Can You Survive These 4 Stages and Get Your Ex Boyfriend Back?

If you really want your ex boyfriend back you’re going to have to fight, are you ready? This is a hard road to travel, but I can help. With the right attitude and tools anything is possible. Have you thought this through, are you ready to do what it takes to get him back? Can you survive these four stages and get your ex boyfriend back?

Getting Your Ex Boyfriend Back – Stage One

What is going through your mind right now as you think about how to get your ex boyfriend back again? I will take a wild guess and say “Have I lost him forever?” What you should be thinking about is what went wrong, and how can “we” correct this next time around? Can you see how your mind can stand in your way when it comes to thinking clearly? Now, keep that in mind when you start coming up with all these reasons why you will never get your ex boyfriend back.

Use Emotional Control to Stay Strong and Get Your Ex Boyfriend Back

How to Get Ex Back – Stage Two

Once you can come to terms with the fact that your in a lot of emotional pain, and it’s hard to think straight, you can move on to the next stage. You can not trust your own feelings at this point so let’s ignore them for the time being…OK? It’s time to focus on clearing your mind, and this will take time, and a lot of will power, enter the no contact rule. The no contact rule’s main function is “not” too make your ex miss you (although it does), but it is to give you time to clear your head. You”ll need a clear mind to win back your ex boyfriend.

Get my Ex Boyfriend Back – Stage Three

In this stage your sticking to your no contact (hopefully) and things are starting to get clearer for you. Why? Because the longer you stay strong and stick to NC the weaker the feelings of panic will become. Once your panic is under control, you will start to see things for how they really are (not with panic goggles anymore). All those crazy thoughts and worries will seem pretty ridiculous now. Life will become easier for you, and you can start to make some real solid decisions about how to get your ex boyfriend back.

Winning Back Your Ex Boyfriend – Stage Four

Now, if you have been working on your emotional control using some good self help materials, you’re cruising right along. You’re ready to start planning the reconnection with your ex boyfriend. If you have resisted using any tools to help you control your emotions, you have probably broke no contact and find yourself back at stage one. If so, don’t worry it happens, but now you know I was right about emotional control…right? Stage four is hard because this is where people break down and start to doubt themselves, and their plans to get their ex boyfriend back. I can not stress enough the use of good self help tools to get you through this part of your journey to win back your ex boyfriend.

Have you been breaking no contact and just can not seem to get a grip on your situation? If so, have you considered using self help materials to aid you with this problem? The only way you’re ever going to get your ex boyfriend back is to follow a good plan, and “stick to it.” Don’t get discouraged if you made mistakes, pick yourself up, and get back into the game again. If you have any questions or comments for me, please write them in the box below, and I will answer them ASAP. What can I do to help you get your ex boyfriend back again? What are you willing to do to win back your ex?

Who Am I and Why Should You Listen to Me?

My name is S. Williams, and I have been helping people for more than 3 years to overcome break up pain, and get their lives back. I even have an “About” section that I recommend you read. I know the name of my site is: How to Get Your Ex Back Fast, but I teach people how to get their lives back, not their ex’s.

If you’re interested in working with me (and our forum members) to get your life back, join my free newsletter for access to the free plan to get your ex back fast, and start getting your life back today. The answers you need to start your personal evolution are waiting for you, don’t hesitate another minute…come and get them.

Once you get your life back, everything else will just start to fall into place…I promise. If you have any comments or questions please write them in the comment box below.

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Until next time,

S. Williams

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  1. Ok so I want my ex bf bac..we broke up last week..but he has been txtin me…I have been txtin back…should I? Or should all contact be cut off? I dnt make contact with him first tho…

    1. Hi,

      I help people learn to use the no contact rule to evolve past a break up.

      I am pretty sure they named it the no contact rule because it works much faster when you don’t contact your ex, or return their messages.

      You can learn A LOT about NC by reading the articles on my Blog.

      I help people survive a break up and get their lives back, not get their ex boyfriend back, and I explain why in the “About” section on my Blog.

      The fastest way to get him back is to get your life back first.

      Go read the free plan to get your ex back and follow ALL the steps to heal your broken heart, evolve past the breakup, and get your life back again.

      Thank you for writing.

      Take Care,

      S.W.

  2. CJ wrote:

    OMG! What is the NC message word for word? I cannot find it anywhere or am I missing the whole ballgame?

    Have you been reading my replies?

    I have been mentioning a free plan, the link is in two places on my Blog.

    At the top, and on the right-hand side.

    I hope you pay better attention when you follow the plan, or you are destined to really fuck things up. 8)

    1. OMG. This just made me LOL.

  3. OMG! What is the NC message word for word? I cannot find it anywhere or am I missing the whole ballgame?

  4. Hi Mera,

    Your best bet to win him back would be to follow the no contact plan.

    I can recommend a great plan for you, just take a look at this:

    Help Me Get My Ex Boyfriend Back

    Stop doing what you’re doing now, and follow this plan carefully…OK?

    Take Care,

    S. Williams

  5. Help me
    i did all the mistakes starting from acting needy and desperate and calling him daily for several times till he got mad at me and asked me not to talk to him again for at least month and after this time he’ll see if he still want us to be FRIENDS or no cuz he moved on and dating someone else
    i love him madly and don’t know if i lost hope or i still have one and what to do ,i pushed him futher away from any hope to be back and he told me its over and he doesn’t have any feelings for me anymore
    but we do have along history together and when i told him so he said i can’t even remember any good thing between us because of what you are doing . please help me he seems happy with this new girl and i doubt he left me for her

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