Do You Believe You Can Get Your Ex Back?
Do you really believe you can get your ex back? It is very important to believe you can, or you will most likely not win back your ex…why? Because you will stand in your own way through out any plan you follow to get them back. Buying a book, and reading it will not help you if you don’t believe in the plan.
Your Personal Evolution
Your own personal evolution is the most important step in the process to get your ex back. You must allow yourself to let go of the past relationship in order to make a place for a new one, make sense? It should, and it has to make sense or you will fail. Wherever the mind goes the body will follow…keep that in mind when you start doubting your ability to “get my ex back”. If you follow a plan to evolve past your old relationship your chances for success will greatly improve, and you will become a much happier person.
How to Kick Start Your Evolution
The best way to get your evolution under way is to use the no contact rule to officially end your attempts to “patch up” your old relationship. Using an effective NC message and sticking to the plan will help you progress much faster. But don’t worry if you mess up, you can start again…but beware, starting over too many times will really hinder your chances of winning back your ex, understand?
Once you have properly initiated no contact start writing your daily feelings in a journal. This will help you release your inner feelings, and you will watch them shift as time goes by. You can also start a pros and cons list of your past relationship to help you better understand what was good, and what went bad. This will also help you evolve much more quickly. If you believe in yourself, and the plan you can get your ex back.
Free Step by Step Plan
If you are in a break up situation you have to learn how to think with your head, and not with your heart. If you want my help getting your ex back, join my free newsletter for free videos, advice, support forum, and a free step by step plan to get your life/ex back fast. On my Blog you will find the answers and the support you seek, along with a free step by step plan. The answers you need to start your personal evolution are waiting for you, don’t hesitate another minute…come and get them. If you have any comments or questions please write them in the comment box below.
Until next time,
S. Williams
~I know that “love hurts” but with my help you will get strong enough to kick love’s ass~
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Hi SW. I’ll like to say that you what you’ve done is excellent. I actually feel much more confident after reading your blog. I’m currently improving myself by working out and writing down my journal. Get your life back first before getting your ex back! Stick to the plan! Thanks SW
PG wrote:
Thank you for helping yourself!
hello
well honestly im new to this and was hesitant to wether i should send the letter or not because i was scared to drift him even more away but after reading this i realized i have nothing to lose (my ex isnt with me anyway)but to gain=)…my life again, self confidence, and my ex again! im putting my whole determination into this plan and i cant wait to see the results!
kendra wrote:
Hi Kendra,
That’s the attitude it takes to get the job done!
Hopefully you will join our forum for more personal support.
Take Care,
S. Williams
what I’m worry now is what if we are LDR?
Normally, when couples think they are already evolve and ready for reconcile. they just pick up the phone call each other to make an appointment.
I think to see each other is the important thing for reconcile,ain’t it?
THE QUESTION IS
what will happen if when I and my ex evolve we are still in LDR? because we cannot meet each other until December
If the evolve happen too soon before we meet, it will happen nothing any way,isn’t it?
sorry for a lot of question, I’m so panic about to getting my ex back
I have worried a lot about getting ex back
not brave enough to act anything because I’m afraid that it will push her further away.
This blog makes me more relieve and It’s the time to send the nc message!
thank you scott
marianne wrote:
Send the correct no contact message and start your journey…don’t let fear keep you prisoner.
Just stay in NC until December when you can meet again.
NC almost always takes more than 30 days, so you should have plenty of time to evolve.
But you have to take the first step (send the NC message) to start your journey, understand?
Hello,
I’m somewhat new to this as well. I did not initiate no contact. He did, after an argument. We haven’t spoken in months, and I doubt he’d be willing to hear anything from me. I have not tried to contact him. Since this came about because of an argument, what kind of effect does that have? He and I are long distance, so I’m not sure how he will see a change in me. However, I have not lost any hope, and I’m staying optimistic.
cek wrote:
He began his personal evolution…now you go start yours.
Go to the top of my Blog and find the free plan.
Read and follow EVERY STEP.
You don’t have to think, just follow the steps one-by-one.
I am in 2nd Nc for 2 weeks now.
My ex forced me to break my 1st NC and in that time told me he is sleeping with(and confiding in) another girl. He told me he is not feeling serious with her and that he doesnt see himself with her longterm. He said it was more about not being alone and she was just there.
He didnt even try to contact me in this 2nd NC. And I am worried that if he wasnt in love with her yet…maybe now he is…?
Wow…and now I know I am not ready yet…I already answered my question…
Thank you for having this blog!
Finally I send it!!!!
thank you so much for encourage me and give me a brave to take this action
anyway now, I sincerely believe it’s the best way for us to break up.
I have to stand by my self first before have her in my life.
My life is too much depended on her
however, THANK YOU A LOT I’LL TRY MY BEST
mina wrote:
Good Job!
And you’re welcome!
marianne wrote:
Good Job!
And you’re welcome!
I am new here and I am in need of some great advice. My husband of 16 years left 6 wks ago to figure out what it is he wants and that he needed space. He tells me he loves me deeply but doesn’t feel he loves me like a husband should? We did not speak for a week and a half after the break. And since then we have been in contact and I felt that I was finally breaking through to him and then I did something so stupid that I fear may have blown my chances forever. I wrote him a letter telling him my feelings he freaked out told me he was done wasn’t ready to work on anything that I deserve better than him. This was one week ago and since then he is so cold and distant he will not look at me and and no longer calls me! I am so confused I have not talked to him since Thursday when I stupidly threw myself at him to try and get a kiss he did smile and said no enough is enough wasn’t mean about it. I know he loves me because I can see it in his eyes is that why he will not look at me? Please help
Tanya wrote:
OK…run don’t walk to the top of my Blog, and find the link for free step by step plan.
Start following it and send him the NC message that talks about “agreeing with taking a break”, and send it to him by email.
Just take your time and focus on the plan so you don’t miss any steps…read everything.
Then start following the rest of the plan…step-by-step.
I did write him a letter at the beginning saying I agree with his decision to separate. I have signed up today for your plan but honestly it seems silly to send him the NC message when he hasn’t been in contact with me for 4 days. Why is he avoiding me? I feel like I meant nothing to hm at all, does he need more time? Thank you for your reply
Tanya wrote:
It would seem more silly to not follow a proven plan.
Your letter isn’t as powerful as the one we recommend.
Don’t let fear or pride stand in your way…do want it takes to start your personal evolution.
Just take the first step, and all the rest of them will get easier over time as you evolve.
The first step is always the hardest.
The letter was from the MOMU ebook that I purchased I am scared that this NC will push him further away from me, again he already has started NC with me so how does it make sense to tell him no contact when he is already doing that? He is gonna think I am nuts Thank you again
like Kendra, “i’m putting my whole determination into this plan and i cant wait to see the results!”..though this plan is kinda not easy for me coz we are in a LDR with my ex. I keep going!
chrei wrote:
Hi Chrei,
You didn’t let your fear, doubt, or pride hold you back…
Good for you…your bravery will be rewarded!
Take Care,
S. Williams
Tanya wrote:
Sometimes things don’t make sense…they just work…that’s life.
Me and my ex fiance have been split about 3 months we where together for 6 month shes changed her number so i cant text her but i can still message her thru facebook i sent her a message saying i still loved her and been thinking about her and she messaged back saying what you been thinking about im in hospital falling apart then gave me a number to ring her on and we spoke for 30 minutes on a hospital number then it cut off she rang me back on her mobile but withheld the number we where on the phone another hour and made me promise not to come and see her so i agreed then she said she would ring me the next day and she did and where on the phone for an hour , I sent her a message saying are you ok , havent heard from you since you got out of hospital , im worried about you
i got a reply saying
Im bad again and back in hospital. Il b ok
so i sent this and got this back
But your not ok tho or you wouldnt be in hospital , I still love you and think about you all the time , if i had it my way id sit there with you 24/7 till you got better but i promised you i wouldnt come and im not gonna break that promise x
and got this
Im not guna lie im not exactly fresh as a daisy, ive got hepititis. Im sick. Im glad ur keepin to ur promise. Ive got someone here with me now, there allowed to stay over too. Il be ok dnt worry. Just try move on johnny , i said I feel lyk coming down to the hospital how can i not worry about you when all i do is think about you then she replied back ive got a new bf now, im starting my life again. The last thing i want is u showing up. Ul get arrested if u do. Dont be silly man , should i hit her with a no contact message , I dont know what to do i want her back i miss her and love her alot please help me should i send the no contact message???
J.M.W wrote:
Hi JMW,
Seems like you’re getting a lot of mixed signals from her.
The free plan on my Blog can help you sort this whole mess out, but you have to follow all the steps.
Skipping certain steps will not give you the success you’re looking for, OK?
The link is at the top of my Blog under the picture.
Should i send this no contact message even if it is me doing all the initiating of contact?? she broke up with me and we rarely ever speak now the other day was the first time i had spoke to her for a month , I agree with you about the decision to break up, I really believe it was the best thing for both of us. I have some big decisions to make and I need some time to think them over. I would really appreciate it if you didn’t contact me during this time. I will be in touch when I am ready.
J.M.W wrote:
She broke up with you, so yeah that no contact message would be the correct one.
It is not about making sense…it’s about “flipping a switch” and turning the tables.
You’re no longer chasing and that’s going to cause a shift in her mind about who is in control of this situation now.
J.M.W wrote:
Yes
J.M.W wrote:
You could use the subject line: You were right
That should get her to open it…what woman doesn’t want to hear when she was right about something, right?
Haha yeah thats true i would of usually flipped out and probably drove to the hospital to try and see her but by sending this message hopefully it will work and she will think what the heck? coz its out of the blue and not something i would normally say im really sceptical on it but ive got nothing to lose and everything to gain , hopefully this will help me on my way to get her back , If she replys do i just ignore her?
J.M.W wrote:
Yes, it is all laid out in the free plan…go read, and follow all the steps.
I put a lot of time into piecing it together to take you by the hand, and guide you along.
I just sent the no contact message to her , what if she doesnt reply it , then what do i do?
J.M.W wrote:
Some people do reply right way…and some don’t for a while.
Just relax and follow the next step in the plan, and then the next step…so on and so fourth.
If my only way of contacting her is through facebook should i block her so she will think wtf why has he blocked me id go nuts if she did that to me she has done it to me in the past , we dont have each other as friends on it anymore , do you think its a good idea to block her on facebook i dont have her number anymore and facebook is my only method of contacting her?
@ J.M.W:
Hey Bud,
No contact MEANS no contact…enough said?
Stop thinking and start reading/following the plan, OK?
i cannot afford to purchase your e-book how and where can i get the advice i need from you without it. I need help desperatley
beckyg wrote:
The free plan at the top of my Blog.
I sent the no contact message yesterday and got a call just now on an unknown number its usually only my ex who contacts me on that number especially this late 12.46 at midnight , i picked up and said hello about 4 times with no answer , i really hope it was my ex , i think it was coz nobody else rings on an unknown
J.M.W wrote:
Actually since you started no contact you should not pick up the phone, let them leave a message.
They will try to get you to break NC so they will have control back again.
@ S. Williams:
What exatly this means ? please let me know i am going this kind of tough time , very tough ,thanks
Gurjinder wrote:
Hi Gurjinder,
I would be happy to explain if I knew what you were asking about.
S.W.