for me and will always have strong feelings for our weekends/time together. Ended it with ” you are in my thoughts forever.xoxoxox’.
    I am so confused and was really devastated those early days of the split.
    Now, I am already clear headed, no more negative emotions and I am sure that I want him back. I sent the NC message. But his birthday is in August. Should I greet him? How long should the NC be? I always fight the urge to email or text him and is successful so far.
    How should I do to get him back?

    Thank you, Scott.

    Take care!

    1. Hi,

      Good job on sending the NC message from the free plan, it was a wise move.

      Do not contact him on his birthday, you should wait at least 6-12 months before considering to break NC, 12 months works the best in most cases.

      If he is truly in love with you, he will wait, if not, you don’t want him anyways.

      Who wants someone that doesn’t love them back? Are you “that” desperate? I don’t think so.

      I help people get over a break up and get their lives back, not get their ex back, and I explain why in the “About” section on my Blog.

      Go read the free breakup survival plan, and, follow ALL the steps to get over a broken heart, evolve past the breakup, and get your life back again.

      Thank you for writing.

      Take Care,

      S.W.

      PS – You might find this video presentation on why men pull away (click here) very helpful in understanding (the emotional reasoning behind) why your boyfriend broke up with you.

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      1. Thanks, Scott.
        Will 6-12 months of NC somehow change his mind and recall our beautiful love and wonderful memories together? Will it make him realize my value in his life? Will it not make him forget me? Sorry for many questions.
        Thank you once more!
        Take care!

        1. Hi,

          If he could completely forget you in 12 months, you really didn’t mean much to him…did you?

          It wasn’t true love.

          Thank you for writing.

          Take Care,

          S.W.

          1. Hi. You are right! I will update you in December 😉 thanks, Scott. Take care!

  11. Hi, After 6 months of NC, he sent me an email asking if I am ok. He wrote to me just like nothing happened. Should I answer? “I am fine, thank you.” as just short and simple reply?

    1. Hi,

      His attempt to contact you shows he is ‘starting to evolve’ past the breakup.

      If you are following the free plan correctly, you sent the recommended no contact message that states YOU will be in touch when YOU are ready.

      He is obviously ignoring your request, and just wants to see if you are still ‘on the hook’ after the break up.

      I recommend that you do not reply, and continue to follow the no contact rule for another 6 months before deciding what to do.

      Thank you for writing.

      Take Care,

      S.W.

      1. Yes, you are right. I did follow the rule really correctly and have not contacted to him at all. It has been 1 month after he sent me the email. His friends saw me and I mentioned there is some man around me, so I think now he got scared of losing me. That is why he sent me this emai. I will not reply till I lose the resentment completely.

        1. Hi,

          You are doing a great job!

          Just keep up the good work, and you will kick loves ass.

          Stay Strong and Positive!

          S.W.

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