Do You Believe You Can Get Your Ex Back?

Do you really believe you can get your ex back? It is very important to believe you can, or you will most likely not win back your ex…why? Because you will stand in your own way through out any plan you follow to get them back. Buying a book, and reading it will not help you if you don’t believe in the plan.

Your Personal Evolution

Your own personal evolution is the most important step in the process to get your ex back. You must allow yourself to let go of the past relationship in order to make a place for a new one, make sense? It should, and it has to make sense or you will fail. Wherever the mind goes the body will follow…keep that in mind when you start doubting your ability to “get my ex back”. If you follow a plan to evolve past your old relationship your chances for success will greatly improve, and you will become a much happier person.

Start Your Personal Evolution and Get Your Ex Back

How to Kick Start Your Evolution

The best way to get your evolution under way is to use the no contact rule to officially end your attempts to “patch up” your old relationship. Using an effective NC message and sticking to the plan will help you progress much faster. But don’t worry if you mess up, you can start again…but beware, starting over too many times will really hinder your chances of winning back your ex, understand?

Once you have properly initiated no contact start writing your daily feelings in a journal. This will help you release your inner feelings, and you will watch them shift as time goes by. You can also start a pros and cons list of your past relationship to help you better understand what was good, and what went bad. This will also help you evolve much more quickly. If you believe in yourself, and the plan you can get your ex back.

Who Am I and Why Should You Listen to Me?

My name is S. Williams, and I have been helping people since 2008 to overcome break up pain, and get their lives back. I even have an “About” section that I recommend you read. I know the name of my site is: How to Get Your Ex Back Fast, but I teach people how to get their lives back, not their ex’s.

If you’re interested in working with me (and our forum members) to get your life back, join my free newsletter for access to the free plan to get your ex back fast, and start getting your life back today. The answers you need to start your personal evolution are waiting for you, don’t hesitate another minute…come and get them.

Once you get your life back, everything else will just start to fall into place…I promise. If you have any comments or questions please write them in the comment box below.

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Until next time,

S. Williams

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  1. hey
    last night we had a talk and we both agreed to give it another shot..he told me how he has spent nights sleepless when I was not talking to him.
    I should have been happy and I was in the night..but this morning I feel I should have undergone atleast evolution period coz that ways I would have evalated our relationship and whether we can r not give it a shot…
    I am confused now..we are taking things slowely rather than pushing up..Is their anyway I should undergo this evolution unbiased..I really feel I have looked at much more things when I was on NO CONTACT like I started mornings exercises and I started spending time with my family understanding their needs which I wasn till we broke up..I am really confused..Do fault lies with me..Am I so over into him..n if yes how to balance it.After all life is much beyond love..I mean I am happy that hes back but one part of myself is craving for something which am unsure
    Can you help??

    1. Hi,

      You’re fucking hopeless.

      I give you advice (and a free plan), and you refuse to follow it.

      Please go seek advice somewhere else, I have wasted enough time with you.

      Take Care,

      S.W.

  2. hey
    one more question..
    I and my ex have one common friend…he his best friend and after we went on a relationship..he became my good friend as well.Now since I and this common friend lives in same city and I have no friends here..we often talk..
    After the No contact message..my ex is also talking to him coz I think it has completely fliped his switch…
    What to do I do now?Should I stop talking to this common friend or limit my contacts with him..(Because no matter how much I avoid,things about my ex comes up)I had told this friend that I am on no contact terms with ex and he gave no comments but still I feel by talking to him I am a kind a linking my ex to my life which I dont want …

    1. Hi,

      If this common friend keeps asking about your ex, or your break up, stop talking to him, or it will stall your personal evolution.

      Stay Strong!

      S.W.

  3. wow!!
    what an exciting piece of advise..
    let me admit..ever since I stopped at this website..life is so exciting for me…am moving away from self pity and trying random new things…
    I am tasting the initial lifes taste and its coming back to me…
    thanks

  4. what if they try to contact you after NO CONTACT message?
    He s calling me on my number constantly and since its my office number,I cant even change it.
    what to do??

    1. Hi,

      No contact…means no contact, ignore the calls.

      If he continues to harass you, call the police

      Take Care,

      S.W.

  5. Send and will not stumble this time..
    Thanks and tk cr!!

  6. i need your help…

    (Little background-I had sent him a NC message which he will get tommorrow and I am not talking to him from past 5 days.He tried calling me twice yesterday and send some messages as well yesterday night)

    Now today morning he called me up some good 7-8 times.I did not receive his call then he messaged its very urgent(since he requires some data about his exam I thought it would be about that only)and so I received but he strted talking normally about life.I got irritated and told him you only want to talk because I am not attempting to contact you..which he refused and then I disconnected the phone..Then he send me some messages which were

    1.really sorry,i apologize..dere was nothing but I only wanted to talk to u..Sorry i made you feel guilty but i wanted to listen tou your voice..It seemed i taled to u after a year

    2Bal,atleast sometime we can talk..no emotional stuff ,just normal things..can we???

    3.Aaj me cheao ho gaya hu…(its in hindi,It means today I am so desperate to talk to u..I used to say this line to him when I was begging and pleading initially)

    I dont know what to do now??Also what to do just in case he tries to contact me??I can certainly feel that NO contact is working in my case and I think I seriosly need a break to understand about my life..I am just not ready to move..

    Please help!!!

    1. n yes he has his very important exam 2 days after which I dont want to be spoiled

    2. Hi,

      You broke NC and need to re-send the same exact message you sent before, the recommended no contact message (no changes), and then stick to the plan, and do not fall for his fucking tricks.

      He is only thinking about himself.

      No contact only works to help you get your life/happiness back if you have the courage to stick to it, understand?

      You have to decide what is more important, your life/happiness, or his fucking exam?

      I have offered my help/advice…now follow it.

      Take Care,

      S.W.

  7. Coz I have a habbit of writing letters to my closed ones(relatives and friends)and I always prefer it personally over any mode of communication…
    Just a matter of personal preferance…

    Anyways Thanks a lott for the prompt advise and the encouragement.
    Truly I appreciate that!!

    Tk cr tooo…

  8. hey
    he called me today twice after 4 days of NC (i was not talking to him from past 4 days but I have send him the NO CONTACT recommended message today only and he will get that letter day after tommorrow).. now do you recommend me sending NO CONTACT (text msg)to him.and if yes can I send something like this
    You were right in your decision of break of and I agree to it.Its the best thing for both of us.I need some time to think over some big deciions which I have to make in my life and I would really appreciate if you do not contact me meanwhile.
    I will get in touch once I am ready…

    Little confused as if I will send same language to him again..he s definitely gonna think am copy pasting from somewhere..

    Can you advise?

    1. Hi,

      If you “actually” read the free plan, you should know enough not to respond.

      Go read the free plan, it is all explained in there.

      You don’t need to send the message again just wait until he gets his mail.

      I can only wonder why you didn’t just text it to him in the first place.

      Take Care,

      S.W.

  9. hey i sent NC message something like this

    hey
    First of all,”HAPPY BIRTHDAY”
    I agree with you about the decision to break up, I really believe it was the best thing for both of us. I have some big decisions to make and I need some time to think them over. I would really appreciate it if you didn’t contact me during this time. I will be in touch when I am ready.

    My first name

    I wrote the first line coz i sent him a handwritten letter and the day it will reach him will be his birthday.

    Just wanted to check if its ok?

    1. Hi,

      No, it is not OK…that is why I stress over and over you must not change the NC message…but it is too late now.

      I guess you should have asked your question BEFORE you sent the NC message, huh?

      Take Care,

      S.W.

      1. so what should I do now???another NC msg??
        i know it might sound irritating to u but I need ur advise

        1. and just 1 clarification about my case,I had started NO CONTACT some good 4-5 days back and I had sent a letter today coz the day I started NC he started sending me some mails concerning his exams and I answered very to the point that too not immediately..
          Plz advise..
          I really love myself and want my life back…

        2. Hi,

          Wait and if he replies (like most people do) send the recommended NC message (no changes).

          Take Care,

          S.W.

  10. Gurjinder wrote:

    @ S. Williams:
    What exatly this means ? please let me know i am going this kind of tough time , very tough ,thanks

    Hi Gurjinder,

    I would be happy to explain if I knew what you were asking about.

    S.W.

  11. @ S. Williams:
    What exatly this means ? please let me know i am going this kind of tough time , very tough ,thanks

  12. J.M.W wrote:

    i picked up and said hello about 4 times with no answer , i really hope it was my ex , i think it was coz nobody else rings on an unknown 🙂

    Actually since you started no contact you should not pick up the phone, let them leave a message.

    They will try to get you to break NC so they will have control back again.

  13. I sent the no contact message yesterday and got a call just now on an unknown number its usually only my ex who contacts me on that number especially this late 12.46 at midnight , i picked up and said hello about 4 times with no answer , i really hope it was my ex , i think it was coz nobody else rings on an unknown 🙂

  14. beckyg wrote:

    i cannot afford to purchase your e-book how and where can i get the advice i need from you without it. I need help desperatley

    The free plan at the top of my Blog.

  15. i cannot afford to purchase your e-book how and where can i get the advice i need from you without it. I need help desperatley

  16. @ J.M.W:
    Hey Bud,

    No contact MEANS no contact…enough said?

    Stop thinking and start reading/following the plan, OK?

  17. If my only way of contacting her is through facebook should i block her so she will think wtf why has he blocked me id go nuts if she did that to me she has done it to me in the past , we dont have each other as friends on it anymore , do you think its a good idea to block her on facebook i dont have her number anymore and facebook is my only method of contacting her?

  18. J.M.W wrote:

    I just sent the no contact message to her , what if she doesnt reply it , then what do i do?

    Some people do reply right way…and some don’t for a while.

    Just relax and follow the next step in the plan, and then the next step…so on and so fourth.

  19. I just sent the no contact message to her , what if she doesnt reply it , then what do i do?

  20. J.M.W wrote:

    If she replys do i just ignore her?

    Yes, it is all laid out in the free plan…go read, and follow all the steps.

    I put a lot of time into piecing it together to take you by the hand, and guide you along.

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