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Christmas Break Up and How The Holidays Can Help You Get Your Ex Back

How can Christmas help you get your ex back? Most people dread the holidays now that they have broken up with their partner…But! This can be a great tool, here’s how.

Christmas Break Up Without Your Ex

Although you feel you’re the only one suffering at this time of the year, and reminiscing…you’re wrong.

Being Broke Up During Christmas Can Help You Get Your Ex Back

Your ex will be thinking about you too…why? Because memories are a hard thing to erase for both of you. Even if your ex is in a rebound relationship, they will still think about you. How many memories do you have at this time of the year of people who are no longer living? Did the memories die along with them? No. Why? Because memories do not die…people do, but they still live on in memories, right?

So, even if your relationship seems to be dead at the moment, the memories live on. Therefore you still live on in your exes mind…make sense? Don’t kid yourself, a Christmas break up is the best time of the year to win back your ex girlfriend/boyfriend. Just don’t panic and start initiating unwanted contact thinking that this will make your situation better, it won’t. Just keep your cool, use the no contact rule, and enjoy your time with friends and family.

The New Year may have a big surprise for you when you get your ex back after they miss you through out the holidays. Don’t try to rush things and get your ex back too soon. Take a deep breath, and smile knowing that memories don’t die, and that the New Year may hold the possibility of you getting back together with your ex. If you feel that you need some help and support to get through these trying times, please keep on reading, OK?

Who Am I and Why Should You Listen to Me?

My name is S. Williams, and I have been helping people since 2008 to overcome break up pain, and get their lives back. I even have an “About” section that I recommend you read. I know the name of my site is: How to Get Your Ex Back Fast, but I teach people how to get their lives back, not their ex’s.

If you’re interested in working with me (and our forum members) to get your life back, join my free newsletter for access to the free plan to get your ex back fast, and start getting your life back today. The answers you need to start your personal evolution are waiting for you, don’t hesitate another minute…come and get them.

Once you get your life back, everything else will just start to fall into place…I promise. If you have any comments or questions please write them in the comment box below.

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  1. Jazlyn wrote:

    Should I just let him reach out to me about somethng that belongs to me? I am getting pretty upset because all I want is what’s mines.

    Hi Jazlyn,

    I don’t know what to tell you about your DVD player.

    Jazlyn wrote:

    I don’t want to rekindle our relationship as he is showing me how petty he can be.

    You wouldn’t want to “rekindle” your old relationship anyways, unless you wanted to end up breaking up again.

    Trying to get your old relationship back is a big mistake.

    If you want to learn the right way to get control of your situation follow the free plan on my Blog.

    As far as the DVD player…go get a new one, you probably won’t see that one again.

    Take Care,

    S.W.

  2. Hi Scott,
    I am asking you this through my friends account because I don’t have a computer yet. I broke up with my ex of 5 months a month ago. before we broke up, he had took my DVD player to his friends shop for him to fix it for me. That was a week before Thanksgiving. I want my DVD player back and he says that he is going to give it back when it’s ready. It’s almost going on two months and I have not gotten it back yet.

    I text him asking about it and he never replied. I don’t want to rekindle our relationship as he is showing me how petty he can be. I have not contacted him since last week asking about it. Should I just let him reach out to me about somethng that belongs to me? I am getting pretty upset because all I want is what’s mines.

  3. hi there wahoo its working and im actually looking forward to christmas! i have parties to attend and im the one with ourchildren the first christmas without us being together and he going to be on his own with no family o go to and i gather he will be sat there lonely while im having all the fun fun fun !!!! looking forward to 2010 as a strong independent wommen and a great mum and show him what he could of had withourt breaking the nc !! thank s.w mwah!! maybe when he sat on his own what he is missing and what he lost and what he could of had !! hopefully !!! happy holidaysx

  4. Sally wrote:

    Hi guys i wrote on the forum before using my real name, any one no how to change this and get rid of my name. I have been to the FQAS and cant find out how to do it??

    Hi Sally,

    Maybe you should pay closer attention.

    It is Item: C. How to Change Your Forum Display Name

    Take Care,

    S.W.

    P.S. Plus if you read the free plan (like you’re supposed to) before joining the forum, I specifically mention to not use real names.

  5. Hi guys i wrote on the forum before using my real name, any one no how to change this and get rid of my name. I have been to the FQAS and cant find out how to do it??

  6. lisa wrote:

    merry christmas !! im just about send my third nc

    Hi Lisa,

    Happy Holidays to you and your family too! 🙂

    They say the third time is a charm…go for it.

    Stay Strong!

    S.W.

  7. merry christmas !! im just about send my third nc i know its xmas week but i need to do it ! he has told me to move on and donesnt care what i do and who with and that he dont love me and then text me to say he hasnt been and met anyone else why would he say that? my daughter politley told him someone is interested in me and sent me gifts and stuff and then said she couldnt care less he he came back or not im so confused by his reaction and why tell me he hasnt met or been with anyone else and then say he is quite happy for me to make a new start with someone else is this a sign he wants his family back or what , i have takenthe advice and my daughter is no longer texting him or my son!!! im staying strong this xmas and going to have a good time and thank goodness for the blog and will be purchasing the e book , what the hell is he Playing at arghhhhhh, lisa :0) im sure its killing him mentally and emotionally ,

  8. li li wrote:

    I screwed up big time the day of the break up. Lots of tears and a little pleading. Can i recover? is it too late?

    Hi li li,

    No, it’s not too late.

    As a matter of fact, it’s a perfect time to read the free plan on my Blog, and send him the recommended NC message (word for word).

    Take action today so you can have a great start in 2010.

    Take Care,

    S.W.

  9. Hi. My BF broke up with me on Dec 6 after almost 6 yrs. We had a terrible fight and he broke things off a month later. Says we could be friends. I sent a version of the no contact msg that basically said i wish him well and that I can’t commit to being just a friend. I had outpatient surgery on monday and he has called or text everyday since friday (until today) to see how i was doing. I told him to take all of his things from my place. He even tried to help me move into my new place this weekend. I am ready to implement the NC rule. How am i doing so far? I screwed up big time the day of the break up. Lots of tears and a little pleading. Can i recover? is it too late?

  10. DD wrote:

    Ex just contacted me thurs before i moved. Broke up with her new guy recently maybe within the past few days. How do I reconnect from distance.

    Hi DD,

    This is all covered in the free plan on my Blog.

    Go follow all the steps.

    You need to use NC to draw your ex back in, she won’t commit if she doesn’t have to.

    Take Care,

    S.W.

  11. Have used this website & Forum in the past. Ex just contacted me thurs before i moved. Broke up with her new guy recently maybe within the past few days. How do I reconnect from distance. She doesnt seem to be interested in anything more then a friendship (although I have not asked). Any suggestions S. Williams

  12. Athlete20 wrote:

    I sent the exact NC message you have provided us. Now I just got to stay strong and get back my life(personal evolution). Thanks

    Great Job A20! (Thumbs High) 🙂

    Make sure you follow all the steps, and use ALL the FREE support tools.

    Stay Strong!

    S.W.

  13. I sent the exact NC message you have provided us. Now I just got to stay strong and get back my life(personal evolution). Thanks

  14. Athlete20 wrote:

    If she tells you she is done(after 5 yrs) and doesn’t contact you for 2 weeks, than she calls and says she has no feelings to move on(doesn’t want any contact. Will the NC message work, because thats what she wants anyway?

    Hi A20,

    Let me ask you a question; Why would someone go through all that to tell you to move on, when they could just never contact you again?

    Because they don’t really want to move on…that’s why.

    If I was through with someone I would just forget about them, and move on myself…wouldn’t you?

    You have nothing to lose, and everything to gain if you follow the free plan on my Blog.

    Take Care,

    S.W.

    P.S. 5 years of memories (good and bad) doesn’t disappear over night…don’t kid yourself into believing that, OK?

  15. If she tells you she is done(after 5 yrs) and doesn’t contact you for 2 weeks, than she calls and says she has no feelings to move on(doesn’t want any contact. Will the NC message work, because thats what she wants anyway?

  16. unisole wrote:

    would the no contact rule just work now, after i have said i cant be friends but ive been nice again it then go into no contact?

    No, you need to follow the plan…every step, and send the recommended NC message word for word.

    Stay Strong!

    S.W.

  17. Hello, thanks for the quick reply but i have read your blog and it tells me to text them a certain text message, it means i have to text me ex girlfriend again and it will just look like im nagging her, would the no contact rule just work now, after i have said i cant be friends but ive been nice again it then go into no contact?

    thanks

  18. unisole wrote:

    If i do the no contact rule now, its been 1day will she miss me and want me back?

    Hi Unisole,

    Instead of going into a long explanation about how no contact works, why don’t you go read and follow the free plan on my Blog?

    The link is at the top of my Blog.

    Take Care,

    S.W.

  19. Me and my girlfriend broke up 2 weeks ago after a 2 year long relationship, at first i rang and rang and sent her texts and she ignored me for a week. i then handed her clothes to her at the end of the first week of splitting up in college and she was silent and didnt say anything to me, then i had the last of her stuff in my house therefore 2 days after i gave her stuff back in college i went round to her house and gave her rest of the stuff back, i smiled and said hi, and mentioned she should come to this party that was on, i left saying i love you. then after that 1.5wkees after the split i get a text saying..

    ”i have two of ur tops in myne if you want them haha xx”

    then i didnt answer then 5 mins later she texts..

    ”?? Xx”

    Then i ingore again then she txts me..

    ”Just tell me if you want them or not babe!? x”

    I didnt text back and went out around TOWN for a few drinks with my friends, took pictures and stuff looking as im having a good time. then past midnight while in the club i get another text saying..

    ”Do you want your stuff babe. And can we be mates like you said herd xx”

    i ignored that message and finished my night off drinking..

    The next morning i text her back saying..

    ”Hay Gorgeous hehe ;), soz for the late reply been busy, i dont want the tops thanks anyway, wot we have together wouldnt work as just friends, love you too much, sorry it has to be this way. xx”

    she then text me saying..

    ”okay babe thats fine. okay well ill just have them then hehe xx”

    =-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-

    I havent text back since then and have gone onto no contact with her, from what i sent her will this get her back while i do the no contact rule?

    I posted pictures on my facebook so her mutal friends can see them.

    If i do the no contact rule now, its been 1day will she miss me and want me back?

    Thanks

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