Can I Win My Ex Back Even If I Broke The No Contact Rule?

 
If You Broke No Contact Just Start Over Again and Win Back Your Ex

 

If you have broken the no contact rule you’re not alone, and yes you can still win back your ex.

If you want to learn how to get your ex back just keep on reading.

Everyone is just so afraid of the no contact rule.

What if it doesn’t work?

Will it only make things worst?

Can I win my ex back even if I broke the no contact rule?

Put on your work gloves because it’s myth busting time, and, time for you to learn “How to get your ex back.”

 


 

Oh Oh I Broke The No Contact Rule – Can I Win My Ex Boyfriend Back?

 

Sorry, you can never use the no contact rule again if you break it…Not!

This is the beauty of using the no contact rule, if you screw it up just tell yourself; “Hey, I can just start over and get my ex boyfriend/girlfriend back.”

It is really that simple just keep the faith, and learn from your mistakes, and start all over again.

You are bound to get your ex back if you never give up…Right?

I hope you are following some kind of plan, and getting some guidance as you use the no contact rule to win back your ex.

If you want a serious answer to the question; “Can I win my ex back using the no contact rule?”

You have to get serious yourself, serious about the no contact rule, and serious enough to find, and follow a good plan.

Winning back your ex is possible no matter how many mistakes you make, but do you want to wait forever to get back your ex?

Please go get a good plan and go get your ex boyfriend/girlfriend back…I want you to be happy again.

 


 

How Do I Know How Bad I Broke It?

If It’s Bad Can I Still Win My Ex Girlfriend Back?

 

Unless you broke the no contact rule over your ex girlfriend’s, or boyfriend’s head, you are still in the game to win back your ex.

If you did some drunk dialing I would suggest never doing that again.

You never know what drunk guy/gal is going to say, and you probably won’t remember either.

It is hard to follow a plan when your drunk so lay off the booze until you get your emotions under control…OK?

There is really no mistake that time will not heal…the key word being time, you have to be patient.

Using the no contact plan requires patience, and emotional control along with a good plan, and guidance.

If you’re thinking; “I can win my ex back getting advice from the heartache forums.” You are in for a long wait to win back your ex.

I have been to those forums, and have been kicked out…Why?

Because they do not want to solve any problems there, just blow smoke, and sell you stuff.

I saw an ad in one for a book about “Blow Jobs.”

Yeah, that book will help you get your ex back fast…Not!

My point being if you really want to succeed, and win back your ex using the no contact rule.

You need a good plan, and one that is backed up with support as you go through the process.

 


 

Get Help With The No Contact Rule, And, You Can Get Your Ex Back

 

Why would anyone do this?

I mean, do you really think by randomly getting advice from friends, family, and co-workers, that you are going to succeed?

You need a plan, a plan that works, and you need it now.

If you use a good plan with the no contact rule you will be able to tell yourself “I can win back my ex!”

If you have any comments, or questions for me, please write them in the comment box below, and I will answer them ASAP!

What can I do to help you, get back together with your ex?

What are you willing to do to win your ex back?

 


 

Who Am I and Why Should You Listen to Me?

 

My name is S. Williams, and I have been helping people since 2008 to overcome break up pain, and get their lives back.

I even have an “About” section that I recommend you read.

I know the address of my site is: How to Get Your Ex Back Fast, but I “really” teach people how to get their lives back, not just their ex’s.

If you’re interested in working with me (and our forum members) to get your life back, join my free newsletter for access to the free breakup survival plan, and start getting your life back today.

The answers you need to start your personal evolution are waiting for you, don’t hesitate another minute…come and get them.

Once you get your life back, everything else will just start to fall into place…I promise.

If you have any comments or questions please write them in the comment box below.

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Until next time,

S. Williams

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  1. My x broke up with me about 1 month ago – because he feared our age difference, and that one day I would leave him. He says the anxiety with this consumed him.
    I attempted no contact but he’s reached out repeatedly, and I have given in about 5 times – which got us into conversations, and ultimately did not change the outcome (I have not begged or pleaded or reached out) only mistake….a few conv have ended sexually.

    Is there hope? I have not been the source of contact…..it has now been 3 full days without hearing from him. Next steps?

    1. Hi CL,

      You need to start using the no contact rule, correctly…ASAP!

      You are mistaken, if you think by allowing yourself to be placed, in the “friends with phone benefits” zone, that, you are going to keep him.

      You need to kill off the old failed relationship, and then, the both of you can evolve during the no contact period.

      If you are already a subscriber, just follow the daily emails, they will walk you through the whole process.

      If you are not already a subscriber, you can subscribe here.

      Take Care,

      S.W.

  2. He insulted me and said that he is not the same. I stopped talking to him. After 5 days he texted me asking about my parents. I just replied normally. But the next day. I broke down, and talked normally as i used to. And we both talked as friends. Im seriously feeling bad. Pleaseeeeeeeeee help me now

    1. Hi Richa,

      How can I help you?

      Do you have a specific question?

      Take Care,

      S.W.

  3. I messed up, broke no contact, and texted an apology for blowing up and questioning him about his fidelity. He had previously been replying and stopped after I sent that. Is it blown for good? I know it probably made him angry because I sent it and bothered him.

    1. I messed up, broke no contact, and texted an apology for blowing up and questioning him about his fidelity. He had previously been replying and stopped after I sent that.

      Hi,

      I am a “little” confused.

      How could you be using the no contact rule, and, yet, stay in contact with your ex?

      That kind of contradicts the whole “no contact” aspect of the rule.

      Take Care,

      S.W.

      1. He’d been replying to texts before I went no contact. I went no contact after I’d angered him but I felt I owed him an apology since I was in the wrong so I broke it.

        1. Hi,

          If you were using the no contact rule correctly, and, you sent him the NC message, recommended in the free breakup survival plan, he was only respecting your NC message, which asks him to not contact you.

          If you broke NC, you MUST resend the same exact NC message as outlined in the FBSP (free breakup survival plan).

          If you’re not following the FSBP, you need to start, ASAP.

          Take Care,

          S. W.

  4. My boyfriend and I broke up 10 days ago because he was feeling overwhelmed and lost. He cried a lot and told me he loves me still but needs his time to find himself again. He agreed to not date but doesn’t want to coin this a “break” for he knows I will obsess about what he is doing, etc. I broke the NC rule after 5 days. He seemed to take it well. He wasn’t mean but he was short answered but also encouraging. We have a lot of shared bills so, some communication is required. How do I handle this?

    1. Hi,

      Let me help you out.

      He didn’t break up with you for the reasons he gave you, he’s lying, just like 99% of people do, when they want out of a relationship.

      He wants out, and he is afraid to say it, so he makes some shit up.

      How do I know this?

      I have heard these same exact excuses, before.

      Overwhelmed is about as vague as you can get…WTF does that mean, anyways?

      Just like ‘lost’…does he have amnesia or Alzheimer?

      These excuses garner pity, not anger, and that’s why he lies, to avoid the explosion that will follow if he told you the truth…lol

      He will get around to it, sooner or later…

      But, where does that leave you?

      Hanging around waiting for him to find himself.

      Good luck with that.

      OK, now for the shared bills.

      First off, start to divide these bills into separate accounts, ASAP.

      The ones you have to pay off together, make a payment schedule, and only contact him if he’s late sending you the money.

      This is covered in one of my articles, which is outlined in the free breakup survival plan.

      You can gain access to the free breakup survival plan, and my newsletter, which will guide you through, your first 30 days, of NC, by clicking on this link: Free Breakup Survival Plan

      If you choose to join our forum (explained in the newsletter), the members and I, will provide you with the support you need, to stick with the no contact rule, and, survive your breakup.

      Take Care,

      S. Williams

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  5. Hello so as you know my boyfriend and I have broken up. I didn’t start reading up on this kind of stuff till now and we have already been in contact. He told me he wants to hang out because we had fun but also said he might kiss me and that we could hang out as friends I’m really not sure where he thinks he’s going with this but I don’t want to be his friend with benefits I want to be more and now the no contact rule is too late lol

    1. Hi,

      It sure sounds like he’s setting you up for a FWB situation.

      It is NEVER too late to start using the no contact rule.

      Just subscribe to my newsletter, and the daily emails will walk you through the whole process, for free.

      Take Care,

      Scott

  6. me and my ex broke up 6 weeks now and he sent me to emails saying he missed me bad and i cussed him out and told him to never contact me again and leave me alone and i would never be back with him. Then i sent a long email a long one saying im doing this for me and not you closure. No is it to late for no contact and to get him back. He leaves and goes from female to female. He left his baby mama four times and went back even after a 1 1/2 years. He new he always could and when he gets sick of her he will come back again and I do know it, but he tryed coming back after three weeks I told him NO!!!! Should i do no contact and leave him alone or not. I miss him bad and still love him. He isnt trying to let me go but come back when he wants. Will anything work to make him come back quick?

  7. My ex gf broke up with me a week ago. First she wanted a break and i agreed but than i called two days later rejecting it which resulted in her breaking up with me. Her birthday was that weekend and i went anyways( like a dummy) and she was calling me bf but wasn’t being affectionate. Later on i seen her texting another dude and i snapped and pushed the conversation and we had a horrible argument. I ignored her a week after this, just before i knew about no contact, and called her. She picked up like she wanted to talk but i started talking about us and the break up which ended bad. I waited 3 days later and she didnt pick up even though i called 3 times. I understand what i did wrong, I was assertative and aggressive in the beginning but backed off and became passive,so i know what i i did to do, i just want her back so i can. Can i initiate the no contact now or is it to late? She isnt with someone else but based off twitter there is another dude that she is liking right now.

    1. Hi Nick,

      It is not too late to start using the no contact rule, but you have to get something straight first – this is not about getting your ex back, it is about you getting your life back without her in it.

      She is obviously interested in other guys and that’s why the relationship ended, I doubt it was all about you, and your behavior.

      Plus, you would be much happier with a woman who accepted you for yourself, and didn’t expect you to change.

      I hear this all the time – I want to change to get my ex back…why?

      You would be living a lie if you couldn’t just be yourself, right?

      I help people get over a break up and get their lives back, not get their ex back, and I explain why in the “About” section on my Blog.

      Make a commitment to yourself to stay in no contact for at least 12 months, and do not focus on getting your ex back – let your ex go.

      Your main focus is to break your dependency on your old relationship (and your ex) for happiness, and reestablish your life as a Happy Healthy single person.

      This is much more important than getting your ex back, and in 12 months you will realize what I’m saying is true.

      Go read the free plan to get your ex back and follow ALL the steps to get over a broken heart, evolve past the breakup, and get your life back again.

      Thank you for writing.

      Take Care,

      S.W.

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  8. Girlfriend broke up with me after year and a half because I was to scared to commit. I have two teenage daughters that love her but I did not want us to get hurt. I didnt claim her in front of her friends and pushed her away. After breaking up I did ALL the wrong things, flowers, letter, email, text and opened my mouth to who ever would listen. Embarrased her badly. After 7 weeks of her not talking to me, I ignored her then she said hey 15 minutes later. Im a cop shes a district attorney. I saw her next day and she said hey I again ignored her. The following day I saw her she gave me her back and refused to look at me. I then called her and screwed up the no contact since I was being proffesional when I saw her dropping off something she requested. Can I still use no contact?

    1. Hi,

      I don’t think you really used the no contact rule correctly the first time.

      If you use the no contact rule correctly you can learn how to get over a break up and get your life back.

      I help people get over a break up and get their lives back, not get their ex back, and I explain why in the “About” section on my Blog.

      Go read the free plan to get your ex back and follow ALL the steps to get over a broken heart, evolve past the breakup, and get your life back again.

      Thank you for writing.

      Take Care,

      S.W.

      IMPORTANT – If you found this information helpful or useful, please give me a “+1” rating by using the colored “+1 button” at the top or bottom of the above article. I’d really appreciate it.

  9. Hi

    I broke with my gf about 6 months ago. At the time i said it was because i didnt love her which is the harshest and most stupid thing ive ever done and it wasnt true! I was so confused at the time i just wanted space and for the relationship to end. So i just said anything.

    We spoke an kept in contact as we had a holiday booked. We went together as planned and kissed had sex etc and it was honestly brilliant! Apart fromna small fight (which is the only fight we had in 18 months of going out) it was great.

    While away i totally fell for her again and after the holiday tried to meet up but she didnt want to saying she had to get over me. I was heartbroken because i thought we were on our way back together. About a month ago she has started seeing someone else which kills me. However since then she has text me almost everyday just fun little texts. Why? As much as i love hearing from her i feel like its leading me on. Does she still have feelings for me? Is there any hope. I really dont know what my best course of action is. Ive changed myselfnrecently got fit and in shape. I want her to see me next and see that im a better person. I dont want to go back but forward with her in a new relationship. I know we’ll be happy together shes the only girl i saw a future with. Will NC really help in my situation?

    Thanks

    1. Hi,

      It sounds like you’re in the just friends zone now.

      You have a 50/50 chance of getting her back, but you have to get out of relationship limbo first.

      You can use the no contact rule to reveal your ex girlfriend’s true feelings for you.

      I help people survive a break up and get their lives back, not get their ex girlfriend back, and I explain why in the “About” section on my Blog.

      Go read the free plan to get your ex back and follow ALL the steps to heal your broken heart, evolve past the breakup, and get your life back again.

      Thank you for writing.

      Take Care,

      S.W.

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