Comments on: Do You Believe You Can Get Your Ex Back?

By: S. Williams

S. Williams — Mon, 15 Nov 2010 15:07:53 +0000

Hi,

You’re fucking hopeless.

I give you advice (and a free plan), and you refuse to follow it.

Please go seek advice somewhere else, I have wasted enough time with you.

Take Care,

S.W.

By: sammy

sammy — Mon, 15 Nov 2010 10:03:54 +0000

hey
last night we had a talk and we both agreed to give it another shot..he told me how he has spent nights sleepless when I was not talking to him.
I should have been happy and I was in the night..but this morning I feel I should have undergone atleast evolution period coz that ways I would have evalated our relationship and whether we can r not give it a shot…
I am confused now..we are taking things slowely rather than pushing up..Is their anyway I should undergo this evolution unbiased..I really feel I have looked at much more things when I was on NO CONTACT like I started mornings exercises and I started spending time with my family understanding their needs which I wasn till we broke up..I am really confused..Do fault lies with me..Am I so over into him..n if yes how to balance it.After all life is much beyond love..I mean I am happy that hes back but one part of myself is craving for something which am unsure
Can you help??

By: S. Williams

S. Williams — Sun, 14 Nov 2010 08:48:20 +0000

Hi,

If this common friend keeps asking about your ex, or your break up, stop talking to him, or it will stall your personal evolution.

Stay Strong!

S.W.

By: sammy

sammy — Sun, 14 Nov 2010 04:56:35 +0000

hey
one more question..
I and my ex have one common friend…he his best friend and after we went on a relationship..he became my good friend as well.Now since I and this common friend lives in same city and I have no friends here..we often talk..
After the No contact message..my ex is also talking to him coz I think it has completely fliped his switch…
What to do I do now?Should I stop talking to this common friend or limit my contacts with him..(Because no matter how much I avoid,things about my ex comes up)I had told this friend that I am on no contact terms with ex and he gave no comments but still I feel by talking to him I am a kind a linking my ex to my life which I dont want …

By: sammy

sammy — Sat, 13 Nov 2010 05:36:42 +0000

wow!!
what an exciting piece of advise..
let me admit..ever since I stopped at this website..life is so exciting for me…am moving away from self pity and trying random new things…
I am tasting the initial lifes taste and its coming back to me…
thanks

By: S. Williams

S. Williams — Sat, 13 Nov 2010 04:04:51 +0000

Hi,

No contact…means no contact, ignore the calls.

If he continues to harass you, call the police

Take Care,

S.W.

By: sammy

sammy — Sat, 13 Nov 2010 04:01:10 +0000

what if they try to contact you after NO CONTACT message?
He s calling me on my number constantly and since its my office number,I cant even change it.
what to do??

By: sammy

sammy — Fri, 12 Nov 2010 12:31:22 +0000

Send and will not stumble this time..
Thanks and tk cr!!

By: S. Williams

S. Williams — Fri, 12 Nov 2010 10:38:04 +0000

Hi,

You broke NC and need to re-send the same exact message you sent before, the recommended no contact message (no changes), and then stick to the plan, and do not fall for his fucking tricks.

He is only thinking about himself.

No contact only works to help you get your life/happiness back if you have the courage to stick to it, understand?

You have to decide what is more important, your life/happiness, or his fucking exam?

I have offered my help/advice…now follow it.

Take Care,

S.W.

By: sammy

sammy — Fri, 12 Nov 2010 07:07:26 +0000

n yes he has his very important exam 2 days after which I dont want to be spoiled