Do You Want To Get Your Girl Back From Him?

Your ex girlfriend is dating another guy. Do you want to get your girl back from him? Here are a couple of romance busting tips to help you push the new guy out of the picture, and pull her back into your arms.

Get Her Back Tip 1

Hopefully at this point you have already employed the no contact rule. If you haven’t this would be the best way to start your romance busting strategy. By sending the appropriate no contact message you set the stage for your take over. Your ex will be expecting you to get jealous. But!

When you not only don’t get jealous, but send her the message that you’re not waiting around for her anymore…you will “flip” her emotional switch, and grab her attention once again. If you want to get your girl back, and send her new guy home pissed off…keep your cool and use no contact.

Get Her Back Tip 2

After you send the no contact message, start dating other women. It doesn’t have to be anything serious. Just do it for fun and to also reaffirm that your no contact message wasn’t just a bluff. Dating can be both fun and it will build your confidence as well. Meanwhile she is checking your FaceBook account and seeing pictures of you with a bunch of different girls…here come the claws.

Suddenly your ex girlfriends new man isn’t looking so hot to her, and she just wants to get back what was once hers. You have to step outside of your comfort zone and date if you want to get your girl back again. If you are really serious about getting your ex back, keep on reading for some killer information.

Who Am I and Why Should You Listen to Me?

My name is S. Williams, and I have been helping people since 2008 to overcome break up pain, and get their lives back. I even have an “About” section that I recommend you read. I know the name of my site is: How to Get Your Ex Back Fast, but I teach people how to get their lives back, not their ex’s.

If you’re interested in working with me (and our forum members) to get your life back, join my free newsletter for access to the free plan to get your ex back fast, and start getting your life back today. The answers you need to start your personal evolution are waiting for you, don’t hesitate another minute…come and get them.

Once you get your life back, everything else will just start to fall into place…I promise. If you have any comments or questions please write them in the comment box below.

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Until next time,

S. Williams

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  1. Hey, my ex broke up with me only 2 days ago, the about me section tells me to use TW’s letter if it’s within a week, does it still apply? Cause haven’t seen one in your forum use it yet.. Is the good news part really nescessary? isn’t it better for when you wanna reconcile and say it on the phone, instead of in a break-it-off letter? just wondering
    Hope for an answer within a week lol:)

    1. Hi,

      One question.

      Was this a little lovers “spat” or just another of many fights that finally lead to a break up?

      If it was just a little spat, use the letter outlined in MOMU.

      If it was anything else, use the recommended no contact message as outlined in the free plan.

      I myself haven’t run into anyone in the “spat” category before that’s why you don’t see them in the forum.

      Usually the people who make it to my Blog have progressed far beyond spatville, into relationship breakup HELL.

      This is why I help people survive a break up and get their lives back, not get their ex back, and I explain why in the “About” section on my Blog.

      If you are ready to correctly use the no contact rule to evolve past your break up, heal a broken heart, and get your life back, go read the free plan to get your ex back on my Blog and follow ALL the steps.

      Thank you for writing.

      Take Care,

      S.W.

      PS – As far as writing it out, or delivering it verbally over the phone. The idea behind hand writing the letter was to get (and hold) their attention.

      Plus if you read chapter 6 of The Magic of Making up or the last stage of the free plan you will learn that you only set up a meeting over the phone, not attempt to reconcile. You need to read the free plan, if you rush to reconcile you will fuck things up.

  2. Hi

    Okay this is a bit complicated but here goes,my ex was my friend for 10 years but before that he was my ex ex best friend !! so after I split up from my old ex after about 6 months I dated my new guy it was a bit compicated with mutual friends but we got over that,and most of the time we were happy,now here comes the problem my recent ex was seeing a girl already in another relationship for about 2 years before I met him,to which he said it was over when he met me which we have been together now nearky 2 years then a few months ago she left her guy and went to live in the next street !!which he never told me about she has been there a couple of months !! but things were still okay between me and my guy until 3 weeks ago he didnt come home til 6am without a explanation and hust said he coldnt rememeber where he had been,so I packed my stuff nd left,and I have applied th NC rule but I havnt heard from him in nearly 3 weeks.

    Grace

    1. Hi,

      Your ex boyfriend just thinks you are pissed off, and you will be back after you cool off.

      After all, you put up with his shit in the past, right?

      If you want the best chance to get your ex boyfriend back, you need to make a statement by using the no contact rule correctly.

      Go read the free plan to get your ex back on my Blog, and follow ALL the steps.

      Thank you for writing.

      Take Care,

      S.W.

  3. Long story short, my ex broke up with me suddenly about four weeks ago. He continues to talk to me and says that you can’t just drop the feelings over night. He recently got back with his ex-girlfriend (of four years) and she insisted that he stop talking to me; she even made him delete my number from his phone. Well, he hasn’t. In fact, he changed my name in his phone to Britt so he so he could still text me. He tells me he is “happy” with her however their relationship ended because for the last year of their relationship all they did was fight all the time. I met him about two weeks ago to give him his stuff back and during that meeting he told me that “he never felt the way he did about me for another girl – not even (well call her Erica), the ex that he is with now.” He lives about 20 minutes away from me, however, I live in town somewhat near places he would go to such as walmart or auto stores and places like that. Yet, I do not live on the main road – he would have no reason to drive past my house – and yet he has. I saw him once about a week ago and my dad saw him once about 3 days ago. We went through a week period where he didn’t contact me after him texting me every day for about 10 days This morning was the first we talked. Fault of my own because I wished him luck hunting. However, after he responded, I responded a few hours later with the NC rule and told him that he shouldn’t text or call me anymore.

    I just started reading your forum today and I love it. So, I am sorry if this is a repeating question. Basically, my question is, obviously guys are totally different than girls. However, is it still possible to “win back” the guy from his ex-girlfriend especially with the circumstances I am in at the moment.

    1. Hi aly.

      To be honest with you this guy is playing you. From what you have said about him saying he’s never felt the same way about you as anyone else, ask yourself why isn’t he with you then? If I was him and that was true what he said I would cut my arms off to make it work. This probably isn’t what you want to hear but he doesn’t sound worth it. He’s keeping you round what it seems like as a backup. And you talk of him changing your name in his phone makes him sound sly and dishonest. Do you really want to invest time in that? I know it’s hard but having been there my opinion (and I know love is strange and perhaps not a great move taking advice off some chap on the Internet) but my opinion is he wanted you he would have left her. Pick yourself up and remember if he likes you there will be 1000 guys just in your city that would like you too and treat you right. By all means stick to the NC rule if your worth it to him he’ll call. But my advice is give him the bird, as I’m sure you know you deserve better. Xx

  4. S.-

    I just have a quick question about facebook protocol… in your forum you said that we should block our exes completely from FB. In this article, it seems almost that you are encouraging us to NOT block our exes from FB so that pictures of us with other girls will make them jealous. i.e. “Meanwhile she is checking your FaceBook account and seeing pictures of you with a bunch of different girls…here come the claws.”

    Should I block her from my Facebook or keep it open?

    Thanks!

    Steve

    1. Hi,

      Experience has shown that using FaceBook hurts more than it helps…how?

      Because you end up keeping tabs on your ex girlfriend (and your common friends), and that blows your self-confidence when they post pictures/comments that make you jealous/worried.

      It is a double edged sword.

      Most people can not use FaceBook to their advantage, and it usually backfires on them and fucks up their personal evolution.

      Although this article makes a good point, I would say you would be better off just closing your FaceBook account altogether until you are finished with no contact, and have evolved past your break up.

      I recommend this from watching what has happened over the past 17 months in our support forum.

      Ultimately the choice is yours, and pictures of you with other people (especially women) having fun will flip your ex’s switch, but it can come back to bite you in the ass too.

      Take Care,

      S.W.

      1. S.

        Thank you for your reply. I guess my question is, which is more effective at flipping her emotional switch (not neccessarily pissing her off), shutting her out of my life completely and blocking her from my facebook profile OR letting her see my activity with other girls/me being happy and having fun without her? Remember, I ultimately want to get her back, not drive her away completely.

        Steve

        1. Hi,

          Follow ALL the steps in the free plan, and get off facebook until you get your life back.

          Facebook is a disease, it has been written about many times in our forum.

          The free plan is about getting your life back, it is not about getting your ex girlfriend back.

          Take Care,

          S.W.

  5. thanx!

  6. hi s dub..
    i was going to order the magicofmakingup but the cliclbank stuff does not work..i have the money ready and all..im from sweden..are there any other possible way purchasing this ebook because clickbank does not work for me

    1. Hi,

      The book is only available through ClickBank.

      You can use a credit card, or a PayPal account to purchase the book.

      I don’t know of any problem with Sweden, but I know they will not do business in Nigeria.

      You could try contacting their customer service just tell them you want to buy the book The Magic of Making Up through account “scotts303”.

      Take Care,

      S.W.

  7. So My ex told me a few weeks ago that she had started dating someone else. I didn’t take it that well and she wound up mad at me. I sent the NC letter a week later. All this did was prompt her to post on facebook that she was in a relatioship with this guy. Bottom line was her facebook change a switch flip. Or did the Letter not work? We haven’t spoken since she told me about her new BF. She seems to be happy with him and I’m worried shes forgotten me.

  8. Chiranjit wrote:

    I did some mistakes after break up but it was my fault…but still what ever it is..she ditched me so pls help

    Hi,

    I can help, just go to the top of my Blog and find the link for the free plan.

    Read, and follow all the steps in the free plan, and you will get your life back, and maybe even your ex if you still want her after your personal evolution.

    Take Care,

    S.W.

  9. My Ex girlfriend is now in relationship with my best friend
    and i still love her and want her back in my life.I did some mistakes after break up but it was my fault…but still what ever it is..she ditched me so pls help

  10. jeff wrote:

    Dont know what to do. How should I approach a NC strategy with this?

    Hi Jeff,

    Just start the free plan from the beginning, don’t worry about how much time has passed…go for it!

    If you really want to get your ex back, you need to get your life back first, and following the steps in the free plan (link at the top of my Blog) will do just that.

    Don’t think about it, just do it.

    It’s free, and you have nothing to lose, and everything to gain.

    Take Care,

    S.W.

  11. Hey Scott,

    Me and my ex were together for 5 years and broke up in aug 08, but started talking in the 1st of 09 and talked for about 4 months into that year. We talked and agreed that we were gonna work on things but in may told me she met sum1 but that she still loves me but we need space right now. I have left her alone to this point with only a few emails here and there. And the last one to say happy new year and whatever. Its been about 10 months since I’ve seen her. I thought by just leaving her alone would make her miss me. Dont know what to do. How should I approach a NC strategy with this?

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