The real key to break up survival is to not make this fatal Facebook mistake that 99.99% of broken up people make. Too many people over look this and find themselves having a lot of trouble getting their ex back again. Breaking up and surviving takes skill and self control, if you can master your Facebook habits you can win your ex back again.
Just After The Breakup
Right after your ex tells you they want out of your current relationship what happens next? You freak out and start begging and pleading to get them back and that just…drives them away, right? Once you calm down you come across some very useful information about the no contact rule, and you decide to use this extremely successful tactic to help your break up survival and get your ex back again.
So you send your no contact message as outlined in the plan you’re using, maybe your ex responds maybe they don’t but you know it has taken affect, and you’re worried now. A little of those NC jitters are coming on and you are wondering how your ex boyfriend/girlfriend is reacting to your no contact message. Here comes the fatal mistake that will keep you in breakup hell for a long time.
The Fatal Facebook Mistake
Breaking up and surviving calls for a lot of self control and emotional control. But, most people do not have that and they begin to break, this leads to “spying”. They start spying on their ex boyfriend’s/girlfriend’s Facebook account. Because your ex knows you will be doing this they will set “traps” for you to get you to break NC, and give them back control and keep you in relationship limbo.
You see it is driving your ex crazy not knowing what’s going on in your personal life…why? Because they are not really over you and want to keep”tabs” on you. Break up survival is practically impossible if you are looking at their “two-face book” account and buying into all the lies they are posting to rattle your cage. Any “smart” person who is serious about getting back together with their ex will delete their ex from their FB account and not look at their ex girlfriend’s/boyfriend’s Facebook account at all during your breakup.
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